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okay. so my parents made a wedding a week ago. every bochur who slightly knew the chosson decided to come and be m’samayach. they also sat down and ate. not the cholent and kugel set up for the chosson’s friends, that was hardly touched because the bochurim sat at the regular tables and enjoyed themselves immensely. Now my parents and the chosson’s parents are almost at a din torah with the caterer for 4000 more shekels that the wedding cost. Some of these guys barely knew the chosson, just ‘heard there was a wedding.’ who asked them to come? who gave them permission to sit down and eat like invited guests? this is a seudah she’aino maspekes l’baalah. do these guys have any chinuch? do they have any idea of menchlichkeit? who raised them with such a sense of entitlement?