Would love track down this source….been saying it since Shavuot…..will stop for Tisha bav…..no stories or notable experiences to speak of at all……this is already the 2nd go around at this……tried it last fall as well…….perhaps I should have been a18 year old bais yakov girl….who is already shidduch dating evey night and day…..hishtadlus is always the monkey wrentch…..I simply don’t get it