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  • in reply to: APBYG… #942619
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    oh, and keep those smiles coming!!! 🙂

    in reply to: One of the Causes for Weight Gain�Shadchanim #943300
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    yserbius- i ain’t a teen. Maybe ‘she’ was very overweight, did diet, lost 30 lb and is STILL overweight, so you assume she hasn’t tried. Maybe she has a health issue that causes either weight gain or difficulty losing weight. Maybe she was morbidly obese and now is down 150 lb and you’d never know, but label her lacking self-control. Maybe we really can’t judge others, or what they have tried, succeeded in, or failed in, behind closed doors.

    Gamanit- i SERIOUSLY hope size 10 at 5’6 isnt considered overweight! And thankfully haven’t encountered anyone who thought so yet irl.

    in reply to: New Fresh Joke Thread #1027357
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    frummy- no i hadn’t, but i wouldn’t call it a joke either! 🙂

    in reply to: APBYG… #942618
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    i’m sorry about pesach blow-ups :(.

    And so happy to hear about your brother! Hatzlocha raba with that rabbi!

    in reply to: Limericks! #1221831
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    hello to the doctor on his yearly show

    he comes and just as soon he’ll go

    but welcome back

    from the cr pack

    we regret it will be such a short time, though

    in reply to: Lack of Kosher for Pesach Milk #941893
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    depending on where the OP lives, can’t there be a problem of additives that may be kitniyos?

    in reply to: Where is Shnitzy? #946192
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    i’d assume away for the passover holidays, like many other posters

    in reply to: Bracha on Matzah Brei #941731
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    what he said 🙂

    in reply to: One of the Causes for Weight Gain�Shadchanim #943270
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    yserbius- your mother-in-law is wrong. And not everyone can or will lose weight the same way. Another person may go on your father’s diet and not lose anything. Maybe your father was eating excessively before and these girls arent. Many girls ARE trying to lose weight but its not so simple or easy for most.

    Gefen – buy a bunch of Barbie Dolls and give them out to these amazing boys

    LOL! That is an awesome idea!! Love it! Shadchanim should really do that, and to the mothers who demand it too! It’ll make them realize what they’re saying. Awwwwesome 🙂

    in reply to: Not Looking At Monkeys While Pregnant #1123074
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    147- going to the zoo with a stupid parent or caretaker is the danger

    in reply to: Hot Dogs on Shabbos Chol Hamo'ed #1148291
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    wolf- you haven’t said that in a long while. What happened? :-/

    in reply to: Bracha on Matzah Brei #941728
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    it’s debatable. Depends how much oil is used and how big the pieces of matza are and….

    One way to make it mezonos is to ‘cook’ the matza before making it into brei, ie putting the pieces into boiling water.

    in reply to: One of the Causes for Weight Gain�Shadchanim #943267
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    seriously? Yuck. Go find yourself some normal shadchanim. I sure wouldn’t want someone like that redting me a shidduch.

    in reply to: Stomach Cramps…On Pesach #942090
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    git meshige- TMI

    in reply to: Orphanage in Israel #941709
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    i dont know about this orphanage, but your father is sadly incorrect about there not being Jewish orphanages, and the need for them

    in reply to: Books: Recs and Where To Buy Hebrew Softcover #1004988
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    so your faith’s been restored? 🙂

    in reply to: APBYG… #942614
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    oops seems i got edited.

    It’s sounds clear that you truly know Hashem’s with you. I didnt mean to q that. Only to say, consciously give the outcome over to Him, ask Him to make it only work out good, and then YOU can stop worrying about it (or try to)

    in reply to: APBYG… #942609
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    is this the first time she apologized, that your hopes are so high that it means a change? If not, it’s a cycle that tends to repeat itself, with many abusive or controlling people. The apology, regret, calm time, then the build up to explosion again. even if this is a change point and she is now determined to change, no change happens overnight. It’s a lot of work and takes time, and it will include slip-ups, a step backwards every once in a while or even 1 for every 2 forward. It’d still be advisable and important to have support and guidance for while going through that time.

    It’s definitely hard to take that first step and speak to someone. It’s scary, there’s the fear and chance it can backfire, the relationship won’t be good and you’ll need to find someon you can relate to better, that you’ll want or need a second person involved. It IS a big, scary step. But it’s also an important one, and one that can bring you so much help and good and support. Put your fears into Hashem’s hands, tell Him you are trying to do your part and you know only He can control the outcome, and pray for it to work out in the best way. And then take a deep breath and let go of the branch, trust Hashem will catch you. Because He will. Be determined to make your life and your family’s life better and go for it.

    in reply to: Birchas Ha’Illanos #941184
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    http://fruittrees.citykol.com

    there are also other listings. google it

    in reply to: APBYG… #942607
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    yes, you still should. The apology does count as something, but those things shouldn’t even happen in the first place. No one can force you to do something, but I think you should try to push yourself too. Time does that to us, makes us reconsider, worry, lose nerve. But push forward, keep strong in your resolve. You could always ask them if they think it’s ok if she apologizes after. But if you change the story a bit, tell me what you think. If someone’s father beat him, left him with bruises, or didn’t let him eat for 2 days, but he then came to him apologizing with tears in his eyes, is that okay now? Does it cancel out the abuse done? and is that father now trusted to not repeat actions in a moment of rage?

    in reply to: Stomach Cramps…On Pesach #942083
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    wiy- yes, prunes and grapes do help constipation, as does whole wheat. there is soluble and insoluble fiber, but you don’t want to only take one alone either. other sources of soluble fiber (for loose stomach) are apples, oranges, pears, cucumber, celery.

    in reply to: Stomach Cramps…On Pesach #942077
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    yes. With prunes, bananas, and grapes

    in reply to: Very interesting Kasha�Makas Choshech #942188
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    i learned this, not my own idea, i just don’t remember the source. It’s not the literal sense of indebted, but the Jewish concept of when someone ddoes you a favor, even small, you owe hakaras hatov+.

    in reply to: Very interesting Kasha�Makas Choshech #942180
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    pshat- even though slavery has been abolished, and it’s more than probable we’d have been freed earlier, we’d have been indebted in a small sense to Paroah/Mitzrayim for freeing us.

    in reply to: nephew #940932
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    sister in law should put matzah meal in popa’s bed

    in reply to: Seder Much Too Long #940910
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    v’ahavta l’reyacha kamochaaaa, zeh klal gadol baTorah! V’ahavta l’reyacha kamochaaaa, zeh klal gadol baTorah!

    C’mon people, it’s Pesach! Let’s start working towards the achdus of matan torah now! Shake and make up, and let’s all enter Pesach with a smile

    in reply to: New Fresh Joke Thread #1027353
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    writersoul- thanks for posting the first joke i hadn’t heard before!!

    and kwaiker the second!

    in reply to: Boss Taking Advantage Erev Pesach? #940894
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    I feel bad for the multitude of girls and women working tomorrow morning…

    in reply to: Seder Much Too Long #940900
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    snack late afternoon. hold back on the extra matza so your stomach doesn’t rebel later. Drink between kadesh and motzi matza- that should push off the worst hunger. USE A SMALLER KOS!! seriously.

    in reply to: Turning Over Your Kitchen #940594
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    almost supper time! mmm bagels, rice tomato soup, leftover challah, chulent and kishka from shabbos. Its chometz-finishing time!

    in reply to: Braces and Kashrus #940657
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    pba- your comment was more disgusting

    in reply to: Square or Round #940844
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    i like the look of the square plates better, but we use round dishes anyhow

    in reply to: A few Pesach questions #940424
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    1- if he is being motzi you with his brocha, then he has to hold the matzah. The extra you are using to make up a kzayis just, unless your taking your own 3 matzos.

    3- it doesn’t.

    in reply to: Do I have a right to be upset? #940535
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    yep. Tell your friend he promised you a second date, and push for it if you still want it

    in reply to: ATT POETRY PEOPLE #1168685
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    apbyg- thank you and amein!

    in reply to: Quick posting�thanks mods! #940396
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    thank you to the mod(s) who are taking the time on this busy night to keep posts going, and so quickly too!! Much appreciated!!

    in reply to: ATT POETRY PEOPLE #1168683
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    aproudbyg- thank you! I am really flattered by your conpliment, though i don’t know if it’s true :). I do try to be kind though, i’m glad i’ve reached a lil bit of success. You just brought a smile to my day, thanks for that.

    A freilich, kasheren, happy, enjoyable, uplifting, relaxing, calm, smiley, pleasant, loving, simcha-filled, freeing Pesach to all poetry thread members and readers!

    in reply to: Proof Avraham Avinu Ate Kitniyos #940410
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    🙂

    in reply to: ATT POETRY PEOPLE #1168681
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    🙁

    if you ever want an ear…

    in reply to: ATT POETRY PEOPLE #1168677
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    puppy- ur poems are so sad, but so moving and often very powerful or with a blast of inspiration at the end. i hope they arent reflecting your current emotions :-/

    in reply to: Turning Over Your Kitchen #940587
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    mmmmm fresh bagels, i’m game!

    in reply to: Coming to shachris #941051
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    yytz- s’okay, i personally never had a doubt :). But some others are/were not so certain

    in reply to: Does ????? ????? Really Come? #1071247
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    i assume the ‘source’ is filling a cup of wine right before or after we open the door, and not drinking it, but it being the kos shel eliyahu’

    in reply to: Stuffing Your Face w/ Marror, Red as a Tomato #940638
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    sam2- ah, thank you. Im going to go bug my brother about this now

    in reply to: Coming to shachris #941042
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    congratulations on admitting that you are a male yeshiva bachur, for those who were uncertain

    in reply to: Stuffing Your Face w/ Marror, Red as a Tomato #940636
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    i was waiting for this to be mentioned. Isn’t it a machlokes if the chazeres is romaine or iceberg? Isn’t that the reason people use horseradish or endives, though it’s not the top of the list of what can be used, because its at least known for sure what it is?

    in reply to: Ideas for Kashering Braces #939510
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    i think you can also bring your big pot of water to boil, throw in the stone to kasher it, then fully submerge your head to a count of 10. Oh and gargle, swirl and spit when you come up

    in reply to: K'zayis (or two) for Afikoman #939667
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    what’s with you people getting pleasure out of making fun of others??

    in reply to: Everything is great, but I'm not sure if there is chemistry! #953725
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    why? 🙂 (boy am I glad noone followed up on some of MY posts!)

    in reply to: Everything is great, but I'm not sure if there is chemistry! #953723
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    cuz that wasn’t yentish 🙂

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