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  • in reply to: A Shabbos Desecrator Saying Vayechulu With the Congregation #835781
    Sam2
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    I think he means being sad.

    in reply to: A Shabbos Desecrator Saying Vayechulu With the Congregation #835777
    Sam2
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    Vayechulu is not real Eidus. You’re okay.

    in reply to: Why People Go Off The Derech #826482
    Sam2
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    Yichud should not be Yeihareg V’al Ya’avor. The Shulchan Aruch Paskens that Negiyah with a Niddah is, but in Lema’aseh life and death Shailos many Poskim combine the fact that a Niddah isn’t Yeihareg V’al Ya’avor and the fact that according to the Ramban Negiyah isn’t Yeihareg V’al Ya’avor. Of course, every Lema’aseh life and death Shailah is different and requires the opinion of a very qualified Posek.

    in reply to: Calling shomrim/police on a father #825663
    Sam2
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    Jail in America is not Pikuach Nefesh. A Jew would have to risk jail to avoid violating any Lo Sa’aseh D’Oraisa. Being Mevatel and Asei is a complicated issue and I am not qualified to offer anywhere near an opinion on it.

    in reply to: artscroll shas #826418
    Sam2
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    What’s wrong with a tool? A Gemara itself is a tool. We should all learn Ba’al Peh if “tools” should be avoided.

    in reply to: 11-11-11-11-11-11 #827676
    Sam2
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    Nichush is an Issur D’Oraisa. I’m just putting that out there.

    in reply to: Why People Go Off The Derech #826473
    Sam2
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    According to the Shulchan Aruch, Negiyah Derech Chibah (those last two words must be stressed, especially in a Pikuach Nefesh case) with an Ervah (Niddah included) is Yeihareg V’al Ya’avor.

    in reply to: ????::::QUESTION::::???? #826259
    Sam2
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    Pushtayid: I have met some Sefardim who say Amen after all Birchos Hanehenin except Hamotzi and some who say only after Hagefen.

    in reply to: artscroll shas #826407
    Sam2
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    So yungerman, you probably shouldn’t use Artscroll. I don’t see why the Gemara would be easier to understand if you read it in English. Just because you now know what the words mean doesn’t mean it’s any easier to understand. Jumping straight to the Artscroll footnotes every time probably counts as cheating though.

    Sam2
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    Gefen: I have no idea. I would assume that a Tinok Shenishba isn’t called a Rasha but I have no real source to say that in this case.

    Rav Schachter extrapolates from a Gemara that it’s Assur to bury anyone next to someone even a little more or less righteous than his. He says that’s why each Shul/community has their own cemeteries. We assume that all members of each community for the most part do the same Mitzvos and the same Aveiros, so we bury them together.

    Sam2
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    If the Halacha doesn’t allow it (I said if, I don’t claim to know any Halachos about this) then that would be a good reason why.

    in reply to: new around here #825510
    Sam2
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    Did Dan Quayle just join our CR?

    in reply to: Whats worse? #1045257
    Sam2
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    Try and make him stop. You could be saving his life and quite possibly the lives of your entire family.

    in reply to: Mishpacha magazine on Congregational Rabbinic Stress #962498
    Sam2
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    I heard someone from YU once say that YU is working on putting something in place where any YU Rabbi placed in a community will be paid somewhere around the median salary of his congregants. The Rabbi should not be richer than his congregants, but it’s not fair for the congregants to expect them to make ends meet with (sometimes much) less than what they live on themselves.

    in reply to: Calling shomrim/police on a father #825646
    Sam2
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    If your Rav says it’s necessary then it’s necessary.

    The Gemara says that someone who asks a Shaila about Pikuach Nefesh on Shabbos is a Shofech Damim and the Rav who is asked is Meguneh. I don’t see why this would be so different. There is a life at stake. Why would you waste time asking Shailos or worrying about possible fallout?

    in reply to: Whats worse? #1045255
    Sam2
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    I am clearly addicted to the internet. I spend around 6 hours a day on YUTorah listening to Rav Schachter and most of the rest of it surfing Bar Ilan and using e-daf.

    Sam2
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    The Gemara in Sanhedrin says “Ain Kovrin Tzaddik Eitzel Rasha”. I have no idea what is done Lema’aseh.

    in reply to: Whats worse? #1045245
    Sam2
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    Smoking. You can find Kol Hatorah Kula on the internet.

    in reply to: Moran Rosh Hayeshiv ????"? ????? ??"? #899325
    Sam2
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    AYC: I knew the name. It’s on the site. I just don’t know anything about him or who he is.

    in reply to: ????::::QUESTION::::???? #826254
    Sam2
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    Sefardi Minhagim by answering Amen after their own Brachos are complex and seem to contradict themselves at times. For an Ashkenazi, the answer is a very strong no.

    in reply to: artscroll shas #826400
    Sam2
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    Jewish source: I also feel that the proper Tzuras Hadaf is important for several reasons, but pretending that the Tzurah we have was given by the Ba’alei Gemara is just false.

    in reply to: artscroll shas #826397
    Sam2
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    I never understand why people think it hinders learning how to read Gemara. If you only read the English words, maybe. But it also is tremendous because it breaks up the words phrase by phrase, so anyone who properly uses the Artscroll can get used to how the Shakla Vetarya goes.

    in reply to: heavy topic #825389
    Sam2
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    These are not normal but not too uncommon. I would advise therapy for a bit.

    in reply to: You know you're not a yeshiva guy anymore when… #1197461
    Sam2
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    Aderaba. I spent my whole time in Yeshivah learning from an Artscroll and was proud of it.

    in reply to: Moran Rosh Hayeshiv ????"? ????? ??"? #899322
    Sam2
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    Rav Schachter was Maspid him quoting a Gemara in Yoma. The Gemara says that Hillel is Mechayev all the Aniyim in Talmud Torah because Hillel was so poor and yet still learned. Rav Schachter says that R’ Nosson Tzvi is Mechayev all of us because he managed to learn so much even with terrible physical afflictions.

    If the mods will let it through, I will post a link to R’ Schachter’s Hesped (YUTorah). Rav Schachter is the first 10 minutes or so. I’m not sure who the last 8 minutes is.

    http://www.yutorah.org/lectures/lecture.cfm/765381/Rabbi_Hershel_Schachter/Hesped_for_Rav_Nosson_Tzvi_Finkel

    in reply to: artscroll shas #826383
    Sam2
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    I love using the Artscroll Gemaras. It has brought Talmud Torah to tens (if not hundreds) of thousands of people.

    in reply to: Math Question #826356
    Sam2
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    Factoring and the distributive property are the same thing. Factoring works because it uses the distributive property.

    in reply to: Surgically created blue eyes and shidduchim #1088438
    Sam2
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    Maybe the person wants his kids to have blue eyes and since this person he’s dating doesn’t genetically have blue eyes then his kids won’t. It’s a stretch, but I could see cases where G’neivas Da’as is involved.

    in reply to: Anyone can help? #825307
    Sam2
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    Stop worrying about long-term or overall things. Instead of thinking “did I do anything this week” or “did I accomplish anything this week”, change it to “did I do something today”. If that still stresses you out start thinking hour by hour. Eventually you’ll realize that even though you’re busy, it’s because you’re doing necessary things each hour. With that realization, the stress goes away. Sometimes we need to look long-term to realize we are accomplishing things, but there are situations in life where looking more and more short-term shows us how valuable our life really is.

    in reply to: My daughter- the next Rosh HaYeshiva #825145
    Sam2
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    Never seen it inside. I’ve only heard that Ba’al Peh. I’ll look for it though.

    in reply to: My daughter- the next Rosh HaYeshiva #825143
    Sam2
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    I’m sure they were. But he mentions somewhere that his mother taught him everything when he was young.

    in reply to: My daughter- the next Rosh HaYeshiva #825141
    Sam2
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    Doesn’t the SMA also say that his mother was his Rav Muvhak?

    in reply to: Zionism #1112793
    Sam2
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    Feif: Let me get this straight. The country that won’t allow intermarriage is responsible for higher intermarriage rates?

    in reply to: I can't believe what President Obama and Sarkozy said about Netanyahu!! #824880
    Sam2
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    I think his point was that as politicians their true feelings don’t matter. What matters is what they do when the mic is on-i.e. when they are representing their country. As long as Obama treats Israel well while representing American we are okay, regardless of his personal feelings.

    in reply to: The best chocolate out there #824948
    Sam2
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    I take offense at the phrase “CY observant”.

    in reply to: computer games #829860
    Sam2
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    SimTower and SimFarm were both endless entertainment when I needed it growing up.

    in reply to: Zionism #1112782
    Sam2
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    Zahavasdad: Bad example. If a Christian writes a Torah you have to burn it.

    in reply to: Yeshivish Mesechtos #824837
    Sam2
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    HaLeiVi: The point of those Gemaros was that Uktzin is the hardest Masechta. And I don’t think the Gemara in Ta’anis says that he wasn’t well-versed in it. Only that in the time of the Amora’im the Yeshivos in general had a better understanding of it.

    in reply to: CR Relationship #1179986
    Sam2
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    That’s an Eitzah Tovah that Chazal gave us which takes on the level of a quasi-Halacha. I don’t think that applies at all in an anonymous internet chat room. You can disagree with that part if you want. But I don’t think you can agree with that part and then say that it should be avoided anyway.

    in reply to: makes me sick #825581
    Sam2
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    See Shabbos 33a around 7/10 of the way down and fear for K’lal Yisrael. And then realize that you are doing a great job in keeping the world going and use that as Chizuk for all facets of your life.

    in reply to: CR Relationship #1179984
    Sam2
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    2scents: If it’s Halachically acceptable then who is anyone to say it’s wrong? Say you’re uncomfortable with it, fine. But to say it’s Halachically fine but still wrong to do? There’s something very wrong with that mindset. It has to be about Halacha and then personal preference. Calling something Halachically fine but still not OK is just wrong.

    in reply to: Is it halachically wrong to give Tzedakah to a known addict? #824530
    Sam2
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    Being Dan L’chaf Zechus is a Chiyuv in how you think, not act. If another Jew asks you to buy a treif burger from McDonald’s, then you are Over on Lifnei Iver if you buy it for him, even if you personally want to be Dan L’chaf Zechus and think he’s buying it for his dog.

    in reply to: CR Relationship #1179979
    Sam2
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    Soliek: Explain please. What did I say that’s not true?

    in reply to: Using "self-composed" prayers for people facing serious tzuros #824338
    Sam2
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    Rav Schachter says that you need Ruach Hakodesh to compose a Tefilla that is meant for the Tzibbur to say.

    in reply to: Yeshivish Mesechtos #824829
    Sam2
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    Shabbos is the longest Masechta in Shas (in terms of # of words). And there are plenty of Sugyos in there just as complicated as in Nashim or Nezikin.

    in reply to: CR Relationship #1179973
    Sam2
    Participant

    Even if you assume that talking is included in the Issur Kurvah L’arayos, there is no Kurvah in the CR. In fact, the CR is probably inherently not Derech Chibah. It might make you uncomfortable, but there’s nothing inherently wrong with it.

    in reply to: A Little Bird is Calling- wriiten by Malka Saks. #1048222
    Sam2
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    The one on Youtube referred to in the OP has no Kol Isha and I believe is not copyrighted. Maybe just record it from there? It’s titled “The little bird is calling.wmv”

    in reply to: Chofetz Chaim Yeshivos #850966
    Sam2
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    College might be treif, so it’s a good thing that those who attend don’t eat the buildings.

    in reply to: [AYLOR] Taking medecine on Shabbos #824313
    Sam2
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    Old man: I have heard that needing to stay in bed for most of the remainder of the day counts as “bedridden”. And there are many countries that still give out medicines which require grinding. In some places it’s virtually nonexistant (like the US), but there are places where it’s a legitimate fear. Many Poskim do use that Svara to be Meikil though.

    in reply to: Yeshivish Mesechtos #824808
    Sam2
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    Rav Schachter quotes a reason for it because Kodem Matan Torah it would have been the only Masechtos the Avos and Yeshivas Shem V’eiver learned, because Dinei Mamonos (Nezikin) and Gilui Arayos (Nezikin) would have been the only real Lema’aseh Halachos.

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