Happygirlygirl

MA thanks for the tips!!!lately ivebjust been keeping my toothbrush in my bedroom

A better question how do u stop the cleaning lady from using your toothbrush in other places and having to buy a new one every week!!!

I’m normally not one to give my advice being that I feel I’m not worthy and who would wanna listen to me but on this topic I can promise you I know what I’m talking about. There was this girl who to put it mildly ruined my name and basically my life a few years ago she told people alot of lies about me ,that I hung out with the wrong people etc. And basicly my camp life and school life were destroyed and no one wanted to talk to me because they thought I was bad.And eventually I started thinking no one will believe me anyways and i started doing the very things she said about me if not worse.(eventually I worked hard and Baruch hashem things only got better and i had alot of friends)for years I wished something bad happened to her that she should suffer the same way i did that she should feel what lonliness and depression feels like and then one day i came to a scary conclusion I realized that the only way for me to have closure is to let go and forgive i cant say that it was easy i didnt even know if i had to she made me get kicked out of places and i couldnt get summer jobs because of it but sat down on my bed and started writing about everything all my feelings I was crying but ya know what after that I didn’t send it to her (which technically I could have.I just threw it away and with that all my anger went away (she doesn’t believe she did any thing wrong before i forgave her I trued being mature …at some point I called her to talk things through and she said that I owe her an apology I had nothing to do with her prior to the rumors she made up but yet I still asked her for forgiveness and she said no….I plain hung up the phone on her…I was not gonna get angry) so basically my humble advice to u is just do what it takes to forgive you can write you can talk or you can just think and you will feel like the weight of the world is off your shoulders love, sadgirlygirl

Sparkly I thought your wjole issue was that you’re in shidduchim with grey hair

Coffee addict you’re hysterical…I was sleeping wirh my mouth open and i woke up and my mouth was parched

Grape flavor laffy taffys aren’t so bad

I didn’t say that

Sparkly yes girls that get BA in these programs have been accepted to LIU/NYU and such type of places…and when you say “non hewish colleges with us” you’re going to a not jewish college? And who is “us”?

I’m gonna try my luck now…can you reach out to me tonight? :*

When you’re talking about young people getting married typically it’s chassidish people who typically don’t get degrees(there are exceptions like myself) so there fore they have the ability to start earlier because they have nothing holding them back as they say in Yiddish (for those who understand ) ??? ??? ??? ???? ???? ????

jewishfeminist lol actually not …confession for today i was on this coffee room when i was 14 haha..but i dont see the question why they shouldnt be able to

the goal of every woman is that she should read shlome hamelechs words in aishes chayil and try her best to be what it says there because that is a perfect guideline

apushetayid and all gemara kups and dayanim here random afterthought ..many of u sound so knowledgable in halacha but if youre alwasy posting here how do u have time to learn fancy terms

@brisker26 so off topic but im a girl that took karate lessons

Hey I can recommend two books for u to read

1. Oz vehudar by rabbi Falk

2.daughters of dignity

Both are Amazing I would recommend first the daughters of dignity book it brings out so many beautiful stories for each halacha