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mytake
Everyone does their own thing, makeup is definitely not a one size fits all.
Personally, I wouldnt wear shadow without liner because my eyes are very almond shaped, so the liner does more for me than shadow.
The fact that you cant make a suggestion for Yeshivas and Bais Yaakovs to change is also part of the problem. (Hence my previous edit)
I am not an expert in this field nor do I claim to be, but in my experience (speaking w boys who have gone OTD, and have come back some totally some semi) I am under the impression that many times it comes from a lack of appreciation for Yiddishkeit and laziness.
If you do not fully appreciate Yiddishkeit and Hash-m why would you want to wake up in the morning and go to Daven? Why would you want to dedicate a whole day of your week to Him? Why would you want to limit your desires because He said so?
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Just eyeshadow and no eyeliner?
dunno
Just a tip, get black eye shadow and dab it on top of the gel when you are finished applying it, so that it doesnt get all over the place.
Someone will probably say it is inappropriate and shut it down…
Right now I’m using Stila Smudge Pots in Jet Black for gel eye liner and for liquid I use Stila Stay All Day in Jet Black (its liquid but comes in a marker)
Mommy. Thats all I ever wanted to be.
I would say black makes up 95% of my wardrobe… but hey, I like black! I wear dark nail polish and dark eye liner/eye shadow. But thats just me.
dunno
Right there with you sista!
(Bad enough 9 times out of 10 you dont even get a meal… 😉
Maybe they are chubby, and dont want to risk being rejected by Popa’s kid.
“wearing only black is the only way to look neat and classy”
…as opposed to Fuchsia?
Popa
A realization that she may be fat.
Girls: Stick w the straight hair.
ItcheSrulik
My only question is, are you going out with her again? 😉
“His reply, if I had to sit on your lap all day I would also choke”
LOL! (totally using that Dr when I have kids)
Saks.
apy
Yes, but the fact that TWD wasnt a primary offense when she got into the crash, will hopefully work to her credit.
It comes w the territory.
Throughout her schooling career she will come across many ‘Out There’ people who will say colorful things. Log it as life experience and shelf the rest.
They are going to have a hard time pushing it as Criminal Negligence.
Then again it was a highly publicized case that got Albany to pass legislation…
I hope it works out for her.
apy
I guess I missed the upgrade. I know they are going out for blood on this but I dont see (I hope) how they can make it stick.
If you were a ‘very skinny girl’ add 15 pounds to that you should be ‘skinny’ now.
Stop dieting and start living!
This is not really my field of Law but…
You can be charged w Criminally Negligent Homicide w the use of a vehicle.
Criminally Negligent Homicide has to be something so serious that there is significant risk and a likelihood that someone WILL get hurt. For example, drag racing under the influence on a city street.
miritchka
As I stated in my post it is NOT the same thing, but thats the best way I could describe it in regards to comfort.
My point was that its not a matter of attraction, it is a matter of comfort.
A good family friends son married a wonderful girl w a cochlear implant. We are not talking about any boy, he had every Shadchan running after him promising him rich fathers-in-law (you know the drill) when they say Top Boy In Lakewood, they are talking about him. She was a top girl, exactly what he was looking for, and she happened to have a cochlear implant. I dont know how many boys would be ok with it, for him it wasnt an issue, didnt faze him in the slightest.
IY”H shidduchim should go smoothly for your daughter (and all your children)
popa
“If I had to guess, it would have to go into a vehicular manslaughter one”
First degree is the harshest. Being that she had no priors and was sober she definitely wouldnt receive that charge. You can argue Vehicular Manslaughter in the second degree but TWD was only a secondary offense until recently, and Vehicular Manslaughter is generally reserved DWI/DUI.
popa
If you kill someone TWD you wouldnt get charged with those counts, they are far too harsh (unless they enact stricter penalties for TWD as a primary offense)
Curious how you missed this post,
“Very important. I am tall for a girl (and apparently for most Jewish males) and I dont feel comfortable dating someone shorter than me.”
Popa
Much too harsh.
Painful?
I dont know that I would call either of them painful. A let down, maybe.
I’m not 100% sure on this but, I think the reason that she was charged w Reckless Driving and not Negligent Homicide (as you are want to say) is because texting is a lesser offence than driving while intoxicated. Had she been drunk or under the influence of drugs she most probably would have been charged with the higher count of Negligent Homicide.
aries
Its not even a matter of attraction, believe me. I have met some good looking short guys! Its a matter of COMFORT. Although its not exactly the same thing but this is the best way I can describe it, would you be ok going out w a guy w one arm? How about a guy who is deaf? blind? Obviously these examples are more extreme but there is a certain comfort level that you need to be ok with.
Like I said in a previous post, I dated a guy who was the same height as me and I was not comfortable w that, do you think I would be comfortable w someone shorter?!
apy
Legal term or not, thats the charge.
Popa
Are you going to tell that whole shpiel to the family of the person you kill?
I dont shmooze w woman in real life, only men 🙂
apy
“There is a frum girl in brooklyn who was charged with negligent homicide”
I believe the charge is death by reckless driving.
cherrybim
Not every Bourbon is great tasting, some are better as mixers.
It runs between $40-$50.
pascha
I think you are down playing it. Slightly.
lkwdfellow
Chase the Bourbon with Bourbon. Nice!
“do u text whikle driving or let ur children??”
Its illegal. Parental permission is not a factor.
Did you drink it straight? I was of the impression its a good mixing Bourbon.
Glad to see youre taking your job as Bourbon consultant so seriously 🙂
tbt
I didnt bother reading that one past the *original* heading.
The proving Judaism thread I dont have a problem w because some people actually have questions on Judaism. If the OP stated that (s)he is considering going off because (s)he doesnt have concrete proof about Mussar Seforim than I may question it, but I think the OP is just trying to get a conversation going.
Bob and Susan.
tbt
Should I stay in Yeshiva or go to work… Completely bogus.
I hear.
I’m not going to argue w custom, because it has been around far longer than I have.
But, by the same Fairytale logic she has the *right* to believe that the Man standing in front of her will always be able to provide for her every need.
What is she going to do when she realizes he has a fault, feel betrayed?
My issue here is that if someone EXPECTS a real diamond, or feels slighted when they dont receive one, they are simply not ready for a real relationship.
If I called out every bogus thread…
(If this is a real thread)
Obviously take what everyone says on these boards w a grain or… container of salt.
“The loss of trust is because he either outright lied about it or led her to believe it was a real diamond”
I find it hard to believe anyone would say, “Do you like the REAL diamond I bought you?”
So any assumptions that it is real are your own.
Am I missing something?
Why does everyone think they are OWED a $5,000 diamond upon engagement?
Yes, its very nice to receive and exchange gifts but to say that you would lose his trust if he doesnt give you a “real” diamond seems absurd to me.
aries
I am sorry you feel disheartened.
SJS
I dont know that I think of them as “half men” as you put it.
I know of plenty good looking guys who are around 5’8”… It’s too bad that they are shorter than me.
BTW, most men arent secure enough in their masculinity to date a girl taller than them, so it goes both ways.
….and?
So what?!
Is your marriage any less valid? Is your love less real?
If you need a “real” diamond to prove to you that your husband loves you, you have a lot more garbage going on than the CZ in your setting.