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s2021Member
So being Yeshivish means not talking about contraversial topics? Being a molded from a cookie cutter??
s2021Memberlol- I luv the coffeeroom! Just checked it out n luved it. I love the lil kid in the shopping cart!!
s2021Membereclipse, I luv these..
1- with a friend I would say something funny, with strange hosts- poker face!
2- My cell phone- hi.. whod I call? At work- hang up!! lol.. (sorry, we seem to have gotten disconnected..)
March 28, 2011 2:50 am at 2:50 am in reply to: Good recipe for Baked Onion Rings that taste similar to fried? #753093s2021MemberHave u tried just spraying generously with pam before baking?
Never tried it, but Iv made onion rings before n I wonder if it would work just the same..
s2021MemberLast night. Ouch..
s2021Member1- no WAY. (It means someone used it. Has happened before. I keep my toothbrush in my room.)
2- Probably not.. But really depends where..
3- yes
s2021MemberI dont know about anyone else, but thinking about Bechirah and Hashgachah could drive me insane. I think 4 me its good 2 just go with the flow, not overthink, and work on trusting simply..
s2021MemberMaybe if mothers would charge, hotels 4 pesach would go outa business.
s2021MemberAnyone wanna do the math? how much do her parents pay a year? R they looking to adopt?
s2021Memberlol- high five mw13
s2021Membereclipse- Ur kids dancing around the Kallahs family?? That sounds like such a terribly hurtfull thing!! I feel for you!
s2021Memberbbubbee- WOW. Thank u SO much. That makes me feel so much better. And what u said about the rock thrown into the pond has a ripple effect- very powerfull, and JUST what I needed to hear at this exact moment. (Its been an ice cream night- full fat)
s2021Membereclipse, no answers 4 u, or usefull advise, but Im so sorry. It sounds like u have to live every day with so much hardships. I really admire u and especially ur ability to have a positive attitude seemingly all the time! Hashm should send u only Brachah and Simchas always. Lots of Hatzlachah.
s2021Memberlol
s2021Membergroup huuuuug
lol
(I knew someone who thought shouting “group huuug” was a good response to shared ideas. Wasnt very fun to hang around.)
s2021MemberIts funny, I used to make fun of the ppl who looked so deeply into ther prospective dates past they knew how many pairs of shoes ther grandfather owned as a kid..and wherehe had the money topurchase them… Now.. seems like a smart idea…
s2021MemberBas- I remember reading a few pages down that its practically impossible. Basicly forget about it. Just need to know about it so know NOT to rely on that heter cuz its misunderstood used incorrectly.
s2021Membermw13: U just gotta marry a cute guy with darker skin and spicier food preferences. Sac knows some..
s2021MemberIm sure the girl ur considering going out with will look lovely
s2021MemberTotally 4thded. If not 4 coffeeroom I dont know where I would be.. Probly with a shopping addiction.
s2021Memberread the next page(s)..
s2021MemberPB- ha. riiiight.
s2021Memberyes..
s2021MemberRaya-yes son, mother, and grandma. And dunno but wierd.
s2021MemberGreg!! Thank u so much! And welcome..
s2021MemberThanx eclipse. Wow ur really strong.
s2021Membernah..its normall. As soon as u turn 20 it goes away.
s2021Memberobservan- So did I. So I blocked it out. Now I finally understand why Iv had stomache aches, and why I was always bloated. I can go on and on about what I think u should do, but Im just going to say this- Please-u need to have guidance!! Someone who is aware of things going on in the world. ok??
s2021Membereclipse- what do u mean preventative davening?
Davening is very “touchy” to me bec I always davened SO MUCH 4 a caring,kind,good husband who will treat me well- and now its hard 4 me to pick up my siddur with the same feelings of trust and reliance.. I feel kind of betrayed..(Its scary to admit) Its not that I dont eccept or trust in Hashm and His plan 4 me. Its just davening now just doesnt feel as good.. Has anyone experienced this?
s2021Memberobservan- I have the same question 4 myself 4 when I start dating again. I think: make sure research is done thoroughly, and trust ur instincts, ur feelings, ur gut. Of course ppl lie, so ask pointed questions to the guy ur out with. You should get help with someone very experienced to help u figure out xactly what those questions shuld be, and to speak to while ur dating. Also, I didnt know this when I dated, but sum guys r on ther best behavior but in a dishonest way. (I was completely honest and upfront about everything when I dated, I assumed that everyone was too) Theres so many ways to date wrong, and marriage is not the kinda mistake that could be easily corrected, so get guidance please!!!
s2021MemberMe! I hate it, but I am consistently 15 minutes late every week and a half. (I mark my hours on a calendar)They usually dont say anything, and thank God cuz I give myself enough of a beating, I dont wanna take it from a o else!
Last year though, I worked somewhere else that had traffic and a crazy unpredictable parking situation.. I got dirty looks and critisizms EVERY TIME. Now I know I was in the wrong, but it was so hard to deal with, I quit at the end of the year.
Personally, a chilled work invironment is so important 4 my own peace of mind.
s2021Memberwow Im so impressed!I would 4 SURE take the house but my parents probly wouldnt let me… wierd no?
s2021MemberI feel bad 4 him.. ouch!
s2021Memberbina-LOL. Actually, I do agree I just had to make my example as spicy as possible..
and really? I like books that end with u screaming “whaaaaaaaaaaaat!?!?” or “nooooooooo!!- u know, the kind that “gets” u..
In coffeeroom its kinda like conflict,resolve conflict, happy ending, dredge up same conflict…
s2021MemberLooks heav, but who would work that hard on a sandwich?
For that many ingredients, Im goin out to eat..
s2021MemberThis title made me laugh. 🙂
Keep it up Singles!!!
Ur almost there!!
Happiness cums from the inside!
Just a few more losers!!
Ur Bashert is trying to find u!!
In just a lil while ull be exhausted and drained from all the housework!
Hashem loves uuuuu!!
s2021Memberxerox
EL OH EL!!
March 24, 2011 11:33 pm at 11:33 pm in reply to: Who Would You Elect as Mayor of Coffeetown #1111029s2021MemberWait Wait! Not Yet!!
I Nominate The Mods!!!!!
s2021Memberobservan- thanx! doin ok, said somethin to my cousin n feel a lil better.
I hear u, and I agree, jumping to a conclusion about my ex is not awesome. I just dont get why its assumed that I was asking 4 it? Just cuz I gave a bit of backround info to why I was feeling the way I was feeling doesnt mean I want anyone bashing anyone. It should be understood it means I want support. Attacking him isnt supporting me. Its focusing on him, which is exactly what bothered me. Telling me “sorry to hear, U must feel yicky” is supporting and in my opinion not loshon horah.. :))
s2021MemberDerech- HAAAAAAAAAAAAAA
I dont know why but that tot worked..
s2021MemberBtw- ZK- No. Generally, I believe having a positive attitude and focusing on the jar half full is the secret to happiness. However, when someone is upset, denying feelings, or trying to force cheerfullness on urself when all u wanna do is cry or vent- is a garuntee to misery. Either ur body will keep score (stomache aches, backaches, stiff necks, illness) Or it will well up untill explosion day. The best thing is to alknowledge it, express what ur feeling (feelings are never right or wrong)- to a notebook, to a peron, to God, to a bowl of chocolate ice cream with peanut butter, caramel, n sprinkles.. and only then can it leave u, and let u be truly happy.
s2021MemberI know tons of ppl with that.It runs in my fam. U need to get urself checked out cuz sometimes it could be something dangerous and u could need surgery CV. And- voice lessons. See a doc.
s2021MemberIts the norm in my world
s2021MemberI dont know about the other person, but its helpfull for urself, even if not sent
s2021MemberAmen! thanx
s2021MemberCookie, Thank u. Iv been meaning to apologize to u the whole day today. I dont usually get like that, but last night was the most upset Iv been in a long time and I really needed to let it out. When I outrightedly said I was angry, that may not have been the time to give me advice, But still Im sorry I got sharp with u. Not usually my style.
It bothers me that ppl think Iv been attacking my ex. Iv always been very concientious about Loshon Horah- even when I was hurting and that is something very hard to do. Re-read my origionall outburst.I do think I deserve credit. Attacking was completely NOT my intention. I didnt want to attack at all! Not my ex and not even my cousin!! And I dont think thats what I did. My intention was to vent on an annonymus forum in order to get support 4 ME. Wasnt focussing on anyone else!! I know there is a risk ppl could figure out who I am, but I assumed venting was going to happen- better here, then to a hundred ppl who definately know me and my ex and my fam!
Im also sorry I gave away details. When that upset, its hard not to feel provoked by Grandma. 😉
s2021MemberCookie, If thats what u meant than ok.. but this didnt exactly seem too innocent:
“So 2021- you’re not really looking for support. You’re just looking for more and more people to talk against your ex-hub, even though they never met him.”
nu–uh..
“Sorry, I can’t do that. And I don’t think it’s right to make others do it when nobody can really know what went on in your home. “
Would I lie in a coffeeroom??
And even if u dont know 4sure what happened- if someone says ther abused- just play along, be nice, it def cant hurt. (not believing on the other hand..)
And Im sorry but a close family member is different than “others”..
Nighty night
s2021Memberlol.. I will never tell..
s2021MemberHealth- which one do u think it is??
s2021Membercookie, thanx I like to be friends with ppl who r supportive when asked 4 it, who dont tell me what Im thinking, and who dont make light of abuse or abusers. Think about it. And Ill daven 4 u too!
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