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Sometimes parents arent necesarily the right ppl to tell. If they dont take u seriously or it doesnt concern them enough-find someone else who understands u and can help u out- an older relative, teacher.. U need to be responsible and help urself and not wait for anyone else.
Being put into a difficult marriage actually gave me tremendous courage and confidence in myself. I, a young little shnook dealt with an abusive spouse. I chose not to believe him when I was put down. I took action and got myself help. I put him in therapy and changed his life forever. I ended the marriage when it was killing me. My family is amazed with my strength as am I. Today I have a major experience under my belt that I passed with flying colors while my friends barely started dating. I never had the self confidence that I now have and I love it.
apushita- I think men should have in mind to thank Hashem 4 that by “shelo asani ishah”
can u take a break at work and daven then?
holyland- dont feel bad, I also did. Actually watching other ppl daven helped me.. Maybe we should start goin 2 shul 🙂
…even though I just discovered the most comfortable pair of my life but there only 20 denier.. :((( havin a hard time..
Bas- I dunno but Im not that frum to start wearing bulletproofs.
Im just proud of myself that I wear 30s while most of my peers wear 10/15 denier..
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shave
(disclaimer: I am not a rabbi)
12 is the number of toes I was born with
Gumball like OMG ur too funny!!!!!!
hear ye!
eclipse ur posts r very validating, thank u
it needs to be a certain thickness- 35 denier is allowed according to most poskim
O and u said the brachah?
I Do Not Understand..
Why does everyone care so much???
oy.. girls.. 🙂 Thanx bpt that was a GOOD laugh..
congrats yenta! I would set aside an amount of money and take myself gift shopping! Call it a gift and buy urself anything u want that u wouldnt normally spend on.. So Fun! (I do that a lil too often.. its starting to get normall..)
LOL bpt ROTFL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
adorable- IT IS IN NO WAY ASSUR TO REFUSE
Im getting all worked up and Im trying to think of what to say but its not working out..
Just make sure u have a normall Kallah teacher b4 u get married..
Totally! Those couple of days when the seasons change drastically, my mood also does!
very assur to refuse it?? never heard of that one
ur trying- thats hailige!
I think a positive view is enjoying the animals and smiling at the funny things ur kid says.
Try not to dwell on what is missing.
Silent one, I dont have any specific advice for you, but I can definately relate to being in no mans land. I lived there for almost a year. Was NOT a fun place to be. I also know someone who is going through something very similar. I think having a friend you can vent to who has a sense of humor is a great tool. Laughter helps alot. Lots of Hatzlachah. Its heartening to hear there r erliche and heilege divorced men.. :))
bina- thanx.. yeah sok- moving foward!
Thanx 4 the recomendation. I just heard samples on mostly music- really like- it’s CUTE!! 🙂
To start one of those save the world kinda organizations.. 🙂
THAT IS NOT NORMALL!
SAVE HER!!!
ok, I can tell u from experience, I cried alot before I got married. My friends saw it but didnt to say anything bec they thought it wasnt ther place.
2 years later I am divorced.
My friends tell me they feel bad they never said anything.
I feel bad no one ever said anything.
I was very confused and didnt know what to think. If someone would have aproached me and helped me realize what was going on, things might have been different.
TALK TO HER PARENTS. NOW.
U need to make sure they are aware and her fears are not coming from somewhere.
Thats ridiculous. Those who say Romance is goyish, foreign, and unnecessary- r u married??
Dz- u r very confusing. Iv been on CR for a few months and I still cant figure u out..
ooo that would be one loooooong conversation..
I think the one whos doing the paying should be the one deciding where to budget.
Sac- R u the one paying?
nobody likes being told I”YH by u..
Lemony- Loooooooollll!
ZK- whats a Trojan Smile?
cofeefan- good 4 u! Ur husband will love u 4 YOU and u know he will have his priorities strait. Some girls get stuck with ridiculously shallow guys without even knowing it. U r protected from those kinds so dont feel too bad. Yick. This topic makes me so annoyed..
Then theyll have more money for u :)))
“when u get married life starts….”
Now that is sad.
I dissagree.
Life is NOW.
I think that attitude is one of the reasons its so hard for ppl to remain single. U only get one lifetime.. U might as well start living it.
Ha cshap- I actually brought along flats once cuz I hated wearing heels and I didnt know what he was planning to do with me on the date..
and OMG lol!! Ur awesome! He was probly FLIPPING out!!
ya, walking in heels isnt fun but sometimes Id rather walk the 2 blocks then sit for half an hour (cant talk cuz then he cant concentrait on finding a spot) while he compulsively circles and circles and circles.. (Im getting car sick just thinking about it)
Omg the parking thing drives me insane!!
Is it like some macho thing to need to get the CLOSEST POSSIBLE parking spot?
I know its a lil bit of an issue.. I was actually just thinking of getting a clutch with a small strap that I could either wear or keep inside..
And hello thats not so bad- once I came back and the guy was sitting playing solitare!!
lol stuffed thats a good line to say actually
cshap- rite on! I would do the same thing. Thats why I insist on taking money and a cell phone with me..
shop.
I almost broke.. but its good to keep busy. 🙂
When I do go broke, Im gonna start jogging.
Then after that, Ill have lost weight so Ill have to go shopping..
I agree with chayav.
If that is a true story- The guy is mean and has an EGO. She wasnt even calling him cheap she was just saying what she heard.
I really hate it when ppl dont date seriously and do all kinds of shticky things so they can laugh about it and share good stories with ther friends. Can we grow up here??
adorable- as long as u have proper guidance while ur dating someone I dont think u need to worry.