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Take a break and see how you feel after. That usually works for me (cept then when Im ok with the person after a break I never know If I forgave em or if I simply forgot about it..)
adorable- Im glad! my pleasure. Iv been where u r and I can relate. Working on yourself changes u deeper then u would think. Iv never been a naive girl and Iv been exposed to much, but because I TRY I give off a very innocent, good impression. (Its kinda funny sometimes- ppl tell me that and I laugh in my head) Trying is what counts, thats what makes u pure.
If you do teshuvah you are pure.
After seeing so much its hard to understand, but if you truly change yourself thats what happens- u change. Deeply. The point is not to stay pure. The point is to BE pure. Just BE- focus on now. Feeling guilty is only good when it leads you to do better. Dont feel sorry that u slid because it has the potential to turn you into a stronger and better person- better then the innocent girl u were in highschool. That is what life is about- facing real challenges and overcoming. And overcoming is what is valued. Not living in a bubble. Dont worry about your marriage. There is a time and a place for everything and it will make sense when you get there. Now just be the best u can- The harder the work, the more it is valued.
I dont get canine’s post.
P: U cant always get what u waaa-aant
O quark- I didnt realize it was of jewish boys. I hear what ur sayin a lil more…
and she did it 4 fun. She read alot of manga comics and shes the artsy type..
I am familiar with Manga- I had a friend who read alot of em and used to draw manga cartoons. And she is Jewish. I do know what you mean by them not being just for kids. But so are regular American comics.
quark- I really dont think whoever drew those manga cartoons and displayed them was thinking so deeply: “Manga cartoons are an icon of japanese culture, which has one of the highest percentages of athiests in the world.” They were probly thinking “what a cute cartoon my kid drew. Let me hang it up to make him feel good.” Seriously, lets not get carried away.. Its a pizza shop. There also happens to be a video machine in the docs office with bob the builder. Next to the seforim. In the Ir Hatorah. And ppl still go.
Btw- I dont think its the same as listening to goyish songs with the words tweaked. That gets me super nervous- but I think most yeshivish ppl r ok with it cuz ther simply clueless.
Pac-man- why do u say that? I dont think I would be able to handle my opposite vert.
dunno- omg that used to b my favorite candy b4 I made the switch. I wonder if I could make it myself..
Btw oreos are NOT dairy (find out for urself, I dont take responsibility) and neither r reeces pieces.
ofcourse- yes I have. Ther yummy but really gooey and messy
I like da subtitle drama 🙂
Duncan Hines
Whip + chocolate spread
Chocolate dip they sell in pckges
Cant get easier.
I can relate to what your sayin cupcake – A good idea is to not use a credit card- cash only. It helps you budget and realize the value of your money. Also- as hard as it seems, when you find something great but your feeling those guilty pangs- leave it behind and wait a day before buying it. Its incredible how often after I get home I change my mind about needing it.. I always feel great when I realize I SAVED money.
Silent- That was written so eloquently. Its beautifull how you care so much about your fellow Yiddin in need. Hatzlachah Rabbah, keep up your efforts- I know I could use your Tefillos.
lol! Funny BSD! How come these jokes are always with a seminary girl on a bus? I dont even attempt to speak hebrew cuz of all the jokes Iv heard already.. I just know Ill be the girl who creates the next one.. 🙂
go Health!
That is so ridiculous, it cant b the whole story. Im sure there is more too it.
Makeup is very hard to know the line between tznius and not because its very individual, theres no blanket rules like there is with clothes ( elbows, knees, fit, color..) One eyeshadow can make one girl look nice while it can make another girl look very atracting. You cant know till its experimented with and once it starts being applied its quite hard to stop.. However I think its extremely important for girls to have their makeup (obviously in proper amounts.) I strongly do not agree with high schools who dont allow a trace of makeup to be seen on a girls face. I think its cruel and unusuall and bad for the self esteem. If girls start learning how to apply when their in shidduchim/married there is an excellent chance they will be putting on too much…
ramat- No, its not based on nothing. Most men I know seriously dont tolerate dairy meals- its simply not FOOD in their dictionary Yom Tov or not…
“it doesnt do the same when i tell my wife “this is for your birthday, baby, and anniversary”.”
So dont tell her:) I disagree- trust me, giving her a huge piece of bling does PLENTY :))
Anyways more ideas (this is fun, Im pretending what I would like to get..) perfume set, expensive handbag/wallet/clutch or accesory for her wardrobe,( ask a friend of hers to pick it out for you) new set of dishes or silverware, trip to a spa with her sister or friend, plan all the details and surprise her with a FULL day date, (pack a picnic, drive out of town, go horseback riding on the beach, paint pottery, and go out to eat..) new window treatments for the living room, sign her up for art/guitar/dance lessons, gym membership (if she wont take it as an insult:) take her to Mac and tell her to buy as much as she wants- budget 250 dollars, new linen set or throw pillows to change the look, a dishwasher, bouquet of silk flowers for her dresser or dining room table..
Tip: DONT buy her a microwave or something she needs anyways.. get her something she would love but wouldnt splurge on herself..
If she only goes for real I would say take most of the money and put it aside so u can get her something gorgeous next time. With real jewlery, rather save up for something big and stunning then a few small things she wont appreciate.. and tell her with a card or something origional but make it personal and mushy. We like that too.
Cooking dinner is very sweet and tons of fun for her. She gets a night off and its a big gesture.
What does the person do during free time/vacation?
Whats his relationship like with his mother? (watch for body language)
Does he make fun of people?
I never blame cake. Cake is friend. :))
description?
Make a FIRM decision. Write it down. Start off slow. Remind yourself every day..
How can u shop online? Theres no try on! The only thing I buy online is shoes, when Im desperate.. (Zappos)
I dont bake challah but I chose an hour to watch my mouth..
I happen to love jewelry, as most girls do so im gonna hafta say jewelry. Sorry, but it is for her isnt it? You CAN get something beautiful for 250-300 dollars, u just have to be smart about it. There are beautiful costume sets. U can get stunn gold plated jewelry that looks the SAME as regular. (A relative of mine just got a 3 tone set of bangles with crushed diamonds/crystals for 100 each. GORGEOUS and no one would ever know its fake.) You can get her a gold engraved pendant necklace. Anything with gemstones, ring, necklace… A new watch…Just get jewelry, its what we want.
cupcake: too much information… 😉
Whoever thinks a Rav or a Shadchan is the best person to ask- Hahahaha. Sooooo funny.
Sacrilege- haha! me2!
lol, nice bpt!
Yeah personal jokes r always funny at a chasunah. Even better, if ur friends for a long time, make a joke out of a joke u guys had together from years ago that she forgot about.. Guaranteed laughs..
popa: If he has money maybe ill take him. He can send me a check, and his other wives can take care of the rest.
And there ya go, ur bein so agreeable lately.
Is this to make the next motzei shabb scandal even more shocking?
I love that book 🙂
Why should someone who gets married for the wrong reasons be either miserable or divorced?? Almost any marriage can work as long as both parties are working to improve it. It is certainly possible to learn to be happy with someone.
new york and co has skirts!!
N btw cshap- O it so can hurt..
When I see ppl wearing pregnant tops wrong or a funky top with a black pleated skirt.. ooooouch!!
Talkin bout hair removal habits really grosses me out. And Im a girl. Just btw..
Im more a fan of wearing lots of color, but not too funky with the styles.. unless it looks amazing ON.
I love Lofts jewlery, and New York and Co. (awesome sales)
mrsbrite I LOVE YOU! 🙂 That was great chizuk thanx!!
I was in a store and a sign reminded me to check out the length of a skirt when sitting. I didnt mind.
However, hearing strong words from, well, a sign doesnt strike up good feelings within me towards the idea of tznius.
I dont think anything thats an issue should be tolerated,but woman who are wearing skirts over ther knees usually have something against the whole idea of conforming…
There needs to be deeper understanding and appreciation for tznius-from a young age-as opposed to it being harshly forced upon..
dont question it, its so funny
Dont know zactly what it is but it sounds ouchy
Why would u want to b stuck with a fam forever when they say they dont want u? R u that charming?