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lol sender! I have lotsa questions!!
s2021MemberLomed- ๐ thank you!!! u answered my question and lifted something from my heart. i never knew exactly what it means that the mizbeach cries, but being as it is understood to be something devastating, i certainly didnt like that i should be a cause for it.. now i know im not..
smartcookie- what was devastating was being living every day with a such a reality. the divorce was a ray of hope, it was a bright future. i literally left the office jumping up and down..:) Yes, it is hard dealing with what i WENT through, and the adjustment..but thats it..
Does anyone even understand my question?
s2021MemberLol popa!
February 14, 2011 5:52 am at 5:52 am in reply to: What's with all the Divorce Topic Disscussions??? #739923s2021Membermchemtob- i hope u understand not everything is in ur controll. ppl get surprises in life despite ur best efforts. even with realizing marriage isnt candy and flowers.. there r still things to be afraid of.
s2021Membershlishi- in my opinion the guy with all the street smarts is usually more successfull than the socially awkward braniac..
February 14, 2011 4:49 am at 4:49 am in reply to: to marry a singer or not.. thats the question! #741700s2021Memberobservanteen- i give u a brachah that that shouldnt change..
s2021Memberlol foodluver- i dont have an answer to ur question but i can definately tell u, the girls will be talking about which YBC kid is the cutest.. i guess it depends on how cute ur son is..
s2021MemberThe popular. Brainy know-it-all doesnt necessarily get u too far in life happiness-wise. The person with great social skills, lots of friends… i would imagine would have better quality of life and could get further..
February 14, 2011 12:07 am at 12:07 am in reply to: to marry a singer or not.. thats the question! #741697s2021MemberWhen i go to weddings and i see the very outgoing and sociable young, handsome, frum singer, i always wonder how secure this wife must feel in her marriage, being fine with her husband staying out late every night.. entertaining those crowds of very enthusiastic and beautifully dressed women..
s2021Memberhappiest- it is normall to want to be married, and sometimes it can be depressing, but u should be content with just being u, and u shouldnt really NEED a husband too badly.. maybe u should look into ur self (read books, talk to someone..) to understand why it is u have this NEED. sometimes it is not that simple and its very important that u understand urself BEFORE u date and marry.
February 13, 2011 5:31 am at 5:31 am in reply to: What's with all the Divorce Topic Disscussions??? #739916s2021MemberSorry Sender!
s2021Memberwow! thanks everyone! unfortunately, its so nice to hear..
truth- thanks-where do i find these experts?
oomis- really? lots? they sounds amazing- where do i find them? ๐
s2021Memberheleivi- i was talking about yapping too… but in bad situations its usually unclear when its necessary to consult with someone and when its not.. i still think telling everyone before they get married to never talk about anything personal is not good advice. once ur married for a while- i definately agree its unhealthy.. but before then- it is a dangerous rule to throw out.
“And believe me, when I hear that, I know its anything BUT fine”
bpt- wow! im impressed.. but how long did it take u to figure out that a womans “fine” is actually anything but..? im guessing a lil trial and error.. sum tears…
s2021Membergoq- im not, i promise! ๐ thank gd my curiosity always got me to good places..
mod80- amazing!! go on.. ur getting exactly my thinking when i chose my name…
s2021Memberumm- while i can understand that advice- i need to say i dont think that should be said to newlyweds. i had that little lesson drummed into me in highschool and kallah class, and being the good little concientious girl i was i took it seriously. i went through a very bad “shanah reshonah and a half” with out it ever crossing my mind to talk to anyone about it- “no good can come from it, disloyalty to him..” when it got to the point where i was ready for a divorce and finally told my parents they were like “whyyyy did u wait so long???” im not the only one this has happened to- but i was just the lucky enough to not get withchild and possibly remain trapped in a terrible marriage. i think girls need to be educated about marriage and to have someone they can definately talk to.
s2021MemberYogiiiii!! u dont even realize how lucky u r to posess such an incredibly rare and unbelievable gift! a MAN who HELPS!!! Please appreciate it!! ๐
s2021Memberlemon pine sol
fresh cut grass
chocolate chip cookies while theyr baking
crayola crayons
gas station smell
s2021Memberwow… theres so much addiction our community.. that sounds like a shalom bayis issue..
s2021Memberlol yogi- shhh! dont advertise! someone might cum one night and try to kidnap ur husband!! ๐
s2021Membermbachur- id luv to hear about that day..
s2021Memberctrl- u peaked my interest. shlishi- cool!
s2021Membereew (sorry.) how could u still want to eat it when u know there may or may not be little ooey gooey creepy crawleries in ur meal?
s2021Memberi was once joking around with my (ex) husband and i called him “Big Strong Husband” he literally puffed out his chest and gave me a huge smile.. i was like- seriously..that works on u?? and he told me strait out- Yes! so i learnt- men like getting ther egos stroked- kinda like puppy dogs.. even if im secretly finding it funny.. men- do u disagree?
s2021Memberunderstand- ooo i like that idea.. i love cookies and i think cookie monster is cute ๐ (yumyumyumyum) (coookiecoookiecoookie starts with ceeeeeee) ok now i just need kids..
s2021Membereclipse- lol!!
s2021Membergoq- i like how that word sounds i dont know why.. im going to make up a definition in my mind..
shlishi- u gotta tell me!
s2021Membergoq- please? im curious!
s2021MemberEL OH EL! these quotes r awesome!! i needed a good smile! ๐
aries- so did i!
s2021Memberhey sender- r u from out of town? :)jk
s2021Memberjsmile- it may be ur house- it doesnt change the fact thats its startling and scary and embarrasing for a young girl to be alone at night in a strange house when suddenly out of no where the door bursts open.. u wouldnt like it if it was done to u- justified or not
s2021MemberTake care eclipse its been real! and can i just say- Good 4 u!:)
s2021Memberoooo cant wait to hear wat everyone has to say about this one. i was married for a few months and now im back living with my parents and its a lil wierd for me to take money from them.. or to pay for some of my own stuff..
s2021Memberiv noticed in out of town places its more acceptable for the men and woman to wish each other good shabbos.. why is that?
s2021Memberi have a love for sweatshirts. winter one of my favorite seasons ๐ just find the good in it and njoy it while its here
s2021Memberhealth- was that a joke? cuz i lafed.. girls- i hate when my lips get dry so i wear a lip gloss thats also moisturizing! i love it!
s2021MemberThats really nice goq! ๐
s2021Memberi can blow a bubble off my tounge and into the air.. its really cool
s2021Membero ya! tot scary! i almost cut my hair off after i heard it ๐
s2021Memberice is so scary.. which leads me to this.. why is it that everyone gets nervouse when the sidewalks r icey but i am the only person in the world who is afraid to put lil razors on my feet and throw myself onto a huge ring (rink?) with no support and millions of skaters whizzing by at 50mph..???
s2021Memberi think i am looking for a puppy dog with a brain. who will wear the pants. ๐
February 4, 2011 1:06 am at 1:06 am in reply to: Just curious ๏ฟฝ๏ฟฝ๏ฟฝ๏ฟฝ. What does everyone do for a living? #1119673s2021Memberi sit at a desk and wait for the phone to ring. which is how i discovered CR. i love my job.
s2021Memberk how about this: u (a hypothetical person- not really U..) twist ur ankle or someone says something hurtfull to u. i think- emotionall pain u can heal on ur own (cry about it, distract urself, talk it out, laugh it off, paint ut toenails pink, convince urself it never happened.. whatever!) while physical pain u have no controll over! if the body desides its gonna hurt, all the chocolate in the world wont make it feel better! (ok there r painkillers, but not always!) i think the idea of being trapped in pain with no way out is worse than being in pain in ur mind which u can play tricks on.. but hey thats just me. its personal i guess. ok this is soooooo depressing.. sorry for creeping anyone out. i was just curious if anyone felt the same way…
s2021Memberontheball- i disagree- it has alot of calories but is super healthy and has alot of protien
s2021Membera gift/ a curse.. depends how its used..
s2021Memberhaifagirl- hummus is also good- dont think that would work well egg or tuna salad tho. thats mostly where the problem of leaving it out is..
s2021Membercool! its so nice to know im not the only one in the world who believes in inner beauty!
s2021Memberzaidy lol
s2021Memberkey word: hydrogenated…
s2021Memberno way- sugar and calories vs dangerous liquidy stuff… i think not.. ๐
February 3, 2011 7:38 pm at 7:38 pm in reply to: Everyone is "amazing"- how can you tell who really has great Midos? #736584s2021MemberTefillah is vital but do not underestimate hishtadlus. I davened great and was given a hard package. I kinda wonder if i was too trusting and i should have done more hishtadlus or if Hashem had that plan for me no matter what i wouldv done..
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