147, Glad you don’t know. There are people who have suffered extremely abusive, and difficult marriages. In which case, the “marriage” was tge mistake, and not the “divorce”, and finally getting act together to move on (as in my case). Of course there are those that weren’t willing to put more effort into improving their marriages. Anmd chose to destroy!! Please try to be a little more sensitive when making general statements!! May you only know of happineSs!!