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  • in reply to: Best Weight Loss Diet/Excercise #982290
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    While I am not an expert in the area, I have heard that one of the best methods is to simply cut down the quantity of food you eat (smaller portions) and if at all possible, cut down the junk food completely. I agree with the poster above concerning work and exercise. That being the case, I have found that walking part of the way home (let’s say from a slightly farther bus/train stop) helps with busy schedules.

    in reply to: Ahmadinejad a Gilgul of Haman HaRasha? #861947
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    Hi Logician: I am sorry, I ask Mechila. I did not intend to have come across that way. R.T.

    in reply to: Ahmadinejad a Gilgul of Haman HaRasha? #861945
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    “One says gilgul,the other says a nitzotz. Not clear, we’ll decide during Shovavim.”

    What did you mean by this statement? Did you study Sha’ar HaGilgulim of the Ariza”l or by the Rama MiPano? There are guidelines concerning this. But you don’t have to go that far. There were 600,000 “Neshamos” at Har Sinai. There are a few million of us here at this time/space. Explain that.

    As I said in previous posts, Tanach and Tehillim should be said for its own sake, not for any particular purpose. I am amazed that very few people know where the pesukim of Tefilla originally come from.

    Feel free to give $36 to a reputable organization and have in mind the mitzvah of Tzedaka.

    What red string? What’s that? Never heard of that.

    Hope for the best. No, hope in HaShem: Kaveh el HaShem… (that’s a pasuk)

    in reply to: Haggadahs for the seder #1065218
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    Practically speaking, with my very little ones, I use a very thin Haggadah with simply the text. I’ve even seen some that are laminated (makes sense with the Yayin, Charoset, etc…).

    Once the little ones are in bed, the Haggadah Migdal Eder (with 119 Peirushim) is brought out.

    in reply to: not real Silver #861343
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    Hi more. Sorry, stainless steel does not rust. Silver does not rust but tarnishes (presence of sulfur-related contaminants).

    You might want to try silver polish remover anyway (Rokach sells one for Pesach cleaning) and see how it goes.

    Best of Luck

    in reply to: Tachnun Calendar #861326
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    Hi 147. Thank you for the response. Yes, it should have said 5-6 days for Shavuos. Concerning Motzei Shmini Atzeret, your statement is true, but I am not sure that everyone holds by that since in some Ashkenazi communities, Tachanun is resumed on 25 Tishrei which implies the Svara that it is Tashlumim (which is not nogea b’zman hazeh post Churban Bayit Sheni and therefore the same applies in Ashkenazi communities Motzei Shavuot).

    Your list at the conclusion of your post parallels the list in Megillas Ta’anis. That too according to some *may be* Batel B’Zman HaZeh. At any rate, we could list all the Yahrzeits of all the Avot, Neviim, Melachim, Anshei Knesset HaGedola, Tannaim, Amoraim, Geonim, Rishonim & Acharonim (Ad HaYom HaZeh) and fill up the calendar.

    in reply to: Eating With Your Hands #862745
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    Hi Avhaben:

    May I humbly ask how we would be able to eat Matzah (& Maror & Karpas & Korech) on Leyl Pesach if not with our hands?

    in reply to: Ahmadinejad a Gilgul of Haman HaRasha? #861937
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    Interesting. However, it’s not that simple. It’s probably a bit more precise that Ahmadinejad posesses a nitzotz/spark of the Neshama of Haman, as probably Hitler Y”S and Arafat Y”S before that. It’s not so clear to me how many Gilgulim can exist for non-Jews. Ethnicity (e.g., from Iran) may have very little to do with Gilgulim

    in reply to: Men & Mirrors #861258
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    sam2, rabbiofberlin — That is correct. A tallis is a tashmishei shel mitzvah and therefore a tallis bag *could* be used to keep a mirror, business card, siddur, printed chumash, tzedaka money (weekdays!)

    A side note — While tefillin has extremely high level of kedusha, it should be noted that even the Tefilla shel yad has lesser kedusha than the Tefilla shel rosh and therefore, there are guidelines about how they should be stored in tefillin bags, aside from the issue of which tefilla should come out first during the donning proccess.

    Back to the mirrors issue — Every shul (frum of course) that I have been to has mirrors in the men’s washroom. I seriously doubt they are been used to check tefillin!

    in reply to: Men & Mirrors #861251
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    147 – If you want to keep a mirror & card with your tefillin, may I humbly suggest you buy a plastic bag for your velvet tefillin zekel. You can put the mirror & card between the plastic and the velvet bag. This way, you can be sure that the tefillin (velvet) bag holds only tefillin as it is a d’var bekdusha. The poskim warn against keeping extraneous things with the tefillin inside the velvet bag. The halacha goes so far as to say that Rash”i tefillin can not be kept in Rabbenu Tam tefillin bag (& vice versa) once designation has been set.

    in reply to: Tachnun Calendar #861323
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    Generally speaking, The Ezras Luach is the most authoritative source for days when to/not to say Tachanun for mainstream Ashkenzai Kehillas. The Luach Colel Chabad is specific for the Chabad-Lubavitch community (They do not say Tachanun on 19 & 20 Kislev and Mincha of the 18th beforehand). Concerning Sephardim, Tachanun is not said for the remainder of Tishrei after Shmini Atzeret (Yemei Tashlumim for Shalmei Chagiga) and for the 6 or 7 days following Shavuos (Same reason). Different Chassidic communities (Satmar, Belz, etc..) also have their own Luachs for their communities. As for Yom HaAtzma’ut and Yom Yerushalayim, Tachanun is observed to be said in the Yeshiva and Chassidic communities. I saw it brought down in the Sefer Nitei Gavriel (on Hilchot Purim) that there are some who do not say Tachanun from the 23rd of Adar onwards (as they are the 7 days Milu’im of the Mishkan). For final psak, please consult your L.O.R.

    in reply to: Segula of saying tehilim purim night. #857525
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    It may be that these mekorot are referring to the night into Shushan Purim. IMHO the Elya Rabba does not mention drinking on Megilla Night.

    in reply to: Segula of saying tehilim purim night. #857521
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    There is no mitzvah, no inyan whatsoever to drink on Leyl Purim. I don’t know where people got this from, but I have theories and I am reluctant to share them here.

    Saying Tehillim immediately after Chatzos HaLyla is great, for its own sake.

    in reply to: At-Home Haircuts #856973
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    Sorry — I go to my (frum) barber and he does a wonderful job. Even if he’s away/on vacation, I would rather wait. He knows how to cut around my payos, etc…

    Plus, I know that in a way, I am contributing to his parnassah, etc…

    My 2 cents worth …

    in reply to: What country besides US and UK are you from? #853546
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    Canada

    in reply to: New news story- OTD Lakewood woman with 4 kids wants custody #857223
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    Hi Health: “Acc. to a Sefer I saw -Gilgul is only for men. Women get one chance and that’s it.”

    I am not sure which Sefer you are referring to, but women can have multiple Gilgulim; e.g., Yael (in Nach) went through multiple Gilgulim (Gilgulei HaNeshamot of R’ Yehezkel and Sefer Gilgulei Neshamot of Rama MiPano)

    in reply to: Number of Participants in the Coffee Room #921832
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    600,000 — We all needed a cup of coffee to keep awake at Har Sinai

    in reply to: Prepare For Next Shabbos When Cleaning Up From Last! #851302
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    1. Rolling up the Shir HaShirim Klaf (if I didn’t on Friday before Shkia)

    2. Folding and putting away Shabbos Tallis

    3. Brushing & Folding Shabbos suit, shoes, etc…

    4. Running the dishwasher of Shabbos dishes

    in reply to: Dweck = Kohen #850260
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    Hi Y.T. and Great Bear:

    People emigrate, so it’s possible to have Shapiros and Narbonis that are Sephardim. There is also a variation called Shapira which is close to the Hebrew word Shafra (as Y.T. said). Shafra means beautiful (as Y.T. said) and is found in Tehillim, Chapter 16, Verse 7

    in reply to: Dweck = Kohen #850255
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    It’s not so clear. I know of two men (Ashkenazi) with the last name Cohen who are not Cohanim (they are Yisroelim). I know of a fellow whose last name is Levy and he is a Cohen. I also know of someone who has last name is Levy and he is a Yisroel.

    As for Shapiro; my understanding is that it comes from Speyer; one of the original 3 cities along the Rhineland in Germany during the time of Rash”i and Tosafot. That might explain why there are Shapiros who are Cohanim and Yisroelim. (I haven’t met Leviim with that last name).

    Among Moroccan Jews, you can be fairly certain that the last name Cohen is a Cohen and that Levy is Levy (personal experience). What I found interesting is that the last name Serfati/Sarfati/Serfaty, etc… is prominent (among Moroccans). Serfati means French (or Frenchmen) and in some sources was the last name adopted by Rabbenu Tam. Yet everyone I spoke with doesn’t seem to see any Yichus to Rabbenu Tam (and by extension to Rash”i).

    in reply to: Segulah almost guaranteed to work #849476
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    I.M.H.O., Sefer Tehillim should be said regularly for its own sake. Of course specific chapters are meant to be said for Refuah, etc… And intentions aside, the mere recitation of Tehillim and pesukim may fall in the Geder of Limud Torah which is a constant mitzvah.

    in reply to: If you could choose� #1004215
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    “And does turning invisible include the ability to walk through walls, etc.?”

    Then you would probably fall through the floors …

    in reply to: Yehudah Tzvi UPDATE #847292
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    YehudahTzvi — Hang in there. I know what it feels like to be squeezed into a hard place. It has happened to me a few times.

    You mentioned the two choices for surgery. Are there any other options available? What if you do not opt for the surgery, then what? Can the sepsis be potentially controlled?

    Moderator — Is there a way for me to contact YehudahTzvi outside this forum?

    in reply to: Serious BT problem – Please help. #846920
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    Hi YT: First, I’m sorry to hear about your father’s passing. Secondly, concerning your mother; Does she have siblings? What do they think about this recent development? Does your mother think that this is what your father (A”H) wanted after his passing? Thirdly, What of this non-Jewish friend? Does he show an interest in Yiddishkeit? Do you think he would want to convert? What about your children? Did/Can they express their feelings about this?

    in reply to: What's black and white and yellow all over? #865527
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    There might be an inyan I believe to have Tallaism cleaned or washed for Rosh HaShanna and for Pesach.

    Tallaism, in my humble opinion shouldn’t be worn for Kiddush after davening on Shabbos/Yom Tov, only for Tefilla.

    Tallaism should be worn for Mincha (but that’s another thread altogether — no pun intended).

    Shticky Guy — Tallaism are not D’Var Sheb’Kedusha. They are D’Var Shel Mitzvah. Tefillin are D’Var Sheb’Kedusha.

    Some have the practice to buy a new Tallis at a lifecycle event — Bris Mila, Chassuna of a child, birth of a grandchild.

    Twisted — very interesting. On a related topic, it is know that the late Satmar Rebbe, Rav Yoel Teitelbaum, ZTVK”L would wear the same kittel on Yom Kippur as the one he wore on Pesach Seder night. The Kiddush/Matzah/Charoset stains would “act as a defense attorney in front of the Heavenly Court” of his involvement in Mitzvohs here below.

    in reply to: Yehudah Tzvi UPDATE #847289
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    Hi Yehudah Tzvi: Drop us a line to let us know how you are doing. Praying for your Refuah & Yeshua. R.T.

    in reply to: Yehudah Tzvi UPDATE #847285
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    Reb Yehudah Tzvi:

    Please, pleae, don’t give up hope. I continue to keep you in mind (BTW — You are very close to my age) and I wish I could speak to you personally and offer some verbal encouragement, but logistics seem to direct otherwise…. My wife is also battling severe depression. Please keep me posted through this forum.

    in reply to: Yehudah Tzvi UPDATE #847282
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    Reb Yehudah Tzvi:

    I hope you are feeling better. I will continue to pray for your Refuah. I completed a Pidyon Nefesh/Tehillim in your name. Bracha V’Hatzlacha.

    in reply to: swallowing pills #844552
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    Hi a_m: Try putting them in yoghurt or pudding or apple/fruit sauce. Swallowing a spoonful of the above with the pill embedded in it might help.

    in reply to: Yehudah Tzvi UPDATE #847257
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    YehudahTzvi: I’m sorry to hear the latest. I feel your pain. Please, never give up hope. I will Bli Neder take upon myself to fast one day during the week and pray for your Refuah. Can you supply me your full Hebrew name?

    in reply to: Shaimos #842020
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    Hi YehudahTzvi and Syag Lchochma.

    It’s difficult to say without seeing it, but I know that the Pesach book by Rabbi Blumenkrantz has a page at the front/back respectfully asking that it be treated as Shaimos and not thrown out. They even have an address to mail it to if you don’t have Shaimos deposits in your area. Now this book that I speak of does not appear to have Shem HaShem or much writing in Lashon HaKodesh.

    Breslov Pamphlets usually have Tikkun HaKlali (the 10 Tehillim) printed in the back, so I think that definitely has to be treated as Shaimos.

    Literatue that has Shem HaShem (even not Lishmah) has to be buried.

    Most Shuls in my area have Shaimos rooms that allow people to drop off their stuff and Erev Pesach, a truck comes by to collect what people have.

    Concerning books written by Reform, etc… (pure English) — it may be possible to donate them, make it Hefker (leave it out on your curb) in a box clearly marked, etc… I don’t know without seeing the contents, etc…

    Hope this helps.

    in reply to: YehudaTzvi? #886455
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    Thanks YehudahTzvi. I’ve had many late starts in my life and every day is a new start. I started exercising ~ 9 months ago. One of the best decisions I made. All the Best

    in reply to: YehudaTzvi? #886452
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    YehudahTzvi — A Refuah Shlaima and a Refuah Krova! Happy to hear you’re feeling better. Hatzlacha with you exercise!

    in reply to: Does Anyone Else Find This Short Story Disturbing? #840726
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    I will never forget what happened about a decade ago. I (and another unrelated person) were on a flight from Tel Aviv to Toronto. It was not a direct flight, there was a stopover in London. Due to an unusual winter storm in London, all flights were cancelled that night. This happened on a Thursday Night in late March of that year. We had no choice but to get flights out of London on Sunday mid-day. Suffice it to say, this gentleman and I did not have provisions for Shabbos. We headed to Golders Green and booked a hotel room for Friday Night until Sunday Morning. We managed to get a few items from a local grocer for Shabbos; cold cuts, tuna, some grape juice, etc… Both of us arrived to (I believe) Munk’s Shul for Mincha and Kabbolos Shabbos. We sat down (somewhat separately) and a few people came over to each of us inquiring about where we were from. Explaining to them that we were stuck here from a winter-cancelled flight, each of us received invitations (immediately) to have dinner and Shabbos Lunch by two separate families. I will always remember the true Chessed that we both experienced by these families and by the Golders Green community.

    in reply to: Embarrassed #840883
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    Thank you Health. I am quite familiar with Bein HaSedarim. I saw this video. It disturbs me. Do you know why? I saw rows of men around the building, some of them smoking (which is highly questionnable by the Gedolim), some of them using cell phones (again, the Gedolim frown upon this), etc…. I didn’t see anyone saying Tehillim, or reading a paragraph of a mussar sefer, or looking over something less rigorous than Shas while ‘free time’ was taking place.

    in reply to: Embarrassed #840881
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    “Ridiculous -they are taking a recess from the learning in the Yeshiva”

    Recess? What’s that? There’s a heter for recess from learning? Is that in the Shulchan Aruch? Mishna Brura? Aruch HaShulchan? Acharonim? Please enlighten me.

    in reply to: Cherry Cheesecake #839985
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    Sorry, my mistake — Soliek has similar tastes. Maybe BTGuy does as well.

    in reply to: Cherry Cheesecake #839984
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    Hi BTGuy. Delicious, wasn’t it? It appears we have similar tastes.

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    This examination contains 2 sections.

    You have 3 hours to complete the entire examination.

    When you have finished section A, you may turn the page to section B.

    It is better to provide complete solutions to a few problems than to offer scattered comments on many.

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    Best of Luck.

    in reply to: Why are people mean??? #840536
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    Was the victim wearing a colored shirt? Jeans? Not Tznius enough?

    Seriously though; it is very rude. Even though it could have been an accident, a more sympathetic/sincere apology would heve been at least the minimum to be offered, not to mention assist in finding the blown hat.

    HaShem Yerachem

    in reply to: Already Missing Chanukah! ;-( #913752
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    Hi Moishy:

    Well, there are Shabbasos, Rosh Chodesh, Tu B’Shvat, Purim/Shushan Purim … to look forward to.

    in reply to: Techeiles 🔵❎🐌☑️🐟 #1057549
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    Hi zvei dinim. Thanks for your response. However, it’s not so clear.

    The Mechaber (Shulchan Aruch, Siman Tet, Saif Heh) seems to indicate the validity of colored Tzitzis on a Tallis with a the same said color, but the Rama is concerned:

    ???: ????????? ??? ?????? ????? ?????? ?? ?????, ?? ?????? ??????, ???? ?????

    and the ???? ????? ???? ? ?”? ?? rules:

    ?? ?????? ?????? – ?”? ???? ?????? ????? ???? ?’ ????? ?? ?”? ??? ??? ????? ??? ??? ??? ?????? ?????? ????? ?? ???? ????? ??????? ???? ???? ??? ???? ???? ???? ???? ??????? ???? ??? ???? ???? ??????:

    The Mishna Brura is stating that to be Yotzei all the opinions … Could he be hinting to that Tosefta which disqualifies any dye, save for Lavan and true Techeiles?

    I don’t know …. Tzarich Iyun.

    in reply to: Embarrassed #840849
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    “One more than 1 occasion I have been not counted for a Minyan, (presumably) due to me wearing a colored shirt.”

    Sam2 — I am so sorry to hear about that situation. I know what you mean since I had a similar reaction years back (not with davening) but with learning/chavrusa. I won’t forget that incident, that showed me the true colors (no pun intended) about some so called “frum” people in this world.

    Olam HaFuch — What is wholesome became turned around and what is suspicious became honorable.

    in reply to: Techeiles 🔵❎🐌☑️🐟 #1057547
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    While I am by no means an expert on the subject, I have been researching Techeiles for about 10 years now.

    I have come up with 2 major reasons why a significant segment of our population do not hold of Techeiles:

    1) There is a Tosefta in the back of Masechet Menachos that seems to imply that anything other than Techeiles or Lavan on the Tzitzit pasuls the entire Tzitzis/Beged. In other words anything on the Tzitzis which is not true Techeiles would be (in my humble understanding) the same as placing Klai Ilan (which we know from Chazal as forbidden). So many may be Chosesh for this stringency.

    2) Something that resurfaces after a significant Hefsek in time is considered suspect since the mesorah that deals with the issue was not used/applied in the intervening time. It’s almost a similar issue with eating turkey. Some families do eat turkey and some families do not. Why? Those families that do not eat turkey may simply have had no mesora from earlier generations to compare the simanim of kosher birds to the turkey, and apply it.

    I too have observed that those who wear Techeiles seem to be more Mizrachi/Eretz Yisroel oriened whereas those that do not are Agudas Yisroel oriented.

    What is also interesting to note is that Klai Ilan is mostly the vegetable dye called Indigo or 2,2′-Bis(2,3-dihydro-3-oxoindolyliden). The extract from the gastropod mollusk called Murex Trunculus is a dye (which many call Techeiles) is actually a compound containing 6,6-dibromoindigo, somewhat similar to Tyrian Purple.

    in reply to: Purim… #850655
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    Hi sem20, BTGuy: Funny you should mention this …

    I was actually looking over my Megillah before Chanukah started in case it needs corrections (by the Sofer). As for Pesach; I have been thinking about that since Shabbos Bereishis.

    in reply to: Exercise!! #838782
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    Ab crunches, bicep curls, push-ups and pull-ups. Sometimes, bench-presses. I enjoy walking.

    in reply to: What do you do Shabbos Afternoon #838726
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    Depending on the time/season of the year, I usually try to cover Pirkei Avot, Sefer Daniel, Sefer Mishlei, Sefer Iyov as well as daily Tehillim, Sefer Yetzira, Otzrot Chaim. A nap is nice if time permits.

    in reply to: Embarrassed #840829
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    mikehall12382 — You said it. You took the words right out of my mouth.

    I am quite disappointed at all this, not just this specific incident, but our behaviour collectively; the crimes that are committed, the militant behaviour, and what’s worse; all in the name of Yiddishkeit. And you think the non-Jews don’t notice all this? And HaKadosh Baruch Hu wants to answer our prayers? When we can get our act together, then maybe we will merit to see our prayers answered. What? The Navi told us (Haftorah for Shabbos Chazon) that G-d doesn’t want sacrifices from people who trample in the Temple, G-d wants us to be good to each other. There is a halakhic issue of Tznius? (Which I don’t think there is) Nevertheless, there are proper channels and mechanisms to address this issue. Not spitting, or slapping, or whatever physical action comes to mind by a few Hooligans.

    Wake up — don’t we see all the tragedies from natural disasters taking place; floods, earthquakes, tsunamis, famines — literally earth shattering events. Don’t you think HaShem is sending us a message? You want to dismiss it because that’s taking place in Africa, East Asia? Don’t you think G-d wants us to do sincere repentance, improve our behaviour and change for the better?

    I could go on about this, but I think the point is clear …

    in reply to: jeans #839095
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    Really, paskening from Hamlet? Now that’s fantastic. Honestly, I think it might be the other way around. Lots of criminals hide behind the white shirts, etc…

    in reply to: jeans #839093
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    What aveira is there by wearing jeans? Please enlighten me.

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