If anyone wants to do something real for the soldiers neshamos, there is a beautiful website by Yizkereim Olami called Honor Israel’s Fallen. This website allows you to choose a soldier, do something in their zechus, and write something to their family. You can filter by soldiers who were never honored or by families who want to be notified when their fallen brothers, sons, and husbands are honored. It’s a great zechus to honor these soldiers, some of who were Holocaust survivors from the War of Independence who had no surviving family to remember them.