So, Rabbi Perfect you don’t feel that you have an obligation to marry and raise a family. Your mentors feel that you do but you are not prepared to accept their advice at the cost of having to pay the bills. I imagine the could sell you on the concept of marriage if comes along with a large bank account and long term support. Of course you weren’t looking for a poor peasant, but if we can convince you to make money your first priority we will be on our way to solving the crisis.