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  • in reply to: chesed car rides #1216317
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    Winnie, what we do is that he sits in the back and my friend and I talk as if his not in the car. By now I am sure he understands that he is nowhere close to having the chance to date me or my friend. But my question is, is this allowed or what can we do to make the situation more tznius?

    in reply to: speeding tickets #1217254
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    Avram, I need to slow down and it is very hard when others are going much faster than you and are speeding around you. If I did get a ticket it was from a camera not the cop his or her self.

    in reply to: chesed car rides #1216315
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    Joseph, it is a chesed to help boys who are having a hard time with yidishkeit and are finally returning to their lost roots.

    in reply to: chesed car rides #1216291
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    YungermanS, would it be tznius for me to give him the car keys and let him drive instead of me? Would that make it more tznius? And I sit in the back with my friend that sometimes comes with us?

    in reply to: I Heard in a Shiur Today�… #1216254
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    I had a very hard day today, so I missed my shiur today. Gam zu letova!

    in reply to: chesed car rides #1216289
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    This is a whole new issue compared to the other persons.

    in reply to: What's a Bungalow Colony? #1219088
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    yehudayona, I am not from New York so why would I know more than lightbrite what bungalow colonies are?

    in reply to: What's a Bungalow Colony? #1219062
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    I would hope you know what a bungalow colony is unless your from a 3rd world country. People go there in the somewhere as a gateway.

    in reply to: meeting the shadchan #1215362
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    Very nice takahmamash! iyh soon by me.

    in reply to: meeting the shadchan #1215359
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    Do shadchanim have any concern for the people they set up or I am just on their check off list that they talked to me and have a nice day? The shadchan I called answers people right away. Is that a good sign?

    in reply to: meeting the shadchan #1215358
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    Lilmod, I am not sure if your post is referring to me since I am not a baal teshuva and I do have a rav. Who is your post referring to?

    in reply to: High school diplomas #1214897
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    High school are the best years of a persons live, live it and love it.

    in reply to: High school diplomas #1214896
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    Lilmod, other posts I read that you wrote you said you were an older single, so how do you have kids? You said “my daughters teen”?

    in reply to: How to stick out school? #1216148
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    Jhonny, even I did not show up to school. I missed so much that they did not even realize that I left. They thought it was me gone for another few days and going to come back a few days later, so good for you.

    rebshidduch
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    Everything works out in the end, Hashem makes sure that those who really deserve A get those A and those that deserve those B get those B. I had a similar issue in my college where I could not finish everything, so I did whatever I could and I had a very good teacher who gave me the A and understood me.

    in reply to: Problem #1215987
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    Buy stuff on sale.

    in reply to: High school diplomas #1214887
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    Jhonny, a lot does not mean everyone. The GEDers, including myself, say they regret leaving high school early even if they spent a nice good few years during high school in college. Those years are years you spend all to your self and have friends with you. There the best years of your life, do not ruin them.

    in reply to: High school diplomas #1214884
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    Teens do not appreciate high school until its too late.

    in reply to: High school diplomas #1214879
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    Johnny, what will you do when your older and in the real world? You wont always get what you want.

    in reply to: High school diplomas #1214871
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    How did this go from talking about high school drop outs to lawyers? Can we stick to the topic?

    in reply to: shidduch advice #1218164
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    Does anyone know anything about eshas lapidus? I know their located in Lakewood. What about the shadchanim there, are they any good? How many shadchanim should I meet if I am going to go to Lakewood for the day just for shadchanim and come back the same day?

    in reply to: shidduch advice #1218163
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    Meno, I am not looking to joke around or for trolls on here, I am looking for honest opinions.

    in reply to: High school diplomas #1214868
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    In law I am pretty sure no matter what you need to be on the side of your client, right CTlawyer?

    in reply to: shidduch advice #1218161
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    No, obviously someone learning now full time and wants to learn in kollel.

    in reply to: shidduch advice #1218159
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    Any recommendations of shadchanim in lakewood that deal with kollel boys?

    in reply to: High school diplomas #1214845
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    Jhonny, even tho the jobs may not require a high school diploma, the diploma is for your own good. Everyone needs an education, you want to be on the same playing field as others and not below their level.

    in reply to: High school diplomas #1214844
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    I think, Daas Yochid, johnny meant that she does not want someone who does not want her for who she is as a person and that is okay because I am the same way. I want a kollel boy who is looking for a girl like me, not like he wants me to fit a certain mold and if I do not fit it, he does not want me.

    in reply to: High school diplomas #1214839
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    Also, baisyaakovliberal, jhonny will have the ability to go onto college with a GED. Without a high school education, there is not much she can do like how you said. There are many people who leave high school and go to college with a GED because of similar reasons to jhonny and they do very well there.

    in reply to: High school diplomas #1214838
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    I agree with you, jhonny. But, education is for your own good not for others. It does not matter if your a doctor and your husband is a nurse. What matters is you, not others, when it comes to education.

    in reply to: High school diplomas #1214833
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    Do not drop out of school I just read your post about your life story and you would most likely regret the decision. You will not be able to do anything with your life. Ask your teachers what you can do to make up for your bad grades. Set off on a positive foot not negative foot. Work harder in school make new friends look at everything that you will miss looking back in another 3 years. Look at all those chumash, navi, parsha, ivrit, etc wonderful classes that you will never be able to get again.

    in reply to: shidduch advice #1218154
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    What should you do if the shadchan is very big and very busy and doesnt answer?

    in reply to: shidduch advice #1218136
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    Any good shadchanim in lakewood that works with boys learning full time?

    in reply to: shidduch advice #1218134
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    Thank you for all the advice. In the end as of right now i will be postponing the dating until mid June.

    in reply to: shidduch advice #1218131
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    What is a good time to call the shadchan?

    in reply to: shidduch advice #1218129
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    Is an email message enough for the shadchan? Would they set you up or just ignore the email because they have so many others?

    in reply to: shidduch advice #1218128
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    What should you do if the shadchan doesnt answer? Should you leave a message? What should the message say?

    in reply to: Being makpid on looks #1210151
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    Its not tznius to look at a girl. People should not be makpid on looks because then it will make you have a harder time getting married.

    in reply to: shidduch advice #1218126
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    Is it okay for a 20 year old girl to call a shadchan whos a rabbi about setting her up? Are there any suggestions for good shadchanim that i can call? What should i say when i talk to the shadchan?

    in reply to: Making fun of college degrees that won't get you a job #1209468
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    There are plenty of art degrees that will make money.

    in reply to: Girlz and Guyz #1209436
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    Yes it is an issue. Its equivalent to having a boyfriend. Would you go out and hang out with guys? If not then stop your relationship.

    in reply to: Annoying shadchanim and boys! #1209250
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    Maybe try calling the shadchan to remind her?

    in reply to: jewish books #1216859
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    Did anyone read the balancing act? I need to wait to read emunah with love and chicken soup since they dont have it at the library right now.

    in reply to: shidduch advice #1218124
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    Thank you for the advice. I will email my resume what should i say?

    in reply to: shidduch advice #1218118
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    Can i send my resume to the shadchan without calling first? Do i need to call or can i just send my resume?

    in reply to: shidduch advice #1218117
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    Is it really that bad if im 20 and still not dating? Whats your opinion on that? Im getting scared that im still not married?

    in reply to: shidduch advice #1218116
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    But i really want to work with someone who works with finding kollel guys i am not interested in marrying someone who learns and works. Do they work with this kind of thing?

    in reply to: shidduch advice #1218114
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    Do you have to pay for it because i dont have money for that?

    in reply to: shidduch advice #1218112
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    I get nervous to be on the phone and get scared i wont know what to say.

    in reply to: shidduch advice #1218111
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    Thats why i was asking for a mentor because i need someone to help me get prepared.

    in reply to: A posek can tell you who to marry #1210234
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    A posek is not Hashem. I will allow Hashem to send me a sign of who my basheret is.

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