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March 3, 2017 3:26 am at 3:26 am in reply to: marrying a good boy who might not be good enough for you #1220729

rebshidduch
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Meno, he never smoked.

March 3, 2017 2:12 am at 2:12 am in reply to: marrying a good boy who might not be good enough for you #1220725

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Winnie, then you will not know.

March 2, 2017 8:26 am at 8:26 am in reply to: Bochurim who smoke #1220361

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Bochur, no offense but I would never date a guy who smoked.

March 2, 2017 3:36 am at 3:36 am in reply to: learning boys and saw you at sinai #1220382

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Winnie, there are no “like minded people” like me. I do whatever I want.

March 1, 2017 9:40 pm at 9:40 pm in reply to: Shidduchim for those with a past #1220331

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long island, are you sure they will not work with girls from more modern families?

March 1, 2017 2:16 am at 2:16 am in reply to: marrying a good boy who might not be good enough for you #1220720

rebshidduch
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winnie and lilmod, I will let you know iyh how our relationship goes. Likewise, I will always tell you all about the learning boys I am going out with iyh.

February 28, 2017 4:48 am at 4:48 am in reply to: marrying a good boy who might not be good enough for you #1220717

rebshidduch
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Lilmod, I can not change who I am around during the day. Do you have any advice on how to change that?

February 28, 2017 2:22 am at 2:22 am in reply to: Shidduchim for those with a past #1220315

rebshidduch
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bochur, how did you hide it so well and why are you so concerned then?

February 28, 2017 2:20 am at 2:20 am in reply to: marrying a good boy who might not be good enough for you #1220710

rebshidduch
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bmyer, I think it is because other girls tell me it is okay to be around him.

February 28, 2017 2:19 am at 2:19 am in reply to: marrying a good boy who might not be good enough for you #1220709

rebshidduch
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bmyer, he became frum again.

February 28, 2017 12:49 am at 12:49 am in reply to: marrying a good boy who might not be good enough for you #1220703

rebshidduch
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bmyer, just recently like the same way that we started hanging out all of a sudden even tho I said no guys anymore.

February 28, 2017 12:45 am at 12:45 am in reply to: marrying a good boy who might not be good enough for you #1220701

rebshidduch
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lilmod, were both in our 20s and it is not like were children. There is nothing wrong with us dating. The ONLY problem is that I want someone learning full time.

February 28, 2017 12:33 am at 12:33 am in reply to: marrying a good boy who might not be good enough for you #1220697

rebshidduch
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lilmod, I think I was convinced into starting to date him and his friends. So the question is what should I do now? If I still want someone learning full time?

February 27, 2017 10:16 pm at 10:16 pm in reply to: marrying a good boy who might not be good enough for you #1220694

rebshidduch
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bymer, I am asking should I date him if he comes back on? As in do you see any signs of him returning to being religious?

February 27, 2017 10:14 pm at 10:14 pm in reply to: Providing rides as chesed #1219538

rebshidduch
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yungerman, I thought he said he does have a car?

February 27, 2017 10:14 pm at 10:14 pm in reply to: Shidduchim for those with a past #1220308

rebshidduch
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theshver, the funny part is that I definitely do give guys a chance to date girls who never went off. So much so that I date guys who did. So how am I being judgmental?

February 27, 2017 10:12 pm at 10:12 pm in reply to: Shidduchim for those with a past #1220307

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Future, I am not saying that it is not good that he came back on. In fact I am saying that it is good that he did. But, once again I know guys who went off and came back on and I have the right to tell people not to date those kinds of guys who went off because their both in different boats. One saw the real world and the other did not and so they have different understandings of life.

February 27, 2017 9:35 pm at 9:35 pm in reply to: marrying a good boy who might not be good enough for you #1220692

rebshidduch
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bmyer, but I do think the guy has potential based off the fact that he lately started to hang out with more religious friends. Also he learns like a normal frum guy. Also the way I see him is that in like 2 years even if we did not date he would be ready for girls as frum as me because his becoming much more religious.

February 27, 2017 9:27 pm at 9:27 pm in reply to: marrying a good boy who might not be good enough for you #1220691

rebshidduch
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bmyer, the better boys that go to good yeshivas and are much more religious.

February 27, 2017 9:12 pm at 9:12 pm in reply to: marrying a good boy who might not be good enough for you #1220689

rebshidduch
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bmyer, that is too hard for me since I like other guys also. But all I will say is that I will do my hishtadlus and go to shadchanim and hopefully one of those guys will be my guy.

February 27, 2017 9:04 pm at 9:04 pm in reply to: Shidduchim for those with a past #1220303

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theshver, for sure go say that to all the frummed out guys who went OTD and went on drugs and got tattoos.

February 27, 2017 8:45 pm at 8:45 pm in reply to: marrying a good boy who might not be good enough for you #1220687

rebshidduch
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bmyer, but how should I go about it? I was thinking about asking someone else to tell him to stop? (as in another guy?)

February 27, 2017 8:44 pm at 8:44 pm in reply to: Shidduchim for those with a past #1220300

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bmyer, I agree 100% never know why the person went off and what they will be up to next.

February 27, 2017 7:41 pm at 7:41 pm in reply to: Providing rides as chesed #1219536

rebshidduch
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Just offer rides to people, do not be insulted.

February 27, 2017 7:40 pm at 7:40 pm in reply to: marrying a good boy who might not be good enough for you #1220685

rebshidduch
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DaMoshe, no, I want someone learning full time.

February 27, 2017 7:38 pm at 7:38 pm in reply to: Shidduchim for those with a past #1220298

rebshidduch
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bochur, but your not a typical yeshivish boy since you went off and experienced stuff others have not.

February 27, 2017 2:35 pm at 2:35 pm in reply to: Friends in different grades #1219564

rebshidduch
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Winnie, also do not forget that if someone does not want to be friends with her because of her other friends, their not her real friends.

February 27, 2017 5:21 am at 5:21 am in reply to: Best Jewish Singer #1219058

rebshidduch
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Burnt steak, Alex clare is not a Jewish singer. Did you mean he recently became a baal teshuva?

February 27, 2017 4:31 am at 4:31 am in reply to: Shidduch resume #1218979

rebshidduch
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YW MOD 25, there were some boys that were looking for a girl my type on here.

February 27, 2017 4:29 am at 4:29 am in reply to: Shidduch resume #1218978

rebshidduch
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YW mod 25, what are shadow puppets? You would get the shadchanus if you make a shidduch for me if your the shadchan you get it.

February 27, 2017 4:25 am at 4:25 am in reply to: shidduchim calls #1219337

rebshidduch
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Sure, why not?

February 27, 2017 4:25 am at 4:25 am in reply to: Friends in different grades #1219561

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jhonny, do not hang out with the wrong crowd.

February 27, 2017 3:21 am at 3:21 am in reply to: marrying a good boy who might not be good enough for you #1220682

rebshidduch
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bmyer, so you think he never will be religious?

February 27, 2017 3:20 am at 3:20 am in reply to: tznius and nail salons #1219355

rebshidduch
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Lilmod, I like your list. b’h I talked to some shadchanim tonight and will be meeting a bunch on Sunday iyh and now the guy must leave me alone. Do you think he will when he finds out I am dating a boy who wants to learn full time?

February 27, 2017 3:18 am at 3:18 am in reply to: Shidduchim for those with a past #1220280

rebshidduch
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bmyer, I am not saying that he should give in. I was saying he needs to understand the girls also.

February 27, 2017 12:27 am at 12:27 am in reply to: Shidduchim for those with a past #1220277

rebshidduch
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bymer, I understand where he is coming from. I also am in a similar situation just different since it is for other reasons rather than having a past since I do not have a past of not being religious.

February 27, 2017 12:05 am at 12:05 am in reply to: marrying a good boy who might not be good enough for you #1220680

rebshidduch
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lilmod, he already went to yeshiva for close to 5 years and he still is not that religious.

February 27, 2017 12:03 am at 12:03 am in reply to: Shidduchim for those with a past #1220275

rebshidduch
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bmyer, I agree.

February 26, 2017 10:47 pm at 10:47 pm in reply to: Shidduchim for those with a past #1220268

rebshidduch
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Bochur, yes because their is a chance she will become fat again and she is more likely than someone who was skinny always to become fat again.

February 26, 2017 10:26 pm at 10:26 pm in reply to: Friends in different grades #1219558

rebshidduch
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I agree with the wolf, they are obviously not the right friends.

February 26, 2017 10:25 pm at 10:25 pm in reply to: Shidduchim for those with a past #1220266

rebshidduch
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Bochur, it is totally fair. Just because someone did not finish high school and they are very good frum girls they are not marrying the kinds of guys who want girls who finished high school so too and even more so when the girl did something wrong like go off the derech.

February 26, 2017 9:57 pm at 9:57 pm in reply to: marrying a good boy who might not be good enough for you #1220677

rebshidduch
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bmyer, funny part is the bochur is posting about his past and then their are girls like me going out with guys with a past and then he thinks I am the only frum girl who never went off that would do that.

February 26, 2017 9:56 pm at 9:56 pm in reply to: Shidduchim for those with a past #1220264

rebshidduch
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Bochur, I am sure their are other guys who have a past and now their very frum and then they are girls being like me who are okay and do not have a past and are willing to date them, that is me. If you read my other thread then you would see that I was asking about a guy who even has a tattoo and came back on and learns full time.

February 26, 2017 2:58 am at 2:58 am in reply to: marrying a good boy who might not be good enough for you #1220674

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Burnt steak, I thought you were talking about the guy that were talking about and what his response would be if I asked if he was planning on learning full time.

February 26, 2017 12:04 am at 12:04 am in reply to: marrying a good boy who might not be good enough for you #1220673

rebshidduch
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bmyer, he claims he started recently learning more Gemera and then he tells me how he wishes to become a rabbi. He shares what he learnt with me and then asks for my input. Is this good or bad?

February 24, 2017 5:26 am at 5:26 am in reply to: marrying a good boy who might not be good enough for you #1220668

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Burnt steak, amen. Are you planning on learning full time?

February 24, 2017 5:25 am at 5:25 am in reply to: Shidduch resume #1218974

rebshidduch
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What about all the cool stuff about me on my shidduch resume?

February 24, 2017 3:23 am at 3:23 am in reply to: marrying a good boy who might not be good enough for you #1220666

rebshidduch
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Whatever Hashem wants to happen will happen. Hopefully I will find the right guy soon – amen.

February 23, 2017 4:10 pm at 4:10 pm in reply to: marrying a good boy who might not be good enough for you #1220657

rebshidduch
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Lilmod, do what?

February 23, 2017 3:32 pm at 3:32 pm in reply to: Is a Boy Looking to Date a Girl or a Chavrusah? #1218093

rebshidduch
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In my case a chevrusa.
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