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rebshidduchParticipant
How about 6 years older?
rebshidduchParticipantMeno, because I like him okay?
rebshidduchParticipantLilmod, it is very hard for single girls to know that a MO guy really likes her and not to give him a chance just because his MO his still a Jew.
rebshidduchParticipantLilmod, because I feel like she was expecting me to date a different type of guy not this kind of guy.
rebshidduchParticipantBy not talking to boys.
rebshidduchParticipantRebYidd, very good point which I was very concerned with. But it is okay so I can be friends with guys also same way he is friends with girls.
rebshidduchParticipantMeno, haha. Not even close.
rebshidduchParticipantLilmod, I have had issues like this in the past. At first I regretted. Later, as a single I stopped regretting it and was like if other girls have husbands why cant I have a boyfriend which is a potential husband?
rebshidduchParticipantWinnie, because he told me to marry a more modern guy and he asked to become friends with me.
rebshidduchParticipantLilmod, sure I will have the guy call you as a reference for me iyh.
rebshidduchParticipantLilmod, I agree that in the beginning I was concerned about this. Now I think it has gone too far like how you said and there is no going back unfortunately.
March 21, 2017 7:52 pm at 7:52 pm in reply to: You might be spending too much time in the CR if… #1241200rebshidduchParticipantWhen you keep posting as soon as you get home.
rebshidduchParticipantMeno, haha. I am in shidduchim now and it is hard enough as is. I do not need her making it harder for me.
rebshidduchParticipantyichusdik, I see where you are coming from. I am coming from a MO background once again. Maybe for the yeshivish people for someone my age there usually already either married or going out on shidduchim dates. I am going out with a boyfriend that is the only difference.
rebshidduchParticipantJoseph, I doubt it. Why would he do that?
rebshidduchParticipantMeno, it is non her business who I am dating and she does not need to know.
rebshidduchParticipantMeno, I do not know anyone else going besides me and her. I have tried telling her that but then she insists to wait for me on my way and I do not want her to be like why are you able to drive him but not me? Answer is your a girl and he might be my basheret but I do not want her to know that yet. She will find out as the relationship gets more serious.
rebshidduchParticipantLilmod, please stop insulting the guy I might soon start dating. I like him and am happy with him and he makes me happy so that is all that matters. His friend is going to start laughing when he finds out his friend is dating a close family friend because he cannot see us together. But then he will be like good for his friend for getting a good nice frum girl.
rebshidduchParticipantMeno, because she is out of the way. I am in shidduchim now and do not have the time like before to help her.
rebshidduchParticipantJoseph and Lilmod, I started this topic not about guys I was asking about how to tell a girl to stop coming with me because I do not want to give her rides. Instead you guys are trying to convince me not to date a certain guy. I may date him and personally it is non your business to tell me who to date and who not to date. So go back to the original topic and answer the question.
rebshidduchParticipantJewish way would probably be dating because courting are for the Christians.
rebshidduchParticipantLilmod, if someone has not Jewish music in there car no one “can make them” listen to it. So they did it on their own.
rebshidduchParticipantReb Yid, not yet. First we will iyh start dating and then she will find out.
rebshidduchParticipantLilmod, I see no aveirah there. Maybe I am mistaken?
rebshidduchParticipantLilmod, it happens to be we are family friends with his close friend. It also happens to be that he has come to my house before and has met my mother before.
rebshidduchParticipantLilmod, what aveirah are you referring to?
rebshidduchParticipantLilmod, I think you have a very wrong impression of him. He may have a tatoo, but that does not mean he is any less of a Jew than you or me. His neshama had a very hard road compared to yours or mine. Now, he is back on the derech looking for a beautiful precious Jewish girl to build a neman biyisroel with.
rebshidduchParticipantReb Yid, the best boys love serving Hashem.
rebshidduchParticipantMeno, I am over that phase. He does not need to learn full time. I want him because I see his beautiful neshama. He is a precious Jew just like me and you. His road may have been harder than yours or mine. He is a good Jewish boy with a precious neshama that had a hard life. His precious neshama deserves my precious neshama. We will iyh build a beautiful neman byisroel together.
rebshidduchParticipantLilmod, it was a joke. I only date the best of the best boys.
rebshidduchParticipantI guess I will be joining the list of shidduchim for those with a past.
March 20, 2017 12:35 am at 12:35 am in reply to: seminary for older girls who are still single #1239055rebshidduchParticipantLilmod, yes.
March 20, 2017 12:02 am at 12:02 am in reply to: Someone to whom you should consider sending mishloach manos (not kiruv/chesed) #1239037rebshidduchParticipantLilmod, why would you say he would not want me as a wive and only as a girlfriend?
March 19, 2017 11:58 pm at 11:58 pm in reply to: Someone to whom you should consider sending mishloach manos (not kiruv/chesed) #1239030rebshidduchParticipantLilmod, I meant to add to my last post that obviously Hashem did not want us to start dating right away. He wanted us to start at the right time which is now.
March 19, 2017 11:55 pm at 11:55 pm in reply to: Someone to whom you should consider sending mishloach manos (not kiruv/chesed) #1239027rebshidduchParticipantLilmod, I regret not telling him it was okay to date me from the beginning.
March 19, 2017 11:53 pm at 11:53 pm in reply to: Someone to whom you should consider sending mishloach manos (not kiruv/chesed) #1239015rebshidduchParticipantLilmod, from what it sounds like to you, your saying that you think he is looking for a girl friend and not a wive?
March 19, 2017 11:50 pm at 11:50 pm in reply to: seminary for older girls who are still single #1239016rebshidduchParticipantLilmod, because you said that it would be a good seminary for me.
March 19, 2017 10:51 pm at 10:51 pm in reply to: Someone to whom you should consider sending mishloach manos (not kiruv/chesed) #1238989rebshidduchParticipantLilmod, some people change their minds. Now I think he would be a great husband for me.
March 19, 2017 10:18 pm at 10:18 pm in reply to: seminary for older girls who are still single #1238973rebshidduchParticipantLilmod, you hit the snail on the head. Good for you.
March 19, 2017 10:15 pm at 10:15 pm in reply to: Someone to whom you should consider sending mishloach manos (not kiruv/chesed) #1238970rebshidduchParticipantLilmod, thank you. For me this is a good boy.
March 19, 2017 9:43 pm at 9:43 pm in reply to: Someone to whom you should consider sending mishloach manos (not kiruv/chesed) #1238931rebshidduchParticipantMeno, that is very insulting. It is B’H.
March 19, 2017 9:41 pm at 9:41 pm in reply to: seminary for older girls who are still single #1238933rebshidduchParticipantLilmod, are the students MO?
March 19, 2017 9:39 pm at 9:39 pm in reply to: Someone to whom you should consider sending mishloach manos (not kiruv/chesed) #1238929rebshidduchParticipantLilmod, I am a religious Jew. Someone like Meno will not work for me.
March 19, 2017 1:34 pm at 1:34 pm in reply to: Someone to whom you should consider sending mishloach manos (not kiruv/chesed) #1238464rebshidduchParticipantLilmod, I will have to admit it is. I know you will not approve but I am the one dating him not you.
March 19, 2017 10:52 am at 10:52 am in reply to: Someone to whom you should consider sending mishloach manos (not kiruv/chesed) #1238376rebshidduchParticipantLilmod, it does not matter if it is or is not.
March 17, 2017 6:08 pm at 6:08 pm in reply to: seminary for older girls who are still single #1237970rebshidduchParticipantJGS613, perfect timing. That is the seminary I am looking into now. How religious are they (they said modern orthodox but how modern?)? Is it good for a young girl who is in her young 20’s?
rebshidduchParticipantThis thing is much better than before I like the updates.
rebshidduchParticipantHow was your wedding?
March 17, 2017 6:01 pm at 6:01 pm in reply to: Someone to whom you should consider sending mishloach manos (not kiruv/chesed) #1237973rebshidduchParticipantMeno, I did not know that you were him. But you guys are completely different.
March 16, 2017 1:20 pm at 1:20 pm in reply to: seminary for older girls who are still single #1229593rebshidduchParticipantLilmod, those girls went to Shalhaves which is a program part of Neve. They did not go to the one meant for girls becoming religious. I am still in search of a seminary and badly want to go but Neve said I should go to one more religious. So the question is where should I go? I need one for girls past seminary age that never went to seminary.
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