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  • in reply to: Soferim Business #910828
    rebdoniel
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    Chinese people nowadays are mostly atheists, not akum. Most goyim in general aren’t considered ovdei kochavim.

    I haven’t read his teshuva, but it’s on his website.

    in reply to: Geveinas Akum #911249
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    It may even be worse than stealing from a Yid; see Hoshen Mishpat 348:2; Kitzur S”A 182:1 and the Ben Ish Hai on Ki Tetze.

    The Tosefta, Bava Kamma 10, says that if a yid cheats or steals from a goy and is murdered, his death provides no kappara because of the hillul HaShem and damage the yid caused.

    in reply to: Gerim needs a place to learn #911111
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    What are you going to do? Burn me at the stake, Popa Bar Torquemada?

    in reply to: Poorer People Bigger Tzadikm; Richer People Not Such Tzadikim #910852
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    Liberation Theology is to be found right in the Torah itself.

    We do express a preferential option for the poor, and the Gra believed that wisdom resides among the poor.

    Tehillim 37:11 says that the poor will inherit the earth, and Sukkah 29b says that among the 4 things for which someone’s property should be confiscated are gasut haruach and mistreatment of the poor, and the pasul from tehilim is there cited.

    Immediately following this is a discussion of lulav hagazul.

    This indicates that we hold ethics and social justice in high regard, right alongside ritual obligations.

    in reply to: Ibuprofen for Children – Kosher? #911311
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    Hakham Ovadia Yosef and R’ Chaim Ozer Grodzinski felt that gelatin was a davar hadash, which it is. R’ Yosef and the Rabbanut are fully matir its use in all cases.

    in reply to: Gerim needs a place to learn #911109
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    PBA,

    Regarding the bimah, there are quite a few Sephardi poskim who would disagree with that.

    Synagogue architecture was polemicized in the wake of Reform by those who claimed hadash assur min hatorah, to which I’d reply, ein chiddush gadol mi zeh.

    in reply to: When is it time to divorce? #911995
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    Laurie Puhn, mentioned above, is Jewish, a highly-regarded Marriage Mediator, and a Harvard-trained professional.

    I’d suggest seeking out someone educated through the Refuah Institute, or another frum mental health professional, with proper training and hashqafot.

    Divorce will damage your children. The kinderlach are never the same afterwards.

    in reply to: Ibuprofen for Children – Kosher? #911308
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    It depends on the nature and scope of the illness.

    A Choleh she’ain bo sakanah is allowed to take such medicine Aino reuii leachila adam or She’lo ki’derech achila

    Cough syrup is derech achila.

    Therefore, what I would do if I got sick would be take each teaspoon of cough syrup and mix it with 2 oz. of water or juice. You are allowed to be mevatel a safek issur, which is what the cough syrup is.

    in reply to: Gerim needs a place to learn #911105
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    Yes, mechitza is binding, because it is a minhag nitpashet, just like kippah.

    Yet nobody would claim kippah is a d’oraita (except the Shach who classifies it as part of lo selechu), and the Gra says there’s no hiyuv at all in kippah.

    When it is claimed that a minhag hanitpashet is a d’oraita, that is highly troubling and disturbing to me. Although this radical thinking was probably undertaken as an eis la’asos since it seems uncharacteristic of Reb Moshe’s thinking in general

    in reply to: Ibuprofen for Children – Kosher? #911304
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    Why would a medication need a hechsher?

    in reply to: Why do Litvish and Modern men always have their top shirt button open? #911136
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    Because it looks and feels better

    rebdoniel
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    I never ate sturgeon or swordfish, and I am not fully aware of the scientific facts.

    R’ Soloveitchik, it seems, held like the Knesset haGedolah. Italian and Moroccan Jews have a clear mesorah to eat it.

    Holding like Rav Soloveitchik hardly makes one a clown.

    And, I think there are very few people out there who hold like one rav on all things. The Rav urged his talmidim to think for themselves, which is why I doubt any of his talmidim eat Kraft Cheese (certainly not Rabbi Avi Weiss, shlita).

    The Rav believed in land for peace; I think this is a flawed argument halakhically. Yet, the Rov also had many unconventional chumros and frankly, some leniencies that I don’t chap. Rav Schachter himself says this.

    I would be the first to say that a chutznik in Israel needs to keep 2 days of yom tov, yet the Rav said they should keep a day and a half. His talmidim put up an eruv in Teaneck, which is not kosher. And he also allowed dairy bread without a heker (he said that the dairy hechsher on the bag is a heker), which goes against the Gemara.

    I don’t claim to slavishly follow any one authority. I follow a rational and reasonable reading of the halakha, in line with the intended meaning of Hazal and its codification in the Rambam and Shulchan Aruch.

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    It is SOO good. Reuben-style latkes (the goyim put sauerkraut, swiss, and Russian with corned beef).

    Another idea I had was to use latkes for fondue.

    in reply to: Gerim needs a place to learn #911103
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    You know that what I said about mechitza is perfectly logical.

    Is logic and the use of facts against your weltanschauung?

    rebdoniel
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    R’ Shachter says it’s ok to eat swordfish. If something is mutar, it’s mutar. If it’s assur, it’s assur.

    And, I will try ketchup on a latke this year. If ketchup is good on the frozen hash brown patties I buy during the year for Sunday breakfast, than it should be good on a latke, too.

    in reply to: Gerim needs a place to learn #911100
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    PBA,

    Why don’t you deal with the substantial arguments I make?

    rebdoniel
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    So if you say that sturgeon is treif, you’re defaming the Noda Bi Yehuda.

    rebdoniel
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    I made a typo. I personally wouldn’t eat sturgeon or swordfish, including their roe. If you read that sentence in its entirety and the logical structure, you’d see that I meant to write we don’t eat sturgeon caviar BUT:

    The Noda biYehuda pasqened that sturgeon was kosher (Mahadura Tinyana YD #28), even though they tried censoring this.

    And the Kenesset haGedolah pasqened that swordfish was kosher, and Rav Hershel Schachter has eaten it.

    in reply to: Salary Expectations in Chinuch #910687
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    I’d suggest getting a job in the public schools, but there is a hiring freeze.

    rebdoniel
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    Ii never had ketchup on a latke, but Ii do like ketchup on hash browns.

    in reply to: Gerim needs a place to learn #911098
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    If I wanted to get shtellers, I’d go to RIETS. I’d like to get private semicha eventually as a personal accomplishment, not a means of parnassa.

    in reply to: Gerim needs a place to learn #911097
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    YCT grads don’t get many senior rabbi positions at all. They mostly go into Hillel, hinukh at Pluralistic or community day schools, nonprofit work, chaplaincy, counseling, etc.

    in reply to: Getting married!! #910903
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    Mazal tov.

    My advice would be to cherish your kallah. And communicate well. Don’t bottle up your emotions or feelings. It is unhealthy and will only cause you to resent her. Openness and honesty are crucial.

    in reply to: Gerim needs a place to learn #911095
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    PBA:

    Professor Jonathan Sarna authored that historical study very recently. It is based on what Orthodox institutional practices were at the time.

    Granted, times have changed, but we also cannot be revisionists. And, prior to R’ Moshe Feinstein and Rav Soloveitchik, who were very homiletic and polemical in their respective arguments on the issue of mehitza due to the height of Orthodox//Conservative competition in the 1950s (at that time, there was still little which divided the 2, since many American Orthodox Jews were exceptionally lenient then, and many ignored certain halakhot, and the Conservative movement then was rather frum), there was no mention of mechitza being a requirement, let alone something d’oraita, in any literature of the rishonim or acharonim.

    In fact, the Igros Moshe’s argument derives the fact that mechitza is a chiyuv from Divrei haYamim, which violates a klal psak- we don’t derive halakha from sifrei Nach. Karaites do that, whereas Chagigah 10b tells us that this is not how we deduce halakha.

    Furthermore, he says that the “tikkun” made on the day of simchas beis hashoevah (Sukkah 52) is the source for mechitza, as a mechitza was somehow made based on an obscure pasuk in Divrei HaYamim.

    One does not derive Torah law from a Biblical book that is post-Torah, and the Chronicles were among the last books of Hebrew Scripture to have been written, by all accounts. Second, the idiom tiqqun, enactment, is a human made law that by definition cannot be a Scriptural obligation.

    R’ Soloveitchik also claimed mechitza was d’oraita, citing Devarim 23:15. However, there are two problems with this approach. Rabbis living after the Talmud, however great they may be in wisdom and learning, do not possess the authority to derive new Biblical laws out of Biblical texts. Such claims require not only their formulation, but the review and endorsement of the Supreme Court of Israel, the Sanhedrin. This juridic power has sadly lapsed in our day. Since the Talmud does not explicitly make the claim that mixed seating violates Biblical law, the claim that it does is, at best, hyperbolic

    It would have made more sense halakhically and textually to claim that mechitza is needed due to the prohibition against saying Shema near an erva. Yet, he allowed mixed torah learning at Maimonides School in Brookline! Like tefillah, torah study may not be done in the presence of either nakedness or excrement. And since classroom furniture is more separate than synagogue pews, there is greater danger of visual impropriety in the classroom than in the sanctuary.

    Furthermore, Tosafot and the Mordechai say that a mechitza can be erected on Shabbat for the sake of conventional modesty; yet in Eruvin 94, it is being erected purely because Shmuel wants his privacy.

    [Mishnah Eduyyos 2:2]

    in reply to: High Holiday Davening #910636
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    And, I decided not to take the job for one simple reason: it would damage my Orthodox bona fides, and I would also like to take professional courses in nusach hatefillah, either at the Belz School, or at JESCAM (David Weintraub) or the Petah Tikvah School (with Yehezkel Klang and Eli Jaffe).

    Going to E”Y and studying chazanus while going to yeshiva would be a dream come true.

    rebdoniel
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    Caviar is just a generic term for fish roe. If a kind of fish is kosher, its caviar is kosher, as well.

    Sturgeon happens to be a nonkosher fish we eat caviar from. (Although sturgeon is/was considered kosher by some, similar to the case of swordfish).

    There is plenty of kosher caviar, which comes from species like salmon, whitefish, etc.

    In fact, one can even buy Kronos-brand Taramosalata, a Greek caviar dip, under Kof K.

    When I make these latkes, I purchase Kosher Black Whitefish Caviar with an OU from Marky’s. It is about $62 for a pound.

    And, because latkes fried in goose fat and schmaltz are so unhealthy, I do limit them to Chanukah. I buy rendered goose fat from Aaron’s Gourmet in Queens, at $17 a pound, which makes this method of preparation far from economical, so it is a rare treat.

    Originally, latkes were prepared in goose fat in the medieval days, and they were eaten with chrein.

    I find the idea of compote with goose latkes to be better, though, since when people traditionally roasted goose, they would serve it with something fruity. Roast goose with a fruit compote is heavenly.

    rebdoniel
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    Other ideas for gourmet latkes:

    Latkes topped with Russian or 1000 Island Dressing, Sauerkraut, and Melted Swiss Cheese

    Latkes topped with sour cream, chives, caviar, and smoked salmon

    Fleishig latkes fried in schmaltz, topped with braised shredded beef cheeks in red wine and mirepoix

    in reply to: Robert Moses #910498
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    He was a brilliantly complex figure, and I agree that it is necessary to separate the controversy from the man.

    in reply to: Soferim Business #910825
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    There was an interesting discussion in Tradition on the inyan of silkscreen torahs. Rav Bleich is against it, as is Rav Wosner.

    Rav Abadi is a courageous and enormously gifted gadol.

    rebdoniel
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    I once made latkes fried in goose fat and schmaltz, and ate them with a homemade berry-citrus sauce and Tofutti sour cream mixed with shopped garlic and parsley. They were to die for.

    in reply to: Kiruv Vs. Kollel #910650
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    Kollel should only be for those with true potential and talent, the future gedolei hatorah.

    Most in kollel don’t make the cut. If they were all special, than the concept of gadol would become diluted.

    The point is that there is a hierarchy and not everyone is cut out to be a great talmid chacham.

    in reply to: High Holiday Davening #910635
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    I was given the same advice that R’ Yaakov Kamenetsky gave to his talmidim who took shtellers with mixed seating: daven b’yechida the essential parts of tefilla beforehand.

    And Sepharadim don’t make a distinction in pronunciation between bet and vet in most contexts.

    in reply to: High Holiday Davening #910629
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    The audition was last night and went very well, I thought.

    They didn’t ask me to do anything from the yamim noraim, but I did a mix of Hineni, Kol Nidrei, and the Kaddish from the High Holidays for dramatic effect.

    I did Tal, Atah BeChartanu, Kedusha from Musaf, Carlebach Kabbalas Shabbos selections, and portions of the Shabbos Mincha, which is what the committee asked of me.

    The synagogue turns out to have mixed seating on the holidays, though, which makes me uneasy about taking the job should I get it. I mentioned that it is a dying-out Jjewish Center-style shul in Queens.

    in reply to: Selling a Sefer to a Non-Orthodox "Synagogue" #910394
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    I only eat beit yosef meat. Pic N Pay meat meets these standards, since I know Rabbi Gavrielov and ask him she’eilas.

    I will eat only milchigs and vegetarian or vegan food from hashgachas such as the IKC and Tablet K. I do not eat Hebrew National because I follow halak beit yosef.

    I would also like to keep yashan, and this is something I am working towards, since yashan is a d’oraita (unlike pat yisrael, which we treat with greater leniency).

    in reply to: High Holiday Davening #910619
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    I am Sefardi. And I do say selichot every day in Elul

    in reply to: Selling a Sefer to a Non-Orthodox "Synagogue" #910383
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    I practice the religion of Hazal and the Rambam, the religion of the sacred book.

    Your faith is that of men, not G-d, and you care about the sacred look above all.

    in reply to: Soferim Business #910820
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    Why do people here defame Rabbi Weiss so much?

    And, there is little, if any, issue with a female sofer/soferet.

    in reply to: Selling a Sefer to a Non-Orthodox "Synagogue" #910380
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    There is no issur of a woman becoming a shochet, and the arguments against it, quit frankly, fall flat.

    Comparing Jews to the left of you with Christian missionaries is highly unwarranted and inflammatory conduct.

    Minhagim also spells gehinnam. Hazal and the Rambam, among others, do not hold like those mostly Ashkenazic authorities you cite.

    And, it is funny you mention shechita. I spoke with a Hassidishe shochet who trains in ofot and he said that for unmarried men and non-Satmar men, it is enormously difficult to get any work, since Empire and Rubashkin both use Nirbarter hashgacha.

    in reply to: Selling a Sefer to a Non-Orthodox "Synagogue" #910377
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    That is pretty extreme, PBA.

    Darkhei Noam operates within full halakhic parameters.

    Lo rainu eino ra’ayah.

    And for you to compare good torah Jews to vicious Christian missionaries who prey on Jews is absolutely reprehensible.

    in reply to: High Holiday Davening #910610
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    Nisht,

    Having an opinion which differs from your own does not make me misinformed. It is the height of chutzpah for you to claim that I am misinformed because I think differently from you, and because I am not afraid to use logic and facts. I do what is right. I don’t slavishly tow the party line or bow to the status quo.

    The point is that my approach is correct, and if you want to go against the Shulchan Aruch and Ibn Ezra, be my guest.

    And, also, the shul is an aging Jewish Center-type shul, where I have much leeway.

    in reply to: Soferim Business #910816
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    We need more training opportunities to learn safrus, especially since the petira of R’ Landesman, zt”l.

    in reply to: High Holiday Davening #910606
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    And, what do you do with those giants who were against inserting piyutim, such as the Ibn Ezra, Mechaber, and Gra?

    in reply to: High Holiday Davening #910605
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    Yes, that phrase is troubling to me, which is why, like Rav Soloveitchik, I don’t say Brich Shmeh. When I work as a hazzan, I intone the first line and just do the part starting with Bayh Ana Rachitz.

    BTW, that phrase, in addition to many others and more than a few theological propositions, make the Zohar highly problematic to me. R’ Yihyeh Qafih, zt”l, was certainly onto something. I also think that the evidence is rather conclusive that the Zohar was authored by Moshe de Leon and not Rashbi, as many (erroneously) believe.

    I also am not a fan of Anim Zemiros, which is highly anthropomorphic, which makes sense, considering that it was authored by Yehuda haHasid.

    in reply to: Kiruv Vs. Kollel #910642
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    Kollel should be an option only for the best of the best, people who will give shiurim, pasken she’eilos, become educators, mashgichim, dayanim or enter other klei kodesh.

    Kiruv should only be an option for those who have the personality, likability, secular learning, sophistication, charm, yirat shamayim, and torah learning that shape up. There are several gemaras about the dangers of being immersed around those who aren’t on your madreiga, and for many people, they can easily succumb to the temptations and mores of the general society, r”l.

    How about being a balanced Yid, like the Tannaim, Amoraim, and Rambam? Learn a profession, make an honest living, and make time yomam v’laylah to learn. Work and go to regular shiurim and chavrusos.

    I feel that I am covering a lot of ground in my own learning, and I think that if I were in a yeshiva or kollel, I’d just be drei-ing around like many others, spending weeks on a single blatt.

    For the baal habayis, I suggest being mesayem Shas with Rashi and Tosafos, Rambam, Chumash with the meforshim, Nach, Mishnayos, and Shulchan Aruch with the Nosei Kelim, Mishna Berura, and Sifrei Mussar and Machshava. The bulk of my learning involves Shas and Shulchan Aruch.

    in reply to: first baby…advice?!! #1019223
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    Why are you buying anything? First of all, be sha’ah tovah, but weren’t you taught that it’s an ayin hara to buy anything for the baby before it’s born? This is why Jews don’t have baby showers.

    in reply to: Lipa Shmeltzer #910711
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    I find his music to be very clever and uplifting, especially Hentelech.

    in reply to: Selling a Sefer to a Non-Orthodox "Synagogue" #910370
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    There is no reason to hold like the Rama unlike the Rambam.

    I attend shuls where the sefer torah is handed to a woman to carry through the women’s section, which I find to be more appropriate than the male chazzan carrying it through the ezras nashim (they do this at the Carlebach Shul) or women not having the opportunity to kiss the sefer torah at all, which is just sad.

    And, the above is correct. Megillah 23b says explicitly that where there is no issue of kavod hatzibur, women can have aliyos and lein. R’ Daniel Sperber, a great poseq and gadol betorah, is the poseq for Darkhei Noam Minyan on the Upper West Side, where women lein and have aliyos. Granted, other members of my hashqafic sphere aren’t crazy about this (like R’ Saul Berman and R’ Shlomo Riskin), but nonetheless, lo rainu eino ra’ayah.

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    Sour cream and apple sauce. If I want meat after, I’d wash out my mouth, eat some crackers, make the bracha acharona, and fress.

    in reply to: High Holiday Davening #910600
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    I totally agree that the Sefard Avodah makes much more sense and is more in line with the original Talmudic text, which is how the Rav held.

    in reply to: Hat brim #911233
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    Who decides what a “ben torah” wears? The Chofetz Chaim wore overalls.

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