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rebdonielMember
I am referring to the seforim, not their authors as personalities. Yes, the Smag and Rosh were Ashkenaz, but Ashkenazim don’t hold like them on chozer ve neor.
I wouldn’t serve Ashkenazim kitniyot. One rabbi in E”Y says that Ashkenazim could eat kitniyot if they do a hatarat nedarim. But, Ashkenazim have no heter to eat kitniyot, in a Sefardi home or otherwise. And I’d challenge you to find one normative Ashkenaz home where kitniyot are eaten. (I know of baalei teshuva and other Ashkenazim to adopt Sefardic customs, though).
An Ashkenaz could eat off a Sephardi’s dishes during Pesah without hashash for kitniyot. But, they cannot eat kitniyot b’chlal.
Similarly, if I go to an Ashkenaz home where they have a gentile maid cooking, I wouldn’t eat there.
rebdonielMemberI never once explicitly said that Ashkenazim should deviate from their practices.
In fact, if you see recipe suggestions I post on this website, I will often indicate options based on individual stringency. If a person wants to only use nut oil, or avoid garlic, or peel all their vegetables on Passover, and if that makes them feel good, and if they deem that appropriate, gezunta heit. But that doesn’t give these practices any legal valence.
In fact, at our sedarim this year and for the last days, we won’t even be using kitniyot or gebrokts, since we will be having Ashkenazim over. Not that I agree with these stringencies, but we want to be welcoming and inclusive.
rebdonielMemberOf course you do. Because it isn’t what you were taught, it therefore seems exotic, lax, overly lenient, inauthentic, and because it isn’t what bubbie and zadie did, it must not be correct.
Another teacher of mine, in response to the “mesoyra” proof, says that tradition isn’t a proof of anything. Reb Tevye Judaism, though, is a tour de force for many, for better or worse. The author of Eicha reminds us that our ancestors were ovdei avodah zarah at one time (Eicha 5:7).
When Orthodoxy confuses the second sense of Orthodoxy with the first, its teachings approximate Reconstructionism more than its own self-definition.
My actions have the backing of poskim, including the Shulchan Aruch, and what was common practice for many years among Sephardim, correctly, according to the Kesef Mishneh, Smag, Rosh, Mehaber, R’ Ovadia Yosef, and the other rabbis cited.
Ironically, many things are done in the name of stringency that were not traditionally done, that there is no mesorah for. Likewise, many cite mesorah as proof for ignoring the halakha on certain areas, as well. It can go either way. But, where there tradition is supported by legal valence, it is good, and where traditions lack legal valence, it is no good.
Chozer ve neor is an example of something for which there is definitely legal valence. My approach is corroborated by the Shulchan Aruch and R’ Ovadia Yosef. If some Sefardim choose not to hold like R’ Ovadia Yosef, that is their business, but the approach of Hakham Ovadia is one very closely aligned to the way in which I learn halakha. If you’re at all familiar with his psaq, you’d know that like the Gra, he’s not afraid of overturning minhagim or practices that are not in conformity with the Shulchan Aruch.
March 10, 2013 9:20 pm at 9:20 pm in reply to: Video of Interest: [For Pesach] Homemade Mayonnaise Made Easy #940595rebdonielMemberI like the idea of making different spreads and dips from a base of the homemade mayonnaise. I feel that it would be a good idea to maybe use that as a base for making green olive dip, sundried tomato dip (if you can get them KFP), etc. These would all be good with matzah or sliced cucumbers or baby carrots or broccoli florets.
rebdonielMemberThere is the mesora of Torah She Ba’al Peh and the “mesoyra” that is an invention of certain figures within contemporary Jewish intellectual history. Perhaps we have two different concepts in mind. But, in any event, the halakha does not object to the Sephardic practice of hozer ve neor as applied to specific dietary practices on Pesah. If people choose to be more mahmir than the Shulhan Arukh, they can be. If potato starch, not eating the skins of fruits and vegetables, avoiding garlic, etc. make people happy, “Gezunta heit” as they would say.
But I think that the halakhic approach of Rabbis Shammah, Hasson, Cohen, Maroof, and Abadi has merit, and if you have any qualms, I would be more than happy to supply contact information for these respected, Sephardic hakhamim. You can level all of your criticisms at them, since theirs is the practice many follow. I am not being “mechadesh” anything here, and am only relaying the piskei halakha I’ve learned from them.
March 10, 2013 5:48 pm at 5:48 pm in reply to: For Pesach: Sweet & Savory Brick Roast (or French Cut Square Roast) #935634rebdonielMemberMany say that kitniyot derivatives are good for Ashkenazim to use (see Be’er Yyitzchak #26). R’ Yitzhak Elchanan Spektor, who was the posek hador in Vilna, was matir kitniyot derivatives for Ashkenazim.
But, you can probably substitute any Pesachdika oil, like Nutola Walnut Oil or any other kind.
rebdonielMemberThe paranoia over Starbucks is unfounded.
PBA and I may not agree on everything, but he is a pious Jew and very sincere and ehrliche.
I’ve read the CRC reports on Starbuck’s, and I think one can logically conclude that the coffee is acceptable, especially since:
a) Only two utensils in Starbucks ever come into contact with non-kosher. Therefore, we can rely that any non-kosher is nullified in the cleaning process.
c) The non-kosher sandwiches are a davar gush (a hard item). However, many still consider it a kli sheini which does not transfer taste.
d) Soap is used in the cleaning process which would allows one to rely on Nosein Taam Lifgam (The non-kosher taste is rendered inedible by the soap so it does not transfer.)
f) All the equipment is sanitized after being cleaned.
rebdonielMember“Mesorah” is not an ideal we hold in an particular esteem historically. And there are many hakhamim who will be eating in our home for Pesah this year, including some of the above whose psakim I cited.
rebdonielMemberI did see that they are back up and am grateful that the shiur is on its fourth masechta.
There are shiurim on Sukkah, B”K, B”M, and Kiddushin now.
rebdonielMemberMesorah is an inauthentic concept. I hold like the score of rabbis I cited above. If you have a problem with this approach, take it up with them. I am not Ashkenaz and very glad I was spared the half-truths and ignorance spewed by many.
March 8, 2013 7:47 pm at 7:47 pm in reply to: Should someone become a Rabbi as a career path? #935449rebdonielMemberIt’s interesting that R’ Dr. Yitz Greenberg has his semicha from Beis Yosef and R’ Dr. JJ Schacter went to Torah Vodaas. So not “everyone” in the MO community went to YU, but the 2 might as well be synonymous.
rebdonielMemberAllah will smile upon them,.
March 8, 2013 7:01 pm at 7:01 pm in reply to: Should someone become a Rabbi as a career path? #935444rebdonielMemberI think you’re 100% correct, yytz.
R’ Weinberger is being brought in to give these kids the sort of varmkeit they got in their shana b’aretz; huggy, Carlebach, spirituality.
If you look at the hag hasemicha, you see quite a few yeshivish-looking guys, and even a couple of Hhasidishe looking ones, as well.
March 8, 2013 5:35 pm at 5:35 pm in reply to: Should someone become a Rabbi as a career path? #935440rebdonielMemberI see YU becoming more yeshivish, actually.
March 8, 2013 5:33 pm at 5:33 pm in reply to: Nurse Refused To Initiate CPR, What Is Your Opinion? #938701rebdonielMemberShe allowed someone to die. Lo Ta’amod al dam reacha means nothing?
March 8, 2013 5:06 pm at 5:06 pm in reply to: Nurse Refused To Initiate CPR, What Is Your Opinion? #938697rebdonielMemberShe is still a murderer in my opinion, and ought to be treated appropriately.
rebdonielMemberMah inyan shemitah etzel Har Sinai? What does accepted psak for hundreds of years have to do with defending the state of Israel?
Also, if you actually took a Jewish Studies course, or read anything written by historians, you would know that the Hasidei Ashkenaz advocated things like whipping yourself, rolling around in the snow, etc. They believed these things had a cathartic effect. If you look in the writings of Yehuda haHasid or in R’ Eliezer miVermeisa, you see them advocating various measures involving a degree of torture proportional to the “teshuvat hamishkal” and “teshuvat hakatuv.” For instance, R’ Eliezer miVermeisa, in Sefer haRokeach, 27, says that one who commits adultery should “sit in ice or snow each day for an hour, once or twice,” and “in hot weather, he should sit beside flies of ants, or suffer similar torture.”
This trend towards mortification of the flesh is an influence on Ashkenazic halachic approaches, according to scores of scholars. It cannot be denied as an influence which led Ashkenaz to a Shammai approach.
I cited the Kaf haHaim as a source who says Sephardim should follow the Rema on Pesah. If we follow that logic, than we should also eat non-bet yosef meat, ch”v. Hakham Ovadia Yosef rejects that approach of the Kaf haHaim.
The point is that the Shulchan Aruch, the Rosh, Smag, Kesef Mishneh, R’ Ovadia Yosef, and scores of other Sephardic hakhamim embrace this approach and it is one I am proud to follow, that I can enjoy a true hag kasher v’sameach.
rebdonielMemberThe historically normative approach for most of Jewish history, for Sephardim at least, was to be like Hillel, not Shammai.
Stringency characterizes the Ashkenazic approach due to the influences of pilpul (no aliba d’hilkhata learning lends itself away from codification, hence the fact that historically, Sefard gave us the Rif, Rambam, Shulhan Arukh, etc., and Ashkenaz gave us casuistry. Many in Ashkenaz opposed the idea of a Shulhan Arukh- see the Yam Shel Shlomo in his haqdamot to both Hhullin and Bava Kamma; we stress bekiut over iyun, in accordance with the Gemara’s statement in Horayot 14b that Sinai trumps oker harim), the historical influence of the Hasidei Ashkenaz (Who emphasized mortification of the flesh, asceticism, monasticism, self-inflicted makkot, and other such spartan values, as seen in the Sefer Hasidim of Yehuda haHasid), and an overall perception that stringency is generally correct, despite instances where the halakha indicates otherwise. The above all comes from am address Hakham Ovadia Yosef gave, and he says that kocha d’hetera adif characterizes our approach.
Our approach is a legitimate one, and it is one I have chosen to follow. And neither the Shulhan Arukh, nor Hakham Ovadia Yosef, nor R’ Moshe Shammah, R’ Yitzhak Abadi (who learned by the Hazon Ish), R’ Ronnie Hasson, R’ Joshua Maroof, Hakham Dr. Isaac SD Sassoon, R’ Yehuda Boroosan (who works for the OU and learned at Ner Yisrael), R’ Yosef Bitton (of the Mashhadi kehilla), or any other host of Sephardic rabbanim are wrong on this. I haven’t seen any mekor say “v’hamachmir tavi alav brachah” and “baal nefesh yachmir” in a context of
If people wish to go beyond the halakha, let them. But I, for one, see no good reason not to, especially since the Torah tells me “haTorah chasa al mamonan shel yisrael” and “kocha d’hetera adif.”
rebdonielMemberOne could maybe argue based on the Rashba that such a person should be considered a tinok shenishba, since they had a bad educational upbringing.
rebdonielMemberYes, but that doesn’t invalidate the psak of the Shulchan Aruch and it’s application le ma’aseh by Hakham Ovadia Yosef and others, now does it? I quote R’ Dr. Ronald Hasson on misperceptions people have about Pesah (Hasson is a leading respected Sephardic rabbi).
1) Even the smallest amount of Hametz is forbidden on Pesah.
False. Like all foods Hametz is nullified and considered insignificant if it is less than 1.6% of the total product. The original version of the Gemara stated that this principle is in effect even on Passover itself. However, after the period of the Gemara, a word was inserted into the text (unknown by whom) that adds a clause stating that even the tiniest amount of Hametz in a product renders the entire product not kosher for Passover. This became accepted as practice and therefore cannot be changed (even now that we know that this was not the original law). However, this added stringency only applies on Passover itself. Food that was mixed with small amounts of Hametz before Pesah is completely permissible to be eaten on Pesah. Rabbi Ovadia Yosef writes that any Rabbi who teaches otherwise is making a sin by teaching the incorrect law to people. One must follow Sephardic tradition when teaching Sephardic Jews. It is important not to ignore and abandon the Sephardic tradition just to add more restrictions than is required by Jewish Law. He also writes that anyone who writes laws for Passover, and writes them stricter than the actual law is, can not even be forgiven for this on Yom Kippur and must ask personal forgiveness from everyone that acted in a strict fashion on the holiday unnecessarily.
2) Any food not cooked specifically for the holiday is not kosher for Passover.
3) All items need a specific hashgacha for Pesah.
False. Any item that it is clear without reasonable doubt that it was made without any Hametz is permissible on Pesah. For example, Rabbi Ovadia Yosef writes that items such as raw meat, cheese, honey, jams, and canned sardines do not need a special Hashgacha for Pesah. This is the law even if the salt used on the sardines for example had some wheat in it, or if the jam was cooked in Hametz pots without anyone assuring that there are no bits of Hametz getting in. This is because the way of producing these items are uniform and it is very unlikely that there is a significant amount of Hametz in these items. The same would obviously apply to juice, milk, and other basic items. As the law forbidding even small amounts of Hametz is rabbinic in origin, the rabbis did not require one to be extra stringent on their laws. They made stringencies to protect against Torah violations. It would be inappropriate to make a stringency to their stringency.
rebdonielMemberYou cannot build a society of moochers and expect it to work. Plus, neither the Lakewood Mashgiach, nor yourself, have the right or ability to determine what is a legitimate theological premise and what isn’t.
The roshei yeshiva of YU, just like HaRav Aharon Lichtenstein, shlita, endorse fully service of all bnei torah in Tzahal. See Sotah 44b.
In addition, Hazal and the Rambam mandate one to work for a living. The torah is not a means for self-glorification and that is what ends up happening, sadly.
rebdonielMemberI need to start drinking a few cups of coffee throughout the day- good for nerves and for keeping weight under control.
rebdonielMemberI also read that the Chagall Bistro just opened on 5 Avenue and 5 Street in Park Slope.
I’d encourage the olam to patronize it; it’s the only restaurant in that area with a mainstream hechsher.
I would recommend the V Spot, under R’ Zev Schwarz, but people are uncomfortable with eating in a place that is yotzei v’ nichnas, open shabbos, and owned by goyim, despite being strictly vegan (I know many who believe that vegetables would need bishul yisrael, since we wouldn’t eat a potato raw).
rebdonielMemberThere are individualists in sects of every bent.
I am amazed by how many people from RWO backgrounds are far more “cool” and multifaceted than I previously thought.
rebdonielMemberNope. They cannot, should not touch nonmevushal wine, and are subject to an entire host of halakhic restrictions.
rebdonielMemberI am too busy with work/internship, school, learning, and helping my mother to be worried about shtusim like this.
In the words of a famous Youtube video and FB meme, “Ain’t nobody got time for that.”
March 8, 2013 3:18 am at 3:18 am in reply to: Everything is great, but I'm not sure if there is chemistry! #953698rebdonielMemberChemistry is tafel.
Look at your compatibility, shared goals in life, hashkafot, and finances.
March 8, 2013 1:58 am at 1:58 am in reply to: Should someone become a Rabbi as a career path? #935433rebdonielMemberMy feelings are that the YCT curriculum is acceptable; they don’t learn much out of the ordinary, but the issue is that hashkafically, they politicize many things.
Allowing non-Orthodox clergy a place on the faculty of a rabbinical school (or as YU graduate R’ Benjamin Samuels did in Newton, allowing a reform rabbi the pulpit on Shabbos) strikes me as relatvistic, that there is nothing theologically wrong with what the speaker stands for, as does supporting homosexual marriage ((R’ Asher Lopatin, incoming president of YCT, gave the invocation at a prayer breakfast for a “marriage equality” group in Illinois, saying there that “the book of Genesis determines that nobody should be alone” and so on), opposing reparative therapy (thereby adopting politicized liberal APA gobbledygook), advocating “social justice” as a worldview, paskening that saving animals on Shabbos is a pikuach nefesh case and therefore one can ch”v violate shabbos to save their pet, working together with the IWW labor union (the famous Wobblies, a self-described Marxist-leninist group), condemning anti-jihad ads in the subways (the director of recruitment at YCT is on the board of the “Jewish Muslim Volunteer Alliance,” which seeks to stifle criticism of Islam (how supporting Islam goes along with feminism is beyond me, unless you consider burkas and worse empowering for women), arguing that Israel is “immoral” in its treatment of Palestinians (the recruitment director earned the criticism of Dr. Daniel Gordis, who in spite of his JTS ordination, is a brilliant Zionist thinker and right-wing scholar), citing favorably the opinions of Freire (a Marxist) and Peter Singer (who calls for animal rights and euthanasia, not unlike a certain brutal regime of 60 years ago), arguing for liberation theology(Marxist), replacing Adon Olam with Hatikva (this isn’t a halakhic problem, but an aesthetic one; even Reform temples don’t do this), supporting left-wing “religious zionism” and the Hitnakut (through ties with Rabbis M. Melchior, J. Sacks and D. Rosen, who sit on the board of “One Voice,” a pro-Palestinian State group, along with Imam Rauf of Ground Zero mosque infamy, Dennis Ross, Talab El Sana- wanted negotiations with Assad, etc.). and a litany of other moronic liberal moves.
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March 8, 2013 1:41 am at 1:41 am in reply to: Really good Hilchos Shabbos mp3s free or for $? #935336rebdonielMemberYUTorah, Naaleh
March 8, 2013 12:57 am at 12:57 am in reply to: Should someone become a Rabbi as a career path? #935430rebdonielMemberYes, to be hired in an OU shul, you need RIETS semicha.
For chaplaincy jobs, or anything non-denominational, you can have YCT, Rabbanut, R’ ZNG, etc.
rebdonielMemberTry having your car break down in Brownsville with a big velvet kippah at 11 at night and you need help with vilde hayes surrounding you merely because you’re Jewish and white.
rebdonielMemberThis isn’t davqa bal tosif, but it certainly is rhetorically.
I see no merit in going beyond of what is acceptable from a halakhic perspective for the sake of self-righteousness; such self-righteousness serves to win the favor of men, not do right by G-d, and I want no part of that, nor do I see that as particularly useful in my avodat hashem.
I have a list of cereal Sephardim can use on Pesah from a rabbi with years of yeshiva learning and I have another list from a rabbi who is considered a leading rosh bet din in the LA community and which is relied upon for giyur, gittin, etc. (just like R’ Ralbag, who is seen as hashuv, but is rejected on kashrut, for whichever reasons)
rebdonielMemberNot wanting to look conspicuously frum can be necessary for pikuach nefesh purposes.
rebdonielMemberFreedom is not free. It comes at a cost and with considerable mesirat nefesh.
It was the hand of G-d operating through the valiant soldiers of the IDF that ensured our victories. Not the studies of those who choose consciously not to be a part of modern Israel.
We are not prophets. How we can claim that the studies of a specific parochial group have a theurgic effect? Plus, those who make this claim ignore the fact that there are scores of Hesder yeshivot, of very high standards, whose bachurim serve valiantly and proudly in eretz kodsheinu. The learning of those in KBY, Shaalvim, Otniel, etc. is just as precious to HKBH as those who learn in the Mir, etc.
March 8, 2013 12:19 am at 12:19 am in reply to: Should someone become a Rabbi as a career path? #935428rebdonielMemberBut, they’re hired from YCT in positions where a rabbi would go to make money- chaplaincy, Hillel, etc.
Basically, positions open to Conservative and Reform rabbis are also open to YCT people, outside the framework of synagogues or denominational posts.
rebdonielMemberIn a law firm or on Wall Street, you couldn’t wear a polo.
rebdonielMemberI started to get supplies to make it for Pesah. I love chumus on matzah as a break from TempTee on matzah.
My recipe is as follows:
Dry chick peas, soaked overnight and drained, then boiled in water (don’t salt the water- it will make them tough) with an onion to flavor
KFP Techina (usually a Rabbanut hechsher from E”Y)
Fresh Lemon Juice
Zest from the Lemon
Salt and Pepper to taste the finished product
Lots of fresh chopped garlic
Extra Virgin Olive Oil
A little water from boiling the garbanzos to thin the mixture out
Ground Cumin (I use Pereg for Pesah)
Fresh Parsley (to garnish)
We serve ours along with garnishes at the seuda- fried onion, a variety of olives, roasted red peppers, and when it isn’t Pesah- chipotles in adobo sauce and capers (can’t get those KFP).
rebdonielMemberMaybe you have people who “do their own thing” and buck the norm?
rebdonielMemberCPA, Physician Assistant, Computer Science, Actuary pretty much sums it up.
Law is a shot profession, as is teaching in the public schools.
You want to be able to make at least $80K within 4-5 years of college education.
rebdonielMemberI’d suggest listening to the shiurim of R’ Boruch Simon on YUTorah from the past 2 weeks or so- he addresses issues of who is a rasha b’zman hazeh and more recently looks into who is really pasul l’edus b’zman hazeh.
More broadly, he is giving shiur on inyanim in ein adam meisim atzmo rasha.
rebdonielMemberI figured that out with Audacity.
March 7, 2013 1:26 pm at 1:26 pm in reply to: Should someone become a Rabbi as a career path? #935423rebdonielMemberIf you go to a legitimate program like RIETS or YCT, you can get positions in Hillel, chaplaincy, etc.
Congregational rabbi jobs are generally very competitive.
Basically, it’s a bad job market for all kinds of clergy.
If you want to do kiruv, you’re best off going to a place like Ohr Somayach or Aish.
rebdonielMemberBnai Jacob on 9th Street is your best bet.
I have a few friends involved in Prospect Heights Synagogue, but that’s a little out of the way.
rebdonielMemberNobody should allow kids to ruin the mashke table for the rest of us. Whatever happened to kids going to youth group/NCSY/Bnei Akiva/Pirchei Groups on Shabbos morning? Don’t shuls do a teen minyan anymore? Let them have their own kiddush.
Kids also do low-class things like take all of the same kind of rugelach, pick the meat out of the cholent, waste food, etc. In fact, with kids at a kiddush, they’re getting bad chinuch since the parents let them commit baal tashchis and borer.
rebdonielMemberI don’t wear a kippah in places where it is mostly gentile. I put a baseball hat on in those cases due to safety.
Most gentiles are anti-semites, in one way or another, and I want to avoid consternation. Also, they particularly object to religious Jews. For instance, I was on Staten Island 2 weeks ago and stopped at the ShopRite on New Dorp Lane to buy some cheese, crackera, ice cream, and a few other items. I know the area is mostly goyishe, so I didn’t want to expose myself to possible danger or harm.
March 6, 2013 2:54 am at 2:54 am in reply to: Sugya of Tefisa b' Safek D' Dina- Machlokes Rif and Ramban #934416rebdonielMemberIs anyone able to help me?
rebdonielMemberWhat about all the Mizrahim and Sephardim who suffered under the Arabs and Ottomans for years? The reason why so many of us supported R’ Kahane, hy”D, zt”l, was because we know what it was like living under Arab tyranny and barbarism.
rebdonielMemberI don’t know enough about the circumstances to form an opinion on this case. But, I think emotional hyperbole and ethnic chauvinism should be overlooked.
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