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well! i guess i’ll have to be more on top of it! man!
hey! everyone took my job of we’re on page 18! gosh! the economy these days! Everyone is losing their jobs!
middle! its ok…:)
yossi, i like your idea! get it started~!
wow! cool! good luck! are you chasidish?
thanks everyone! i hope she understands…
btw, happiest, what do you call a mental issue? maybe others don’t think it’s a big deal?
Yossi z, are you really in shidduchim? youre only 19! 🙂
i just hope the world knows that what mazal was referring to is TYPE 2 DIABETES! its a totally different situation than type 1 diabetes (which is juvenile diabetes). Assuming that the people you are dating are in their low 20’s..and are not obese, chances are they have type 1 diabetes.
mazal, no one is judging you! we’re just a bit taken aback because WE ACTUALLY HAVE DIABETES. it would just have been a lot clearer to the outside world had you specified you were talking about type 2 diabetes. That’s not what we have, and we don’t want people to start associating the complications your husband is having with our diabetes.
is anyone else annoyed at this post: “I am married to a diabetic. If I knew what I know now before, I got married, I think things would be different. I would be absolutely terrified to marry a Diabetic. Diabetes is a horrible disease. My spouse has every single problem that can come from diabetes. You name, they have it. Heart problems, Diabetic ulcers, amputations, eye problems, Kidney problems…circulation problems, infertilty issues.
I am suffering big time, along with them. My spouse, probably had it since they were younger, because the damage was from years and years of being undiagonised. They watch themselves now, but too little to late. The damage is done and irreparable.”
i feel like i’m the only one! i dont care what type of diabetes she’s talking about..she didnt specify and its horrible…
mods, please delete mazal’s post. it is very disturbing, and there’s no reason for it to be here. i can not believe what she said here. Think before you speak!
There is nothing wrong with what she said. You can disagree, but I fail to see the need for censorship
welcome to page 17!
i’m also too old..and i want someone learning…:) but thanks…how old are you
if only yossi would be a little older….anyone older that thinks like him?!
whoa! um…coffefan, go ahead! yossi..lets go! this would be the cutest thing in the world if you guys actually went out…how do we set this up?
wow…hope that can happen for me too….i’m getting really frustrated!
wow! i’m happy for you..and jealous! i’m prob really 8.3. can never get mine down. how do you do it? do you really not eat anything with sugar? i am under the impression that i could eat anything as long as i bolus…should i be doing something differently?
1 reason is that people rush into things. another is that they start thinking abt important things only after theyre engaged…look into those things before..another reason is that ppl are getting cold feet a lot…its sad…
they started a new thread abt us….:)
don’t even get me started…its so dumb! and its so annoying! ppl with diabetes are totallly normal, can have healthy kids..and type 1 is for sure not hereditary! I wish ppl would start to understand that everyone has nisyanos, and the fact that you know the prospective shidduch’s nisayon right off the bat, shouldnt make you more nervous. if anything, it should alleviate your worries that they’re being open and telling you what they have…
grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr….thanks…i’m usually not this down, you should know..its just that i just got a no for this reason, and its just annoying…IY”H we’ll see things more clearly soon..
wow! thanks for the chizuk! i really need it! and coffeefan, i havent even checked my a1c in a long time. its forsure that high! i can’t get my numbers under control! i dont want diabetes anymore! i had it for long enough 🙁
thank you coffefan! that means a lot to me! i like that quote! its really hard. everyone has their shita’s abt saying once it gets serious, but i cant even get a date. and i;m a good girl! i wish if ppl were asked, they didnt need to tell them that i had diabetes! its so annoying
no one is saying yes to me for shidduchim! i know for sure in one case it’s because they found out i had diabetes! i’m really starting to get depressed..and nervous that this is how it’s gonna be…its not fair! i’m totally normal, i just have to take my blood sugar once in a while! HELP!
my brother just started after 2.5 years!
i cant even believe this is a discussion! how much more do you want the girls to do! pay for the wedding, support the couple, and she should work while having kids..and run a house..now she should pay for the dates too!?! comon!
theres a diabetes thread already, if you’re interested..
personally, i dont think ppl shud date in manhattan at all! lots of pritzus all around..unfortunately, its accepted to go there..
nope didnt go! did anyone here?
maybe speak to someone like a therapist/psychologist..they might have some helpful tips..also..going on meds is not the worst thing..if it makes you feel better..tonz of ppl are on anxiety meds..
i forsure have the worst hba1c! i’m so jealous!!!!!!!!!!!!!
HEY COFFEEFAN! NOT FAIR! …WE’RE ON PAGE 14!!!!!!!!!!!
exactly! thanks for clarifying!
SHES IN NEW JERSEY..
my endo doesnt help get my numbers under control…(not exactly sure what the point of her is…) but i go to a diabetes educator/nutritionist..she’s so sweet..she helps …but is quite costly! just got an invoice for a 15 minute session-30 dollars!
I’M glad i’m so predictable! 🙂 and i’m so jealous! thats such a good score mod 72! and coffeefan, 160’s is high!? halavei by me!
I’M glad i’m so predictable! 🙂 and i’m so jealous! thats such a good score mod 72! and coffeefan, 160’s is high!? halavei by me!
HEY! WE’RE ON PAGE 13! go us!
not so outa town :)…but according to brooklyners i guess i am!