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Well done, wolf. You’ve proved midrash in are more nuanced and complex than they appear. Rambam was pretty clear about that 800 years ago. Want a cookie? 🙂
rationalfrummieMemberI can’t believe the first approach to midrash is saying you won’t understand it. The authors of these brilliant works were people who wanted to be understood and who wanted klal yisroel to learn from their Torah. How could you claim they were elitist and aren’t going to be understood?
rationalfrummieMemberPBA: this picture is of rav shneur is in his 20s. At that point, many bochurim do have beards.
If you understand all this, why did you originally say it was shtus and belittle the idea by saying you don’t care about “Daas whatever?”
When did you ever think I was looking for validation? You’re projecting your own imaecurities onto me- all I did was try to prove Halacha can change dude.
You don’t care if people didn’t do it 100 years ago? Popa, that’s how a mesorah is broken. Solovetchik’s whole point is that Judaism was mimetic- that physical examples of tradition DO matter and are instrumental in continuing mensorahs.
You really have a problem with disrespect. Calling Solovetchik’s article “cute” is just rude. And the only reason I quoted it is because this is a definitive article on trends in orthodoxy and chareidi society. It was very well received at the time and is still relevant.
You haven’t quoted academic papers or books to bolster your claims, because none exist. I feel sorrier for you for ignoring history and being a mechutzaf.
rationalfrummieMemberWolf- these are different levels of perception. Intellectually, yaakov might have been able to learn at a tremendous level, and understood the secrets of Torah.
Emotionally, yaakov didn’t have nevuah and thought Yosef was dead. He did not have ruach hakodesh- he was just intuitively brilliant and understood the sodos of life and Torah. How much greater that he did it all without nevuaj but with his own kop!
rationalfrummieMemberDid the avos shake lulavim, put on tefillin, remember amalek, or take maaser?
rationalfrummieMemberTorah613:
When the Taliban were in control of parts of Afghanistan, they burned secular books sold in stores, destroyed priceless museum artifacts, and humiliated dissidents. They also ruthlessly killed many people. My apologies- calling them rude is the understatement of the century.
Popa comparing YCT to the Taliban is so offensive, and so ignorant.
rationalfrummieMemberPBA: You’re being inane. Nearly all yeshiva bochurim today have beards, and he might have even had semicha by then. You’re also irrational. There is a huge difference between Daas Moshe (objective moral truth based on Torah) and Daas yehudis (halachos, minhagim, and dinnim that are constructed based on the practices of certain societies and cultures). If you don’t think this is a chashuv difference, you shouldn’t be making any statement s about this issue. Why can’t you understand this?
Son: I’m not blindly following what everyone else did. This is rav chaim Solovetchik’s point- Judaism was a mimetic tradition. That’s what a MESORAH is- not based on didactic learning but observing what your parents did, and their parents, and your community, etc. the chazon ish overturned that by making shiurim more, thereby excluding many Jews as not yotzei even though they’d drunk a certain amount or eaten matzah for generations. Ditto for the case f eating fish on Shabbos- it was done and no questions were asked until the 1800s.
You can make all the hypothetical arguments you like, but the fact is that checking for lettuce with a light-box is a RECENT INNOVATION. So are sheitles, as evidenced by photographs of chashuveh rebbitzens not wearing them. It’s a minhag tznius.
Same with hats. There’s no Halacha, just a Chumrah. The problem is when it becomes mainstream, and people are pressured to wear one.
These are fairly simple points- that Halacha can change based on historical circumstances, that Judaism has recently become more didactic, and that there is a difference between Daas Moshe and yehudis (Daas Moshe is much more authoritative).
rationalfrummieMemberNo. Rav Kotler was already great by then- it goes to show that history has often been whitewashed and chumros have entered the mainstream. Why can’t you understand that?
And the difference between Daas yehudis and Moshe is very chashuv- I’m surprised you’d shrug that off so easily. I suppose your just trying to cover up your own ignorance of Halacha, rav Broyde, and your own discomfort with how Judaism has changed.
rationalfrummieMemberDuuuude: so they why are so many pictures of gedolei yisroels’ rebitzens without sheitles? I just saw a picture last week of chacham Yosef’s wife and him from the 1950s. She had no covering.
Are they really being oiver on a din?
Btw you totally misrepresented rav Broyde’s article- he says its about Daas yehudis, not Daas Moshe. It’s based on culture, not a “din” as you have it.
rationalfrummieMemberChumras are great and should be individually encouraged. The problem is when they deep into mainstream Halacha, and those that don’t follow them are criticized (see hats, sheitles, etc.)
rationalfrummieMemberAs did the burnings of the Talmud all throughout Europe by Christians, and the debates Jews were forced to have, the issue of moreh nevuchim, the Spanish Inquisition, getting kicked out of Spain, France, England, and Portugal, etc.. Jewish history has never been pretty or peaceful- you can’t just rewrite history and blame tzaros on the haskalah
rationalfrummieMemberCalling YCT similar to the Taliban is just funny. I disagree with them halachicallly but in no way are they violent or rude.
rationalfrummieMember…. But he learned kol hatorah kulah!
rationalfrummieMemberYaakov married two sisters. Shouldn’t he have learned that was assur from reading his sefer Torah he wrote?
rationalfrummieMemberNeiman Marcus- needless markup.
rationalfrummieMemberThat’s pretty offensive. If anything, you should be trolling non-religious pages or terrorist pages or pages of criminals., or Satmar pages. But to go after YCT like that is just low. I don’t agree with that hashkafah but I respect it, and their commitment to Halacha 95% of the time :).
rationalfrummieMemberThere are different ways to read “yosheiv ohalim.” It can mean tents for shepherding and sleeping al pi seforno and others, or al pi rashi it’s a tent of Torah.
But as on the ball says, it’s hard to imagine yaakov learned the whole Torah and Gemara. What would zechiras amalek mean to him, for example? I prefer to say that intuitively yaakov was a tzadik who knew right from wrong, emes, and was able to communicate with Hashem. He was so great, he didn’t even need the hora’ah from the Torah in order to be a good person!
rationalfrummieMemberThat’s a very perceptive comment ZD. I’m a little more skeptical about the civil rights claim, but the 5 day work definitely helped Jews stay frum, and encouraged them to be shomer Shabbos- a mitzvah that fell to the wayside in early American Jewish life.
rationalfrummieMemberTorah613:
I do find that pretty interesting- a lot of people became BT’s after the six day war. People were proud to be jewish and started wearing kippot in public- something very rare beforehand.
At the same time, life became increasingly easier for chareidim in America and their population exploded. Kosher food became more available, they created their own communal centers in New York, and Americans were more tolerant.
rationalfrummieMemberYou don’t know where I’m going because you don’t like seeing the truth that frumkeit today is very different than it used to be. Regarding cholov yisroel, in Lakewood in the early days they had cholov stam, breakstone products! Now that would never happen. After the war, the chazon Ish came along and said that the shiurim Jews had been using for hundreds of years weren’t good enough.
If you look at pictures of Roshei yeshivah and their wives from decades ago, news flash: many didn’t wear sheitles. Black hats and uniformity can be the make or break in a shidduch. People have only been looking at lettuce with microscopes in the last few years.
Checking for bugs used to be a chumra, now its mainstream. Ditto for sheitles, mixed seating, and cholov yisroel.” From what my parents tell me, in the 70s and 80s many more weddings were mixed- now that’s a big no-no.
The very texture of religious life has changed after the war, perhaps for the reasons I offered to Torah613. Rav Chaim explains that its a switch from mimetic tradition to didactic. Look those terms up if you need to, but its a powerful argument.
rationalfrummieMemberIt’s proven because everyone here is taking this seriously.
rationalfrummieMemberYesodri hatorah in monsey, most chofetz chaims, TTI, Lakewood,
rationalfrummieMemberThis thread is hilarious. Talmud, consider your point proven!
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April 22, 2013 11:31 pm at 11:31 pm in reply to: The Big Lie�Tzedokoh Solicitation by Mail #948226rationalfrummieMemberGreat story- classic Reb Yaakov. He lived and breathed emes.
rationalfrummieMemberTroll. Women are not in the kitchen and will never go back (this is coming from a guy). Women can do nearly everything men can do in America, whether it’s voting, fighting in war, getting elected to congress, or running a company worth billions of dollars (see yahoo).
If you don’t like it, move to Saudi Arabia, but you can’t ignore society forever. Halacha at the meta-stage has some serious questions that need to be answered. The most glaring one is how important is society and social norms in establishing Halacha. I quoted above several examples where this is indeed the case. The shaila that remains is how far we go vis a vis bnos yisroel and their roles in communal life.
rationalfrummieMemberWhat does artscroll know about modern orthodoxy? Just like I wouldn’t read about chareidi ideology from an MO source, I wouldn’t get info from artscroll about rav Lamm or MO beliefs. For the real deal, read rav lamm’s work Torah U’Maddah. I don’t agree with all of it, but parts are very compelling.
rationalfrummieMemberAnd I think popa is right about soliciting private info like city, state, or shul.
rationalfrummieMemberReubrew: As a matter of fact, I do. Your Jewish geography skills are very sharp.
I’m surprised your shul banned alcohol- that seems pretty wrong. I have no issue with alcohol at all, just the consumption of it during shul.
rationalfrummieMemberChareidi influence is powerful because chareidi teachers often educate MO kids. Chareidim in general also are growing very fast, and the Baal teshuvah movement has exploded in the last 50 years. Minhagim once done by only the pious few are now mainstream Halacha. Cases in point: chalav yisroel, black hats, sheitles, separate seating at events, bugs in lettuce, etc. Overall the trend of frumkeit is heading rightward.
For more on this, read Rav Chaim Solovetchik’s essay on chareidim and the “slide to the right”. It’s called ‘rupture and reconstruction’ and is free online- it’s mamesh a sociological masterpiece. He contrasts mimetic vs. by the book practice, and uses shiurim for kiddush and matzah as his important examples. Personally, if I had to pinpoint a why and wherefore of it all, I’d say it was a reaction to the horror of the holocaust, and the struggle to reestablish life exactly as it was before the war, even if it wasn’t actually done that way in Europe. Strictness and machmir interpretations were adopted to make communities insular and protect them from the outside world, which was a dangerous place to survivors. That’s all I’ve got for you.
And yes, that’s true. A lot of girls I know from MO families are in all-girls bais yaakov type places, rather than mixed.
rationalfrummieMemberThose are sound assumptions.
1. The Rav is the one who customarily gives divrei Torah in a shul- that’s called kavod harav.
2. A minyan generally gives the honor of a speech to its rav or Mara d’asra, since he is knowledgeable and can address them.
3. I’m certain you are frum. You make fun of YCT. A frum shul as the one you go to wouldn’t have someone not frum speak- it makes no sense.
4. You said yourself you do it to disrespect the speaker.
These are not insane assumptions to make, be serious.
rationalfrummieMemberWell, I assumed you were making a joke to dodge the question. I can’t believe you would purposefully wish to disrespect and insult your rav. If that is truly the case, either have a conversation to resolve your issues or yes, daven at home if their really is no other shul. Disrespecting another frum Jew, let alone a rav is no small thing.
rationalfrummieMemberMy shul has a kiddush club, and I get the concept.
There is nothing hard to understand about men that are bored in shul and go drink with their friends. You are the one with fall for disrespecting your rav, even if he said you can do it.
The whole idea of a kiddush club is immature and disrespectful. That’s why I was able to say what I said. I don’t need to know any details about your shul, we’re not learning a birkas shmuel here- all necessary info is available.
rationalfrummieMemberBeis yaakov of Flatbush, yeshiva of Brooklyn for girls.
But you really have to be more specific. Are you looking for chassidish, yeshivish, or more modern? There are so many schools in Brooklyn you have the luxury to pick and choose.
rationalfrummieMember“There is no other shul”
In that case, grow up and show some respect.
rationalfrummieMemberRav aharon Lichtenstein at Gush says one should shave on Friday l’kavod Shabbos? Rav Solovetchik holds one can shave even every day if it would affect parnassah.
A lot of jobs require one to look well put-together and well-groomed. In America today, a scruffy unshared beard is a sign of being unkempt and is not professional. With that in mind, as well as Sam2’s point about davar ha’aveid in aveilus, l’chorah shaving is mutar.
rationalfrummieMemberIf it gets people to come to shul, then I suppose it’s a good thing. But still, a kiddush club is a sad reason to go to shul.
April 22, 2013 4:30 pm at 4:30 pm in reply to: How to answer questions regarding a shidduch #1042543rationalfrummieMemberDotnetter +1
rationalfrummieMemberFrom personal experience this is very good advice. Enough said.
rationalfrummieMemberTorah, that is mainly true, but in recent years, even YU has slid to the right a little bit. I was in their beis midrash a few months ago, and I saw quite a few black hats and chareidi-looking maggidei shiur. So while you are right for now, it seems like as a whole the frum world is movimg to the right, because of chareidi influence, kids flipping out in their year in Israel, and a lot of other issues.
Most modern orthodox schools have chareidi rebbes and teachers, while the reverse case almost never happens.
rationalfrummieMemberI like the sarcasm but if you seriously don’t like hearing Torah from your shul’s rav, then switch shuls instead of using that as an excuse to grab a drink.
April 22, 2013 3:57 pm at 3:57 pm in reply to: Weird, but I don't know if this has any halachic implication #1146924rationalfrummieMemberOomis, why does it have nothing to do with being machmir across the board for all dairy? If there’s no safek anymore, go for it!
rationalfrummieMemberyou actually never mentioned that.
And even so, you’re not being mechabed the rav, it comes off as disrespect that one would rather have a drink than hear Torah. Can’t you wait until kiddush with the tzibbur?
April 22, 2013 3:45 pm at 3:45 pm in reply to: Obama is crying because his gun law didn't get passed #947960rationalfrummieMemberCalifornia actually has a fairly average state murder rate of 4.8, and the murder rate has decreased every year this decade. Louisiana, Alabama, and Tennessee all have much higher murder rates, ranging from 8 to 11. These are all southern states with many gun owners and a strong “gun culture.”
rationalfrummieMemberMy shul in PA has an active kiddush club. I personally think its a terrible minhag- they miss the haftorah and Dvar Torah from the rav, just to go talk and drink while everyone else is in shul.
April 22, 2013 3:32 pm at 3:32 pm in reply to: Weird, but I don't know if this has any halachic implication #1146922rationalfrummieMember90% of U.S fish is imported, and less than 2% are inspected for fraud. In big cities like NYC it’s very common for restaurants or stores to sell cheap fish that look similar to an expensive one and market them as such. Definitely geneivas daas.
rationalfrummieMemberDeborah HaNeviah is clearly THE exception- that’s why the Gemara discusses her shoftus at length and is perplexed by it.
Pretending that women’s roles and occupations haven’t changed is to live in ignorance. Women working away from home, especially in high-powered jobs has been on the rise for 50 years. Women earn advanced degrees, and sit on the boards of fortune 500 companies. Even 60 years ago, this was unheard of; mah she’ein kein regarding the times of the gemara!!!
Because back then, women weren’t expected or allowed to hold jobs of influence or power over a community. They cared for the home and raised children- and this remained the status quo for thousands of years.
Halacha is often shaped just as much by societal norms and trends as it is by objective moral standards. Good examples are cholov yisroel, which rav moshe held wasn’t necessary because times and countries had changed. Ditto for certain laws of tznius, since they vary widely by county. In Europe it’s standard to kiss a woman on both cheeks upon meeting her- in America that’s unheard of. I could go on and on- different rabbanim had different attitudes towards relations with goyim based on their OWN relations with goyim, based on their respective cultures and societies.
All I’m saying is that Halacha was always getting rescaled and evolving based on what happened at certain times. In this case of rabbahs, we have to think about whether this is a positive change, similar to the increasing of Torah education for women in the last century, or negative, like intermarriage or eating treif by the non-frum.
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rationalfrummieMemberSerarah would prevent women from being able to lead communities or authoritatively answer halachic questions, just as women cannot be kings or judges because the position is meant to strike fear, or at least obedience into people.
In our modern society, women have greatly expanded roles secularly, as well as in terms of Talmud Torah. Therefore, its important to ask ourselves to what extent Halacha accommodates to social change. Women today are businesswomen, artists, musicians, CEOs, scientists, and Torah scholars. How does Halacha respond to such change?
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Since you’re frum, I assume you believe in the concepts of hashgachah pratis and klalis. Why do you throw these inyanim out the window in the case of Israel. Refusing to see Hashem, and his nissim and niflaos in connection to shuvas Tzion is not just being ungrateful, it’s mamesh kefira b’ikar.
The only mekor anti-zionists have on their side is the Gemara in kesuboa and the gimmel shevuos. If this is such a chashuveh Sugya, why are the gimmel shevuos not brought down in Halacha, in the Mishnah Torah, Rif, or Shulchan aruch?
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