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rationalfrummieMemberNo one here is criticizing or belittling (chas v’shalom) gedolim, I honestly don’t know where you got that one from! Regarding the halachic issues of army service, my understanding is that frum soldiers can be placed in all-frum, or all-chareidi units where there is time for learning and davening, and the food is under stricter supervision. Even if there are some problematic inyanim that come up as a soldier, isn’t pikuach nefesh more important?
DY: Yes, Talmud Torah is very important and central to the survival of klal yisroel. but so is hishtadlus and protecting ourselves! The gemara tells us not to rely on nissim, and we need to do work to make sure we remain safe and in possession of eretz hakodesh, right? also, soldiers get the mitzvah of pikuach nefesh which is really, really important!
HaKatan: Your claim needs to be substantiated. Please tell me, politely and seriously, why the tremendous mitzvah of pikuach nefesh suddenly doesn’t matter when it applies to serving in the idf. Pikuach nefesh is SO important it even overrules shabbos! why not here?
rationalfrummieMemberreb doniel, I don’t see how WPG’s accomplish anything. What is the point of these groups, as there is no minyan, and no real tefillah betzibbur.
rationalfrummieMemberHealth, in the Rodney King Riots 53 people were killed, 2,000 injured, and billions of dollars of property damaged. I don’t get how you can downplay it.
rationalfrummieMemberWhy don’t the gedolim put out pashkevils and letters that decry these attacks- it would be such an easy way for them to distance the mainstream chareidi tzibur from these kanoim.
rationalfrummieMemberThere is no problem because the time spent on an elevator is not enough to be shiur yichud. Igros Moshe even ha’ezer 4:65:16 makes this very clear, Sam2 said.
rationalfrummieMemberJF- you can and walk and play without the dog, and the dog adds a lot more stress and effort which decreases productivity. After all, you don’t need to stop every 10 minutes to clean up drek if you just take walks by yourself. Why do you assume one can only get exercise with a dog?
Cleaning up after a dog (along with everything else I mentioned) is a waste of time and it dirties up your house, and as I said is bittul Torah. It’s not my achrayus if I don’t own a dog, it only becomes my achrayus if I, engaging in bittul torah and zman, buy a dog!
Regarding your name, feminist theory advocates for full equality and rights for women. Associating Judaism with that ideology doesn’t make sense, as halacha has a lot to say about gender roles, and it ain’t feminism.
rationalfrummieMemberIf a woman is dressed tzniusly and behaving in a tzniusdike manner, are there any halachic problems?
Obviously, I doubt a chassidic viber would go jogging in kiryas yoiel, but if you’re in an area where people are out and about, women exercise, and it’s not a big deal, no one cares.
rationalfrummieMemberJF— walking the beheimah, playing with it, cleaning up its drek, yelling at your siblings (or kids) not to torture it
BITTUL TORAH!!Popa: and the wife agreed to take care of it, on top of kids, cleaning, cooking, and everything else? you married a tzadekes! im yirtzeh hashem by me for someone like that haha
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rationalfrummieMembernu, we have enough beheimos to deal with in the oilam without getting more. And since when does an ehrliche yid own a dog? it’s bittul torah anyway.
July 4, 2013 7:16 pm at 7:16 pm in reply to: Do the Egyptians know what they want this time? #970898rationalfrummieMemberThis is all to be expected. The Egyptians are going through the natural growing pains of a changing nation. They aren’t sure what they want, and how they want it all done. Democracy is a long process that requires much patience.
147- Why do you see these events as predictors of bad news for klal yisrael? I don’t see how the two are related- Israel can defend herself quite capably, and Jews here are doing pretty well in galus too.
rationalfrummieMemberTemimus: if newt’s team did such a good job, why were they voted out of office, and the ‘contract with america’ effectively never implemented?
rationalfrummieMemberbarbecuing, going to the mountains, no snow! Summer is the best season hands down.
rationalfrummieMemberTemimus: actually, the gop congress of the 90s was notoriously ineffective and badly run by newt gingrich. and if economics are entirely decided by congress, as you say, then how can one blame obama for our economic woes?
rationalfrummieMemberWhat about Clinton? By the time he left office, we had a budget surplus, crime had fallen every year, unemployment was at 4%, and he created 20 million jobs! Sounds pretty good to me.
rationalfrummieMember2 teams in Football. 2 ‘end zones’ on either side of the field (which is 100 yards long). One team starts with the football, and through passing and running, tries to get it into the endzone 100 yards away. When one team scores, it’s called a touchdown and the team gets 6 points. Then, the other team will get the ball (via a kickoff) and get a chance to try to score thru passing and running w// the ball.
The quarterback is the leader of the team, and has the ball. Players on the other team try to tackle him before he can throw or pass it off, so that the quarterback’s team doesn’t score. The quarterback has defenders (Called linemen) that defend against the other team tackling the quarterback.
Football might look like a bunch of 300 pound guys jumping on each other, but it’s a little more complicated.
rationalfrummieMemberIf you really believe that someone who doesn’t say shelo asani isha is an apikores, then you have to start making detailed categories and levels of apikorsim and apikorsus. There is a difference between struggling with modern values/chazal versus the classic apikorsim that deny all of Torah outright, or think halacha as a whole is bad. Why isn’t anyone mechalek between say, YCT, and apikorsim like reform, or as 2scents says, talmidei yeshu?
rationalfrummieMember^ surprised the mods let that nivul peh through the system.
Anyway, Chazal argued with each other all the time bizman hagemara. Rambam and Raavad disagreed on nearly everything. The Rema’s minhagim differed from the beis yosef’s, but we still value and treasure both- they are mamash on the same page!! Many respectable rabbonim burned moreh nevuchim- are they apikorsim for disagreeing with rambam? Vilna Gaon said Rambam was very misguided. He also put all chassidic rebbes in cherem.
My point is, arguing and challenging are integral parts of Judaism and the halachic system. When we stop arguing and challenging, we will eventually stop coming up with chiddushim and new ways of applying age-old wisdom to our own times. However, all arguing must be done in the spirit of ‘machlokes l’lsheim shomayim.’ regarding the shelo asani beracha, most of the people arguing for its removal are certainly not arguing l’shem shomayim. However, they haven’t violated any of the ikkarei emunah, so what is the havah aminah for saying they are apikorsim? There are girsos that have one beracha as she’asani yisrael, and several poskim even rule you should say that one beracha, which will allow you to not say the other ones, which could be levatalah. With that much confusion, you cannot go outright and call them apikorsim
rationalfrummieMemberIt is tough for her career to be down the drain, just like that, but she did admit to saying some pretty disturbing things. She says she used the N-word and told racist jokes, but claimed it was okay because she meant no harm and was just using normal language. Is that not troubling to you?
rationalfrummieMemberRegarding the separate entrances for men and women, that is merely an example of implementing integration and equality between genders, something the United States has had for many years. It would be unconstitutional for a public clinic to have separate hours or entrances in the U.S., especially since blacks were treated in very much the same way, with separate water fountains, theaters, separate entrances to restaurants, and seating on busses. why is it okay for that to happen in Israel but not America?
rationalfrummieMember^ Then I guess very frum women have been ignoring the rambam and the mechaber on this one for many years. The metzius is that today, tznius women go outside for a myriad of good reasons.
rationalfrummieMemberWow HaKatan, the more hyperbolic and angry you get, the more I’m starting to agree with you (insert sarcasm here).
I can just as easily say that your statements aren’t statements and shailos aren’t shailos. You also have a terrible habit of brushing all Zionists under one brush. Do you think the hundreds of thousands of religious zionists view Tanach as a mere cultural relic? Do you think they agree with EVERYTHING the state does? Chas V’shalom and you are really slandering a lot of amazing rabbanim and fellow Jews in general. Shabbos observance, kashrus, and general shmiras hamitzvos is very much on the rise in Israel, and that brings mashiach, not criticizing them as Ovdei Avodah Zarah- ever heard of kiruv??
You also said the Zionists “need” the charedim. Lol. The tzionim are doing pretty well by themselves, innovating in high-tech, science, medicine, and every field imaginable, without much chareidi help. I yearn for a time where all Jews living in the state will learn and value Torah, and all Jews will enjoy good education, high paying jobs, economic sustainability (why dont many chareidim have any of these?)
Once again, you ignoring yad Hashem thru the nissim and niflaos of every Israeli war, and the continuing hashgacha klalis that allows Israel to survive and thrive is tantamount to perhaps even apikorsus (I dont use that word lightly).
So many Jews became frum after 1967, even these frei yidden saw the nissim. Why can’t you?
rationalfrummieMemberSam, do you just happen to have full sets of yabia omer or yechaveh daat lying around?
rationalfrummieMemberPeoples’ feelings do matter, and if shopping was legitimately being bullied or harassed, we would have a real problem. However, she was just being told honestly and fairly politely by one or two people how they think she should post less- that’s it! There is no need for tears, capital letters, and lots of exclamation marks. At the end of the day, I agree with Slichos. If you really get so ticked off by what an anonymous commenter says in the YWN CR, that in itself is a big problem.
rationalfrummieMemberHaKatan: So I guess the Zionists lost, because Torah today is thriving in modern Israel like it never has ever before! But wait, they didn’t lose- Israel is the State established by the Zionists, the very people you claim hate Torah and yiddishkeit! What a setirah.
Also, some thoughts to ponder: Why do 33% of the members of the knesset wear kippahs? Why are chareidim so well represented in Israeli politics? Why do 58% of all Israelis believe in that Hashem gave us the Torah on har sinai? Why are yeshivas, seminaries, basei midrash, shuls, and frum neighborhoods growing? Why can one find kosher food practically everywhere in Israel? If Zionists really hated Torah and yiddishkeit, none of this would be happening.
rationalfrummieMemberPopa, why do you say that? It doesn’t seem like you’re joking, so I’d just like to advise you that inflammatory statements like that do not add to the achdus of klal yisrael.
Regarding the metzius itself, you think it is better for someone not to learn ANY Torah their entire lives rather than diligently and meaningfully learn gemara, rishonim, shulchan aruch, or other Jewish texts from a knowledgeable guy like rav linzer? Halachically, that seems problematic as every minute of Torah is worthwhile and David Hamelech even learned from Achitophel, a far less decent dude than Rav Linzer!
Also, when YCT rabbanim teach gemara shiurim, for example, correct me if I am wrong (based on your first hand knowledge) but I do not believe they are teaching it with any particular agenda in mind, just like Brisk, Vizhnitz, and YU don’t have political agendas when learning shas and poskim, they simply go through the gemara as Jews have done for thousands of years. YCT probably saves their politics for a different time, which is why it’s so machlokesdik and unfair to say their Torah learning is not real learning.
A question to ponder: I know of a conservative rabbi in my community that reportedly went through the entire Rambam Sefer Ahavah. Is it better had this non-frum guy (who I personally wouldn’t call rabbi, per rav moshe) not learn at all?
rationalfrummieMemberwritersoul: shkoyach on the cholent! the bbq sauce part does seem pretty weird but I’ll definitely give it a try if it really is so good :).
Regarding your article, it definitely seems a little sketchy to me. What’s the source? The imahos all married into the same family that stemmed from Avraham, and Rivkah and Rachel are even extended relatives of their husbands. I forget how exactly they are related but al regel achas they are descendants of Avraham’s brother nachor and thus would have had similar DNA to their baalim, making this theory very suspicious..
rationalfrummieMemberSam 2: but didn’t the avos keep all the mitzvos? the shevatim would have learned much torah from yaakov avinu, Rashi even brings the midrash of Yosef specifically learning the sugyah of Eglah Arufah.
So are you instead saying that they knew the mitzvos but purposefully didn’t keep them, because they were patur before kabbalas hatorah? that seems like a big stretch and you need a rai’ah.
rationalfrummieMemberRegarding what Rav Chaim said: If that is true, why is there more Torah being learned in Israel right now than in any other country, or at any other period in the history of klal yisrael?
Regarding what rav elchonon h”yd said: Perhaps this will happen, but Israel has not yet lost a war (except maybe yom kippur)- that is an amazing track record considering hundreds of millions of Arabs want Israel wiped off the map.
Also, the establishment of Medinat Yisrael fulfilled several very important nevuahs about keitz hayamim and the future geulah. Yeshayahu 41:18-21 says the desert land will one day bloom again. Yechezkel 37:11-13 predicts that all the Jews will return to eretz yisrael in a massive kibbutz galuyos. Both of those things have started to happen and are continuing to happen every second of modern Israel’s existence.
So go call our neviim apikorsim r”l straight out, because that is what you are implying.
rationalfrummieMemberOkay first of all DaMoshe, you may indeed be a talmid chacham, but even so how can you as another human being judge the quality of Reb Doniel’s talmud torah? You even have the chutzpah to say that since he learns in yeshivas and institutions you disagree with, you’re now positive he isn’t even learning! While I too disagree with the Open Orthodox/conservadox ideology, a Daf Yomi shiur given by Rav Dov Linzer (head of yet) for example, is still learning, still valuable, and he is still a very smart guy. Please treat these rabbanim and their derech halimud with some respect, even if you disagree with them hashkafically, or even halachically. Reb Doniel certainly seems very knowledgeable in the mekoros.
Also, regarding Get, isn’t there an idea that if many years ago when Jewish courts had power, if the husband was misarev the beis din could literally send thugs to beat him up until he gave the get? Bizman hazeh, when basei din cannot physically beat anyone up, I would think they should still be able to economically and socially compel the husband to give a get. Is this correct?
rationalfrummieMemberOkay, so this is all nice in theory, but practically it would be really weird to randomly ask a girl to bake me cookies at a pegishah.
rationalfrummieMemberI find that reading before going to bed helps me go to sleep faster and avoid all that weird stuff ur talking about.
rationalfrummieMemberlol I feel like every bais yaakov girl I know always has to remind everyone that they’re not “you’re typical by girl.”
Anyway, welcome to the cr! we party hard here (very tzniusly of course), and there are some pretty awesome people that you’ll get to know (in a weird virtual sort of way.)
rationalfrummieMemberWait one second. We have incontrovertible evidence that Rav Stav was PHYSICALLY ATTACKED by a number of chareidim at a chashuv wedding of the kosel rav’s daughter in bnei brak. A Shas MK was mevayez a talmid chacham by leaving the mitzvah tanz after Rav Stav joined. Finally, Rav Stav was forced to leave the chasunah after violence and insults escalated, and hundreds of people shouted at him and called him names like rasha and shikutz as he left.
When was violence ever okay, especially to a talmid chacham and respected rav? Why don’t the chareidi gedolim condemn this attack, and criticize those members of their tzibbur that feel it is appropriate to push a rav around?
Perhaps the RCA could’ve been a little more respectful, but they certainly did not physically attack Chacham Yosef (c”v), as chareidim did to rav stav!
rationalfrummieMemberI agree. Cyberbullying is inappropriate and hurtful, especially when purposefully done to another member of klal yisrael.
rationalfrummieMemberWhoever wrote that nasty comment has no actual authority, and cannot speak “on behalf of the cr.” They’re probably just looking for attention, or feel like starting a machlokes around here, or maybe stam a troll.
June 25, 2013 11:06 am at 11:06 am in reply to: What happened to all the interesting topics? #961292rationalfrummieMemberWhat the heck happened to ve’ahavta le’reyecha kamocha around here?!
rationalfrummieMemberSam: That’s circular logic. The reason a woman cant wear a tallis is because of beged ish. but its only beged ish if women were banned from wearing talleisim- but they’re not! regarding tefillin, chazal say michal wore it. many hold rashi’s daughters did too.
rambams rule about mitzvos shehazman geramah should hold up for women wearing tefillin. if you disagree with that, its on you to bring a rayah. just know its a big deal to go against a pashut rambam.
rationalfrummieMemberSam2: To the best of my knowledge, there is no machloket whether women are ALLOWED to do mitzvos asei shehazman gerama. Rambam is clear in Hilchos Tzitzis that they can perform these mitzvos and we shouldn’t discourage them. The Mechaber in Orach Chaim by hilchos tzitzis says the same thing, but adds that women shouldn’t make berachos. The Rema over there says they do.
rationalfrummieMemberIf the sole intention of WoW was to come closer to Hashem through davening and being medakdek in doing mitzvos, everyone who attacked this group would owe them a huge apology. HOWEVER, this is not the case.
The leaders of this group constantly make videos, talk to the press, announce things on their website, and talk about themselves to gain publicity. These actions honestly overshadow their performance of mitzvos and stain theim. WoW also causes fighting and controversy. Because of that, while in theory what they do is okay, the WAY in which they do it causes so much problems it would be better if they didnt do the mitzvos at all!
rationalfrummieMemberThe fact that they do it publically shouldn’t make it worse- when women sit in the sukkah or count sefirah publically, is that a terrible misjudgement and chillul hashem, even if they make a “show” of it?
My shailah is, what is the nafka minah of wearing tzitzis and tefillin versus sitting in a sukkah? After all, they are both mitzvos asei shehazman gerama. If women wish to do these kinds of mitzvos, the Rambam says we are not docheh them and let them do it….
rationalfrummieMemberJust because Muslims do it doesn’t intrinsically make the act bad- in fact, in this case it could be great by improving kavanah and yirah during davening, while making shul a serious place, without leitzonus.
Accept emes from whatever its source- kalus Rosh is bad in davening whether or not Muslims say its bad
rationalfrummieMemberThank you WIY, those are both great! A gut yom Tov!
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rationalfrummieMemberToi, your post explains nearly everything I’ve ever read by you. And OOM, we are in full agreement.
rationalfrummieMemberThat is true. But the way to defeat the yetzer harah is not isolation and detachment, its by turning chop into kodesh. Not using the Internet could actually be very bad, if you could be using it lekadesh shem shomayim and learning Torah, etc.
rationalfrummieMemberOf course you have a yetzer harah. It’s just harder for you to fall that badly if all the things I mentioned are in place. You cannot just turn a switch and taivah will come, it’s more complex than that.
rationalfrummieMemberIf you have a good support system of values and love of yiddishkeit from home, the Internet is absolutely no problem. If not, it can lead to aveira
rationalfrummieMemberMen dressing tzniusly is good. Since women are equal and opposite, then doing the same is bad 🙂
rationalfrummieMemberI don’t think the shidduch crisis has anything to do with numbers. Maybe that has some impact, but this isn’t China, where there are literally 120 boys for 100 girls. In a population of billions, that matters. The frum community isn’t big enough for that to matter.
If anything, lots of blame can be directed at the system itself for creating this problem. But this isn’t the thread for that issue
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