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  • in reply to: Going Home for Pesach from EY #1703372
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    Go home, check it out, make it happen, wrap it up, l’chaim, vort, wedding after shvuos, come back for Elul, she can parade in Ramat Eshkol while you shteig away. No worries, life is easy. The kibbud av should bring in a nice monthly check. Makes Pesach in Flatbush almost worthwhile.

    in reply to: Karpas – is any ha’adoma ok? #1703370
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    Using any “adamah” is ok from a purely halachic bracha standpoint. A strawberry also works.
    A normal way of thinking would suggest some sort of green vegetable akin to real “karpas” which is a type of celery.
    In Europe these types were scarce , and some, like parsley, were unknown, resulting in odd vegetables being used, such as the potato . Sometimes the narrow halachah or minhag isn’t enough, and using common sense is beneficial.

    in reply to: People Who Can’t Write Properly #1703371
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    Yanky55 is correct.

    The cause is a poor secular education and an indifference to the importance of literacy.

    in reply to: My Best Friend Is A Goy #1703373
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    It’s not a problem

    in reply to: Putting a nickname on a matzeva or footstone. Advice welcomed. #1700660
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    a matzeiva?
    Only Hebrew

    in reply to: About Purim I do shudder #1695361
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    Generally, when the Ramo states “v’yesh omrim”, he is espousing the Ashkenazic custom and is supporting it over the Mechaber’s position. So yes, l’chatchilah.

    in reply to: Shadchanus to the Family Member #1695341
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    When a mitzvah is “about the money”, it’s no longer a mitzvah, it’s just business. But if the business norm is to pay non-family, then you must pay family too. The shadchan cannot be punished for being part of your family.
    Hatzlachah on your third date, I’m sure you will know all you need to know about her after this date.

    in reply to: What are most people misleaded about what chabad #1695330
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    I live in Israel. I am very familiar with Chabad and Chabadniks and have very little good to say about their philosophy. But to claim that their women are in violation of tznius regulations is patently false and an evil statement to boot.

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    It’s not complicated.
    Set them up, let them go out, and let them decide for themselves.
    That’s much better than a few dozen anonymous know-it-alls controlling their lives via the internet

    in reply to: Why Should I Pay for your Limo #1691043
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    I try not to give to funds that are cursed, it’s not a good investment. A better investment is to proofread before pressing the “Submit” button

    in reply to: A Solution: Finding Shidduchim (aka “Shidduch Crisis”) #1685638
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    1984

    in reply to: Why don’t we go like the Slabodka mehalech in regards to clothes? #1685639
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    It’s Rabbi Berel Wein. The Slabodka philosophy is about respect, no? Then please give respect.

    in reply to: A Solution: Finding Shidduchim (aka “Shidduch Crisis”) #1685316
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    I have a better idea. No healed hospitalized person should be discharged from the hospital until ALL hospital patients are cured.

    in reply to: Hodaas baal din kmeah edim dami #1684731
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    Obviously, 100 eidim is a quantitative exaggeration made to prove the point. The gemara could have said ten or a thousand, the point would be the same. Exaggeration (guzma) is an often-used linguistic tool in halachic literature.

    in reply to: Why Do Some Rich People Literally Think They Own The World #1681123
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    Sorry, my apologies, it was obviously written in wry humor, and I was slow to get it. I retract my attack.

    in reply to: Why Do Some Rich People Literally Think They Own The World #1681122
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    A choleh is a “cheftza shel mitzvah” ?
    I cannot believe a Jew can write such a thing.
    I’m shocked at the lack of mentshlichkeit and common sense.
    I assume this attitude is a rarity, otherwise the Torah world is in tatters.

    in reply to: To have them read Tolkien or not… #1681118
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    Have him read B’samim Rosh
    That way he can become a talmid chacham while reading fiction

    in reply to: Photos & Shidduchim – Appropriate Or Not?🖼️🤵👰 #1678822
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    Photos are inappropriate, period. The impression here is that the Litvishe Torah world condones this practice and even gives it borderline approval. To reduce a bas yisrael to her physical attributes? Horrible. This is reality? Maybe, but it is certainly not Torah.

    in reply to: Shul Membership Drives #1678555
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    Shuls have absolute rights to determine kibbudim of all types. If a shul decides that a non-member has no rights, then he has no rights. His level of “chiyuv” (sic) is irrelevant. If he has yahrzeit or is in shloshim, he must find a stranger-friendly shul. That is the minhag (there is no halachah here, except that the shul has absolute authority) as practiced in Europe for hundreds of years. A good example is the proclamation on the back wall of the Alte-neu shul in Prague from the days of the Noda B’yehudah. Easily available online.

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