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  • in reply to: About the RCA, I do shudder. #962025
    rabbiofberlin
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    popa-bar-abba-Your comments do confuse me. I wrote that in ‘milei d’alma’ one is not obligated to follow a Possek- to which you replied that all things in life should be subject to Torah decisions, from which I demurred,asserting that obligations only count in the hahacha sphere. Now, I am not sure what you are advocating. For example, the recent draft controversy has evoked sayings of “jaharog ve’al jaavor” in resisting the laws. Do yo uconsider that objective? And must I follow this reasoning?

    Zionism is another historic example- Some gedolim consider it “jaharog ve’al jaavor’ (see Brisk) Is that a halachic ordinance that I must follow??

    I would submit that in both these instances, the halachic basis is virtually non-existent and i can follow my own feelings on this.

    in reply to: About the RCA, I do shudder. #962023
    rabbiofberlin
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    popa -bar -abba: can you tell me what “objective” response you have to the recent controversy about the draft? The irony here is that the only halachic sources are PRO- draft! (See gemoro sotah and rambam). Halacha has nuances-clearly- but you have a foundation(shulchan aruch) upon which to base your assumptions!

    to mdd: Within your words, you answered yourself the question: these are HASHKOFOS, not HALOCHOS. Do you believe that “torah im derech Eretz’ (RSR Hirsch way) was against halocho? certainly not! Yet, the hungarian rabbonim (and today, the Israeli chareidim) are dead set against such a derech. It is a HASHKOFO, not a halocho.

    As far as questioning the Poskim, I, for one, will not question a psak halocho of the great Poskim unless I have some solid other sources. It would be outrageous for me to dispute, for example, R”moshe piskei halocho- although other Poskim may disagree.

    However, I feel quite comfortable in taking a different view about Zionisnm for example. This is not a halachic question (as much as Satmar would like it to be)and I free to follow my own inclinations, especially as I can find support in other Gedolim!

    As far as the Chief Rabbi, if his piskei halocho make sense, then what is the problem? You may disagree and you can follow whomever you want to ,but in halacha ,there are solid parameters to follow.

    in reply to: About the RCA, I do shudder. #962016
    rabbiofberlin
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    popa-bar-abba:

    Wel ,we do live on different planets. All I have heard for decades is “the “gedolim say so-therefore we must follow them.” and always in matters that are not within the purview of halacha. And I did NOT say that anything controlled by Torah is within the purview of rabbonim. First of all, what does “anything cotrolled by the Torah’ even mean? For me, that only applies to halachic matters,not to matters where I can have a mind of my own. (see recent controversy of the Israeli draft).

    And, lastly, why do you keep on saying that I am making fun of people like you? Where did I say that?You are entitled to your opnion-I just don’t have to follow it.

    BTW_of course, there are sources for what kind of qualities a Rav or Shochet or teacher must have. However, they tend to be subjective, not objective.

    in reply to: About the RCA, I do shudder. #962011
    rabbiofberlin
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    popa-bar-abba-You are being facetious, aren’t you? You never heard of anyone asserting that “daas torah’ is infallible and we ust followe it? We must live in on different planets!

    And you will have to show where, amongst all the many volumes of halacha, is there a direct instruction how to elect a rabbi ? Clearly, such a person needs some qualities but do you have any source that tells me whom to elect?

    Classic strawmen cna be attributed to your writings too…

    in reply to: About the RCA, I do shudder. #962008
    rabbiofberlin
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    DaasYochid: I am not sure why you consider the election of a Chief Rabbi- or any rabbi, for that matter- a halachic matter? Most of the reasons are subjective, not objective.

    PopaBarAbba- You may say that everyone agrees to what I wrote, but that is not the case. Continually, you hear that it is “daas torah” about a subject and therefore, not to be disputed,making our Rabbonim infallible- which they are not.

    zahavasdad- it is not stretching the halacha to be “meikel’ in matters of mamzerus. It is the halacha: “mamzerus vadai omar rachmono velo mamzerus sofek”. Only the certainty in cases of mamzerus is accepted.If there is a doubt about mamzerus, you rule that is not mamzerus.

    in reply to: About the RCA, I do shudder. #961998
    rabbiofberlin
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    to Daas Yochid: I did not say anything about the letter- on the contrary, the RCA is fully competent to point out what they think is wrong. My point was that you did NOT have necessarily have to listen to Rav Ovadia Josef in this matter. Whether to support Rav Stav or not is not a halachic matter. If you follow Rav Ovadia Josef. then you listen to him but others (RCA, Rav Druckman and others) can certainly argue with that view.I tend to agree with you that the language was very intemperate.

    To Popa bar abba; Halacha is encapsulated in the Shulchan Aruch. How to conduct your life as a jew is hazier (must you wear a black hat? Must I follow my view as to drafting all jews ?) I do not agree with you that the Rabbonim konw all the time what would be the Torah way. Do you follow the way of RSR Hirsch? Or, do you follow the way of the Hungarian rabbonim (firmly against limudei chol)?Do you follow the way of Rav Kook or do you follow the way of the Neturei Karta? The mishneh says “ashe lecho rav”- you can choose who your mentor is. Allow every Jew to have that choice and do not denigrate others who do not view the world as you do.

    in reply to: About the RCA, I do shudder. #961989
    rabbiofberlin
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    popa bar abba (and HaKatan): ‘milei d’alma’ means matters of everyday concern- not ruled by halacha. Examples (in modern terms): Do I support republicans or democrats? Do I join a demonstration against the medinah? (in historic terms): do I leave Europe for fear of the Nazis ,even though jewish life is not as developed in (say) the US?

    in reply to: About the RCA, I do shudder. #961979
    rabbiofberlin
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    mdd: as you addressed me, I will ask you again- find me a source that says that we have the obligastion to follow a Pssek on “milei d’alma” .Just by insulting me does not make you right. Please provide those sources you are so knowledgeable of. I repeat what I said many times : this assertion that Poskim are infallible and that we must put aside our own brains and follow them blindly is a modern invention. Please provide sources.

    in reply to: About the RCA, I do shudder. #961962
    rabbiofberlin
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    rebdoniel: “most sensible”? Hard to back up this assertion, in view of the recent events

    in reply to: About the RCA, I do shudder. #961922
    rabbiofberlin
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    moderators: please show why “milei d’alma” -matters of daily interest=is WITHIN the purview of halacha. This has become the mantra today but there is no source for it.

    take it to a different thread. Maybe I’ll post, maybe I won’t. I usually don’t get involved, as you know.

    in reply to: About the RCA, I do shudder. #961918
    rabbiofberlin
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    to the moderators: your premise is that, because Rav Ovadia is a great Possek and, according to some, godol hador, you must accept everything he says. Wrong. In halacha- I must bow to the Poskim who know more than me. In “milei d’alma” -daily matters-, I have no such duty. And ,regardless of your assertion, Rav Ovadia’s description of Rav Stav is deeply offensive. One can disagree with the politics without branding the other side as sinners.

    Precisely the point. One can disagree with Rav Ovadia without saying woe is to him who taught him Torah.

    And you’re incorrect that this is a matter outside the purview of the Torah.

    in reply to: About the RCA, I do shudder. #961905
    rabbiofberlin
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    This is going put me in hot water (if the moderators even allow it through). Why do we have to listen to Rav Ovadia”s words? if you are his follower, so be it. I find his words in general very disturbing (he called Rav Amsallem a rosho, he calls Rav Stav an apikorus)

    allowed half. The answer to you is there is a difference between a disagreement with the gadol hador of sephardic jewry, and saying “oy l’mi shelamdo torah”.

    in reply to: Chareidim in Israel #958429
    rabbiofberlin
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    toi- you obviously don’t live in israel. Your head has been turned by the incessant neturei karta propaganda that the frum jews are persecuted in “secular’ israle, when just the oppposite is true.

    And, in any case, don’y yo uthink that it is exactly whan a frum jew should do- show true jewish custom everywhere?

    in reply to: Bride with 25,000 wedding guests #954404
    rabbiofberlin
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    Sam2 (and benignuman): Your quote from the gemoro kesubos (17A) is slightly erroneous- R”shmuel bar nachmeni in the name of R’jonasan says it is MUTTAR to look in a kallahs face, etc…but the gemoro says that the halocho is not like him.

    However ,from this gemoro itself ,you clearly see that the kallahs did NOT cover their faces! Hence, you COULD look at their faces! if the minhag was to cover their faces, the gemoro’s statement would make no sense!

    Furthermore- earlier in the sugya, the machlokes of bais hillel and bais shammai concern the statement-“_Keitzad merakdim lifnei hakallah”, but it is pretty clear that they both agreed that one looked at the kallah to see how she looked.

    The answer to this contradiction is probably benignuman’s answer- R’Jonasan’s statement maintains “lehistakel”-meaning intently and this is what the gemoro refutes. Bais Hillel and Bais Shammai talk about looking casually. (see Bais shammai’s statement about “chiger and sumoh”)

    in reply to: Bride with 25,000 wedding guests #954381
    rabbiofberlin
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    smartcookie-you are wrong. It is not a Rrebbeshi minhag at all. I have never seen it. And, as far as others seeing her face, please consult masechet kesubos where you will find the saying ‘kalloh no-eh vechasudoh’. How else can you judge this? (note the other shittah-“kalooh kemo she-hi)

    in reply to: Bride with 25,000 wedding guests #954354
    rabbiofberlin
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    I did not see much of the vidoes but I am indeed surprised that the kallah put her veil back on during the mitzvah tenz. I have been to countless chassidische chasunos of all stripes and the kallah did not cover her face during these mitzvah tenz. The remark about burkas is not far fetched.

    in reply to: The Dov Lipman Response�Controversial? #955548
    rabbiofberlin
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    HaKatan: I hope you are paid by the word for whomever you write. At least, it will make you rich off Zionism.

    As you can see from other posters, it is useless to argue with you. You find eveytthing bad with the medinah, you find everything wrong with the Zionists (taking Jerushalaim in 1948 is wrong?)and you are the mirror image to whomever you address. You will never change your mind even if it is staring you in the face and Hamelech Hamoshiach stands in front of you.

    So, I bow out of these useless discussions.

    And, you may be right to say that I would not change my mind if I see that R’Elchonon zz’l calls Zionism what you call it. My point was that I don’t believe that Rabbonim called it that. And, if you have access to ‘Ikvese demeshichah”, why don’t you produce it?

    in reply to: Pushing off Geirim #954046
    rabbiofberlin
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    wow! levandowsky is now the last word in nussach? some of his tunes are brilliant, but then so is yankel talmud, modzitz, and above all shlomo carlebach!

    in reply to: The Dov Lipman Response�Controversial? #955532
    rabbiofberlin
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    WOW! WOW! HaKatan: I must have hit a raw nerve with my few words.You spemd TWO long entries trying -quite unsuccesfully, I may add- to show how evil the medinah is and ho bad it is for the jews in the medinah and all the ills of the jews are due to them….any reasonable person will read your post with incredulity, as it depicts a world that only exists in your mind.

    As far as “hot air”, I tried (unsuccesfully) to find R’Elchanan’s essay in hebrewbooks but, for some reason, I could not find it. As far as the Brisker Rov, if indeed he considered Zionism sch an avodah zoroh, you can- for sure- find some written comments, won’t you?

    in reply to: The Dov Lipman Response�Controversial? #955515
    rabbiofberlin
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    HaKatan; Against my wishes, I am being dragged back into answering your outrageous arguments. First- who are you- or we- to gauge someone’s greatness? Rav Zevin, zz’l, knew as much as Torah as anyone you mentioned. Certainly, Rav Kook zz.l, was of equal stature. But, regardless of this artificial measure, events prove someone wrong or right. You continue to promulgate the fantasy opinion that things are terrible in Eretz Yisroel, that everyone is being shot at and killed, that it would be just honky-dory if all jews lived under Moslem sovereignty. All of these arguments are the equal of seeing pink elephants fly over the roof.

    In fact, the medinah is thriving, Torah is at its heighest in a thousand years (at least)and the real danger is for Jews living in France, Argentina, Russia, Hingary.etc….

    So, continue presenting your fanciful arguments. Sadly for you, few people beleive in them.

    And, can you please explain to me why the Brisker zz’l, went to live in Eretz Yisroel rather that the United States? How could he live together with al lthrse “ovdei avodah zarah”?

    in reply to: The Dov Lipman Response�Controversial? #955509
    rabbiofberlin
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    HaKatan; you routinely quote the Brisker Rov and Reb Elchonon with harsh interpetations of the meidfnah. Please supply written words or a video. Otherwise, you are just blowing smoke.

    in reply to: Motion Sensors on Shabbos #953507
    rabbiofberlin
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    yekke2: thanks for the reply. As you quote from the Haggodo- it is very difficult to “pasken” from an oral psak. Although the person asking the question may rely upon an “oral psak’, the klal must have the exact parameters and this is only possible in writing.

    in reply to: The Dov Lipman Response�Controversial? #955451
    rabbiofberlin
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    health-I hope you had a good yomtov.

    You really live in a fantasy world if you think that “the Islam religion hasn’t changed over hundreds of years”. And you double that dose of fantasy if you think that all what happens in all the countries I mentioned have to do with the medinah (Nigeria??).

    HaKatan: As I and other posters have been saying for a while: you are blinded by an irrational hatred (fear?) of Zionism and therefore you make the most fanciful claims.

    in reply to: Motion Sensors on Shabbos #953505
    rabbiofberlin
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    yekke2: thanks for your honest answer. This is why you can never rely upon so-called oral decisions. It could have been done in so many different ways and therefore it is important to know the actual parameters.

    Note that YOU added the words “and it is assur” which is not what happened with the Rov you mentioned. His quote (as per your own admission) is that R”Shlomo Zalman said that “a sensor is switch”. OK. But then, there are many things that can happen and will engender different piskei halocho.

    in reply to: The Dov Lipman Response�Controversial? #955444
    rabbiofberlin
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    health- “the basic hatred of jews from the muslin world is because the Jews made a medinah”. mmmmm….I would think that the armenians, copts, assyrians X-ians and multitude of others would dispute your contention that hatred of the muslims to the other religions rest solely on the medinah….

    The sad part is that you live in a fantasy world of your own making. How the Jews fared in the Ottoman world has no relationship to today’s world, when -as Leyzer wrote- the Muslim religion has metastasized into a virulent , murderous religion that will not deal kindly with any religion other than their own-see Egypt, Iran, Iraq, Turkey, Nigeria and others, too numerous to mention. Your fantasia would bring destruction and catastrophe to the Jewish people. NEVER AGAIN!

    in reply to: Motion Sensors on Shabbos #953501
    rabbiofberlin
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    “I can only try ” has the sensible reply. The whole issue of electric circuits being triggered unwittingly is replete with “dovor she-ein miskaven’ and “lo niche lei”. Add to that the fact that some major poskim don’t consider electricity a “doirasai’ and add to that “kovod habrios” (that allows a shvus on shabbos).

    to yekke- Can you show me wehere R”Shlomo Zalman zz’l paskened the way yoy report?

    in reply to: The Dov Lipman Response�Controversial? #955441
    rabbiofberlin
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    to Hakatan and health! First, allow me to wish you a gut yomtov! Tonight, we will all learning the same Torah! I can live in harmony with everyone ! (and do,btw, where I live!). You have a “shittoh’ that defies any logic and the only reason I answer your questions-and many other posters agree with me-is because espousing your view would lead to a catastrophe for the jewish people. One catastrpohe in our lifetime is enough! never again!

    in reply to: The Dov Lipman Response�Controversial? #955421
    rabbiofberlin
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    mdd: i know the pirkei avos qualities about learning torah- but tell me, truthfully, do you expect today people to be abjectly poor ,not being able to give their children food, not being able to pay rent , yet spending their time learning ? what ever happened to the mishne in kiddushin? the kesubah? and, as I asked another poster, what happened to all those wo remained in europe and heeded their rabbonim’s advice up to the Second World war?

    in reply to: The Dov Lipman Response�Controversial? #955418
    rabbiofberlin
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    applesauch: what was the result of holding back all those who wanted to leave Europe? Think about it a minute…and get back to me!

    in reply to: The Dov Lipman Response�Controversial? #955417
    rabbiofberlin
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    health: I’ll let the people at large decide whether your arguments or mine are the right ones. No need to keep on regurgitating the same lines of argument.

    Secondly- you continue your lunatic options of “giving away the medinah to simply save lives”. What are you smoking? Have you looked around the neighbourhood a little? Syria is killing tens of thousands of their own people…. Egypt is persecuting the Copts everywhere..Iran is imprisoning tens of thousands of their own citizens…Turkey (your very favorite Turkey) is killing the Kurds and imprisoning their citizens, on the way to an Islamic republic…AND YOU WANT US TO GIVE AEAY THE MEDINAH TO…WHOM??? stop your lunacy!

    in reply to: The Dov Lipman Response�Controversial? #955407
    rabbiofberlin
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    I must be a glutton for punishment because,normally, i would totally ignore the rantings of HaKatan and Health,his alter ego. I will only say one thing: most of the pro-zionist posters are fair to both sides. They feel (like me) that the medinah was a blessing “min hashomayim” and that its founding has brought untold blessings to the Jews. They also recognize that there were abuses at times and that it still is a work in progress,making advances every day.

    You-in contrast- see nothing good in the medinah (always expressing yourself in terrible ways)and you campaign continually for its destruction (see also Health’s lunatic Turkish option), without giving one moment’s thought to what would happen- chas vecholiloh- if your wishes ever became reality.

    Now, that is the difference between a normal debate with legitimate arguments on both sides and your accusations that have no basis in the truth and the quotation of many comments out of context, both historically and textually.

    SO, whether you represent officially any group, you sure are the most persistent apologist for a shittah that is losing ground every day.

    in reply to: The Dov Lipman Response�Controversial? #955394
    rabbiofberlin
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    HaKatan: i did not have much time to look over all comments and just realised you asserted- in opposition to my statement- that you have z”no intention of denigrating anyone’. Now that’s a belly laugh. For years now, you have become the main apologist for the terrible things that are said about millions of jews (many chareidm includdd, btw) so spare me the crocodiel tears.

    As far as the opposition to Zionism by many Rabbonim-so what? there were always two sides to any story. The Holocaust and the founding of the medinah put paid to that debate. Look who survived.

    in reply to: Women wearing pants #952715
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    mewho: dyeing one’s hair or beard is a question that has been asked by many. I think that R”moshe zz’l has a teshuvo but I’ll investigate further. My point was that if today many men do it ,why does it remain an issur of “lo Tilbash’? See the rest of the discussion on this thread!

    in reply to: Women wearing pants #952714
    rabbiofberlin
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    DaasYochid: Thank you for pointing me to the Rashbo. I read (and re-read) it carefully and also looked at the gemoro in Nazir to whioc he alludes. In truth, the teshuvo raises more questions than it gives answers . Firstly- the person asks the Rashbo the question whether the custom of people “shaving under their chin and the throat” (obviously to avoid “hashchoso beta-ar in “Pe-as zekeinecho”) is allowed, as the people do it all the time. So, does the Rashbo prohibit this? In other words, according to the Rashbo, can we -today!- shave anywhere? According to your intimation that the Rashbo holds that,once it is a “malbush isha” it remains Ossur forever- dos that mean that we- today- do not hold like the Rahsbo??

    Secondly-if you look at the actual gemoro- it ends up allowing to scrape hair from under the armpits ,asl ong as it is with a “beged’ a cloth. Why should that be so, if any shaving like women is ossur?

    Lastly, although the Rashbo does indees intimate that any shaving would be ossur- from the gemoro “Nazir” (59a) it seesm that only “chaveirim” followed that precept. Maybe it is only a middus cahssidus, and nto the halacha? More questions tob elucidate this.

    in reply to: Women wearing pants #952692
    rabbiofberlin
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    mewho: have you ever worn leggings or thick tights? Why do you assume that it is ‘enough”? The Bach clearly thought differently.

    To Sam2 and DaasYochid: I have followed your back and forth but as I do not have access to the Teshvas Horashbo-I cannot comment. However, I doubt that there is anything that is “inherently’ masculine or feminine. Clearly, viewing into mirrrors, wearing robes or pants (my thanks Sam2 for the gemoro Niddah), shaving itself are all things that have changed over the years. I would include tinting one’s hair in this. Many men tint their hair today- why should that be ossur? Customs change and so does anything based on “what is normal” (see covering a woman’s hair and kiras shema in the Aruch Hashulchan and other Poskim)

    in reply to: The Dov Lipman Response�Controversial? #955364
    rabbiofberlin
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    For all those who criticize Rabbi Lipman and make him out to be the most evil person since Titus, I challenge you to actually read what he did say and see Rav Feldman’s apology to him.The facts are simple-as Rabbi Lipman maintains- the chareidim who do not acquire even the most basic secular knowledge, like math, will never be able to enter the workforce and will be poor forever, dependent upon zedakah all their lives. That,says Rabbi Lipman is not the Torah way. The Torah clearly enjoins husbands to feed their wives, fathers to teach their sons a profession and all Jews to go out to work for a living. He is right and the chareidi public in Israel is now paying for their misguided ways.

    in reply to: The Dov Lipman Response�Controversial? #955362
    rabbiofberlin
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    to all: “Hakatan’s mission in life is to denigrate millions of jews and maintan that the worst thing that happeend to the jews was the medinah. He continues the big lie that the Rabbonim of the past agree with him -they don’t and he never actually shows writings to support him. As it is useless to argue with him, I won’t. EXcept to say that millions of jews disagree with him and that Israel will live ‘lolmei ad”

    in reply to: The Dov Lipman Response�Controversial? #955346
    rabbiofberlin
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    Hakatan: please check with argentinian jews, russian jews, french jews,turkish jews (what’s left of them) whether the medinah has “been a disaster” as you maintain…Or maybe you should aks the tens of thousands of avreichim in israel who have lived their whole lives supported by the medinah,whether it is ‘a disaster” the disaster is amongst the dwindling few who still cling to an obviously wrong shittah…..

    in reply to: The Dov Lipman Response�Controversial? #955318
    rabbiofberlin
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    I am not commenting on this controversy but it is absolutely outrageous that a “MOD” should EVER comment on ANY comment-let alone the kind of comment that Moderator 007writes on this. If you want to comment , do so under your own screen name and do not hide behind a “mod” number. Disgusting.

    What’s the difference? The screen names are just as anonymous.

    -95 (AKA Yanki Shnipitchuky)

    in reply to: Yom Yerushalayim #1017967
    rabbiofberlin
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    DAMoshe: I join you in the thanks for this marvelous day!

    in reply to: Men Shteiging on Shavuos, Wearing Pants #952034
    rabbiofberlin
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    Sam2-thank you! And indeed, as you indicated- although the Aruch Hashulchan indicates it would only apply to tight pants.

    in reply to: Men Shteiging on Shavuos, Wearing Pants #952030
    rabbiofberlin
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    Sam2: your “mareh mekomos” for the prohibition of pants for men must be erroneous. Aruch Hashulchan ,Even Ho’ezer 21 does not have a S/K 13 and I quickly perused the gemoro in niddah 13A and 13B that you are pointing to and I don’;t see what you are maintaining.

    in reply to: Women wearing pants #952643
    rabbiofberlin
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    The Bach (no meikel) allows women to wear pants agaisnt the cold. I think that yemenite women always wore pajama-like pants.

    in reply to: Daven for Eretz Yisroel #950987
    rabbiofberlin
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    I must be a glutton for punishment because nothing that is said here will make an iota of difference but , “l’maan haemes” I have to put in my two cents, in response to DaasYochid and others.

    It is irrelevant how many people are available for the army or how many people are or are not learning. IF the situation today in israel is one of danger, then everyone has a CHIYUV to go to the army. As simple as that. Look up the mishne end of soitah and the rambam. It is uequivocal that the duty of defending the Jewish yishuv falls on every one!

    in reply to: Mechitzah question #950636
    rabbiofberlin
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    Daas Yochid: I will concede to you that it is not immediately apparent that the families mixed together at the korbon pessach -even though each familiy pretty cleatly sat togetherr-but , today, you will find that most “yeshivish” chasunos have a mechitza- on top of separate seating. Then, some people say that it is because of the dancing.

    in reply to: Mechitzah question #950634
    rabbiofberlin
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    benignuman: “bemechilas keovd toroscho”- if you look at the actual teshuvo, you will see that R”Moshe zz’l brings proof that no mechitza is needed by a “chasunoh” from korbon pessach- when families ate together and no separation was required to eat together. So, it seems pretty clear that we are talking about eating together-without separate seating.

    As far as your argument about ‘closed family group”, “im kein ein ledovor sof”- it is impossible to gauge each event individually and, in any case, at the korbon pessach, we had different families eating together,not just one family.

    Lastly, I looked up the teshuvoh you mentioned in even Ho-Ezer 4,60. R’Moshe zz’l does indeed say that talking to a woman -same as embracing – may come under the issur of “lo sikrevu”, but it is only when there is a real relationship between the two people. I don’t see where ‘kalus rosh’ is an issur medoraisa. I read the teshuvo diffenretly than you do.

    in reply to: Rabbis and the draft #951207
    rabbiofberlin
    Participant

    just a member: You are totally mistaken. there were plenty of chareidim that served in the army from 1948 onwards. Check your facts.

    in reply to: Shas pin test #950267
    rabbiofberlin
    Participant

    wrtiersoul: A pin test means you stick a pin in one word on an amud in shas- and the person can tell you what is on the other side of the amud ,continuing through the masechta.

    in reply to: Mechitzah question #950625
    rabbiofberlin
    Participant

    benignuman- please inform us where R”Moshe zz’l says that “kalus rosh” is “midoraisa”. How do you measure it? In which circumstances do you enforce it? And what do you make of the testimony of many people that at the chassunos of many Rabbonim (including R”Moshe zz’l)in the forties and fifties, there was mixed seating?

    in reply to: Mechitzah question #950623
    rabbiofberlin
    Participant

    charliehall (and others): tefillah ,in its present form, came to us quite late-certainly after the ‘anshei knesset hagedolah” and even afterwards if you know when “velamalshinim’ was instituted.For a long time ,we had the ‘bekki-im’ who repeated the tefillah for those who could not read. Hence, I am not sure whn regular minyanim were established and certainly, we don’t have any idea when “botei knesset’ were established. It strains credulity to think that “botei knesst” in their present form were established during the Bayis Hamikdosh’time.The architecture of synagogues date from the late geonic time, not before. I still think that the separation of sexes was pretty common but not necessariyl the mechitza. And -as charliehall notes- never i nall circumstances.

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