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Matan- you clearly are either not married, or have never been to such classes, because they are very OBVIOUSLY not appropriate to attend together prior to marriage..?????? ???? …
just for the record health yes, some of us actually are married the goq-lol! hopefully not too many where..!
before the couple Is actually married- going together to classes would be (TO SAY THE LEAST) extremely uncomfortable and even immodest.
a MUST is the blind museum in the children’s museum in Holon. it is worth traveling from far. there also is an option for the deaf museum, but if its one of the two- the blind one, is an eye-opening experience (no pun intended)
another important topic that is almost never discussed before marriage is the Expression of affection. in the community we grow up in this subject has to be addressed in a very clear manner prior to marriage. as ‘the little I know’ mentioned, this issue should be addressed directly and openly, even in earlier stages, before actually getting engaged for instance in seminaries and/or yeshivot
5 weeks seems like quit a long period of time, it is deffinitly enough time for the couple to know where they are headed by now. also in normal non-marital relationships there are often quiet moments when there is nothing to be said, and it is very normal. this should not be a concern at all.hatzlacha
from personal experience, it is EXTREMLY important to have the Kallah teacher speak to the chatan or the chatan teacher, as this very personal subject can become very uncomfortable if both sides wherent taught the same information.