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May 3, 2012 11:59 pm at 11:59 pm in reply to: Words from an ex IDF solider for Yom HaZikaron #1163186popa_bar_abbaParticipant
Yes I would. And I have a good game we can play now.
You’ll argue my side, and I’ll argue your side. I bet we can do it successfully enough, that each of us will have nothing further to add.
May 3, 2012 11:19 pm at 11:19 pm in reply to: Words from an ex IDF solider for Yom HaZikaron #1163184popa_bar_abbaParticipantYichus: Ah, I remember the Moderator from Frumteens. I have spent years trying to clean up some of his messes. What’s sad is that so many teenagers believed his baseless and anti-Torah propaganda. I think his “P’sak” that girls should watch television before learning Gemara takes the cake though.
Much as I despise Joe, I actually agree with that idea. I think it is better for girls to watch television than to learn gemara. I am much less concerned about the girl who is watching television.
May 3, 2012 5:43 am at 5:43 am in reply to: Did I ever tell you about the time I almost got gored by a bull? #874135popa_bar_abbaParticipantDid I ever tell you about the time I almost gored a bull?
popa_bar_abbaParticipantjust as there is a bit of seriousness in popa
Not sure if I feel flattered or violated.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantMy SIL says:
Heres what I would post….
First of all I LOVE the night shift! The day of my first shift I take an hour or two nap. And the next day if I am also working that night I sleep for around 6 hours. If I am not working that night than I usually sleep around 3-4 hours and than go to bed not that late that night. I usually work 2 in a row and than a 3rd later on in the week.
This is a great schedule if you have kids, I send them off to school go to sleep and am up when they come home. I never have any issue getting back on a normal schedule!! Just don’t sleep a full nights sleep during the day when you are not working the next night. Some people have hard time sleeping, I use benadryl to help me sleep and my sister uses ambien, ask you doctor if you have a hard time sleeping during the day. I hope this helps!
popa_bar_abbaParticipantYou really need to speak to your parents about this.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantThis is perhaps the worst troll I have ever seen.
It doesn’t even make sense within itself. Why can’t he be from dovid hamelech? How the blazes would you know to think he isn’t?
popa_bar_abbaParticipantI met a frum guy who is a professor at harvard, and he explained it to me.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantI spoke to someone. Thanks.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantPBA: As was I. A woman not making a Bracha is just as based on the Bahag as a man who missed/will miss not making a Bracha is.
valid point. Yet, that wasn’t the argument you were making before. I think you should go back and read your posts. They seem a bit cavalier with the mishna berura’s psak. That’s all I’m saying.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantI was talking more about the women making a bracha thing.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantI was trying to figure out what my response was.
You are correct that I got carried away, and that we are just talking in learning.
Still, it does bother me. I think you’re being a bit too cavalier, and I wonder why.
April 29, 2012 4:05 am at 4:05 am in reply to: Davening With A Minyan vs. Davening Without A Minyan #871560popa_bar_abbaParticipantpopa: What’s your take? I saw an old post of yours saying that its okay to miss minyan. (Or at least not so bad. Talking about bochorim waking up late or vacationing.)
Does a man have any obligation to daven with a minyan or can he simply daven in his house by himself whenever he feels like it?
He must go to minyan.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantSomething you see from each individual case?
I don’t mean ter be rude, but you are hardly old enough or knowledgeable enough to be deciding on a case by case basis when a posek needed both reasons he says, and which sources you are able to ignore.
popa_bar_abbaParticipant1. Explain how it is possibly relevant that the shitta he is quoting is from a source he rarely quotes.
2. Explain where this method of psak comes from that if there are two reasons given, and one no longer applies to many people (mind you, it applies to plenty still), that we just change the halacha. Find me a source for this.
Sam: You usually post very good stuff, and I respect your ability to learn.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantIts assumed if there is Kiddushin, there is biah
Look, we are way beyond the discussion here, but ok. Someone suggested that perhaps because the marriage is illegal, the state would say the money doesn’t belong to him, which might invalidate the marriage. I pointed out that that is not how the law works. It is irrelevant if other things are illegal.
1. Why can a father marry off his daughter like this, but a mother cannot?
Because G-d said so. He gets to make rules, because He created the world.
Also, a mother together with a brother could if the father is dead. The marriage is d’rabbanan, and the daughter is allowed to object when she grows up.
2. Why can a father marry off his daughter like this, but cannot marry off his son like this?
Same answer.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantPopa is still an am haaretz.
Today at shul, I was the only ben torah there. There is usually a rav who davens there (there is no rav of the shul), but he didn’t come today.
So I’m thinking, if they have a shaila on the torah, they will probably ask me. But I don’t know the halachos, because I skipped them, because when would I ever have to know them?
??? ????, there was a shaila, so they called me over. I said, I don’t know these halachos, I never learned them.
But what else should we do? So I go over, and all the ink is scratched off from that letter, but the brownish mark is still there. So I say, I don’t know if this is good, I can try to look it up, but I may not find it so fast. So we put the torah away, because nobody knows (and take another one).
Then, I pull the yad yisroel, and find 143:25, and behold, it is a machlokes, and the mishna berura says to not put it away.
Oh well.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantsam: Sorry, I don’t think your reasoning is halachicly sound.
I think you can see a difference between someone who is crossing the dateline, and someone who simply forgets year after year.
I think you can see that if the mishna berura says a halacha and offers to reasons, that even if one reason no longer is true that the halacha still stands.
I think you can see that if the mishna berura says that all women should not make a bracha because they will probably miss a day, that it was intended to apply even to a woman who was going to be meticulous and set up reminders to make sure she didn’t miss a day.
I don’t think what I am saying is chidushdik in any way. It is the pashut way we read halacha.
This doesn’t mean there aren’t valid minhagim where women do make a bracha. Yitayningwut says in his family the women do make a bracha. And in those families, then of course the women should make a bracha.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantReally? You think a man who usually messes up should not make a bracha? And no posek ever mentioned that?
popa_bar_abbaParticipantHis second reason is that they don’t understand hebrew, and thus don’t understand what they are counting. So you are correct that would not apply to women who do know hebrew. Yet, you will notice that although there were many women then who did know hebrew, he doesn’t say that they should make a bracha.
His first reason is that they will probably miss a day. I don’t know why that would have changed. I think that most people mess up even now, and probably more women than men because they don’t go to maariv.
My reasons were given to speculate why women who are going to mess up don’t say a bracha, while men who know that they mess up every year still make a bracha. That is not explicit there.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantzdad: Yes of course. The biah would be statutory rape. But that doesn’t mean the kiddushin is a crime.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantIt’s possible.
Why do you say the reason doesn’t apply anymore? I always understood the difference that:
A. Men daven with a minyan, so they count then.
B. Men are chayav to make a bracha, so there is no choice and they need to make it. But women are not chayav to, so it is better if they don’t since they will probably miss a day.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantReally? I don’t hear that.
B’shlama if the law said that it isn’t his money, then fine. But the law isn’t saying that.
In fact, the law doesn’t even say that you can’t do kiddushin with a minor. It just says you can’t be civilly married. There is no law against doing a kiddushin which is halachicly binding.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantOk, so you think that proves that you don’t need a real sfeik sfeika?
Yitaning: What do you tayna?
popa_bar_abbaParticipant20 Days left until I make my big breakout of Sing Sing and come get you all!!!
popa_bar_abbaParticipantWell, I replied anyway.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantIf he does it, the kidushin is certainly binding.
Of course, he is a rasha, as zahava’s dad notes in the name of Rav Shlomo Zalman.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantSam: See shaarei teshuva 20
popa_bar_abbaParticipantYes. this is an interesting idea you are saying, I’ll look around some more and ask someone.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantI’ll rob you.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantHmmm. That could be.
As far as the minhag, the minhag is that women don’t make a bracha. I’m not aware of any other minhag, and a bunch of feminists deciding to change the minhag does not a minhag make.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantHer younger sister is my wife. And I’ll blazes ask her anything I choose. If you don’t want to me know, then either make a new username, or stop posting.
April 27, 2012 2:00 am at 2:00 am in reply to: Who In The CR Should Get "CR Smicha" By Now? #1211769popa_bar_abbaParticipantI’m giving a shoutout to hello99.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantI’m not aware that we ever had such a problem, and resent the implication.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantTalk to your parents about it.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantWhich part is barbaric? That they don’t let women out of prison to raise their kids, or that they don’t have kids growing up in prison?
April 24, 2012 5:12 am at 5:12 am in reply to: Why Are Divorces Usually Initiated by the Wife? #870680popa_bar_abbaParticipantBecause women usually get money in the settlement, and men usually pay money. Most divorces are simply a means of getting money.
I have heard that 70% of divorces were actually perfectly happy couples, until the wife got in her head that she could get money from him by getting divorced.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantReading my posts, I also think I’m not the same type.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantMy SIL doesn’t remember her log in info
April 23, 2012 4:04 am at 4:04 am in reply to: The Missing 165 Years – Discrepancy Between Jewish and Secular Calendars #1014156popa_bar_abbaParticipantWho are those “some” that think Chazal messed up the years? Talmidei Chachomim or secular historians?
Notice how you changed my connotation from being on purpose to being an error. Why did you do that?
Where is this famous question discussed in Rabbinic literature?
I don’t know.
Why not assume the error on the part of the secular historians? Why assume the error to Chazal?
Who said anything about an error?
And what is the relevancy of the year 6000?
Someone else will explain this to you.
April 23, 2012 3:41 am at 3:41 am in reply to: The Missing 165 Years – Discrepancy Between Jewish and Secular Calendars #1014153popa_bar_abbaParticipantThis is a famous question. There is no really good answer.
Some think that chazal at some point messed up the years so that we wouldn’t really know when we were hitting 6000.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantI can’t summarize it, because I don’t understand it
popa_bar_abbaParticipantcan you get it at the library?
April 23, 2012 2:14 am at 2:14 am in reply to: What to research b4 going on the shidduch date??? #869773popa_bar_abbaParticipantFind a pretty girl. She can always change her personality, or religiosity, but there’s no making her pretty.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantPopa will email this to his sister in law and she can post advice.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantYes, I did not use “reshus hayachid” as the term of art. I used it simply to mean private property. I was aware that it had a different status because it was not fenced.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantPopa does not concur with many cholent makers.
Popa thinks that the makings of a good cholent are:
Simplicity,
Time,
Flanken.
Simplicity: Just put in potatoes, barley, beans, onion, flanken ends, salt, pepper, garlic. v’zehu.
Time: Put it up thursday night.
Flanken: Buy flanken ends (they’re relatively cheap). If you can’t find those, then get neck bones and also add some oil.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantJust read the article and tell me how it works, ok?
popa_bar_abbaParticipantThere was no gate around it. We were in a driveway. You tell me what to call it.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantI want to talk about dynamic hedging. The paper I was reading was completely basing itself on the black scholes theory, so I cited it. I donno much about this, so I figured that would make people understand what I was talking about.
I was reading 57 Tax L. Rev. 397. And didn’t understand so much as a word.
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