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  • in reply to: Dear Popa Bar Abby (Advice Column) #1091876
    popa_bar_abba
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    Dear Popa Bar Abby,

    Why don’t we have cheesecake on Chanukah?

    People often eat things when there is a yetzer hara to eat them. That is why people eat milchigs on shevuos, because you are obligated to eat meat, so they have a yetzer hara to not eat meat.

    On chanuka, however, there is no mitzva to eat meat specifically every day, so there is no yetzer hara to eat milchigs.

    in reply to: Dear Popa Bar Abby (Advice Column) #1091869
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    Biting nails:

    Popa once needed to stop wasting time on the internet when he was working on the computer. So he said he would give 10 dollars to obamas campaign each time he did it. Try this for a few weeks.

    in reply to: Dear Popa Bar Abby (Advice Column) #1091864
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    How about torah jeapordy instead?

    That is a very good question. I would suggest both.

    in reply to: Dear Popa Bar Abby (Advice Column) #1091861
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    Could you pose that as a question, please?

    (I mean, oops, sorry, I didn’t remember. Link to it)

    in reply to: Eco Mitzvahs? #877506
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    This is an especially funny thread.

    Here the chareidim are taken to task for adopting chumros in areas such as tznius, where the medrash says that when Hashem made chava, with each limb He sais “t’hei isha tznua”.

    And here those people are making up this outrageous and baseless chumra on such wisps of connection.

    in reply to: Eco Mitzvahs? #877505
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    Also, in the meantime, I have figured out the answer to how recycling can be cheaper. The wikipedia page was referring to the municipalty’s cost. There are presumably state and federal subsidies for recycling, and extra fees on landfilling plus extra costs brought on by regulatory compliance with regulations and statutes such as RCRA.

    Haven’t seen charlie in a long while. I once considered emailing him at his hospital address, but decided not to.

    in reply to: who will speak at the Siyum Hashas? #876422
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    Ok, yes it is a davar pashut.

    in reply to: Is there a Frum DO NOT CALL LIST? #876380
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    I kind of don’t. It is normal human emotions to become engaged in what you are doing. It is normal for a doctor to become emotionally involved in the people he is curing, and to be happy about the fact that his business is curing people.

    Why do you deny that to people whose business is raising money for causes?

    in reply to: Is there a Frum DO NOT CALL LIST? #876376
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    If your purpose was to avoid giving them the percentage, you would find the organization and give them the money directly.

    You just don’t want phone calls.

    in reply to: who will speak at the Siyum Hashas? #876418
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    Sam:

    Honest question? You were in doubt?

    in reply to: I can't help myself #876407
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    Check out the ibn ezra by ki yigof shor ish es shor re’eihu.

    Whose friend?

    in reply to: When read shiduchim #876189
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    Didn’t you just post the same question?

    Anyway, the word is redt, and it means to say. If you want to say it in english, say told.

    in reply to: Started Shiduchim & need help with Seminary Facts #901964
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    The whole idea of research is outrageous, and a waste of time and effort.

    The correct way to do it is the way businesses do it. You ask for the information you want, and then you put in the contract that if they made misrepresentations then you get remedies. That is what I did with my wife, and it worked perfectly.

    in reply to: Yuuuumy Shavuos Menu #1017681
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    1. Bassar

    2. Yayin

    3. Dessert

    in reply to: Calling Everyone You Disagree With a "Troll" or Someone Else #1165831
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    Well, I make it a policy to not disagree with people on the CR. My only exceptions are for trolls and for “Acher”.

    So if I disagree, I know it’s either a troll or Acher.

    (You like the new way of refering to him?)

    in reply to: Here we go again #914149
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    Is that why? I assume when someone leaves that its because joseph has emailed them and threatened them unless they leave.

    Just sayin’

    in reply to: Here we go again #914148
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    Is that why? I assume when someone leaves that its because joseph has emailed them and threatened them unless they leave.

    Just sayin’

    in reply to: where to buy a hat #876026
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    Popa buys his hat at bencraft, and buys the middle priced borsalino. Last time I think it was about 170.

    They kind of last for a long time.

    in reply to: Kugel #876177
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    My neice has a cd about the aleph beis. The best song is “kuf is for kugel…”

    in reply to: Mayim Achronim for Guests #876213
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    ok, maybe we agree.

    Maybe I just analogized the CR people telling him what to do, to himself trying to find out the correct thing to do; rather than to the guy demanding it of him.

    Anyway, Rabeinu yona says that if you go somewhere for shabbos and they don’t serve shaloshudes, you should be meiz panav and say “??? ???”. So you see, you are supposed to ask the baal babos to do it for you. (This part was not serious)

    in reply to: Mayim Achronim for Guests #876211
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    I’m not telling people anything. People should do it themselves, because the whole point of the world is to emulate Hashem, and Hashem’s whole point in creating the world was to do chessed for us.

    The torah begins with chessed (Hashem clothed adam and chava), and ends with chessed (Hashem buried moshe.)

    So yes, I would sooner have the entire world standing on their head during shmone esrei, than declare something off limits for chessed.

    And I am about as anti chumrah as they come. I think that keeping chumrahs beyond one’s level is a way of avoiding having to work on one’s avodas Hashem in a meaningful way. I think that an emphasis on chumrah for most people is a de-emphasis on middos development. I am so ready to bash chumraing, you wouldn’t believe it.

    And I used to think that it was a real problem in Judaism. But you won’t notice me posting about that very much these days. I’ve found so many better and bigger problems.

    in reply to: Mayim Achronim for Guests #876208
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    Sam: I hear the concern, but my rebbeim never said anything about not doing chessed for the sake of making sure people would know about my minhag.

    If I have a guest who doesn’t eat gebrochts, I would gladly not have kneidlach.

    in reply to: Mayim Achronim for Guests #876206
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    yitayning:

    I’m not sure what you are saying.

    A person ought to do chessed for other people, whenever he can, and to the degree it won’t be too hard for him. This applies whether the other person’s need is a chumrah, a chiyuv, a narishkeit, or whatever.

    Of course, there is more of a chiyuv when there is greater need, and we should rank his chiyuvim above his chumrahs which should be above his narishkeit, but you can’t categorically say that we should never do chessed for someone’s narishkeit.

    in reply to: Technology and the Third Beis Hamikdash #1015944
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    Hmmm. It will obviously still have all the keilim. But I imagine it will have modern lighting and heating. I think G-d knows how to make it.

    in reply to: No More Yeshiva World News :( #876543
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    Obviously, YWN does not need to shut down since the editor uses it for work, which was a bpheirush heter.

    Also, most posters also surf during work (it appears), so they are also ok.

    Popa surfs from his blackberry, which is not really internet because it goes through the telephone system and has a din of “phone arichta”.

    Sent from my verizon wireless blackberry.

    in reply to: Rum #875638
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    But where’s the rum gone???

    in reply to: Protests #875968
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    Shkoyach

    in reply to: HONEYMOON OVER: FACEBOOK PLUNGES #875629
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    It is because of all the people closing their accounts after the asifa.

    in reply to: Let's make YCT teshuvas, by popa #1218344
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    Eduyyot 2:2 reads, “Lo ra’inu eino ra’ayah.”

    I hope I’m not violating this thread’s rules by posting a serious response. The rema says that Lo rainu is a raiha regarding minhagim. CM 37:22. That is why we say that women cannot be a shochet, because the minhag is that they don’t, as we know because we don’t see it done. Rema YD 1:1; Shach 1:1.

    in reply to: Women only Coffee Room! #875471
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    Just wait till those men come back and see how intelligent we can be without them!

    Ok, first discussion: My husband says if I make milchigs for shevuos, he’s eating in yeshiva. How can I find out if his chavrusa will also do that, and then should I invite his wife, or should I try to go there?

    in reply to: Women only Coffee Room! #875463
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    popa is a woman. he can stay

    in reply to: Let's make YCT teshuvas, by popa #1218342
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    I have proof. I don’t need to prove it to you. If you don’t think so, then you shouldn’t be reading this thread.

    So you see, between me and you, you are the avaryon.

    in reply to: Let's make YCT teshuvas, by popa #1218339
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    Yes, I do. But as I said, we aren’t talking about that in this thread. You can start your own thread to talk about it.

    in reply to: Let's make YCT teshuvas, by popa #1218337
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    last time I looked YCT and its adherents are shomer shabbos and keep every mitzvah.

    lol. Good one! :-))

    in reply to: Let's make YCT teshuvas, by popa #1218335
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    You are all ruining my thread. This is about making fun of them, not about whether we should.

    If you don’t wish to make fun of them, then just don’t click on this thread. But don’t come here and ruin my fun.

    Thank you.

    (P.S. I find it astounding that in 2012 there are still posters here defending conservative judaism).

    in reply to: property lines – who in the city can solve issues #876008
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    Ok, so go to beis din.

    in reply to: property lines – who in the city can solve issues #876006
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    If you have a mortgage on the house, you may be contractually required to get involved. You should ask the lawyer that also.

    You say you don’t want to get a lawyer involved. That is stupid. That is the same as saying you don’t want to solve it. If you don’t want to solve it, then just don’t.

    in reply to: Self esteem #875336
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    Also, I don’t believe in chemical imbalance. There is not a shred of evidence that any psychological disorder under the sun is caused by a chemical imbalance.

    The evidence they usually cite is that people who are suffering from different psychological disorders will have more or less of different chemicals. This proves nothing.

    They neglect to ask whether it is the chemical which is causing the disorder, or the disorder which is causing the chemical. The brain does everything through chemicals. When it wants you to be hungry, it releases chemicals. When it wants you to be angry, it releases chemicals. When it wants you to sleep, it releases chemicals. When it wants you to be sad, it releases chemicals.

    So of course depressed people show different chemicals. Because that is how the brain tells the body to be depressed–by releasing chemicals. Why does the brain tell the body to be depressed? Because something is in your past or present which should make you depressed.

    Just like when someone cuts you off, your brain releases chemicals which make you angry and make your heart pound. Does the guy cut you off because of the chemicals, or do the chemicals come because the guy cuts you off?

    in reply to: the neighbor from – – – – #875237
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    A. There are systems you can install which will clean the air, so that you can’t smell it. It is expensive, but cheaper than moving, and cheaper than being mad at your neighbors.

    B. Offer them money to stop smoking outside.

    in reply to: Googling Your Date #1075021
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    I think not googling her, is negligence per se.

    in reply to: Googling Your Date #1075017
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    due diligence.

    in reply to: Let's make YCT teshuvas, by popa #1218319
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    yytz: No, I won’t.

    Certainly not on this thread, since I don’t want to sidetrack it. This thread is for making fun, not for discussing the merits.

    Also, I’m not sure I want people reading that stuff.

    in reply to: property lines – who in the city can solve issues #876004
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    If he is putting stuff on your property, you have a serious problem to address.

    You should probably speak to a lawyer. You might also just take the boards down (since, it is your property, after all).

    But, how do you know where the property line is?

    in reply to: Financial Support #874963
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    Syag, that’s crazy. I changed my mind; I’m not dating any relatives of yours

    in reply to: Let's make YCT teshuvas, by popa #1218317
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    That’s ok. I earned my arrogance.

    Whenever someone starts with the environmental perspective, I start getting ready to be told that my opinion doesn’t count because I’m not as cultured as them.

    in reply to: Let's make YCT teshuvas, by popa #1218311
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    How about from a “hello, how do you do” perspective. I got no interest in academia. If you can’t defend it from a normal perspective, it probably isn’t worth defending.

    in reply to: Financial Support #874958
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    There are girls and boys.

    Boys whose parents can’t or won’t support them, will either start working, or marry someone who either can support them or has parents who will.

    Girls whose parents can’t or won’t support them, will either marry someone who can support them, or will marry someone whose parents will support them, or will wait until she can support them. Sometimes, parents may be more willing to help for a couple of years until she finishes her degree.

    in reply to: Let's make YCT teshuvas, by popa #1218306
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    Shaila: If one has a house full of sifrei torah, does it still need a mezuza?

    Teshuva: A sefer what?

    in reply to: Let's make YCT teshuvas, by popa #1218305
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    1. Of course I have substantive knowledge. I know some of them personally, and have read lots of their rubbish on the internets.

    2. I don’t have all these categories: MO, LWMO, LBO, TRO, etc.

    I have two categories: Rabbinic Judaism, and Other. They are undoubtedly Other.

    3. This thread is not about discussing what is wrong with them. You are welcome to make a thread about that. This thread is a humorous and satirical thread making fun of them. If you want to know why it is a mitzva to make fun of them (which it is), you’ll have to open that other thread. I don’t pledge to post on it.

    in reply to: Let's make YCT teshuvas, by popa #1218301
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    Teshuva: Many sources do say that LH is prohibited, including some that compare LH to the three cardinal sins. However, in that context, a question must be asked – why is LH, unlike the three cardinal sins, permitted at risk of life?

    It would seem that the deep meaning of this rabbinic adage is that there will come a time when YCT rabbis will permit aspects of all three cardinal sins, such as abortions, worshiping modern idols such as liberalism and feminism, and promoting non-marital gender mingling. Having liberated themselves of these sins, LH will become permitted as well.

    V’yesh omrim: Because there came a time when YCT/conservative “rabbis” are mattir aspects of the three cardinal sins, and then will say that we are still supposed to not say anything bad about them because of “lashon hara”.

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