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  • in reply to: Mazel Tov to Aly Raisman #890611
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    No need to wonder, I posted where I was.

    I don’t respect athletes; I don’t respect the greek lifestyle or values. The entire thing is meaningless to me.

    Why don’t you tell me what you are respecting here?

    in reply to: Choppy #890444
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    zeeskite: Sorry, I judge the rebbi by the talmidim. That’s how the ball rolls.

    And you are correct, there is no way 80 would have let that through. And he’s probably correct to block it, since it’s a dangerous road to start down. Too bad Joseph set this rolling.

    in reply to: El Al Ticket Snafu #890419
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    My opinion: I don’t think anybody could have known it was a mistake. Airline fares fluctuate, and it is normal to have unadvertised sales. I once flew to Belize from Newark for 143 roundtrip. I once flew from LGA to San Fransisco for 40 roundtrip.

    in reply to: Mazel Tov to Aly Raisman #890609
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    She deserves nothing but ignoring her.

    in reply to: Tznius gone too far #890339
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    I don’t see anything too far about this.

    in reply to: Choppy #890436
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    Joseph is a rasha gamur, and edited. That’s about what I know about both of them.

    in reply to: Confiscating Shoes #994320
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    I would pull my kid out of the camp, and file a lawsuit in secular court, and report them to the appropriate administrative agency.

    in reply to: Less popa in your life. But at better times. #890270
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    and he’s back. More popa in your life, and at worse times.

    If you didn’t laugh at Bar shatyya’s last comment, go back and read it again.

    in reply to: Budget for Newlyweds #898744
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    Do you smoke?

    in reply to: Less popa in your life. But at better times. #890264
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    Also, has anyone else noticed that blueberry clif bars strongly resemble bear scat? Why do you think that is?

    popa_bar_abba
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    also, I’ll be happy enough to have frum grandchildren. I won’t care if they eat brussel sprouts as cholent.

    popa_bar_abba
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    true true. but, it won’t have the same blood in it, and people say that meat tastes different depending on what the animal ate also, so there seem to be nuances beyond the cell structure.

    in reply to: Interactive Online Daf Yomi Shiur #889873
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    42: why are you not online?

    popa_bar_abba
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    yireh li, that most people will claim it doesn’t taste as good, and will still eat real meat.

    in reply to: Less popa in your life. But at better times. #890261
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    Canadians are the most politely unhelpful people in the world. The end.

    I think it is really endemic of the culture. They are polite because they want to be perceived that way. But they could care a less to actually help you.

    in reply to: Less popa in your life. But at better times. #890260
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    We heard some canadians singing the national anthem on the trail. We didn’t catch the whole thing, but as near as we can tell, it goes like this:

    G-d keep our land, mosquito free!

    Oh Canada! you rain all over me!

    Oh Canada! we pish all over thee!

    in reply to: Less popa in your life. But at better times. #890259
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    A few comments.

    Popa and bar shattya were in Edmenton for shabbos. If you live in Edmonton, maybe you saw us. We davened in Beth Israel, obviously.

    in reply to: stalker #889553
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    Splain.

    in reply to: How To Get To Siyum HaShas By Train? #889181
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    ConservativeJ

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    I’m embarrassed to ask this question, but, will attendees find it offensive if I bring a camera?

    A lot of people will have cameras and will be taking pictures. So, no, not offensive.

    Unless you are going to gawk at them, and not to join the event. If that is the case, then it would be highly offensive. I only mention this since I don’t know why else you’d be asking if it is offensive.

    in reply to: Guidance before Marriage #889261
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    Can someone please explain to me the stigma in the Orthodox Jewish community in regard to an individual receiving therapy?

    Well, the stigma isn’t really therapy per se, but associating with a therapist. The idea is that since therapists are all weirdos, someone who associates with them must be a weirdo also.

    I myself don’t believe this though. I think that even though someone associates with the therapist weirdos, they could still themselves not be a weirdo.

    in reply to: In honor of Tisha B'av. What you respect about… #1165156
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    bump

    in reply to: Divorcing Shiksa #888091
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    With a shiksa there is always a chashash who the real father is anyways.

    I wonder about that. Is there a chazaka of rov beilos achar habaal by such a relationship? If there isn’t, then is there any chazaka that the kids are his? So then how does the opinion of havlaad mamzer make sense?

    in reply to: Bracha on Corn Bread #888055
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    Well, I made it today for shaloshudes, and made it real milchigs, with milk, butter, and buttermilk.

    Not because it isn’t real pas for purposes of that din–I think it is. But because I only made enough for one meal tomorrow on shabbos.

    in reply to: Divorcing Shiksa #888087
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    Yes, I suppose so. My main point was that kiddush Hashem does not go by what the shkutzim think, and, I think I am probably correct about this also.

    I’m glad you cleared it up.

    in reply to: Divorcing Shiksa #888084
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    Let’s see. In America, I get anti-semitic catcalls all the time. In the civilized European countries, people are afraid to walk outside with a yarlmuke.

    in reply to: Divorcing Shiksa #888080
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    I’ve never researched it. I wouldn’t even know where to look.

    in reply to: Divorcing Shiksa #888078
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    and a fairly harmless one at that

    Do you have a brain? Fairly harmless?

    in reply to: Divorcing Shiksa #888075
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    The passuk says about someone who has children with a non-jewish woman:

    ??’ ???? ?? ???? ???? ???? They have betrayed G-d, by siring alien children

    Meaning, that having shkutzim as children, is an entirely separate problem and betrayal of Hashem, from marrying a shiksa. I think it pretty pashut, that continuing to treat them as children is itself a continuation of the betrayal.

    in reply to: buying and selling miles/points in halacha #887987
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    Sam: That’s an interesting question.

    Secular law generally views the moral obligation of a contract to either perform, or to pay the appropriate damages. That is, it is understood from the beginning that it would not be worth it for the parties to make a contract if they were bound to it no matter what.

    It is a bit funny that halacha would have a sense of contract which doesn’t really make sense. And I wonder what it is.

    I’m not totally clear where contracts are enforceable in halacha anyway, since some of them should be asmachta.

    in reply to: Divorcing Shiksa #888073
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    in previous generations our non-Jewish neighbours were often our persecutors and we could only fight back with words. Nowadays it’s no longer true. Our non-Jewish neighbours are usually fine people who deserve to be referred to respectfully.

    http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/news/General+News/135585/Story-of-Anti-Semitic-Thugs-Who-Terrorized-Camp-Bonim-Makes-National-Headlines.html

    http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/news/General+News/135573/Hikind-%27Aghast%27-At-Bloomberg%27s-Metzitzah-B%27peh-Stance.html

    in reply to: Divorcing Shiksa #888072
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    it would probably be a Chilul Hashem if someone who becomes a Baal tshuva refuses to see his non-jewish children because they are not jewish.

    Actually, that would be a kiddush Hashem. Kiddush Hashem and chillul Hashem go by what is correct according to the Torah–not by what the shkutzim think.

    in reply to: buying and selling miles/points in halacha #887985
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    I didn’t know there were halacha points.

    in reply to: Divorcing Shiksa #888065
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    Tell him he is contributing to the shidduch crisis.

    in reply to: Mikva #1008561
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    PBA: Those are mutually exclusive events. If you committed G’zeilah, then they weren’t lying. And if they were lying, then you didn’t steal.

    Exactly. So it is free.

    in reply to: Mikva #1008559
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    In honor of all the stupid serious posts that will be posted when I bump my “In honor of Tisha b’av” thread.

    (Please don’t bump it before tisha b’av, everyone. It is only for tisha b’av, and I don’t want to use up all our serious posts before then.)

    in reply to: Annoying–too many people care about halacha. #887953
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    wow. what an icky cupcake.

    in reply to: Metzitzah b�peh question #887942
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    Anyone else read that yated article about this a couple weeks back?

    Apparently, the more common way infants contract herpes is from family members. In one of the infamous cases, the baby’s older toddler brother had open herpes sores, and had sucked the baby’s pacifier and put it back in before anyone could stop him. The mother had tried to tell this to the investigators, but they were only interested in talking about milah.

    You can confirm this by googling “infant herpes simplex” and see that it is normally spread to infants through casual skin to skin contact from a carrier who has an active lesion.

    in reply to: what people look for in shidduch dating #888395
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    So when A is with B, A steps it up to B’s level.

    So why should B marry A? B should marry C, so that together B will step it up to C’s level.

    in reply to: what people look for in shidduch dating #888392
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    A Mamin was saying marrying someone who is OPENLY a little less frum than you – that’s bad.

    On the other hand, marrying someone who is slightly more frum than you, (but around whom you can comfortably act frummer and behave just as frum as they are) – that’s good.

    Does that make sense? Won’t that mean that your spouse is marrying someone less frum than them–and then they will have a bad marriage (and therefore you as well)?

    in reply to: Guidance before Marriage #889252
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    funny we seem to have been surviving for the past 3000 years without pre-marital therapy

    I know! Also without penicillin.

    in reply to: what people look for in shidduch dating #888390
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    It’s possible for a person to be a CEO, or an electrician, or a garbage collector and still have a seat right next to Rebbi Akiva in Olam Haba.

    Yes. But notice the example you picked was of Rabi Akiva, who was of the rabbanon.

    in reply to: what people look for in shidduch dating #888389
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    I then went on to explain what the “nafka mina” might be if you have two people looking to appear as frummer to each other, as opposed to what A Mamin and I were discussing when only one person is actually frummer than the other.

    Man…

    Let me get this straight: you think it is ok for one to be frummer than other other? Or it isn’t? a maamin said it is not ok to marry someone less frum than yourself, because then one will be frummer than the other…

    in reply to: what people look for in shidduch dating #888371
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    I definitely think it’s better to go out with someone a little frummer than you , rather than a little less. Believe me, I’ve heard from others what they have to go through, when they end up marrying someone who is really much less then them.

    Ummm. Doesn’t that mean you shouldn’t marry someone who is frummer than you also? Because otherwise they will be the one marrying someone less frum than them (you). And since I’ve never heard a marriage where one was happy and the other not…

    in reply to: Siyum HaShas Shadchan! #890058
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    Oh! That’s really good. I’m mad I didn’t think of that.

    in reply to: Siyum HaShas Shadchan! #890055
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    Ah. Meaning that the trophy wives are being handed candy? (Or, being handed, like, candy?)

    in reply to: what people look for in shidduch dating #888356
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    Don’t date girls straight out’ve seminary….they all still think they are Rachel Ameinu..

    Yes, that would be inappropriate. Since I think I am Avraham.

    in reply to: Siyum HaShas Shadchan! #890052
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    Syag: I can’t figure out what you mean. I tried putting a comma in every place.

    in reply to: Siyum HaShas Shadchan! #890046
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    “trophy wives being handed out like candy”

    disgusting

    I know! Right?

    in reply to: Place in the Torah where it talks about Chesed or Tzedakah? #887402
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    The torah begins with chessed and ends with chessed. It begins with chessed with Hashem clothing adam, and ends with chessed with Hashem burying moshe.

    Source: Sota 14a

    in reply to: Why do people pick their noses while at a traffic light? #887412
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    Because they have snot in their nose.

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