I dont understand “Toeiva marriage”. Do you mean people marrying shellfish eaters? Or maybe marrying people who cheat in business? Or do you mean the “marriage” of unscrupulous business profits and various “communal” organizations?
I’m confused. Shouldn’t the most important factor be whether or not her father is makpid? She did say the minhag of the family is to light. If her father is makpid it is a d’oyrassa of kibbud av.
December 20, 2011 12:11 am at 12:11 am
in reply to: YBC on NBC#836323
Am I the only person here terribly bothered by the inherent lashon hora contained in both the original comment and in the comments? Even if it is wrong, what toeles is there in discussing this? This is a mans parnassa you are adversly affecting!!!
WIY, I too was in BP today and I saw hundreds of frum people dressed entirely appropriately. And ive seen enough girls dressed tznius with boyfriends. Maybe the lesson in all the tragedies is to be more in how we treat our fellow man.