I have a married child living in Lakewood who didn’t want to buy a house because she couldn’t afford the down payment. They didn’t ask me for anything. I encouraged them to buy a modest house and withdrew hard earned money from my retirement account to help them with the down payment.
Seeing them in their house which I helped purchase gives me unbounded nachas. It is one of the most satisfying things I have done in my life. May hashem help me to do the same for my other chidren.