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January 4, 2012 11:12 pm at 11:12 pm in reply to: Shidduch Crisis truer than we'd like to admit #841785PinkOcean88Member
Back to the original issue . . . what should us good girls do then? Lower our standards?
January 3, 2012 4:07 pm at 4:07 pm in reply to: Shidduch Crisis truer than we'd like to admit #841774PinkOcean88MemberCherrybim: What rabbi told you this? B/c this is not fact as you state it, and you shouldn’t act like you know for certain without proof to back it up. Some rabbis say that we are given a certain bshert based on our merits. Also, prayer can change who we are intended for. Just a couple examples of how we shouldn’t just “do nothing.”
January 2, 2012 9:39 pm at 9:39 pm in reply to: Shidduch Crisis truer than we'd like to admit #841770PinkOcean88Memberoosmis: of course I would like other traits too, but I have found that the men who have most of what i’m looking for have not been taught to treat women respectfully, and that is really hard for me to get over . . . though society seems to just be that way these days so what is a girl to do?
January 2, 2012 8:50 pm at 8:50 pm in reply to: Shidduch Crisis truer than we'd like to admit #841769PinkOcean88Memberthank you “be good”. it is actually comforting just to know i am not crazy and that this is the experience others are finding as well.
January 2, 2012 6:40 pm at 6:40 pm in reply to: Shidduch Crisis truer than we'd like to admit #841767PinkOcean88MemberHow can one be too nitpicky? This is the biggest decision of one’s life. I’m not looking for Prince Charming. I just want a husband who isn’t disrespectful of women.
January 2, 2012 3:27 pm at 3:27 pm in reply to: Shidduch Crisis truer than we'd like to admit #841762PinkOcean88MemberThank you everyone. @Cherrybim: Aren’t I supposed to try? Do my hishtadlut? We are not given our bsherts, we earn them?
@Twisted: Thank you. I am in Maryland. And I am in my early 20s.
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