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  • in reply to: Children are not here to “bring Nachas to their parents” #2265998
    pekak
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    The OP is correct. Parents should encourage their children to serve HaShem. How they choose to do so when they grow up is between the child and HaShem. I truly hope that ujm is just trolling as usual because that’s a recipe for disaster. Avira has it backwards. Some people need to find another way. Is Rav Mosheh Twersky Hy”d suffering in the olam haelyon because he abandoned YU and went to Brisk? Of course you believe that YU is problematic but his parents didn’t. Did he have a right to turn his back on his parents?

    in reply to: Chris Christie – why can’t Jews rally around him? #2261457
    pekak
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    @yechiell

    He went to give chizuk? What has he done since then?

    in reply to: Ethics and Entenmann’s #2260593
    pekak
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    I finally see some people answering the original question. Kashrus organizations are for the purpose of determining that the ingredients don’t contain foods and/or byproducts of the foods (fish/meats etc) enumerated in Torah shebeK’sav and Baal Peh to be impure/unfit (in the common vernacular “treif”) as well as basar b’cholov.

    If you want to know what’s healthy see a doctor.

    in reply to: A Chasidus without a present Rebbe #2255208
    pekak
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    @qwerty613

    He also talks about the lofty neshamos of those who unfortunately go OTD but won’t condemn Footsteps.

    in reply to: Why is ywm called yeshiva world #2252810
    pekak
    Participant

    This addictive train wreck was started as a blog reporting on what was going on in what’s colloquially known as the Yeshiva World.

    in reply to: Is it assur to wish a goy a “Happy New Year”? #2250544
    pekak
    Participant

    It’s very much of religious significance to the goyim. The current “secular” calendar was actually set up by the Catholic church. The different versions are named for popes.

    in reply to: Chofetz Chaim says bless those you don’t love, pray they see moshioch #2248301
    pekak
    Participant

    @Yussel

    שערי דמעות לא ננעלו

    in reply to: Neturei Karta: Do they have a Point? #2236251
    pekak
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    @sechel83

    The original Neturei Karta had their own shita before Vayoel Moshe was written. They may overlap sometimes but neither one is dependant on the other.

    in reply to: More Torah being Learned than ever, yet more Troubles #2235304
    pekak
    Participant

    We earn credits for all mitzvos. We don’t get to tell HKBH how to apply the credit.

    in reply to: Pompadour hairstyle: why do our young men have this? #2233145
    pekak
    Participant

    They see theowback pictures of some of the biggest gedolim of the last 50 years and they figure that this specific hairstyle helped the gedolim become gedolim.

    in reply to: A simpler time #2231949
    pekak
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    @lakewhut

    That’s not what they told us in NY at the time. We were doing Yom Kippur Kattan, fasting, saying tehillim every day (5 extra minutes from children’s “free time” lost forever) listening to mussar shmuessen, etc. The majority of Israelis were living it up.

    Didn’t materialize? Do you know how big a SCUD missile is? The size of an 18 – wheeler! When they hit the ground they shattered every window and shutter 4 square blocks from impact. The SCUDs that actually got through completely demolished entire buildings. No zeicher. Just because they didn’t hit chareidi areas doesn’t mean the theeat didn’t materialize.

    Here’s an excercise for people who don’t understand Israeli mentality. On the wall outside Beis Yisroel shtieblach there is a plaque memorializing people who got killed in the courtyard of the shul by shelling from the Arabs during the war in 1948. There are several names from the same family killed on different days. People went out the next day after their own brothers were just killed. They don’t think like you. Silly Americans freak out more than the Israelis.

    in reply to: A simpler time #2231762
    pekak
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    @lakewhut

    You don’t know Israeli mentality..They don’t think like you. They don’t act like you.

    in reply to: A simpler time #2231643
    pekak
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    @Always_Ask_Questions

    When I lived in the States I used to frantically call a cousin in EY every time I heard that there was an air raid siren (I even had an app to notify me of them). He didn’t know about most of them. That’s life here. Take it or leave it. During the Gulf War most of my friends got on with life.

    in reply to: Dear Future Mothers In Law #2227894
    pekak
    Participant

    I guess the illustrious mods are neither divorced nor children of divorce. If the mods were they might read the thread differently.

    I have witnessed enough to traumatize me. I ask again for what I’m missing. It can be a private post.

    in reply to: Dear Future Mothers In Law #2227837
    pekak
    Participant

    The nastiness shown here to the OP is beyond comprehension. A human being expressed true pain and the majority of the responders here chose to pour salt on her wounds. I recommend that the theead be deleted. Att: Mods Deleted, not closed.

    Other than huju’s comment the negative comments were toward divorce, not the OP. The comments about the suffering of the children was exactly the OP’s point, but that she overcame it. If I missed something please let me know.

    in reply to: Simchas Torah Minyan for Bnei Eretz Yisroel in Brooklyn #2227181
    pekak
    Participant

    Suck it up. Put on Tefillin betzina. Go to Shul and celebrate when they celebrate. Lots of us have done it.

    in reply to: Dear Future Mothers In Law #2226774
    pekak
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    @Coffee Addict

    There are many people who should be divorced but stay miserable because of מזבח מוריד דמעות. I’m not ח”ו arguing on חז”ל, but do you think there are no דמעות when people are miserable?

    in reply to: Dear Future Mothers In Law #2226593
    pekak
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    @ujm

    Divorce is a Torah solution to an untenable situation. Divorce is something that HKBH created. Most children of divorce know that as difficult as it is to be from a broken home, they’d be exponentially worse off if they’re parents had stayed together.

    in reply to: Married Couple Who Become Baal Teshuvas #2222324
    pekak
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    @AviraDeArah

    You’re stating your personal opinion that it’s not ideal to stay married. You’re not a Rabbi. There have been Rabbonim who have advised otherwise.


    @Kuvult

    Eidim are NOT halachically allowed to accept payment.

    in reply to: Mods? Mods? #2222297
    pekak
    Participant

    Seriously Mods. Please do something about the annoyances clogging up our once stimulating CR.

    I feel your pain

    in reply to: Thank you Anonymous in Lakewood #2222296
    pekak
    Participant

    The Alter Rebbe didn’t “succeed” the Mezritcher Maggid. He had his school of thought based on his understanding of what he was mekabel from the Maggid. There were other schools of thought.

    1) Besh”t
    2) Mezritch
    3) Lizensk
    4) Lublin
    5) Yismach Moshe (Satmar descends from there).

    in reply to: Mods? Mods? #2219965
    pekak
    Participant

    CR and Mods should be removing users and posts that are exceptionally annoying. Users should be required to prove themselves capable of normal dialogue before being allowed to open new threads. I don’t know what @Commonsaychel did to deserve being trolled by a newbie.

    in reply to: ENGLISH SHOULD BE OPTIONARY #2219633
    pekak
    Participant

    OP’s English needs a lot of help. I’m referring to basic spelling and using nonexistent words.

    in reply to: Over the Top Lifestyles in Lakewood #2215883
    pekak
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    @midwesterner

    Continuing from where you left off: They changed Lakewood. They wanted to be “close” to the Torah that they so revere, but they brought along all of their gashmius and in doing so they changed the entire Torah Shtetl. If you think differently you don’t remember Lakewood 40 years ago. I do.

    in reply to: Shidduchim Between Litvish Girls and Chasidish Boys #2215855
    pekak
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    @DaMoshe

    “Litvish” Mesorah isn’t a thousand years old, you’re confusing it with minhag Ashkenaz that continues today almost exclusively by those whom we call with great affection “Yekkes”.

    Both Litvish and Chassidish Mesoras are actually minhag Ashkenaz heavily influenced by others.

    in reply to: Over the Top Lifestyles in Lakewood #2215648
    pekak
    Participant

    @Sam Klein

    I think this is the first time I agree with you. The proximity to “The City” made the problem. It’s irreversible.

    in reply to: Over the Top Lifestyles in Lakewood #2215543
    pekak
    Participant

    Wealthy people who eat bread and butter will give the poor people sawdust.

    in reply to: Over the Top Lifestyles in Lakewood #2215544
    pekak
    Participant

    Lakewood is no longer a Torah shtetl.

    in reply to: Stupid Planes #2212832
    pekak
    Participant

    You’re providing journalistic commentary and I’m providing my real life experience. What I told you is exactly what I do. I pay for a seat that the “mammals” can’t overflow into. Even if it means an extended stopover because of the cost.

    in reply to: Stupid Planes #2212790
    pekak
    Participant

    “But this time I got a window seat. So it is marginally less stupid.”

    So now you can be stuck between one or 2 “incredibly obese mammals” and a window and we’ll read about your childish complaining.

    in reply to: Stupid Planes #2212122
    pekak
    Participant

    If you don’t want to be stuck between 2 incredibly obese mammals you can pay to choose your seat. If you insist on flying an airline that doesn’t allow seat selection (even for a price) it’s your own fault.

    in reply to: Posek HaDor #2202107
    pekak
    Participant

    @YO

    Starting the thread doesn’t make you the moderator of the thread.

    in reply to: Rav Itche Meir Morganstern Yeshiva #2200384
    pekak
    Participant

    Toras Chochom is a shul, not a Yeshiva. Most of the people there don’t identify as Breslov. Breslover Torah is rarely mentioned regardless of Rav Morgenstern Shlita’s connection to Breslov.

    in reply to: Chrstians claiming Rabbi wrote note naming Moshiach #2200272
    pekak
    Participant

    “Yeshu” Hanotzri as he was referred to by Yidden is Roshei Teivos Y’emach SH’emo V’ezichro.

    When Js for X realized that they changed it to Yeshua. There is no source claiming that he was ever named Yehoshua.

    in reply to: Rav Itche Meir Morganstern Yeshiva #2199297
    pekak
    Participant

    What Yeshiva?

    in reply to: Angels no, electricity yes? #2190783
    pekak
    Participant

    @ Neville

    Your words on the issue (comment #2190287)

    “It makes no sense to say it’s a chumrah. If it’s mutar, it’s due to pikuach nefesh (the hospitals need electricity), if it’s assur then it’s chillul Shabbos.”

    in reply to: Angels no, electricity yes? #2190573
    pekak
    Participant

    @Neville

    Was the Chazon Ish the only posek in his time? I think not.

    in reply to: Is “The” Yeshiva world news” some sort of Instagram? #2189083
    pekak
    Participant

    Where do all the news sites get all their information? Do you really think they all have people roaming the streets with notepads?

    in reply to: Chassidishe Out of town Kollelim? #2185713
    pekak
    Participant

    Los Angeles has a chassidishe kollel, though I don’t know how people deal with the cost of living there.

    Veitzen – Chicago also has a chassidishe kollel.

    in reply to: Time to demolish orthopraxy #2185671
    pekak
    Participant

    @AviraDeArah

    There are certainly people like those you speak of. If you alienate them you are also alienating their children. The best you can do is ignore them. Like ChaZa”l say

    דע מה שתשיב לאפיקורס, הני מילי לאפיקורס עכו”ם

    משא”כ באפיקורס ישראל דפוקר טפי

    in reply to: Time to demolish orthopraxy #2185623
    pekak
    Participant

    So @AviraDeArah holds that people whose heart’s aren’t “in the mitzvos” should stop doing them entirely?

    in reply to: Why BDE #2180735
    pekak
    Participant

    @Someday

    “Unfortunately, not everyone will be zoiche to techiyas hamaisim.”

    Are you G-d? Are you privy to His decision making?

    in reply to: Erez Yisrael or stay in Galut? #2178297
    pekak
    Participant

    What does stay in “galut” mean? Galus and Geula are facts, irrespective of location.

    pekak
    Participant

    Post #2177396

    “Yay.

    Hopefully, the chasid has learned the very important lesson of not touching other people’s children for any reason.”


    @GadolHadofi

    pekak
    Participant

    @GadolHadofi

    Who exactly was chassidish in this very Flatbush story?

    in reply to: How to do teshuva for breaking shabbos? #2174290
    pekak
    Participant

    The bigger question is, how does a person who doesn’t know the halachos well enough do teshuva for deciding to be machmir on himself or somebody else with sometimes horrible consequences.

    in reply to: Shtultz #2169468
    pekak
    Participant

    What is a “remnant holdover”? If I eat a “remnant holdover” must i use “mayim achronim vasser” even if I didn’t have to wash netilas yadayim before eating?

    in reply to: Quick Quote about Older Singles from Rabbi Zelig Pliskin #2165713
    pekak
    Participant

    All bullies throughout history meant it l’shem shamayim.

    גם כי יזקין לא יסור ממנה

    “Interventions” are not a Jewish concept.

    in reply to: Quick Quote about Older Singles from Rabbi Zelig Pliskin #2165267
    pekak
    Participant

    Penina had the same opinion as you. She did what she did l’shem shamayim. She lost everything.

    in reply to: Quick Quote about Older Singles from Rabbi Zelig Pliskin #2165192
    pekak
    Participant

    Penina had 7 sons, Chana had none. Finish the story…

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