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not telling 😉 but mayb 😉
maybe you should just try to accept who you are. Maybe you really naturally are a quiet person. quiet people could have a lot to offer. thats what i learn over the years..i used to have the same depressing feelings as you and i still do sometimes but i try to focus on my good qualities..like im a very good listener…and im more of a deep person, i think a lot because im not always the one talking or partying…as long as your not shy in school because i was really really and it was soooo hard for me..:(
oh that must be very hard 🙁 do you live in the tri state area? like brooklyn, lakewood, monsey areas or you’d rather not say?
hows it going with this workinonit?
you said that you don’t have any friends nearby..what does that mean? no friends in the same town as you or just not in your neighborhood or walking distance?
well…i think im the triplet! workinonit , we have all the same problems its scary..omg.i never knew there were other people out there suffering with the same things i do. its so good to know that im not alone! can we three give eachother encouragement and advice and just be there for eachother! i need it!
i really have the same problem workinonit…but guess what im really trying to workonit (:P). what i think you need to do is first learn to really LIKE yourself..and appreciate yourself for who u are. once you do..u could think to yourself..you know what i am who i am..and im gonna say what i want and who cares if so and so thinks that was a weird comment i like what i said and thats what counts. you can also think: you know how many times u were with people and they said things that u thought came out weird? it always happens.and u don’t really think anything different of the person after..everyone’s entitled! so just work on appreciating yourself for who you are..and once you do ull act urself naturally. (i hope) also, do you find that when u speak to someone ur very focused on what they’re thinking about you the whole time and if they think youre weird?
workinonit: i’ve had experience with this matter since i went through it myself..i really no how you feel. Its terrible when you feel like you are not portraying yourself in the way you really are and you feel like people never get to know the real you although you wish they did. You probably feel like if you did act yourself people would like you better and you would have more friends. To me it sounds like you might have something called Social Anxiety. Do some research online, google it,and read about it and see if it matches what you feel like. Please post when you do, i want to help you!