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I do it, and it helps me hurry up even though I know it is fast. There are also times that I will forget that it is fast and hurry up too.
WIY
How many dates do you wear a suit for? I personally will for 2 and then the 3rd w/o a tie…..After that, dress clothes.
Sac
Phew! i was really worried;-)
Wow, cshapiro, your starting to sound like one of those crazy shadchanim;) jk
cshapiro
Wow, now im so depressed!Im very sensitive!!! lol jk
but just to warn you..Yeshiva world or atleast one of the Mods is going to try to take the shadchanus money, saying that it is because of them, that Sac and WIY met! You better be ready for a fight. I actually know someone who had told a person while he was dating about the girl he was dating. After he got engaged, the person that he had been talking to asked him for shadchanus money. He replied, “you didn’t do anything to help! Why should I pay you?” The guy replied back, “well you should pay me because I didn’t say anything!”
Sac
Yes thats true, but I just cant see myself doing that. I dont care how rich the old lady is…
Blinky
I actually didn’t know what fafrummet is either so thanks Blinky.
Sac
You’re right, my bad. But there are plenty that are not getting that “exposure” that still go, and I am sure there are so many more that if offered to go, will go in a second.
Btw, what is a chanyuk?
Well look at Mr Heff…I think he agrees with cshapiro
WIY
Chill, I was jking around. If you took offense to it, I apologize.
WIY
Couldn’t have said it better.
Popa,
Sorry but I have to disagree.
I have plenty of friends who have wanted to date the really pretty girls and thought they were great girls.
I cant begin to tell you how wrong they were. ALOT of guys that I know do judge at least initially on looks. I know that it is wrong, but just the facts…
Sac
You gotta think outta the box. He meant it in a “good way”. lol
the.nurse
When people treat you as less intelligent than a shnooky 19 year old because that person is married and you’re still single..
Well….your right. That is why they need to invent a cream to create wrinkles on peoples faces, instead of just creating creams to put on people and make them look younger lol jk
Blinky
Im not chopped liver! Im peanut butter! Don’t leave me out, but Ok, I didn’t read thatthread.
Sac,
Come on, listen to WIY, he basically just said in guy talk that he would want to date you….
WIY
Come on…everyone does it….be honest.
Sac
Darn! I was already planning a vacation with the money! It’s freezing outside;(
cshapiro
Ok, I’ll split it with you lol
Sac
Ok, how much will it take/what would it take for you to say yes to WIY?
And what type of bourbon?
SAC
😉
kapusta…I take the butter from my peanut “butter” cups…nah I just don’t like peanut butter sandwiches.
sac…Just don’t take that out on me.
WIY
Just go for it….ask her. I get shadchanus $;)
lol hey Sac, that would be a good present to WIY….
You know what really grinds my gears?;-)
When you are really hungry and butter bread ect, and it suddenly falls from your hand onto the floor. It always ends up with the buttered side on the ground! There is no 5 second rule with that.
Dunno/Sac
It is! But so far i haven’t been able to change the shidduch system so oh well:)
not I
Yes, I guess that can be attributed to posters being in the “parsha”(I never really understood why you call it a parsha), or parents of kids in the “parsha”
Sac, I actually have done that, and been told the same, with a big smile on her face, and then find out the nxt day that it is a no go.
dunno,yes, but the girl sometimes decides to get back “later”.
If you know that it is a yes, say it!
And that goes with another peeve that I have.
Why do 2 mature(hopefully) people who are ready for marriage, have to play the game of “hard to get”? There are so many shadchannim who tell me when I say this, that this is how it is.
How about, and I have heard this from both sides, waiting for an answer from the other side after a date if it will continue or not. I know how other people feel so I always give it right away or ask for a little more time if I need to think about it.
I think people just need to use basic decency, and sometimes think, “would I like it if someone else would do this to me ect…”?
Real-Brisker
Derech eretz kadma LaTorah…..?
Excuse yourself, turn away from the people you are facing, and blow your nose then.(My 6th grade Rebbi made sure that this was ingrained in all of us)
Thanks Sac, yup, thats what happened to me.
I think if you need to hit the student, then you as a teacher have an issue. If you are respected, even if you are not liked, the students will respect you, and you dont need to hit them. Obviously kids will be kids and wont be perfect, but dont forget, children are extremely impressionable, and will NOT forget it.
People that like talking about Kleenex;)
When the girl and her parents are not on the same page, causing the shidduch to be broken off….
I think it is a big deal for both NY teams. The Yankees have no-one they can count on after CC and Phil Hughes. Aj has been very iffy and then you are stuck with Nova and Mitre…The mets basically just lost the division. Their division rival has 4 top of the rotation aces, who have pitched extremely well in the postseason, sans Lee in the Ws this yr.
Im happy in a way, because it was a wake up call to the Yankees that not everyone can be bought off with money.
I agree with WIY.
I have done things I wish I hadn’t, but I grew from it. I used to be down because I messed up ect, but then I realized I can grow from each experience, and BH I do.
lol Thanks Mod. Yes I meant expiration…though hmmmm now you just gave me some new ideas!
cshapiro
Just make sure you are not buying the ones that have epiration dates built into them. They drop value very quickly.
Lol I dont even know what that means!
Well…it just happened so I dont want that the girl or her parents are going to read it and know its them…but lets just say it was not fun
lol yea well it may take some time now…i have to restart the whole process:(
Lol I figured that is what you meant by that…
Sac – I hope that my wife(whomever she is) will be that creative;-)
THAT’s shalom bayis
A coupon to just sit back and relax at home for x amount of time, without having to clean ect…by the way this could also go for women….
I love Rabbi Wallerstien. He speaks so straight to the point, and is really uplifting!