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  • in reply to: looking for oldies music #872829
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    there’s a lot on the Florida Atlantic University Jewish Sound Archives. Most is very old (Yossele Rosenblatt and older) but they have more recent stuff as well

    in reply to: The Power of Now #872745
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    enlightenment and its natural enemy, the mind – I can’t think of a Jewish source that doesn’t say that the source of enlightenment is the mind (maharal, mesillas yesharim, maharsha, ohr yisrael)

    He awakens readers to their role as a creator of pain and shows them how to have a pain-free identity by living fully in the present – ve’yadata hayom ki ka’asher ye’yaser ha’ish es beno Hashem elokechah meyasrekah – we do receive yissurin but we respond to them and are elevated through them

    the indestructible essence of our Being, “the eternal, ever-present One Life beyond the myriad forms of life that are

    subject to birth and death” – kudsha berich hu ve’yisroel ve’oraisoh chad hu is a more encompassing thought than saying that life as we perceive it is ephemeral

    in reply to: Helping Jews in other cities not my own #872631
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    me’at min ha’or docheh harbeh min ha’choshech – if you just do what you should do things will sort themselves out

    in reply to: Learning during Chazoras Hashatz #1089027
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    Reb Chaim says that the maaseh of tefilla consists of being mechaven that you are omed liphnei Hashem. (Therefore he says there are 2 kavanos in shemonei esrei – one that you are omed liphnei Hashem and – two – the peirush hamilos.)

    If someone is ‘spacing out’ during chazaras hashatz they are at least being omed liphnei Hashem – ve’haraya – becuase otherwise why are they standing there. Mah she’ein kein if they learn they are not being omed liphnei Hashem.

    in reply to: Giving Ma'aser money from inheritance #872774
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    – we looked into it once, it seems that the heirs do need to give maaser, what difference does it make that the niftar gave maaser?

    – the book is called Maaser Kesafim by Cyril Domb et al

    – I don’t know if the state is a valid recipient of tzedakah but Reb Shlomo Zalman z”l said that the IDF is

    in reply to: didn't sell dish before pesach #872380
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    there’s no issur of baal yeroeah and baal yimatze on blios so nothing needs doing

    in reply to: what defines yeshivish #872130
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    if your capel does not have a rim you are not 100% yeshivish

    in reply to: Learning during Chazoras Hashatz #1089010
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    BHTWIA – the Chazon Ish says (Emunah u’Bitachon) that torah and tefilla are cyclical, torah strengthens davening and davening strengthens learning, ki Hashem yiten chachmah mipiv daas usevunah! I always thought of this as a capacitor / inductor resonant circuit.

    In a minyan metzumtzam if a person is learning during chazaras hashetz I imagine you would not have asarah mispallelim.

    in reply to: Everyone in Lakewood is Hasidic #872122
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    lo yaazov es chasidav, le’olam nishmaru

    in reply to: hp or dell #871937
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    Crazy Brit – I think the Spectrum is better

    in reply to: Learning during Chazoras Hashatz #1088988
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    – the Rambam cancelled chazaras hashatz because he said people who can daven don’t need it and therefore just chat during chazaras hashatz, the people who can’t daven and do need it see the people who can daven chatting so they also chat. Therefore they only had one amidah and the chazan said it aloud so people who could daven said it to themselves and people who couldn’t daven were yotzei the first time. This minhag persisted in Cairo for about 300 years.

    – According to Rb Matisyahu Salomon shlit”a chazaras hashatz is a higher madregah than your own shemoneh esrei because gadol haoneh amen yoser mehamevarech.

    – The chazan after Reb Rephoel Shmuelevitz’s shiur for mincha always used to say a hoche kedushah except on Chanukah.

    in reply to: neturei karta sinks to new low praises alla #872291
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    this person seems to be more of a nut than a rodef

    in reply to: Rebbe Moshiach #871425
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    do trolls have mashiach?

    in reply to: Heteirim for Copying and giving out Music #876268
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    the Gateshead Rov z”l once paskened that you can copy a tape as long as you leave out one song. The logic in this pesak would seem to have been that seeing as the item which is sold is the tape then as long as you did not copy the entire tape you have not ‘stolen’ the item which is sold. That was in the old days of tapes, nowadays this pesak would seem to not apply becuase

    a) copying music is rampant and a threat to the parnassah of the people who produce music

    b) as each song is sold seperately it is now possible to ‘steal’ a single song

    in reply to: gemara #900031
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    HaLeivi – you are allowed to use the cover of a sefer torah to bury a meis mitzva – the chasam sofer explains this is becuase when a person is alive they have the possibility to do an aveira but when they die they don’t so they now have the kedusha of a sefer torah

    in reply to: Davening With A Minyan vs. Davening Without A Minyan #871574
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    It has to depend on the demographic of the person he is answering the shaaloh to or who he is expecting to learn his sefarim. Obviously Avraham Avinu did not wear a hat for davening. For the yeshivisher olam wearing a hat is equivalent to being dressed properly.

    in reply to: Davening with Fire #871607
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    In Kelm the emphasis was on learning grammar so that the havarah of the bochurim would be clear. Reb Elya z”l would stop a shliach tzibbur in chazaras hashatz if he mispronounced a word.

    in reply to: Davening With A Minyan vs. Davening Without A Minyan #871569
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    that would only seem to apply if for you it is a bizayon to daven without a hat

    in reply to: Davening With A Minyan vs. Davening Without A Minyan #871567
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    I think there is a question in the mishna berurah if davening biyechidus in the beis hamedrash that you learn in is preferable to davening with a minyan in a shul

    there seem to be two factors regarding davening with a minyan, one is that with a minyan you have the zechus of the tzibbur, the mephorshim explain this does not just mean that you have the merits of the tzibbur but also it means that the tzibbur is always misdabek beratzon Hashem whereas an individual might not be so if you make yourself part of the tzibbur then you are automatically misdabek beratzon Hashem. The other factor seems to be something along the lines of the ramban at the end of parshas Bo who says that the tachlis habriyah is that we should stand in a minyan and be modeh to Hashem be’rabim that beriyoseachah anachnu.

    in reply to: Is An Amalekite Allowed to Commit Suicide? #941954
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    so let’s say you ask an amaleki to kill himself – did you do a mitzva? licheroah it depends, if the mitzva is for the amaleki to be dead, then lemai naphka minah how he became dead, this is like the halacha that you can make a berachah al asiyas maakeh if you ask a goy to make a maakeh for you because at the end of the day your roof now has a maakeh made for it.

    However if you say that the mitzva is that you should kill the amaleki then you can’t make him your shliach for you because he’s not a bar chiyuva

    in reply to: Boich Svaras #870808
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    it was a boich sevara

    in reply to: Boich Svaras #870803
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    it’s lav davka, it means that you feel this is the halacha. I doubt that Avraham Avinu’s kidneys had any more part in being a mayan ha’novea hachachma to him than any other part of his anatomy, it’s a geder of mibesari echezeh eloak.

    in reply to: Yiddishkeit and Technology #870751
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    two thoughts

    – kids are going off becuase they – never really got kriah – were unable to keep up in chumash – didn’t get gemara at all – gave up. How can you not use technology to help kids who are struggling to learn?

    – on the other hand, for the stronger kids, the purpose of teaching is for the melamed to create a chibur penimis for the child to torah. Technology is known to be impersonal. Rav Shach z”l said that his aim in teaching Torah was always to give his talmidim ahavas ha’torah (not necessarily to cover as much ground as possible (although he did praise Reb Beinush z”l for introducing the daf to the Mir))

    in reply to: Yiddishkeit and Technology #870745
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    the problem with the internet in chinuch is that the chol is meant to be taphel to the kodesh which is very difficult when technology offers a more immediately vivid experience to the kids than is available in kodesh. if you are the sort of kehilla that cuts themselves of from this altogether then that’s not a problem but if you are a kehilla who tries to integrate the technology into the chol education then it is a real problem because the kodesh cannot capture the kids’ imagination.

    in reply to: Boich Svaras #870797
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    maybe the mekor is

    ???? ????? ????? ???? ??? ?????? ????? ??? ??????? ???? ?????, ???? ?????? ???? ??????? ???? ??????? ???? ????

    in reply to: Listening To Non-Live Music On Sefira #1151864
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    reb shlomo zalman z”l said you can listen to hergesh music during the sefirah, a friend of mine asked him about this as he was surprised at the heter, his response was “mah, eli tziyon lo sharim be’tishah be’av?”

    in reply to: Going off the Derech #1181195
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    have fun with him, something that you really enjoy, no pretending

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    story from Reb Moshe Aharon Stern z”l; rav scheinberg was on a plane and wanted to learn, they were going to put out the lights for the movie, so he asked the attendant if they could do without the movie, she said if you ask every person on the plane, which he did – but they still went to put it on. The projector wouldn’t come on due to an electrical fault. Apparently if there is a fault with any of the electrical fixures at all they have to do an emergency landing which they were going to have to do. The attendant aplogised to rav sheinberg and the projector came on, they didn’t watch the movie though and rav sheinberg got to learn

    in reply to: Bicycle Helmets! #881457
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    the Gateshead Rov z”l once ended up a shabbos hagadol derashah by saying that parents should ensure that the brakes on their children’s bikes are working properly

    in reply to: Sheva Brochos Divrei Torah #867951
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    you’ll never convince anyone you’re a talmid chacham by getting up and giving a prepared speech, just stand up and ask them to faher you

    in reply to: Divorce: Whose Fault Was It? #932168
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    the couple weren’t able to find their own uniqueness together

    in reply to: MARRIAGE IN CRISIS #885842
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    chas veshalom, mi gilah lechah raz zeh

    in reply to: Neturei Karta. #1106118
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    Avi K, no he wasn’t. This was a while ago before he had acid thrown in his face (according to Wikipedia this was over a property dispute and not related to politics)

    in reply to: Neturei Karta. #1106112
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    I once davened with nk on shabbos morning, I was walking to meah shearim shtieblach and met the leader of the neturei karta who recruited me for a minyan. I didn’t notice any mossad agents there but you never know

    in reply to: Separate Times For Bochurim & Sem Girls In Gateshead #1029715
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    I saw an interesting gemara yesterday (bava basra 91b)

    ???? ??? ????? ?????? ?? ??? ??????? ???? ??????? ????? ??? ??? ???? ???? ?? ???? ??? ??? ????

    Does Dansky’s sell Iron Bru? Stenhouse didn’t have any

    in reply to: Separate Times For Bochurim & Sem Girls In Gateshead #1029712
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    in the old days women would not go on the streets at all which is why the halacha says im pagah ishah bashuk lo yelech acharehah because it was surprising that a person should be pogeah ishah bashuk as only the men went to the shuk. this halacha probably does not apply today becuase aderabah most of the people in the shuk are women. the situtation in gateshead is different if you are talking about sem girls and yeshiva bochurim because eino domeh mi sheyesh lo pas besalo lemi she’ein lo pas besalo. even if this is a valid takanah it is not a raayah to other towns where this is not the situation. on the other hand everyone has the right to defend themselves against whatever they deem to be a threat to thier ruchniyos.

    in reply to: jewish sheet music #864636
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    Live Jewish Music has a links page which links to all the other sites where you can download free Jewish sheet music

    Stifterhof (german) has a good array of klezmer and traditional niggunim

    in reply to: Home Birth #862969
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    If the mother staying at home would endanger her child’s life then she definitely would not be allowed to have a home delivery. The question is if this is assur because it is shchiach hezeika or not. There is probably not one single answer to this question which is why you have to ask your rav.

    in reply to: Home Birth #862967
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    “Health – You fail to address the issue that you’re comprimising the baby’s safety by having a home -birth!”

    Not necessarily, see Mishlei 17:22 – ?? ??? ????? ???

    The mother’s psychological state has a lot to do with a successful birth which is why the poskim are matir a husband to accompany his wife in an ambulance to the hospital on shabbos

    in reply to: Home Birth #862954
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    Here is a comment from Dr M. Chalk of Gateshead z”l from a letter sent to the British Medical Journal;

    “For myself, I feel that absolute safety is non-existent.

    And to have given the mother peace of mind and happiness (of a home birth) is a very great thing.”

    in reply to: Older Siblings More Ruchniyosdik Than Younger Siblings #862335
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    maybe they’re more serious but being serious has nothing to do with ruchniyos, it just means that they’re different

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