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  • in reply to: Is Learning Science Spiritually Dangerous? #660622
    Pashuteh Yid
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    Rabbosai, there is much to say, but short of time. However, GavraAtWork alerted me to an earlier post of his which I had missed that is a watershed event. You all need to go back and read his post on Bava Basra 102, and the accompanying Rashbam and Tosfos. Look them up directly. It is clear that both of these Rishonim made a clear mathematical error. They did not know how to properly calculate the diagonal of a 4×6 rectangle. This, despite the fact that Pythagoras showed how to do it a thousand or so years before. They were unaware. Not only does it seem from there that Chazal were not ahead of their times, but were in fact behind their times. I was stunned when I saw it.

    All of those arguing that Chazal knew all science need to give an answer here. Since this was math, and math is the underpinning and language of science, if one does not know basic math, there is no way to understand modern science.

    The answers which are usually given such as nishtanah hateva cannot be used here. Has the diagonal of a rectangle changed in the last few thousand years? The other answers that have been used here that scientists change their minds, but that eventually we will discover that Chazal were right all along since they have absolute truth also does not seem to be possible here. Will mathematicians ever discover that the Pythagorean theorem was wrong? Very unlikely. A mathematical proof must be iron-clad, and there are many, many proofs of this theorem, of which even a single one is strong enough to guarantee its truth for all posterity. Furthermore, all you need to do is to go measure the rectangle with a ruler or string and see for yourself that Pythagoras was right.

    It is absolutely clear from here that the claim that Chazal knew all about science is completely false. This will require a sea-change in hashkafa. If I had seen Gavra’s post earlier, I would not have used the examples I used about the size and trajectory of the sun and planets or the supposed heavenly spheres to make this point. Gavra’s proof is a million times stronger.

    Again, you all need to drop everything and cease all posting until you read Gavra’s earlier post and then come back and discuss. It is pointless to continue until then, although there is plenty more to say.

    in reply to: Is Learning Science Spiritually Dangerous? #660590
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    Joseph, among the statements of the Rambam in Hilchos Deos are relative sizes of the sun, moon, and earth. They are off by quite a bit from modern accepted figures. Are you going to tell me that the modern astronomers don’t know these sizes? We have a GPS system which is based on the exact positions of satellites. I have reason to believe that scientists know something about orbits. They have also sent man to the moon and back. The Rambam also says the planets are set in hard spheres, and there is no space between these spheres. Why haven’t our rockets crashed into any of them? The gadlus of the Rambam was that he would be the first to say to use the science of our times.

    As far as gemara in Pesachim where Chazal were modeh that the non-Jewish astronomers were right, why in the world should I accept a dochak pshat from the sefer that you quote. What is the hechrech to interpret the gemara any differently than it says in black and white. Note, Rebbe Akiva Eger in the gilyon hashas tries to say Chazal were really right, just did not have a ready answer in that debate, as you try to say, but do you then accept his pshat of bokea chalonei rakia that there is a big window in the sky that opens during the day and closes at night to block the sun?

    Second you keep quoting Rabbonim who validate the scientific knowledge of other Rabbonim from various eras. But that is called preaching to the choir. Can you provide a single instance of a Gadol from any era who was mechadesh a scientific principle which was previously unknown to the world, and is accepted as correct today. I.e., Archimedes lived at the time of Chazal, I believe. He has a principle that is still in physics books today that submerged objects displace their volume of fluid, and floating objects displace their weight.

    Also Pythagoras’s theorem is still used today. While Chazal mention it only for the square case (1:1:1.4 or 4:4:5.6, etc.), it holds for rectangles, too. Please find me a single scientific chidush from a Gadol of any era which demonstrates that they were ahead of the other scientists of their time by virtue of their Torah knowledge and which stands the test of time so that it is correct even today.

    If you want to believe that Chazal and the gedolim of today know modern science, you may believe it. However, don’t expect many of us to believe something which can easily be demonstrated, but has not been. (And which of the 13 articles of faith does it violate, anyway?) Note, the Rambam writes that we are not even required to believe a Navi until he proves himself by means of osos and mofsim. I also recall reading that at least one sefer says one is never obligated to believe something that goes against his physical senses. If you can’t show me a single gadol today that could pass a grad school exam in science, then why should I believe it was different 100 or 300 or 1500 years ago. (Note they could certainly pass if they went to grad school and studied the material, but we are talking about getting it from the Torah alone.)

    Finally, Rashi in many places does mathematical calculations. He very often, despite his derech of always writing as short as possible, will go to great lengths to do a multiplication. Don’t have a ready example, but he will say something like 258.25 times 5 is such and such, keitzad, and then multiply the 200 by 5, and the 50 by 5, and the 8 by 5, and then the fractional part by five, grouping fractional part into whole numbers and remainder,and then add everything up taking many lines to illustrate the correct answer. But this is basically 5th grade math. It took a very long time to set up the problem in those days. They didn’t have the quick mathematical symbols and language we have today. If Rashi lived today, would he spend a whole paragraph doing a simple multiplication? I am chas veshalom not saying anything bad against Rashi. I am just saying that he used the tools available in his times.

    The gadlus of Torah is menschlachkeit and midos. It was not given to be a science book.

    More in future posts, IYH.

    in reply to: Is Learning Science Spiritually Dangerous? #660582
    Pashuteh Yid
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    Regarding the Chazon Ish neurosurgery story, as has been discussed here previously, there is no source other than books quoting other books with no name of a doctor or hospital or patient so that it can be verified.

    In additon, if it was true about the Chazon Ish, then gedolim of today should be able to do the same thing. But yet, the Steipler and Reb Moshe and today’s gedolim all go to hospitals and submit to the doctors treatments. They do not stay home and treat themselves with their advanced knowledge of medicine. None have claimed any knowledge of curing cancer.

    Finally, there is a tshuva in Reb Elyashiv’s sefer regaring whether one can lie and make up stories of gedolim to inspire talmidim. That pretty much says it all.

    (Reb Elyashiv strongly discouraged it, in response.)

    in reply to: Is Learning Science Spiritually Dangerous? #660580
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    Haven’t had a chance to read through this all. I am now writing from my lab, and some of these posts are rather disturbing to say the least.

    A few prefaces:

    A) There is clearly nothing wroing with studying science, and today it may be the greatest method of understanding niflaos haborei that we have.

    B) Studying science is possibly the greatest chesed there is, as one who suffers from a disease wants nothing other than some relief.

    C) I don’t believe that evolution has been proven for reasons I may discuss in another post, as it is long. However, we must learn to take what scientists have proven and separate from what is speculation. The differences are often subtle. But we must learn the art of critical thinking. In gemara terms, is something muchrach or not. Every single line one reads or writes in science must constantly be filtered this way.

    Now for the direct issues:

    1) Joseph, you brought Chazal’s knowledge of the rakia as a proof to their expertise. Kindly define what the rakia is and what it was that chazal added to our understanding of this astronomical entity that we did not know before.

    2) Somebody wrote that one shouyld not study science from science books, but rather from the briyah. That is rather silly, and in your whole lifetime you will probably only gain the most simple and superficial understanding if you try to reinvent the whole wheel on your own. As Newton said, if we have seen further, it is because we have stood on the shoulders of giants. We can’t get anywhere new in science without understanding all that has preceded us to the best of our ability.

    3) Tha gemara Pesachim clearly states that Chazal felt that non-Jews knew better than we did about astronomy. So all these arguments saying that they knew more than the scientists contradict an explicit gemara. Chazal were men of humility and emes, and did not hesitate to credit others. The same with Kibud Av which is learned from a Non-Jew in Kiddushin. Chazal searched for emes no matter what the source, as they had such integrity and intellectual honesty.

    4) The Rambam Kiddush Hachodesh (17,24) similarly says that anything proven scientifically or mathematically has the status of divrei neviim.

    5) The Rambam also says that the reason Chizkiya buried the Sefer HaRefuos was because it didn’t work.

    6) As much as the astounding amount that scientists know now, it is just a drop in the ocean of what there is to know. This does not mean scientists are stupid or arrogant. It means there is plenty more work ahead of them.

    7) As was discussed in another thread on this topic, I proved that chazal could not have known modern science, since if they did, they would have had a mitzvah de’oraisa of lo saamod al dam rayecha to launch an airplane at the advancing Roman horsemen at the time of the churban. One cannonball probably would have made all the horses and fighters retreat in panic. Since chazal did not do so, it means they were unable to. Similarly, if today’s gedolim had knowledge of how to cure cancer, they would be mechuyav to share that knowledge. Since they don’t, it means they do not know how.

    8) Reb Moshe and Reb Shlom Zalman freely acknowledge that when they need to know how something works in order to pasken, they ask the scientists or engineers. They admit they they would not know on their own.

    9) If you believe gedolim know more science than the scientists, kindly find me one who is willing to sit for a graduate level science exam on things we clearly know. Such as how to design a GPS system, or organic chemistry. (Noncontroversial and straightforward things.)

    10) If our gedolim do not know, then as was raised before, exactly what generation did this stop. When Joseph quotes the Rama about science, did he know these things? If he did, when in the last 300 years did gedolim suddenly lose this ability?

    in reply to: JOB BOARD #659530
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    I am wondering, but didn’t YW have a classified section and an offer to post job listings for reduced cost or free some time ago? I don’t seem to see it now.

    in reply to: Traditional Spelling of Cambridge (MA) for ketubah? #659011
    Pashuteh Yid
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    Are you allowed to just write the city of MIT and Harvard, instead? Look, you may need a bigger kesuva to fit in the words Massachusetts Institute of Technology, but it may get you a good job later on.

    in reply to: Non-Jewish Books #658765
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    Kilobear, didn’t the gemara learn the extent of Kibud Av Vaem from an idol worshipper named Dama ben Nesina? Where is your source that everything in the world that is not Jewish or frum is bad? I am also rather surprised at your statement that American democracy is as bad as Ahmadinejad. I believe all the gedolim have said the US is a medinah of chesed. The US is not perfect, as with the St. Louis ship episode, but we have much to be happy and proud about and to be thankful to the RBSH for all this goodness. When I take a car ride with my kids on vacation, my heart literally swells from seeing all this goodness.

    Speaking of non-Jewish books, I suppose you wouldn’t approve of the non-Jewish song “America the Beautiful”, either. From my perspective, I find it one of the most inspiring and beautiful songs ever written, and think it is pure hakaras hatov to the RBSH as it says: G-d shed his grace on thee. This is what I mean when I say there are good people all around us, and many are not Jewish. I believe the writer of this song was one who truly felt the goodness which we have here in the USA and wanted to thank G-d for it with his whole heart.

    I am told that a generation ago, frum yeshivas used to sing these patriotic songs before class. Now because we are so much more “advanced” than our parents’ generation, it is beneath our dignity to do so.

    in reply to: Non-Jewish Books #658758
    Pashuteh Yid
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    I totally disagree that there is anything wrong just because a book is non-jewish. It all depends on the book. Predictably here, people jump and insist that yiddishkeit is all about being close-minded and walling ourselves off from all contact with the world, thinking we are the only good people, and everything and everyone else is bad and Hashem is angry at them all, and he will even get angry with us if so much as read someting that they wrote. He is just waiting for an opportunity to throw us into gehenom, and reading Sherlock Holmes is as good an excuse as any. He is smacking his lips and rubbing his hands in glee as he relishes this opportunity to punish people for reading anything other than what’s on the approved chareidi booklists.

    So a child should not read Johnny Tremain about the American Revolution, or Red Pony, or a biography of Einstein or Edison or Abraham Lincoln? We are in this world for a purpose and we have a mission to spread kindness and warmth and to accomplish as much as we can and help the less fortunate and to be a light unto the nations. If we have no knowledge of other people and cultures, we will not have any common language to share what yiddishkeit has to offer. A Jewish child may find the most inspiring book he ever read was a biography of Jackie Robinson, the first black baseball player, or the story of Rosa Parks. The biography of Beethoven is heartbreaking as is his music. And a child may even become motivated to be a bigger masmid by reading about Bill Gates who from his elementary school days often spent nights in the computer lab of his school shteiging in computer theory, and the teachers would wake him up in the morning on the floor of the school.

    There is nothing wrong with a child reading about this unbelievably great world that the RBSH created, and all that has transpired, as he learns to separate the good from the bad and to strive for the good.

    By allowing a child to broaden his mind and develop some anivus, not thinking that everyone else is bad and worthless, it helps him develop better ahavas habriyos which is the foundation of the world and of all midos tovos.

    When he is told that everything is treif and stupid, it leads to the kind of personality disorders that cause people to run around on the streets calling their fellow Jews Nazis. It leads to kids going off the derech because they have no motivation to do anything, since the thought of doing nothing but learning, and not even being allowed to get any secular training to make a decent living is so depressing that they begin to despise the religion. Everything is treif and asur, so they can’t develop any goals or hopes for the future or to use their G-d given talents to better the world, whether by means of curing a terrible disease or inventing a new technology (I don’t mean a new Shabbos blech) or developing expertise in classical music or anything else of interest to them. They remain ignorant of the entire world, and appear to the rest of the world as a bunch of simpletons locked into the 17th century. How can one possibly think of going into kiruv when he comes across as a total ignoramus?

    There is plenty to gain from being exposed to other cultures. (The gemara says that various tannaim said oheiv ani es hamedayim or oheiv ani es haparsiim–I love this or that nation because they have such and such admirable traits.)

    If you want to believe that avodas hashem means one should be close-minded, that is fine. But at least realize that just as much good, if not more, can be accomplished by being open-minded and friendly to all, and acknowledging the accomplishments of others of all types.

    in reply to: Poor Daughter #659018
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    Can I apply for some of these funds and gifts? I will post my address.

    in reply to: No Makeup on Wedding Day? #1135348
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    PM, you no doubt know that Shulchan Aruch says that a woman who doesn’t wear makeup according to the norms of her place can be divorced without a kesuva. Now of course, the husband can be mochel if he wants.

    However, the down side is that what if he is later strolling down the street and sees all the other women wearing gorgeous makeup, and his wife looks very plain. He may either start to look at other women, or may subconsciously start getting upset with his wife that she doesn’t measure up, either of which is bad for shalom bayis.

    Note that there is a story about the wife of reb Aryeh Levin who always said she was jealous of the zchus of a particular woman. This woman would put on her finest and get all dressed up to go out and greet her husband every day on the way home from work. She would wait on the corner for him to arrive.

    in reply to: No Makeup on Wedding Day? #1135324
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    PM, I have posted on other tznius threads that Rav Falk’s sefer is incredibly machmir on things which have no basis in halacha. Like the color and thickness of socks, which are purely optional to begin with, according to Reb Moshe and Mishna Berura. Also, denim skirts are purely a matter of taste and not halacha. The amount and length of jewelry is another example. He regulates that, but then concedes that for sephardim who normally wear huge amounts and large size jewelry it is ok. What that means is that jewelry, too, is also a matter of taste. I find it hard to take seriously a sefer which basically is based on one person’s opinion of how women should dress, rather than on concrete halacha. Yes, if you want a guidebook on the “frum” or “yeshivishe” style, this is a good manual. (My daughter was once given a camp list which had some rules for the pockets or zippers of skirts which had to either be only in the front or only in the back, I can’t even remember which, but obvioulsy nothing to do with halacha.)

    However, if you want to dress your own way, and really want to know what the halacha is, this book has really little information that will be of use. It is a style manual, but not a halachic reference. Halichos Bas Yisroel seems to be a much more unbiased and honest guide to what the halacha requires.

    in reply to: No Makeup on Wedding Day? #1135304
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    What gets me nervous is that if a seminary can ignore the countless gemaras which say that it is the derech of women to wear makeup, and that the father or husband must provide them, and that women are mechuyav to use them, then maybe we must be choshesh that they are trying to shmad girls to another religion. Remember that not all forms of apostasy are kulas. The tzeddukim or karraim believed that one cannot have any light burning all shabbos long because of the posuk lo sivaaru aish bchol moshvoseichem byom hashabbos. They also believed that a tvul yom could not prepare the parah adumah, but we are meikil. They were far more machmir than we are, yet they are apostates.

    The next thing is that they will then not allow their young children to play with children from homes where the mother does use makeup because it is a bad influence.

    It is a vicious cycle. The more chumras they invent, the more separation they need from those who don’t keep the new chumras. This then requires even more new chumras to prevent any contact between the groups.

    Joseph, although you have numerous sources that makeup is the norm for Jewish women throughout the doros, and have one that possibly says it can be harmful when overdone, so you assur the entire concept? Food is also harmful when used to an excess. Even water can be fatal if one drinks too much. So you are going to assur these, now, as well?

    in reply to: No Makeup on Wedding Day? #1135254
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    How much money are they offering for a choson not to get a haircut, not to take a shower the month before his wedding and not to buy a new suit or shoes, but to wear old ragged ones?

    in reply to: Budget Crisis! Bais Yaakov of Boro Park Cannot Open Yet This Year #658201
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    Joseph, you know as well as I that the Yeshivishe velt discourages boys from working and wants them to stay in learning, preferably.

    You also know that they denigrate secular studies, and many high schools in EY don’t offer any at all. That includes all the mainstream Chareidi yeshivos ketanos. In the USA, it is sometimes as little as 90 minutes a day, or even less in frummer yeshivas. Very rarely do they have proper labs and advanced courses beyond the minimum regents standards (which have been extremely watered down last few years).

    You also know that for many years they were opposed to college, even the frum ones.

    You know I did not say any sheker.

    in reply to: Talking During Davening #663951
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    Lesschumras, those statements do not make a word of sense, and are against all logic. Do they mean to say that we in the USA were better daveners than the kedoshim in Europe? It is an insult to those who perished. See the book Lest We Forget, by the gadol hador Rabbi Shlomo Wahrman shlita who totally debunks this theory, and demonstrates how insensitive it is.

    in reply to: No Makeup on Wedding Day? #1135251
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    Wasn’t the 12 months between kiddushin and nisuin in the time of gemara so that the kallah could look her best on her wedding day? (Lefarnes es atzmah btachshitin, if I recall?) Also, gemara says a father is required to buy his daughter things that will make all the bochurim jump on her (want to marry her on the spot).

    Second, whoever came up with this angry G-d theory? If a kallah wears makeup at her wedding, does this angry G-d blow his top, blow his stack, or blow smoke out of his ears? Why worship an angry G-d when one can worship a kind benevolent G-d instead? I mean, really, whoever came up with this nonsense? Maybe they need to attend some anger management classes, so they wouldn’t project their own anger on G-d.

    in reply to: No Makeup on Wedding Day? #1135247
    Pashuteh Yid
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    Did you all know that some tannaim and amoraim sold makeup for a living?

    in reply to: Budget Crisis! Bais Yaakov of Boro Park Cannot Open Yet This Year #658195
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    What yeshivos need to teach their children is that making a parnasa is the most ruchnius thing there is. One uses a brain that Hashem gave him, his eyes and his hands and his legs and has a place to go where he can use these, and does 8 hours of work, using the raw materials Hashem placed on earth, and creates some product or value, and presto, miraculously bread comes down min hashamayim. It is a peleh when you think about it. The biggest nes that there is, that Hashem has created a world that can sustain all creatures with what he put into it. For example, all computer chips are made from silicon. What a miracle that this is basically sand, found everywhere. Millions of people in the computer industry make a living from sand.

    Instead of denigrating work, we should teach how much of a ruchnius experience it is and how it creates such simcha when one can bring home a sufficient paycheck. We rob our students of this, and hurt them for life by feeding them propaganda that work and secular studies are treif.

    Incidentally In Orach Chaim 306, it says explicitly that one is permitted to arrange a teacher to teach his son a trade even on Shabbos, since it is considered cheftzei shamayim. (Chafatzecha asurim, cheftzei shamayim mutarim.) The Mishna Berurah says that because without a trade, one will turn to theft (based on well-known gemara).

    How in the world did the yeshivishe velt manage to invent that a mefurash halacha no longer applies?

    in reply to: Computer Heat #655897
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    Laptops can overheat and be damaged if ventilation is blocked. Even when vents are unobstructed, they can get very hot. There is a program called core-temp, I believe, which can be downloaded, that allows you to monitor temp of CPU.

    in reply to: Altering Photos in Photoshop for Fundraising Purposes – Okay? #655061
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    The fact that the kedoshim in Europe wore light suits and hats of any style shows explicitly that Hashem’s army has no black and white dress code. It is only today where artificial chitzonius is the norm, that such a dress code has evolved, the same as the Borsalino hat. (Is the Borsalino also a part of Hashem’s army’s dress code? What did the Rishonim do before the opening of the Borsalino company? Do the Rishonim have any chelek in Olam Haba?)

    It is just a game of appearing yeshivish and wanting to fit in with a certain crowd and in some cases, wanting to feel that one is above the hamon am. There are many sincere yidden who dress many different ways.

    in reply to: Altering Photos in Photoshop for Fundraising Purposes – Okay? #655036
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    Interesting that Rav Eliashiv has an explicit tshuvah in his sefer if one can lie or exaggerate to make up mayselach of gedolei yisroel in order to inspire talmidim. He frowns upon it, but compares it to a hesped where under very limited conditions one can add some praise to enhance kovod hames (in shulchan oruch).

    Parenthetically, the fact that the question was asked him, sheds some light on the Chazon Ish neurosurgery story and possibly quite a few others.

    in reply to: �Shabbos, Shabbos” (Rally in Yerushalayim) #651773
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    Sammy, I understand your point, but I believe the original proposal here was to have non-Jews run the lot, and not to charge any money. Some Chareidi Rabbonim did approve.

    in reply to: �Shabbos, Shabbos” (Rally in Yerushalayim) #651771
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    Another self-contradiction about the anti-zionist shabbos protests is that suppose Israel were C”V given to the Arabs, as Rav Blau suggested (on another thread). Wouldn’t the Arabs run the buses and parking lots on Shabbos? There would be a far worse atmosphere of Shabbos, as it would be a normal working day for the whole country.

    in reply to: Kidney Transplants #651558
    Pashuteh Yid
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    First, as pointed out, having a kidney removed is major surgery and puts the donor at risk.

    Second, profiting from kidneys seems rather unseemly. For someone to make 150,000 profit from this scheme does not seem above board.

    Third, if there is a waiting list for donors, and one pulls shtick to get himself to the top of the list, that may be alleviating his own pikuach nefesh, but increasing the pikuach nefesh of someone else who now has to wait longer.

    Fourth, if we allow organs to be bought and sold, it will increase the chances of violent attacks by people looking to steal somebody’s organs.

    in reply to: Hagaon Rav Amram Blau ZT’L, 35th Yahrtzeit #692294
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    ICOT: Thanks for the beautiful article.

    DarcheiNoam: There is an obvious self-contradiction in your article about Rav Amram. His thesis is that the Arabs were always friendly and it was the Zionists that made the Arabs bloodthirsty via the Balfour Declaration. He says that there is no difference between the Arabs and other non-Jewish nations.

    And that is exactly why his whole thesis falls. Because the Germans butchered six million of us for no reason it shows that the non-Jews start with us totally unprovoked. Rav Amram equates the Arabs with say the Swiss. Therefore there is no reason not to equate them with the Germans and any other anti-semitic governments throughout our history, because what is the difference between one non-Jewish nation and any other. Since we know that the Crusades and the Inquisition and the Holocaust were completely unprovoked, it follows that the Arab pogroms and terror attacks are equally unprovoked. So his hashkafah falls to pieces in a complete self-contradiction.

    And this is exactly the rationale of the Zionists. We will no longer trust other countries to protect us and be forced always to live under foreign rule, since that has led to tragedy after tragedy. We have the right to one little place in the world that we can call our own. And we will make our own state there that will be run by Jews and be a safe haven for all Jews everywhere.

    And BTW we are not conquering and taking over anybody else’s land, as Rav Amram seems to say. Did we ever try to take over Saudi Arabia or Jordan or Iraq? Eretz Yisroel is our land that was given to Avraham Avinu and has belonged to us from time immemorial. We have every right to go back home. We needn’t concern ourselves with any nation exerting false claims over our own home. They occupied our land, not the other way around.

    in reply to: Hagaon Rav Amram Blau ZT’L, 35th Yahrtzeit #692287
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    DD, that is a beautiful story. There is a similar story about a hesder boy who locked the door between the kitchen and dining room, so only he would get shot by the terrorist in the kitchen, not the entire yeshiva which was eating in the dining room.

    in reply to: �Shabbos, Shabbos” (Rally in Yerushalayim) #651764
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    BTW, as far as collective punishment goes, why are all Zionists still being villified for a single supposed incident of Yaldei Teheran which happened 50-60 years ago? Why does that get brought up into every single discussion of all the good things the Zionists have done. Ein lcha collective punishment gedolah mizu.

    in reply to: Hagaon Rav Amram Blau ZT’L, 35th Yahrtzeit #692285
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    And of course this mesirus nefesh has gone on right up until today with so many boys including many hesder boys who went proudly and bravely to fight any time their nation called them up. Many paid the supreme sacrifice R”L. The most beautiful picture ever taken is the one of a soldier on top of a tank in the 1973 war, his head wrapped in his tallis, and holding a Lulav and Esrog with his eyes closed, as he makes the bracha. Such a person knows what it is to ask the RBSH for mercy on him and the klal. A person who is facing pachad mavves but envelopes himself in dveikus to the Borei Olam as he pours his heart out bsimcha on yontof.

    Just last year, there are pictures of the boys fighting in Gaza making minyanim in the field near their tanks. The Rosh Yeshiva of Sderot gave his boys a shmuz before they left to be mechazek them so they would overcome their natural fear. (He himself has served in the army.)

    When the boys are not in service, they are learning Torah bsimcha and giving chizuk and doing chesed of all types to the frightened town of Sderot. In his recent speech at the Sderot dinner, Dov Hikind said if not for the Yeshiva’s chizuk and reaching out to all the members of the town and personally befriending each and every person, the town would not exist today, as they all would have left.

    This is true Torah mesirus nefesh, that of ahavas yisroel and building and appreciation for the work of every other yid and idealism that we will have an even better tomorrow, as we fulfill yishuv haaretz and work with the medinah to build and create and establish more and more and continue to improve the lives of all its citizens and spread torah warmth so that people will on their own want to learn torah more and more because they will see it as the source of all this chesed and love and caring for this town and the entire klal. Vheishiv lev avaos al banim vlev banim al avosam.

    in reply to: Hagaon Rav Amram Blau ZT’L, 35th Yahrtzeit #692284
    Pashuteh Yid
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    My dear DarcheiNaom, if you want to know what real mesirus nefesh is it is people like Dov Gruner and the Olei Gardom (those who went to the gallows) for the sake of Klal Yisroel and hakamas Medinas Yisroel. After he was captured, he wrote to his leader Menachem Begin not to worry, and that he has no regrets and would gladly have done it all over again. They took their tefilin to jail, and proudly sang Hatikvah as they were being led to their execution. Reb Aryeh Levin was their Rov, and shed bitter tears over them. On Rosh Hashana one year while he was the baal tefila, he broke down crying and repeating the names of each one of these kedoshim. These were people who gave it all so we can have our own state and a safe haven for Jews anywhere. On the ashes of the holocaust (some of whom were survivors) these people refused to be broken, and turned their efforts towards building up our nation, once again.

    in reply to: �Shabbos, Shabbos” (Rally in Yerushalayim) #651754
    Pashuteh Yid
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    Darchei Noam, punkt farkert. Because the sanctity of EY is so great, we must be nizhar that much more so on the kavod of our fellow Jews and mItzvos bein adam lachaveiro. The Har Habayis was chosen because of the story of the two brothers who looked out after each other.

    in reply to: Tznius Standards #651444
    Pashuteh Yid
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    Three more examples of where I believe R. Falk’s book veers off the halachic path into the area of personal opinion.

    1)He discourages very long skirts. Obviously these are more tzniusdik, rather than less, but he happens not to like that look, so he finds some problem with it.

    2) He discourages denim skirts. I wonder where in Shulchan Oruch that is mentioned, since it wasn’t around then. In addition, it is one of the most opaque and least clingy materials, possibly giving it an actual advantage in tznius.

    3) He sets limits in how much or how big jewelry one can wear. He is then faced with a problem that frum sephardic women have always worn huge amounts of very large sized jewelry and ornamentation. He says in response that for sephardim it is fine since that is the norm. Now, as far as I know, sephardim have the same halachas as ashkenazim, except where the Rama argues with the Mechaber. I am not aware of any such machlokes on this topic. The bottom line, whatever you and your family feel is right for you and are comfortable with is OK.

    How can an author interject personal opinion into a halacha sefer? Note, even if there is a source from some aggadta on this or that point, the halacha does not follow every obscure aggadta. Only halachic gemaras which are brought in shulchan oruch are binding.

    Of course one can be as machmir as one wishes. The problem is that when chumras are taught as halacha it causes people to look down on others, and violate onaas devarim and loshon hara which are far far more severe violations. In addition, it stifles people from doing what is comfortable to them and makes them start hating the religion. Chumras are one’s own personal business and should be kept private. In fact, there is a halacha that if one takes it upon himself a private fast day, and tells anybody about it, it is a terrible aveira, and shows it is only for kavod.

    in reply to: �Shabbos, Shabbos” (Rally in Yerushalayim) #651747
    Pashuteh Yid
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    Regarding screaming Shabbos, Shabbos, and physically blocking people from movie theatres, etc., let’s examine this for a moment, totally unbiased. If these demonstrations had the goal of getting the nonfrum to observe Shabbos, and were a halachically recommended way of doing so, then please tell me why we don’t do this in the USA. Bud Selig is the Commissioner of Baseball, and the owner of a team that I believe plays on Shabbos. (I am not aware of any team asking not to play on Shabbos for religious reasons.) Why have no groups sanctioned flying out men to physically block the games from taking place, and block the Commissioner from attending?

    Furthermore, why has no Rosh Yeshiva anywhere in the USA recommended that the boys fan out and 10 a piece will go to each reform synagogue in the area and block the cars from entering the lot, and physically block the congregants from entering the building, all the while screaming Shabbos? When the police are called, they should fight with the officers. I daresay that even if the boys did it on their own, any yeshiva in the USA would throw those boys out for good.

    Why has Aish Hatorah not adopted this method into their kiruv repertoire?

    The reasons are rather obvious:

    1) It will not create any more Shmiras Shabbos, but will only turn people off and get them furiously angry with the Jewish religion, in general.

    2) It will make a Chillul Hashem when the boys get arrested, and it gets into the papers.

    3) It will create a lot of bitul torah if the boys are incarcerated for periods of time.

    4) It will make future parnasa difficult for the boys if they have police records, and can’t find jobs.

    5) The way to really get people interested in Shabbos is to make them realize on their own that Matanah tova yesh li bveis ginzai, vshabbos shmah. As someone posted recently, invite them for a meal and give them chulent and sing zemiros with them.

    So therefore, not a single Rosh Yeshiva in the USA that I am aware of tells or allows their boys to try to force Shabbos down the throats of nonreligious Jews via confrontational demonstrations.

    So this begs the question as to why such a foolish and counterproductive approach that does nothing but create animosity is regularly used in Eretz Yisroel, and those who do it are looked up to as very holy heroes. Shabbos is not more mandatory in EY than in the USA since it is not a mitzvah hatluya baaretz, rather it is in effect bchol moshvoseichem. So why the different approach?

    The answer is that these demonstrations have nothing whatsoever to do with Shabbos. They are simply outlets for venting one’s hate and sinas chinam against the medinah and zionists and to get one’s frustrations out that the medinah exists and is flourishing. As the Rambam says, ripping garments on Shabbos in anger is chayav, even though kol hamekalklin pturin, however, here it is mesaken hu etzel yitzro hara. One is giving his yetzer hara an outlet.

    The Chazon Ish writes in Hilchos Shechita that one is not allowed to use any verbal or physical violence against the nonfrum of today, since they will only conclude that the Torah is violent and want to have nothing to do with it.

    So unless somebody provides me with a single Rosh Yeshiva in the USA who would sanction such behavior and send his boys out to the ballgames and Reform Synagogues, I must conclude that it is the the negiah of sinah which causes this method to be used in EY, Ki hashochad yeaver pikchim, viysalef divrei tzaddikim. Nobody is immune from the shochad of sinah.

    in reply to: OUTRAGES?! Violence in Jerusalem #650551
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    Unfortunately, I believe the chareidi leaders are not saying anything because they are beginning to realize that all these years of preaching verbal violence against the state has created a major monster that is now out of control. They can’t suddenly tell their followers to respect and trust the judgment of the state in this matter, as it will go against everything they have taught until now. But they don’t want to be seen as instigating violence because of the backlash by many frum parents who send their kids to Israel and financially support their schools. So the best approach here is the wise approach of the ostrich–stick one’s head in the sand.

    Mark my words, I believe that we are seeing the anti-zionist movement self-destruct and crumble right here before our very eyes. They have now publicly made themselves out to be so backwards, primitive and cruel as to support a child abuser against a benevolent (even to them) and charitable hospital, that nobody can take them seriously any more. They have become the laughingstock of Judaism. It was a movement that was born in sinas chinam and sheker, and has now found its fitting end in more sinas chinam and more sheker. Rest in Peace.

    in reply to: Tznius Standards #651435
    Pashuteh Yid
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    Kilobear, first of all, I had tried to post an apology to you about my overly harsh language in an earlier thread, but by the time I did, the thread was closed. If by getting upset about ahavas yisroel causes somebody to feel bad then I have defeated my whole purpose.

    Second, I personally agree that one should wear socks, and make sure my daughters do. I also do not wear jeans, and feel funny when I see in some shuls the one giving a shiur between mincha and maariv is wearing jeans and a T-shirt. Nevertheless, these people are machshiv Torah and it sends a positive msg when the teens in shul see a “cool guy” who is teaching the words of the Mishna Berurah and expounding on his sevaros. They see that one can be just like them and still be involved in learning. So there are two sides to everything.

    But my complaint about the tznius book, is that dignity is a personal matter, and you don’t legislate it or start making up all kinds of rules that have no sources behind them such as how blue or green socks reflect light a certain way. One should not micromanage tznius to the point that it looks like OCD disorder. It should be mentioned that we must dress dignified and befitting, and zehu. Girls aren’t morons who need to be spelled out every single detail. This stifling set of arbitrary rules filling the book many of which have the most tenuous source if at all, will do nothing but turn off people or cause fights by people who think they really are halacha.

    Another example of a source is that tight garments are forbidden because of the pasuk in shir hashirim which says chamukei yeraychayech, from which Chazal darshen mah yerech bsayser, af divrei torah bsayser. (And since it doesn’t say mechuseh, the author concludes the form can’t show.) The drasha has nothing to do with tznius of dress. It has to do with keeping sisrei torah secret. (Otherwise it would be a bah lelamed, vnimtzah lamed.) It is saying that the metzius is that the yerech is bsayser, so therefore we must keep divrei torah bsayser. An analogy is dadecha yirvucha bchol es, mah dad zeh kol zman shatinok memashmesh bo motzai taam, af divrei torah kein. It is not a chiyuv on the tinok, it is using a metzius to learn the nimshal.

    Lately it is fashionable to use shiur charts on pesach. Now a kzayis is certainly a halacha with many sources written about it. However, I gurantee you that previous generations and even the gedolim of those times did not use them even for this mitzvah d’oraisa. They ate matzah bsimchah but did not get OCD over it. Whatever they ate was good enough. They estimated the size of an olive or beitzah and that was it.

    Tznius by definition means being private. To write a whole book on your opinion of how girls should dress in the most excruciating detail seems to be the exact opposite of tznius.

    in reply to: OUTRAGES?! Violence in Jerusalem #650530
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    The saddest thing is that I have people I know well who like to pepper me with religious questions, and I have to defend the Torah to them all the time. Now they will be laughing their heads off making a total joke and mockery out of the entire religion and I will have nothing to say. This actually is the best limud zchus anybody could have dreamed of for the non-frum. They all have every right to say why in the world should I keep Shabbos or kosher when this is what Judaism is all about. Can anybody blame them? Oy liploni shelamad torah… r’eu kamah mkulkalin maysav.

    It needs to be said again. The Torah was never meant to be studied in a vacuum. It was meant for yishuv haolam. Having a job and getting an education and being pressured with tests and homework and project deadlines, and having to chap arein for some learning time is not negative, the terrible stress makes a mensch out of a person. Chazal knew this when they said habatalah meviah liydei shiamum. When one has no deadlines and responsibilities, this wildness is the end result.

    That is why the Israeli army is so useful for among other things, creating self-discipline and self-esteem, and appreciation for how hard it is to run a society, and how rewarding it is to be a part of it. It would be such a chesed for these chareidim to go to the army. They would feel so much better about themselves. Remember that the gambler is pasul l’eidus according to one opinion because eino osek biyishuvo shel olam.

    in reply to: Tznius Standards #651424
    Pashuteh Yid
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    Joseph, Avraham Avinu’s meseches Avodah Zara had 400 chapters 🙂

    in reply to: Tznius Standards #651417
    Pashuteh Yid
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    Regarding socks and R. Falks’s book. Reb Moshe clearly says as long as the knee and above are covered, one doesn’t need any socks. He says that since they are only a chumra, anyway, if one wants to wear clear stockings, she certainly may, as they are not necessary to begin with. However, he doesn’t recommend wearing clear clothing on areas which may be ervah, since that might lead to hirhur.

    However, R. Falk’s book goes into a long discussion of what color and material are permitted for socks. (He even has a problem with certain dark socks because one might see light reflecting through them more noticeably than through lighter socks.) Seemingly out of thin air he manufactures an entire shulchan oruch. All this for a garment which is unnecessary to begin with. It is for reasons like this I totally lost faith in his book.

    One additional point, this business of blaming frum women for the lack of tznius and constantly forcing even more chumras on them will not make it any easier for Jewish men. Has anybody ridden the NYC subways lately? Even the most modern Jewish women don’t begin to compare to what the average subway rider is (or is not) wearing. Believe me, nobody is paying a drop of attention because a frum woman is not wearing thick enough socks. There are far worse distractions all around the train. Let us give credit to all frum women for being so careful with tznius instead of screaming at them that they are only covering 95% of their bodies.

    in reply to: Melacha Sh’einah Tzricha L’gufa #650786
    Pashuteh Yid
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    Just looked up Reb Moshe over Shabbos, and there are two teshuvos. The first, in OC 1:115, and the second much expanded in OC 4:103. He says that as I asked before, in fact most rishonim disagree with the Rambam, and hold like Reb Shimon that melacha shetl”g is patur. So in fact kibuy is only drabanan, max. Because of this, if one has a choice of lighting extra flames of lower temp to keep cooked food warm, or simply being mechabeh, much better to do the drabanan of kibuy than the deoraisa of kibuy. He says that when wood was used, possibly you needed to do a lot of work to put out all the flames in different pieces of wood, so maybe was simpler to light one new small flame elsewhere. However, today, turning gas up or down is identical. Might as well turn it down, which is drabanan, than turn another flame on which is doraisa. (What is confusing to me is that lmayseh, the doraisa is mutar because of ochel nefesh, however, apparently Reb Moshe holds that we don’t use the heter of ON when we have an alternative, which in this case is a drabanan of ON, i.e., kibuy. He says that there is no heter to do kibuy to save gas.

    Possibly one could leave 4 burners at 4 different temps and transfer food around, but this is obviously impractical, will heat up your house unbearably, and is quite possibly a sakanas nefashos, especially with kids. Also, most people have only one fleishig oven, so you could not do that with an oven. You must therefore adjust the temp for each recipe which was what Oomis was saying all along. The reason why a pilot light is different than electrical ignition is simply that if you turn off the electric one, you can never turn it back on till after YT, whereas the pilot oven can be turned back on if it goes out when you turn it down to prevent food from burning (assuming it is one connected flame, which some posters here have disputed).

    Basically though to build up the sugya the variables are:

    1) Is kibuy always considered melacha shetlg? (Seems nobody disputes that I have seen so far.)

    2) Is halacha like Reb Yehudah that above is asur doraisa or like Reb Shimon that it is drabbanan? (Rambam say doraisa, Reb Moshe says most rishonim day drabanan.)

    3) Does ON apply to kibuy or only to havara? (Even according to Rambam, Reb Moshe is mechadesh that kibuy to prevent burning is still permitted, as ON does apply to kibuy. The Rambam’s issur of kibuy to prevent oversmoking does not apply if food will actually be burnt and totally ruined. In that case ON allows kibuy.)

    4) Which melachos does ON apply to? A machlokes Rebbe Yehuda and Rabbanan in Beyah, I believe (did not have chance to look up and remind myself, but may depend on what cannot be done erev yontof). Reb Moshe says there is nothing magic about havarah and bishul, and kibuy is also permitted.

    5) What melachos did Chazal say mitoch, and why? (Mitoch allows one to do the melacha even not for ON, but according to some rishonim, only where there is some tzorech hayom ktzas.) Seems they said it by hotzaah and havaras aish, but not by other things or kibuy. Possibly because kibuy is not really necessary for preparing food, only to prevent it from getting ruined, so it is not an intrinsic food melacha. (However, kibuy can still be done if for the purpose of saving food, but not for saving gas.)

    I am to tired to look into point 4 about machlokes R”Y and Rabanan regarding Lachem lchol tzarchechem (and Edaf.com is down now), but think this is the basic outline.

    So bottom line is that Oomis certainly has backing, although turning off oven for no purpose seems problematic, only if it will affect food. However, I wonder about if house gets too hot, or kids are around that could burn themselves.

    Incidentally, regarding turning on electric light on YT, I grew up in a different part of the country than Oomis, and remember hearing that some rabbonim would permit turning light on, but not off, if there was great need, although this is not mainstream these days, and may be one of the earlier piskei halacha of electricity, before things became more standardized in the klal.

    in reply to: Melacha Sh’einah Tzricha L’gufa #650773
    Pashuteh Yid
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    Glad everybody enjoys the thread (non-political for a change, although I didn’t like the tone of disrespect in some of the posts).

    As far as unpublished tshuvah of Reb Moshe, as far as I can recall it is published, and I will look up over Shabbos.

    But before that, I wish someone will develop the sugya from its roots. I started with the Rambam. However, do all rishonim agree that melacha Shetl”g is assur? Do all rishonim agree that kibuy is melacha Shetlg? If not, then maybve kibuy is only drabbanan on Shabbos, and certainly on YT. Is removing gas considered kibuy, or not. We can’t remove oil from a lamp, but I believe I just learned in Rambam that one can take away a log from a fire if it has not ignited yet. I also believe one can carry a flame, even though it will get smaller. I also heard that during havdala when YT is Motzai Shabbos, there is a heter to use the shabbos candles holding them together and then releasing even though the flame will get smaller.

    So one who wants to discuss the sugya needs to develop it step by step according to the gemara and rishonim, and only then to apply it to the modern metzius. If somebody is willing to do the research, please do so, or I will try to do some over shabbos.

    in reply to: Melacha Sh’einah Tzricha L’gufa #650712
    Pashuteh Yid
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    Oomis, your part about electricity constantly running in wires is interesting. I am not sure how the following would affect the halacha, but when the switch is off, there is a voltage, but no current. When you turn the switch on, or chas vshalom stick any conductor or even part of the body (since it conducts to some degree) into an outlet, you are creating a current. It is like water in a faucet which when the faucet is off, there is pressure behind it but no flow. When you open the faucet, the pressure forces the water out, and a stream flows. If electricity depends on voltage, then it could be as you say. However, if it depends on creating a current, then would be different.

    in reply to: Melacha Sh’einah Tzricha L’gufa #650704
    Pashuteh Yid
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    Mepal, Your pronunciation is the more modern way which is asur lchol hadayos. You may even be an apikorus if you pronounce it that way. Don’t ever say that in public or your kids will never get shidduchim.

    Oomis, if your pilot goes out, you can probably relight with a yahrtzeit candle.

    in reply to: Melacha Sh’einah Tzricha L’gufa #650701
    Pashuteh Yid
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    Hi Oomis. Those stoves are very good for yontof, but I believe they have been discontinued for safety reasons, since the gas runs all the time, and if pilot goes out, fumes can accumulate.

    Also, once I tried to light an oven pilot that was extinguished, and the gas made a huge (but short-lasting) flame that caught my hair on fire. Be careful.

    in reply to: Melacha Sh’einah Tzricha L’gufa #650699
    Pashuteh Yid
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    Just did more research and found that the Rambam does indeed pasken like R. Yehuda that Melacha ShETLG is chayav. He says this explicitly in hilchos shabbos (1,7) and (12,2). So in hilchos yontof he is consistent. He needs to emphasize it in hilchos yontof because I might have thought that since mavir (lighing a fire) is mutar ltzorech ochel nefesh (and by extension in other cases, as well, because of mitoch), maybe I can apply this to mechabeh as well. Maybe they are a pair, since one is the opposite of the other. So he needs to tell us in hilchos yontof that mechabeh is not permitted on yontof, either, just like on shabbos, and the heter of mavir on yontof does not apply to mechabeh.

    (Note that I believe halacha lmayesh we do lower the flame when it will burn the food. I am not sure if this fits with the Rambam.)

    One other point which is discussed by the nosei keilim on the Rambam which I am too tired to look into is why the Rambam paskens that meifis mursa and tzad nachash are patur which are also examples of melachos ShETLG, since he paskens that melacha ShETLG is chayav.

    in reply to: Facing the Sefer Torah During Leining #649388
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    I find it hard to believe that everyone should sit facing the Torah, since in many shtiebels the tables have people on both sides, some sit facing forward, and some facing backwards. There is no way they could all be facing the Torah unless half were standing and turning around.

    But if one is walking by the Torah, probably one should try to face the Torah, as it says achoreihem el heichal hashem. For this reason I believe many shuls read haftarah on the side of the bimah. You don’t want to have your back to the sefer torah which someone is sitting and holding, and also don’t want to have your back to the aron in front.

    in reply to: Bothered by the Lakewood Matzav? #1013347
    Pashuteh Yid
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    At any rate, I believe the ban on chairs was because they didn’t want restaurants turning into hangouts for teens. Nevertheless, you don’t punish a whole community because of a something which is only a cheshash and which is only because of a few. I believe that they on their own realized that this will not prevent kids from going OTD, and will only drive them further away. They will go to non-Jewish places. So it is better to have them in a Jewish environment.

    in reply to: Bothered by the Lakewood Matzav? #1013335
    Pashuteh Yid
    Member

    Let’s say I don’t like sitting down in restaurants. I can always go home. How does some other family sitting down in a restaurant enjoying a nice meal with the bubbies and zaydies who worked hard to support the family for all those years impact on my ruchnius? What ruchnius is there in sticking my nose into somebody else’s family simcha, and trying to ruin it for them?

    I mamash think there are some people who simply can’t find any ruchnius if it doesn’t involve the feeling of holier than thou. Yiddishkeit loses all meaning for them if they can’t find someone to look down at. Don’t the mussar sefarim (or even Pirkei Avos) say one is mechuyav to be mesameach in the simcha of another, just like being nosei b’ol R”L in the difficulty of another? Wow, I did a big mitzvah today, I ruined the meal of a bubbie or zaydie who struggled all their lives, traveled for many hours, and want a little nachas from the grandchildren for a few hours in a nice restaurant. Big yasher koach to me, I made the RBSH very happy today.

    in reply to: Zionist Quote #649245
    Pashuteh Yid
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    KiloBear, what you write is so totally beyond the pale of what every Jew knows from elementary school. Are you denying that there was a Soviet Jewry movement from the 1960’s through the 1980’s? Why did my school send the entire student body every year on Solidarity Day along with countless other schools and organizations and shuls of all stripes (and the most distinguished US politicians would speak) to free the Soviet Jews who were denied religious freedom and even the right to emigrate. Are you saying this was all a major hoax perpetrated by non-Jewish swindlers who managed to fool the entire world into thinking they were oppressed Jews so they could pull off a get-rich quick scheme by coming to Israel where the streets were paved with gold because of the super economy the State of Israel was blessed with? I am astounded, really. We were all a bunch of fools because they were never Jewish to begin with. The number 3 million we would always hear was a fiction. All the Jews of the USSR who were there for hundreds of years mysteriously vanished. My baby sitter’s husband who was moser nefesh to line up for matzah Erev Pesach in the USSR secretly at 5 am and keep with his family whatever Judaism they knew were all a bunch of liars. (How did all these non-Jews know yiddish so well?)

    There was no Essas who studied Torah in hidden basements of the USSR, and then finally was let out and went to the Mir in Yerushalayim where he sat and learned yomam valaylah? There was no Mendelevich who sat and learned in Merkaz Harav (I believe) yomam valylah? (But indeed there was a Mendelevich, because I was privileged to eat a Shabbos meal with him at the home of my HS principal.)

    What is all the more strange is that above, you knocked the Israeli economy and said it is all a sham and they have no competent drug companies or high tech industry, despite the fact that we read every day about their successes. So you have contradicted yourself, since you claim that was why all the non-Jews made aliyah.

    I have come to the conclusion that there is not one bit of reality that you will not twist and distort to support your sinas chinam. Even if you have to twist it one way today, and exactly the opposite tomorrow, whatever works at that moment is fine.

    Jothar, there is something called a shaas hadechak and hefsed merubah and tzorech rabim that allows leniencies. Your unwillingness to acknowledge that these families are going through a difficult situation through no fault of their own shows a lack of compassion. Very easy for you to say that because my family had no such difficulty, I am a great tzaddik and will tell you that your family is inferior and if you seek a solution, you are a conservative and a kofer. Very convenient to be frum on somebody else’s cheshbon. How does it hurt me to pasul somebody else’s family. life is great for me, and I am frum and perfect and my family is super-Jewish, and who cares about the other family, why should I be flexible since it has no bearing on my situation.

    I tend to think if your family was in a bind, all of the sudden you would see things a but differently, and look for a halachic way out. I am not knocking you personally, I am only showing the fallacy in this way of thinking. Vahavta lreacha komocha means I treat yenem the same as myself and put myself in his shoes.

    We all seem to have forgotten the lesson of Avraham Avinu who told the Ribbono Shel Olam the sharf words Chalilah lecha, hashofet kol haaretz lo yaaseh mishpat! And who was he defending? The Anshei Sdom who were not Jewish and were among the worst people on earth in both bein odom lamakom and bein odom lachaveiro. They were far worse than any Soviet Jew and any Zionist and any modern Orthodox YU graduate. The compassion of an Avraham Avinu is why he was zocheh to be the father of our nation.

    I will not be posting any more on this thread, since I am getting too aggravated at people trying to reinvent the beautiful yiddishkeit I was taught all my life (and reinvent history, as well, for that matter). Believe me, if the kannai’s view of Judaism ever becomes the norm, I will be the first to go OTD. Who needs such an ugly religion?

    in reply to: Zionist Quote #649239
    Pashuteh Yid
    Member

    Chaverim, your use again of the pejorative “Zionist converts” again demonstrates the lack of a Jewish heart and compassion, and ignorance of history. In fact, why did we get into such a mess with Russian converts? Because the Russian govt wiped out all traces of Jewish learning. Therefore many Jews did not know anything of their heritage and married non-Jews. (If anything this proves the need for a Jewish state, since intermarriage is far lower than it was in Russia, so you have disproved yourself.) But getting back to the topic at hand, we have Jews who want to make Aliyah from Russia who have a non-Jewish spouse. What is your solution? Tell them to get divorced, leaving broken families and children? Don’t allow them into the country at all, and leave them lost to yiddishkeit forever? Thankfully the medinah has compassion and is trying in the best way possible in conformance with halacha to allow these families to remain together. The best solution seems to be to motivate the non-Jewish spouse to convert and accept mitzvos. However, there may be individual cases where this fails. I believe Rav Ovadiah Yosef agrees with this approach.

    It is very easy for a kannoi to scream asur and blame the medinah for a problem that was actually caused by a lack of a Jewish medinah where Jews were at the whims of cruel anti-semitic rulers in golus. It is much more difficult to solve the problem than to scream about it, because solving it actually takes compassion, careful learning and Torah knowledge to do, whereas screaming can be done by any klutz on the street. Thankfully the klal was blessed with compasionate poskim like Reb Moshe in his time, who tried as hard as he could to help Jews in trouble (he freed 2000 agunos from WW2). Far be the day when insensitive, coldhearted kannoim start to deal with difficult issues of the klal.

    in reply to: Amateur Radio #888713
    Pashuteh Yid
    Member

    Last Reminder: Field Day 2009 is this weekend June 26-28. Setup begins on Friday 2 pm, and operation begins Sat 2 pm. If you want to learn how to set up a station, you can go for an hour on Erev Shabbos to watch. They will be putting up towers and running wires and generators all over. They have 24 hours max to get everything going. Then You can go motzaei shabbos (even in the middle of the night like Shavuos, lhavdil) or Sunday until 2 pm, to watch the stations operate in the contest. Big clubs will welcome visitors and have booths and refreshments with all kinds of interesting stuff.

    You can find a club near you by checking the American Radio Relay League web site or calling them (probably better, as they can give you info on best clubs for visitors in your area).

    This is a big kiruv event in ham radio. (I do not think there will be Carlebach songs, though, but you can always try.)

    in reply to: Why Do People Knock Agudath Israel? #648624
    Pashuteh Yid
    Member

    Squeak, I understood. It is because they don’t want any Jewish institution being associated with secular knowledge. BTW, what do they feel about Machon Lev (Jerusalem College of Technology) in Israel?

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