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im wondering the same thing-cars are still stuck all over the streets and almost no means of public transportation
listen!!!!! if a boy goes to college so that he can support his family instead of his father-in-law and therefore preventing him from going into debt or having a a heart attack then go for it!!!!!! he’s doing it for the right reasons and such a bachur should not be put down!
all the things that were listed in the first post fall under the category of middos!
and many of them say that if thats your form of hishtadlus then go ahead and do it!
i think that someone who goes to college is doing his hishtadlus to provide once he has a family-after all isnt it the husband who should be providing livelihood at the end of the day?!?!?!?!?! it depends on his attitude towards it and depends what his learning means to him while he’s in college. if his attitude is that he has to finish learning to go do his report or something like that, that isnt the best thing! if a boy goes to college, his torah learning should always be priority! those are the boys that are good and strong and torah means a lot to them! nothing is wrong with such a boy!
and to answer about them working their staff-thats not true! its all a matter of attitude and if you’re in it for the right reasons then youre good
oorah does beutiful things and its impossible to advertise the hundreds of beautiful things that go on every day! someone mentioned that they ony see the adds and dont see success! there are tons of success stories! go check out the regular frum seminaries in Eretz Yisrael-they have girls there! go check out their websites and you’ll see girls who are working on themselves to be more tzniyus and boys who are putting on tefilin and wearing a yarlmuka and tzitzis!!!! dont bash before you see the outcome!