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PAA- that took guts. kinda scary how mechavein i was. where are those?
theres a video that proves the cop was right
You’re missing the point. The reason they should give it another chance is to get a better picture of the boy before judging anything, it’s not like they’re swimming in names.
well played dudes.
but u gotta agree, it’s a bit childish to think most people from different ends of the spectrum can have a good marriage.
sheesh. yknow what i hate though? girls always complain they dont get dates, and then when they finally get one they say “no” after one.
welcome back kj
true but between me n u, u were basicly saying it urself
lol ca
thanx guys
hello, my name is oyyoyyoy and it is my first cr bithday. i am one yr old now. yay.
when i miss the ock here for 3days i justgo thru the decaf to see whats ben going on. If everyone wud put threads in their proper categories they wud never be seen
i hear, ur saying its a vize. It’s possible but check into it, maybe he has a shitta against giving a chosson shas, like the people above. also even if her parents are big fat jerks, she can still be sweeter than honeycake gumdrops
There is nothing wrong with your question, but this is not the place to ask it. Try googling
R word.
ya rashi in chumash brings it no? anyways im with PAA, dont think its such a raaya
Is a Chosson Shas standard
jussayin it is standard.
is it wrong to expect one?
forsure dont fight about it but i dont see why not to expect one.
That’s why we have the coffee room.
its no joke. the ratio of out-box people to in-box people is quite larger here than the real world. this really explains it.
hey! ROB! i promise earlier today i was thinking, “U know who we haven’t seen around in a while? ROB. Thats who.”
WE’RE SORRY, PLEASE WAIT WHILE OYYOYYOY PONDERS…
actually a lot less ya
Here’s a breakdown of the difficulties as i see it:
1. Having Friends
a) at all
b) that you are/feel close with
c) that you are/feel not an outcast with
d) who u can put your gaurd down around and don’t have to be on defense
2. Belonging To A Sect
a) for feeling at home and a sense of kinship
b) who u can put your gaurd down around and don’t have to be on defense
c) you can just follow what comes along naturally instead of having to go thru each decision thoroughly
3. The Future
a) where do you live
b) where do you go to shul
c) where do you send your kids to school
wow, sorry thought that would be helpful but seems pwetty negative. I still think it will be helpful in discussing this and trying to work out a solution, but it’s probably gonna be hard and gonna take a while.
you know what rebyidd? forget it.
i would answer you but that would be insensitive. So next time you ask a question make sure there will be a possibility for a response.
PAA- Truw. But i think out-box people are more tolerant and can relate better to other out-boxers (oy), who by the by might also be seeking friends. Especially if both out-boxers have similar upbringings or backgrounds.
haha, while i do have in-box friends, i also have a group of out-box friends awso. there is more of a comfort with them. thats like five more.
Cigarette smoke spreads through the air, nuts do not.
This is from the American College of Allergy, Asthma, and Immunology website (also kinda basic thing people know):
This brought tears to my eyes as well.
Truth is, after thinking about it, I was talking about myself. I too am in my own box, as you are, but on a much smaller scale it seems. The conclusion I came to (of it not interfering with life so much) may not necessarily apply to you.
I also feel the pain of not fitting perfectly in anywhere, as alluded to above, and sympathize with you. There may be a part of this that is only in our consecutive heads, however. I’m a believer of people seeing what they are expecting to see. True, there is probably an actual lack of belonging, but i don’t think it’s as bad as you’re telling yourself (and I’m telling myself).
We’re grown ups now, it’s okay
“So no matter what anyone tells me on here, I’m not going to change”
Then it’s assur for anyone to tell you why it’s assur
No Kidding
To answer the OP’s question, there’s a story (real sorry dont remember this well) in the hakdamah to the sefer “kochvei ohr” where after he dies he comes to someone in a dream and tells him that for every person the ones who are the bais din (after 120) are the gedolim of his generation. Therefore, he warns, to be extra careful about the stuff the gedolim were very makpid on. I think in that generation the godol was R Yisrael Salanter who was always warning about gezel, so he was cautioning people not to steal.
For us thats internet.
OOOOOOooo!!! OOOOoo!! i got one! i got one! ok ok ok, here it goes… ready?
Overhearing someone quote you in the real world.
(never ever really hear people even mention the coffee room in the real world though. people on krypton dont really know about it yet.)
genius!
Have X amount of people disagree with you and no posters taking your side.
” and reaching X posts. And Y.
Terrible, just terrible. Is there a principal (male or female) or something from your BY that you can turn to you? Any mentors/role models?
“there’s no box I can say I belong to and no place where I feel completely at home.”
That i hear.
I told her that while she’s right, unfortunately in society today that’s just not enough.
If you don’t mean the same thing as the quote above, rather a person cant lead a normal life and cant do anything without getting dragged down from not being a classic cookie cut then i disagree on that.
(#divergent)
But if Ruben passes by and inhales your smoke, he could possibly be someone who is allergic to it, so don’t be so quick to automatically assume there is no harm done.
You cant tell someone not to smoke somewhere because youre allregic. “But officer, what did I do”? “You can’t eat those nuts in the park, someone may be allergic.”
explain why that makes a difference
eek- The only ones who know how to think are our Gedolim.
Correct me if i’m wrong, but it seems to me like you’re being sarcastic. Correct me if i’m wrong, but it seems i proved that you’re logic was flawed and you actually don’t know how to think.
or has endangered someone ELSE’S life due to second-hand smoke exposure
Second hand smoke is overrated. I mean come on, if i’m smoking and Ruben passes by, I’m willing to bet that his chances of getting cancer are not higher after he passes by, or walks out of that entrance i have to be twenty feet away from.
PAA intrstng but not probable nowadays
Theres a new problem now with a surplus of guys not fitting into the main groups of cookies.
im not sure if it’s true but isn’t a cop able to put himself into a situation where he may have to kill someone? i’m talking legally not morally (morally is a completely different discussion)
duuuuuuuuuude
write or wrong- your strength is an inspiration to me. Hang in there!
Observer36- thanks for writing that so carefully, it could have easily been written as a bashing session.
You think Nk are the only ones that don’t like zionists? theres a sane way of showing that and an insane way.
Do you know how many nisim hashem has performed for Israel?? I think Hashem is very “happy” with Israel (c’v’yachol).
According to that logic the nissim of hitlers rise and the holocaust shows hashem is “happy” with the murder of 6 mill. The only ones who know what hashem is “happy” with is our gedolim.
intrstng. makes sense.
lookingforsem do you have a rebbe or teacher or mentor? it sounds like getting one would give you lots of help in many areas
(i’m saying this in a completely non-insulting non-condescending way)
i explained it but the mods took away my comment and urs that i commented on
so what are you? whats ur deal? why did you do online high school? why cant u let us know more info if your identity will stay hidden? why do you turn everything into an argument? why are you saying you want an academic sem when your writing skills are poor?
ironic 😉