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May 4, 2015 10:34 pm at 10:34 pm in reply to: Should the wishes of racist parents that I not date their child be respected? #1076285oraMember
i think that is crazy i met a nice guy by the kotel who was ethiopian .
i dont care about the color it is the person .
oraMemberalso I think that we need to talk to our kids before they do
oraMemberhey you cant comment really unless you have been there .
sleepless nights
self guilt
it is a little harder sometimes when the abuse is from the same gender
there is an organization called JCW . I really wish I can talk to him and just like say its not your fault . You should not have been shunned .
And he can still get help.
My abuser was a woman bh . in a way so I have no evidence really I went to the police and they were really intimidating and I ate my words . that happened in 7th grade .
I was never told that it was wrong .
I mean imagine this I went all day in school without using the bathroom because I was terrified because one day my teacher took advantage of me and the abuse continued for the whole school year .
180 days ! And I feel so sad for the little girl who was uprooted before she got a chance to bloom . I never had a childhood after that .
He didn’t go of the derech . People kicked him off of it . Because they rejected him when he got help .
I pray Hashem should help him. but I also wish that we didn’t have to deal with the abuse it is also verbal .
there is the shame as well
oraMemberI think you learn a lot about what the person feels about relationships . Like one time I googled a guy and it was like a lot of inappropriate and abusive pictures and language and I was like okay is that how he is going to see me.
i am always careful with what I post but yah you can learn a lot from people’s fb and google plus.
April 20, 2015 10:04 pm at 10:04 pm in reply to: Baal Yeshiva dating is this scenario a problem? #1073600oraMemberI would think she would be stronger . because she was not born into it so it is new and exciting . We FFB tend to do things out of habit more than love of Hashem.
oraMemberLets hope it wont be making up for something
oraMemberIf you have nothing to die for you have nothing to live for . Israel is actually the safest place for Jews . Anti Semitism is definitely on the wise.
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