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i wish people would read the responses and then not say the same EXACT thing again
mods, just a reminder i would like a subtitle
yea i agree 22 is NOT OLD and if ur stupid and started dating at 19 then yes u will feel burnt out but I love the age 22!!
i still have the side effects of caffiene and i’ve been drinking coffee daily for the past 7 yrs or so (and 2/3 cups a day for the past few yrs). so strongly disagree on that one. a weaker cup of coffee may not affect me, but if it’s bold i’m wired. and adorable and coffee addict how cute! another shidduch made in the CR! (1st one being mashiach and 2cute4u)
i do here u go <<<<<<flying thumbtack<<<<<<<<<
hacham I am surprised at you. what a superficial thing to say
i say she’s just in such a bliss w her new husband that she can’t even think or talk staight. i say leave her alone for a few months till she lands back on earth
that is why collegegrad us brooklyners do not leave brooklyn and e/t is considered out of town. brookyn is the best!!!
i’ve gone out with guys who don’t wear a suit but wear a nice v-neck sweater over button-down and dress pants and i think that’s perfectly acceptable. no black hat. persnally i make so much fun of guys sitting in starbucks with suits and black hats. c’mon pple just chill out e/o!! why is e/t so formal!! i’m gonna change the whole shidduch system till no1 wears a hat at all!
I’m looking fwd to the day when all this comes to an end and marriages aren’t business deals and people like each other for who they are, and there’s no more shidduch crisis!!
Verizoner Rebbe? that’s the best you cud come up w? how about the grammarchia rebbe or s/t which actually has to do with the english language
c’mon guys who r u kidding every person NEEDS a very NORMAL girl who knows whats done bec when u go to weddings u need to be the cool with-it gorgeous couple that e/o goggles over! no more abt this nonsense abt middos etc its all abt showing ur spouse off
i’m scared! i don’t want to be evacuated and just want to hang with my friends all day and not get stuck anywehre
i went with another girl who didn’t know how to go so we used a gps, and between traffic and not knowing the way, it took us three hours. never again. thank G-d my whole family, extended family, and friends live in brooklyn although i know some people in monsey unfortunately
i think the system is messed up. that is all. good girls are getting rejected bec the boys want money from her parents even if she has a good job. its fukrumped
i see what you’re saying abt sunglasses being attractive, but i still think it’s technically tznius. altho every summer goes by and i want to buy sunglasses and i cant find a pair that i like, so i never wear them and i do survive. although i keep a pair of funky checkered ones in my car for wen the sun’s in my eyes. and sunglasses r great as headbands!! and girls need to be attractive so ha! GIRLS ROCK!!!
you still haven’t said what you considered ‘casual’. bec i am yeshivish and i wear a cardigan and black skirt with flats for a first date. no heels, no dresses, nothing i would wear to a vort or a wedding. for my first boy, i went all out, but then i just realized- what is the point??? why r u getting fancier than u do on shabbos to meet some stranger for coffee?? i remember feeling like such an idiot knowing that e/o on the street knew this was a ‘first date’. you should still look PRETTY but its all abt dressy-casual u know wat im sayinnn y kno what i meannnn
I think it’s a sign we need to reavaulate the shidduch crisis, and stop supporting the idea of people supporting son-in-laws. and stop talking loshon hora, and stop judging people
yeah whoever thought of ROTF is stupid. i hate that there r so many acrinyms to keep track of.
decaf is the worst idea ever. stains ur teeth w no side affect. i only like coffee for the effect, not crazy abt the taste
Yentemonkey I really wish you much hatzlacha, and I know a lot of people that were able to pull thru in similar situations, and I think you can as well. You just have to believe in yourself, and take one step at a time and you can soon be a real Yirei Shamayim and make Hashem very proud. All the little things you do are very important and don’t get discouraged the way people look at you or judge you. You have to answer to Hashem at the end of the day, not anyone else, and Hashem knows where you’re holding spritually. And I definitely hear where your resentment is coming from and I personally wish I could change the entire yeshiva system. Don’t forget to ask Hashem for help!
i think there is something wrong with supporting- why should it only be one side? if they really cant manage i think both sides have an equal obligation! why should parents of boys have the easy way out and just sell their sons to the highest bidder??
mazal tov cshapiro! and right 2cute4u it wasn’t so bad!! i was also rlly nervous on my first date that it took me the whole DAY to get redy!!
I think to help solve the shidduch crisis, girls should not date until they are 20. That way the 19 yr olds won’t be taking the boys that e/o else can. Personally I and many of my friends started at 21 and we were fine, but girls tend to want to get married very fast- but it sometimes backfires and they get very burnt out early on bec they started too early
yeah adorable u took mikehall a little too seriously. and i would like a subtitle too! how about ‘so much to do, so few pple to do it for me’
i’m embarased too! my skirts don’t fit!
‘the fleish place’
well now you can easily talk abt the earth quake
y is the president on vacation can i ask
i wish it was raining creamsicle popsicles!
i couldn’t find an open pizza store in bklyn last night at 9pm
we don’t blame you goq if that helps
I elect the Goq!! Goq what does ur name mean?
its true goq. i feel like e/o is in this rat race to get married and once you win, you are in the ‘cool club’ (i saw s/o post to s/o who had gotten engaged ‘welcome to the club’) and no longer need to go to weddings and things, and if u do go, u need to bring ur spousy along and stay w him/her the whole time and leave really early. it’s like a zechus if they show their face somewhere. i’m not married but when i am i will not put my friends on hold , i will set them up with their basherts, and i will still be the last one to leave a wedding. and not say the words ‘my choson’ barffff
i watch his shiurim onine for men and women theyre so good! i’m obsessed with him
i wish i cud listen to it in my office but its a bunch of non jews and secular jews who wudnt appreciae it
wow boro park girl that does sound terrifying. my office was shaking but it was only bec i had gotten up to go buy a snack
Yea I can use some help too. I’ve gone up 5 skirt sizes since high school. The problem is I love to eat. So if anyone that has a regime that includes eating whatever you want, let me know. Otherwise I’ll keep rolling down the streets
you’re probably right collegegrad i’ve only ventured out there once (to lakewood) and it took me almost three hours. and i was mentioning the mentality bec the goq seems to think new jersey is in town so i was explaining to him y it wasn’t. i actualy consider places in new york out of town too. like those random places in long island that no one’s heard of.. and upstate new york..
i didn’t feel a thing but e/o around me did. i love there are three threads abt this
or ‘5 frum guys burgers and fries’
or ‘the meattery’ or ‘i like it grilled’ or ‘(your name)’s grill’
very true goq- and their chesed should be setting their single friends up (which many don’t)
Are you going out with Mashiach please come? A shidduch right here in the coffee room, how wonderful! And don’t be nervous, I have a friend that threw up and fainted on the same date and he still didn’t say no, so what’s the worst you can possibly do
happy face- many time one’s family has issues and they cannot be there to lift their spirits up, and in fact are the ones to bring them down. So therefore, I say friends come first. Friends are chosen, not family. If you have a wonderful supportive family with no emotional issues and you respect them and enjoy spending time with them, it’s a different story.
oomis1105 he CAN def get a job, and prob even should but sometimes he feels it worthwhile to learn for a couple of years first
of course it is. it’s at least 2 hours from brooklyn and very oot mentality
my car was stuck for 4 days!
Their “excuse” is to spread torah to people who are obviously not moving to Israel anytime soon. I’m sure they would rather live in E”Y but they need to lead their fellow Yiddn