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  • in reply to: Why Would a Girl Even Want to Learn Talmud? #973896
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    I always thought the a major part of doubts in Judaism is ignorance…but it they can be resolved for each person at their own pace.

    I wouldn’t knock anyone’s quest or questions there all valid and G-d wants us to seek the truth.

    There happens to be a beauty of having different segments of Judaism.

    in reply to: Why Would a Girl Even Want to Learn Talmud? #973884
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    WIY:

    I wouldn’t disregard the path she takes…with every turn we take we discover more of what fits in our life…

    BYM:

    Veer with caution when the moves are deterring us from our goal…personally learned and went to classes that also spoke to me from a new perspective and that might be what you need.. there are so many of such classes and teachers.

    in reply to: Why Would a Girl Even Want to Learn Talmud? #973872
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    As a girl, learning Gemorah wasn’t the a go-to guide for faith and belief. But if you need it it’s there.

    If we don’t go out of our way to learn (for the thinkers amongst us) we can easily get stuck in practicing and going through the motions without ever understanding who we are and what we’re doing –pretty sad but true.

    Finding clarity is a lifelong endeavor.

    in reply to: How to break up (the shidduch way) #972935
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    lol, nice!

    in reply to: Close your eyes and open your heart #973350
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    (it’s a mad world)

    In response: Be Strong.. with all that you and everyone out there has to put up with we need each other and we need to encourage everyone to stick up for one another…

    This topic of acceptance, is very close to my heart, people very close to me have gone through (G-d Knows) and we always have to reassure them that they’re ok and we all need to heal and stay strong…

    Just know we all love you and care about you however you are, look like and it’s UNCONDITIONAL love!!

    in reply to: Why Would a Girl Even Want to Learn Talmud? #973855
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    WOW!!- def. not for the feminists out there!

    If it’s legit from R’ Feinstein I might reevaluate my mentality as well

    in reply to: Why Would a Girl Even Want to Learn Talmud? #973850
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    If it’s a legit threat that you’re over Judaism– be my guest learn all the Gemorah you need. it never hurt anyone men or women

    Prob. should go to classes to clarify you’re doubts

    in reply to: Why Would a Girl Even Want to Learn Talmud? #973847
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    Girls def. learn thoughts and ideas based from the Gemorah maybe not straight out of the text.

    With regards to Religion why would someone practice without believing are they ignorant?? I never understood people who don’t think about what they’re doing

    Religion isn’t just a cultural experience!

    or are they just floating in a world of uncertainty (which seems to be in vogue too)

    in reply to: What is forgiving? #972924
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    Forgiveness is peace of mind that you push that person/idea/etc. out of your mind and try to come to terms it with yourself..

    It’s inner peace b/c if you don’t you’re allowing someone to dwell in your mind without paying rent!!!

    It’s one of the hardest things to do but once you’ve got there you’ll see it’s worth the battle!

    in reply to: How to break up (the shidduch way) #972933
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    Anyone know what to look out for in terms of making sure your not constantly comparing and forgetting which guy is which??

    in reply to: Setting up a guy you dated with your friend #972878
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    My real prob. will be when my friend asks why he wasn’t good for you, I think the guy will be easier to convince.

    Did anyone do this set up right after you break up and try to convince both parties to go out?

    in reply to: Setting up a guy you dated with your friend #972876
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    ok, I’ll try to work on the idea, but I’m not sure what the reaction will be

    in reply to: Setting up a guy you dated with your friend #972873
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    The question is how long until setting him up with my friend not whether I should call or have s/o else call?

    in reply to: How to break up (the shidduch way) #972932
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    We dated a while (not so emotionally invested–the prob. was we weren’t connecting emotionally- it was like we were at a plateau!

    I’ll prob. end up comparing them but I am totally ready to move on (I hope it’ll be the right one, if he is I’ll really appreciate him)

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