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thnx plaid! i was already trying to do your idea and it really is the only thing to do. people have to know respect comes first. especcially self respect. i think if we show how we respect are bodies and selves the other person will realize and without giving mussar or anything they’ll want to do the same. and someones bored, you now what parents do mae boundaries and you know how many countless times the kids break the rules. someone has to come up with something better than boundaries. and charts with sticers don’t work on teens. lol even if they some what keep the halachos and rules inside the house they usually don’t keep them outside the house. thnx everyone. i want to eep hearing from you

yes i am actually from chicago and well aware with the mehalech. and i now that there are still some teens being overlooked and left beind. i also don’t want to shut the person up who i am trying to help. i want her to be able to talk openly with me i just can never find the rite thing to say back. behavior that is completely assur mideoraisa is happening by “offs” and its just so hard to watch and deal with.