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  • in reply to: Is the Yeshiva Community Wrong? #1615502
    oiyveyismear
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    love this last post.
    Well said

    in reply to: Is the Yeshiva Community Wrong? #1615172
    oiyveyismear
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    Cannot argue with this. QUesiton, though is if it is right. I understand your opinon, and I actually do what I do because of the “statistics”, I know people go off in off sects of yiddishkeit but the mtziyus is people dont go off at such a high rtae in the sheltered communities as they do in non sheltered communities. MAJOR Maylah and one I will never argue with in the Frum community.

    in reply to: Is the Yeshiva Community Wrong? #1615170
    oiyveyismear
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    Appreciate the reply. DO speak with a Rebbe, I know Halacha is sometime Black and white, and when to halacha I follow it, however, I feel many times that my Rebbe’s advice with this kind of stuff is his “opinion” more so than it is Halacha. I dont Chvshlm mean he is wrong or not basing what he is saying on some sort of Avack Torah, its just opinion. There is no Mkor for many of the advice I receive, similar to the advice people are giving on this forum. Not to say it is right or wrong what people are posting, merely stating people are posting opinions. I appreciate the opinions and will help me in formulating my own opinon.
    Lmaisah, end of day what you said though is 100% true, Follow Das Torah, someone that I trust. Yasherokoach

    in reply to: Calling cops on frum neighbor #1337394
    oiyveyismear
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    My gut tells me there is something wrong. I don’t know if its just verbal or physical. It could just be verbal (not to downplay that, however its wouldn’t be s bad as physical abuse). I asked my Rav now 3 times. Getting a little frustrated because it seems more and more like he is blowing me off. However, he is well respected in the community and am confident he is doing something. Its just frustrating because I want to take matters into my own hands. At the same time, it would be unbearably uncomfortable to live next to them if it turns out nothing serious was going on. And no, its definitely not the TV or youtube. Its the husband and wife conversing.

    in reply to: Calling cops on frum neighbor #1337080
    oiyveyismear
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    These responses are helpful. Thank you everyone for sharing your diverse thoughts and opinions on the matter

    in reply to: The Rav Kanievsky Har Habayis “miracle” #1337019
    oiyveyismear
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    Story was a tremendous chillul hashem

    in reply to: Calling cops on frum neighbor #1335574
    oiyveyismear
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    I think the advice people are giving is on point. I truly dont know forsure. If I had to guess the husband is being abusive. I asked my wife to try and speak with the wife to get to the bottom of it. We aren’t calling the police because of the potential issues but I asked my Rav this morning to bring it up with the Vaad, perhaps they can employ an organization to help. I would hate to be the reason for a break in a family. We’ll see how things play out, iyh for the good.

    in reply to: Calling cops on frum neighbor #1335572
    oiyveyismear
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    I see him in Shul, and I am quite confident he will just deny everything.

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