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  • in reply to: question that will probably be controversial #841365
    nottelling
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    I see most ppl are saying it’s ok. I will ask my LOR though. The reason we would be giving it is to make a Kiddush Hashem (and avoid a chilul Hashem if we don’t). Also we figure it’s always a good idea to be on their good side.

    in reply to: question that will probably be controversial #841343
    nottelling
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    thanks everyone – just wanted to make sure. i don’t want to do the wrong thing. i thought ppl might say “what – are you crazy? giving a gift to a muslem?” i thought i’d get real flack for that. thanks for the support.

    in reply to: are ur posts reflected by ur mood #780184
    nottelling
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    gefen – LOL – but i think u scared everyone away!

    in reply to: better to be ignored or hated? #771918
    nottelling
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    ayc – um….let’s see…..NOPE!! 🙂

    in reply to: better to be ignored or hated? #771916
    nottelling
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    goldenkint: glad to see you understand where i was coming from. i think now ppl do understand the point. nobody means to ignore anyone. making ppl feel badly is a different story. but ya just can’t change some ppl

    kapusta: glad you had fun. but i’m still a mystery cuz i’m nottelling 😉

    in reply to: better to be ignored or hated? #771912
    nottelling
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    Be Happy – I like that quote. Thanks!

    in reply to: better to be ignored or hated? #771906
    nottelling
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    I don’t remember who it was, but someone suggested a “like” button. That would be helpful. This way, you don’t actually have to comment but it lets ppl know how you feel.

    Mods – what do you think?

    *LIKE*

    in reply to: better to be ignored or hated? #771904
    nottelling
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    Thanks BSD. I was thinking of sticking with this new name. But i might use the old one sometimes. Although it can get a bit confusing, cuz I have to remember with which one to sign on each time or i might accidentally use the wrong one and blow my cover. YIKES! wouldn’t want that to happen 😉

    in reply to: better to be ignored or hated? #771900
    nottelling
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    kapusta: I don’t know if you know me. I don’t always post but no, I didn’t take a break from the cr.

    in reply to: Do we treat other CR posters as we would like to be treated? #770463
    nottelling
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    Shticky Guy – WOW! I couldn’t have said it better. Thank you so much for writing this!

    in reply to: better to be ignored or hated? #771897
    nottelling
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    ursula – i see i’m not the only one who takes things personally. i’m sure you realize as well as i do, that the posters who attacked you don’t know who you are – but it still didn’t feel good. right? it must have felt really horrible to have been taken the wrong way – especially when you thought you were posting parve. i felt the same way – i was just expressing my opinion – trying to explain where i was coming from – but still it was taken the wrong way by some ppl. i felt they just didn’t understand what i was saying and refused to hear my explanations.

    yeah – i like the limericks and jokes threads – also the funny shidduch stories. those are at least fun and non-confrontational. so be happy and smile and post more limericks 🙂 (yes – i still want to hear your opinions too)

    in reply to: better to be ignored or hated? #771895
    nottelling
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    observateen – don’t worry – i’m chilled. i just had to express my opinion. it’s comforting to hear everyone’s posts here. yes i know that NOBODY knows me (actually that’s not so true – i do know a few posters and they know me – but they’re not the ones with whom i had a problem) anyway – no you didn’t do anything to me.

    let me explain the ignoring part – it’s not specific ppl that i have a taana to for not responding. i don’t expect to get a response to EVERY comment FROM every poster. that would be ridiculous! i was just saying that i rarely if ever have gotten comments even on posts that i THOUGHT would get a response. am i making sense?

    as far as feeling “hated” – as i said, i recently had an issue with a specific poster and even though he/she does not know me personally, i couldn’t help but feel offended.

    that’s all – i’m calm, cool, and collected. all is well B”H

    in reply to: better to be ignored or hated? #771891
    nottelling
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    Kapusta – nope you did nothing to hurt me. also, i really appreciate your post.

    health – i get what ur saying.

    again – thanks to all the posters here.

    can’t wait to hear who always thinks i am 😉

    k – have a good night

    in reply to: better to be ignored or hated? #771887
    nottelling
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    always – i guess i’m not very consistent. 😉

    are you allowed to say who you think i am? i’m so curious. though i have a feeling you won’t get it right. i’m not the first person that one would think of.

    in reply to: better to be ignored or hated? #771885
    nottelling
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    always here “nottelling~ I have a feeling that I know who you are.. a sensitive soul like myself… ” do you mean that you really think you know my other sn or ur just saying that i am a sensitive soul like urself?

    hi goldenkint – not to make u feel unloved but i don’t think i ever saw ur name here before. but coming from me that doesn’t mean much – my memory doesn’t work so well – so plz don’t be insulted. nice to meet you now.

    i gotta say – i’m enjoying this thread! it’s light, friendly, no arguments and i learned a lot. thanks everyone.

    in reply to: better to be ignored or hated? #771877
    nottelling
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    chocandpatience – i realize that if someone disagrees with my opinion, it doesn’t mean they hate me. but this particular poster (and actually another one as well) were actually kinda mean – at least i took it that way. it was more than just one post. anyway, i guess i’m over that.

    wanderingchana- thanks for comiserating. yes – it’s good to be in good company 🙂

    daas – how’d ya guess? yup i’m popa – not. 😉

    always – somehow i missed the smoking post. maybe i can still find it. but anyway – i just want to say – i can’t stand the smell of smoking! it also bothers me cuz second hand smoke is so dangerous. i do however realize it’s very hard to quit – but that’s for the other thread – not here.

    in reply to: better to be ignored or hated? #771874
    nottelling
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    MODS: thanks for responding this time 🙂

    in reply to: better to be ignored or hated? #771873
    nottelling
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    Daas Yochid – good sense of humor. hmm – am i Pac-Man? I’m “not telling” 😉

    adorable and always here – thanks for ur posts. it’s good to know that others sometimes feel somewhat the same way as you.

    hey – i’m feeling better already! though i wonder how i’ll feel when i post on my old sn. maybe i’ll just keep using this one. my! my! decisions! decisions!

    in reply to: better to be ignored or hated? #771863
    nottelling
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    Zeeskite – chas v’shalom – no i’m not referring to you or anyone in particular- just in general. actually, i think you have responded to some of my posts. also – yes – i do realize this is not a popularity contest. like i said in my op – i’m just very sensitve – perhaps too sensitive for my own good.

    apushatayid – i kinda figured i’d get advice to seek guidance especially since i wrote that i feel this way in life too. i appreciate your advice but i don’t think my self esteem is that bad. i just guess we all get carried away sometimes with our feelings.

    icot – thanks for assuring me that i’m not hated. 🙂

    always here – LOL

    thanks to all the posters for responding.

    so now i just have to decide – do i keep my boring sn and (i guess) boring posts? do i change it to a really interesting/strange/eye-opener? or should i just post real controvertial posts? hmmmmm. gotta think about that 😉

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