aproudbyg, i never ever post here but i read the cr a lot. i created a username just so i could respond to this post because i really relate to it. i too, have a sibling who is otd and it is by no means easy. not only do my friends constantly question me about my sibling to see how “otd” my sibling is, but i have numerous teachers and even people who barely know me or my family that constantly ask me questions. because my sibling started going otd in high school i have been dealing with this for many years now. i really feel for you and if you need any advice, maybe the mods can give you my email.