Listen, I just started my first semester in a frum, all girls college. Whatever excuses you want to give…. what the RY is saying about losing one’s yerei Shamayim is true. Weather you agree with the hishtadlus part or not, is money- the here and now worth risking what is REAL FOREVER? The passion for the only emes of yiddishkeit is diminished when one has to be busy with delving into the shtusim of history, psychology, opinion articles… This is a proven fact- I know.Is all that worth losing, or even diminishing in the slightest? What’s the point in life?
Who do you want to be? It’s up to you.