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  • in reply to: changing neighborhoods and anti-semitism #1136140
    newbee
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    “Today Riverdale has eight Orthodox synagogues thanks to Big Government enforcing Fair Housing Laws.”

    Thats great! But should the Germans and Irish have a place for them also? Where their culture and history can thrive as well? Or should everything be a free-for-all where every town is nothing but a mish-mash of everything?

    I would LIKE to have a Jewish city, with only synagogues. i DONT CARE if the Germans and Irish have a town with only churches. It doesn’t bother me.

    in reply to: changing neighborhoods and anti-semitism #1136139
    newbee
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    There is not an easy answer and you cant do it for EVERY town, such as Brooklyn, since there has to be places for OTHER cultures and “looks” to grow also.

    The problem is given US law its hard to preserve the look of ANY town, let alone every town. This is not antisemitism, its just an affection for ones own culture. There is a difference.

    Much of New England for example has a certain look and feel the local populace wish to maintain. This is not antisemitism.

    in reply to: changing neighborhoods and anti-semitism #1136137
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    Very sad, I guess no one is going to answer my question how they would feel if Yerushalayim turned into a china-town.

    There is no reason why the people on the St Louis would have changed the look and character of the town if said town had rules and regulation regarding zoning, dress-code, etc

    There are many towns that preserve buildings going back to the 1700s and have zoning laws regarding the type of look certain buildings must abide to. All the minor details would have to go through a committee of some sort. But law and politics makes this impossible in many towns, to set rules maintaining the culture of their home town- and you cant blame the people for getting upset. Especially if its a small town where people grew up in generation after generation.

    But the basic idea is that its dishonest to call “not wanting the place you and your parents and grandparents grew up to drastically change in one generation” anti-semtism. Especially when you would feel the same way if thousands of Chinese started moving into Yerushalayim and opened restaurants with mandarin signs all over the place selling roasted pork outside of their store fronts.

    in reply to: changing neighborhoods and anti-semitism #1136129
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    People, I ask you again, would any of you be ok with Chinese people moving into Yerushalayim by the thousands and putting up dragon symbols, mandarin signs and making “China towns” on every block in the old city?

    Yes or no

    in reply to: changing neighborhoods and anti-semitism #1136128
    newbee
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    Would you want Chinese coming into Yerushalayim in droves and putting up dragon symbols and mandarin signs all over the place?

    “We arent talking about what you want. theres nothing wrong with WANTING your community to stay a certain way. There is something very wrong in my opinion with enforicing it by discriminating against others.”

    I disagree, I do not think there is anything wrong with discrimination and enforcement regarding the culture and look of a city. I also believe cities should be able to establish dress-codes and modesty standards and enforce that.

    in reply to: Banning Syrian Refugees From the US #1195639
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    Granted Im not a political expert, but it seems to me Obama wants to change the look, character and face of America sooner than keep US troops in Syria, defeat Isis, and pressure other Islamic countries to at least take in refugees.

    in reply to: changing neighborhoods and anti-semitism #1136103
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    “but as long as doen legally and other’s rights arent violated too bad.”

    This will lead to a world where you no one will be able to say “this city is like this”. Every city will become exactly the same as every other city, the only difference being one thing- money. Some cities will be gentrified others wont- but all the character and traditions of a particular city will be lost.

    All they have to do anyway is prevent multi-family housing, apartment buildings, increase cost of living etc and it will make it hard for frum families to move in.

    in reply to: changing neighborhoods and anti-semitism #1136102
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    “Keeping people out solely because the “character” of the nighborhood will change (again when other’s rights arent being infringed upon, and is done legally)is wrong. What do you think?”

    I think communities, Jewish and non-Jewish, SHOULD legally be able to enforce the historic culture, character and “look” of a certain town. Would you want Chinese coming into Yerushalayim in droves and putting up dragon symbols and mandarin signs all over the place? However, I dont think putting up an eiruv changes the charachter or look of a town.

    in reply to: Banning Syrian Refugees From the US #1195638
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    “They shouldn’t let them in! What is happening/happened in Europe will happen here. Even Trump is a liberal. What the Western World should do is to get rid of the problem in Syria & Iraq. No more pussyfooting around! Then they could go home.”

    Do you agree with my post from before???”

    Yes, I think the US should be STRONGLY pressuring other Islamic countries to take them in. Its ridiculous for the US to do so.

    in reply to: Banning Syrian Refugees From the US #1195621
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    ubiquitin I want you to answer me honestly, assuming out of the millions and millions of people I previously mentioned, thousands upon thousands of them are facing death, should we not take all of those people into the US?

    Yes or no? Hundreds of thousands if not millions of africans, latinos, chinese and indians. Yes or no

    in reply to: Banning Syrian Refugees From the US #1195620
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    “Would you accept that as a reason for the Us to have turned back the St. louis in 39?

    Start a new thread, how does that affect the issue at hand”

    Well said.

    2) Most of those arent facing death

    3)Would you accept that as a reason for the Us to have turned back the St. louis in 39?

    2) Out of those millions and millions of people many of them are facing death in one way or another I assure you.

    3) First of all Syria is not Nazi Germany performing genocide. Second they should be going to other ISLAMIC COUNTRIES. There are many of them with lots of room. The US should be encouraging this. Not taking them into the US.

    in reply to: Banning Syrian Refugees From the US #1195614
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    “if you think that Syrian refugees should be admitted to Israel, I believe, and many here would agree, there is nothing to talk about anymore.”

    I back this 100%

    Well said.

    in reply to: Is the shechinah shoreh in the coffee room? #1113754
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    For instance, Torah613Torah, is the shechina shoreh upon us right now for even discussing this topic the same way it would be if instead of typing this we were talking about it in person?

    Or is there some sort of osmosis that happens only in person?

    in reply to: Is the shechinah shoreh in the coffee room? #1113753
    newbee
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    But does the shechina that happens when two chavrusas learn together happen to two people who learn together in the coffee room.

    in reply to: Banning Syrian Refugees From the US #1195612
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    I want to know why we can’t allow in the millions and millions of latinos, chinese, koreans, africans, and indians etc that desperately want to come to the US but cant. I dont think its fair.

    in reply to: Banning Syrian Refugees From the US #1195611
    newbee
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    I am curious to know if anyone actually living in a place that the refugees would start living could weigh in on this, besides everyone else who allowing the refugees in will not directly effect their lives.

    in reply to: Headphone/earphone recommendations, please #1113909
    newbee
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    Skullcandy goes into the ear canal, a lot of people can’t stand that.

    in reply to: Banning Syrian Refugees From the US #1195601
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    “If the homeless shelters were full, I’m sure you’d open your home, though. Right?”

    Thats exactly right! Politicians and many citizens are so emotional about letting the Islamic refugees in no matter the cost, as long as they personally dont have to sacrifice anything. Only the people that the refugees actually live around have to deal with it, while the people making the decisions continue to live in their gated mansions and private estates where a refugee would be arrested if tried to enter.

    in reply to: Banning Syrian Refugees From the US #1195584
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    Honestly Joseph, I would let all the Syrian refugees into Brooklyn and give each one with all their kids a car along with mosques on every other block.

    in reply to: Flatbush traffic problem #1113736
    newbee
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    Honestly Joseph, I would let all the Syrian refugees into Brooklyn and give each one with all their kids a car along with mosques on every other block.

    in reply to: Headphone/earphone recommendations, please #1113907
    newbee
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    Its not a joke. Some people cant stand headphones that go into the ear canal. Others cant stand the opposite.

    in reply to: Is the shechinah shoreh in the coffee room? #1113751
    newbee
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    “The CR is located in Grapevine Texas, a suburb of Dallas.”

    I dont think you know how the internet works.

    in reply to: Banning Syrian Refugees From the US #1195528
    newbee
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    There are people suffering in countries all over the world. I said this before, why doesn’t the US simply open its borders and let people from all countries come in as many as they choose. Europe let in lots of arabs and they elevated the quality of life for people in all the countries they moved into right?

    in reply to: Why do so many people give the advise "ask your local orthodox rabbi" #1113312
    newbee
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    There are no tznius standards for particular cities in the united states that the local populace abides to. Only specific synagogues.

    There is no dress code for public streets in the US.

    in reply to: Why do so many people give the advise "ask your local orthodox rabbi" #1113310
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    “The tznius example actually falls right into the boat of what has been addressed.”

    I dont see how it does. Tznius varies from extreme to not at all in nearly all Jewish areas outside of Israel. If you are talking about the policy of a specific synagogue, you should say ask your SR (synagogue rabbi).

    Either SR for specific synagogue questions or OR for all general questions.

    in reply to: Why do so many people give the advise "ask your local orthodox rabbi" #1113308
    newbee
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    Yea, you could take an HD photo and email to to any rov or the hotline emails. Obviously there are a few things better in person, but constantly saying ask your LOR gives extra validity and exposure to a local rabbi versus the most qualified one. And if you say ask your OR people will obviously know if it needs to be in person they will go to the most local Rabbi, there is no need to make the word “local” part of the go to answer for every question.

    in reply to: Why do so many people give the advise "ask your local orthodox rabbi" #1113305
    newbee
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    Ok guys, when people around the world use the term “ask your local so and so” it always has to do with things being systematically different to that local location. So instead of saying ask your LOR, just say ask your OR.

    You save an entire letter.

    in reply to: Why do so many people give the advise "ask your local orthodox rabbi" #1113301
    newbee
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    “That’s true, but the chumros/kulos and different minhagim followed certainly vary to the point that what might be poretz geder in one place might not be in another.”

    There is no minhag hamakom. Only shule policy for every individual shule. So if its a woman asking the question, “do I need to cover my head” I would say ask the “rabbi of your shule”- not your LOR. If she is asking a kashrus question, can ask anyone.

    in reply to: Headphone/earphone recommendations, please #1113905
    newbee
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    do you want ear phones that go inside your ear canal or inside your ear?

    in reply to: Why do so many people give the advise "ask your local orthodox rabbi" #1113294
    newbee
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    So on google when you type in “ask your local” the top suggestions are:

    ask your local member of parliament

    local sheriff

    local weapon trader for the superperforator (I have no idea what this is)

    All these authoritative positions differ vastly by geographic location- since each state and city have different laws. But halacha does not change systematically in different geographic areas.

    in reply to: Why do so many people give the advise "ask your local orthodox rabbi" #1113293
    newbee
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    I understand the main point is to ask. But the term “local” has become SO universal…I don’t get why. Maybe I’ll ask your local orthodox Rabbi, maybe he will know.

    “It’s an established phrase which pre-dates telecommunications. ;)”

    That would be very interesting if it indeed did pre-date telecommunications.

    in reply to: Why do so many people give the advise "ask your local orthodox rabbi" #1113292
    newbee
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    “would you rather he ask YOUR LOR? :)”

    Yes, maybe. If one of the local orthodox rabbis around is more knowledgeable in the subject at hand than his local orthodox rabbi and they have the time to hear his situation.

    in reply to: Flatbush traffic problem #1113731
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    “And note that Brooklyn’s 300,000 population increase over the last only 25 years is mostly not due to the birth rate. It is mostly due to non-Brooklynareans choosing to become Brooklynareans rather than to move to a small town or another city.”

    Thats interesting. What type of people are you talking about? I would have assumed it was caused from every frum family have 8+ kids for past 25 years and those kids each having 8+ kids and all of them staying in Brooklyn.

    in reply to: Is it mutar to listen to a shiur from your Rabbi on shabbos? #1113238
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    “The Rama says that doing something that normally entails a Melacha (in this case, electricity) that is Mashmia Kol is Assur on Shabbos”

    But you are not “doing” anything. It is being done prior to shabbos. And secondly that is when the sound sounds like a melacha sound, but in this case when the audio quality is so good what if it sounds like a person just talking or laining in the room.

    in reply to: Flatbush traffic problem #1113729
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    NYC has a population density of 28,000 people per square mile.

    Compare that to 6 (not 6,000 but literally 6) people per square mile in Wyoming.

    Since 1990 there are 300,000 more people in Brooklyn alone.

    Its not surprising that traffic gets worse with increased population.

    in reply to: Is it mutar to listen to a shiur from your Rabbi on shabbos? #1113235
    newbee
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    “They’re two different kolos which sound the same.”

    So whats the problem.

    in reply to: Is it mutar to listen to a shiur from your Rabbi on shabbos? #1113233
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    “turning it on before Shabbos should be assur because of mashmia kol.”

    What are you talking about. The kol is exactly the same. Only difference one comes out of vocal cords the other comes out of a speaker that sounds juts like vocal cords.

    in reply to: Is it mutar to listen to a shiur from your Rabbi on shabbos? #1113230
    newbee
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    DY, I would not. But I also would not play sports on shabbos either. Thats why I asked about listening to something that we listen to on shabbos anyway, like a shiur.

    Can you listen to a recording of someone laining that weeks parsha? This is literally the same thing you will be listening to in shule- only on a recorded format.

    So you can read a book on shabbos, but listening to an audiobook of the same exact book is assur?

    in reply to: Is it mutar to listen to a shiur from your Rabbi on shabbos? #1113227
    newbee
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    The commercials and music and imagery. Shabbos is meant to be quiet and peaceful.

    in reply to: Is it mutar to listen to a shiur from your Rabbi on shabbos? #1113224
    newbee
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    “How about a ball game?”

    Why no serious answers? A ball game would obviously be zilzul shabbos.

    in reply to: Flatbush traffic problem #1113724
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    I thank Hashem every day I dont live in a big city. My biggest traffic problem is when a deer causes an accident Gd forbid or a family of geese are blocking the road. I’ve lived in a big city before and would never go back.

    in reply to: Bekius Gemorah Shuir with Rashi #1112223
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    apushatayid: ” if you want such a shiur, join a 5th grade class in most boys yeshivas.”

    Rashi, moed katan 9b

    ?? ???? ??? ??????. ?? ????? ?????? ??? ??? ?????? ??? ??? ???? ?? ?? ??????

    in reply to: Is it wrong to secretly not want moshiach to come #1132622
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    “Suppose you ask your son to clean his room before dinner, and he suddenly starts smashing things, scattering papers and laundry everywhere, and rips his sheets off his bed. You say, “Why are you doing that?! That’s the opposite of what I asked you to do!” He says, So I can earn more reward by cleaning up a bigger mess!”

    This is not a good example because its a destructive act.

    A better example would be that not only does he clean his room, but he cleans the entire house, in order to get more reward. And then he goes and cleans his grandparents house. And his neighbor’s house. Secretly hoping dinner time is pushed off until later so he has more time to clean the most houses and get the most reward in the short span of “cleaning time” there is etc….

    in reply to: Is it wrong to secretly not want moshiach to come #1132621
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    Lifnei: Thanks that answer is interesting. It was certainly helpful. Yes, there are answers.

    My whole point in this question was to address the mindset of MOST people I have personally spoken with and read online- that they seem to want moshiach to come as an solution to their own personal problems and hardships. There is nothing wrong with wanting this, but I dont think moshiach is the right place for that and you must acknowledge that olam haba brings about a similar solution- which begs the question why we were sent here in the first place.

    “The coming of Moshiach starts the hard work, and the most rewarding work.”

    Thats fine if you view moshiach as starting the hard work. I am asking this question to the people who view moshiach coming not as increasing work, but the opposite- DECREASING work. There is a problem in my opinion though when you start judging what type of work or challenge is better than others. Hashem gives each human being their own challenge. So I guess the best way to ask for moshiach is to say “please bring moshiach now, but only if its truly the best thing for us in the long run”.

    in reply to: Intravenous Fluids on Yom Kippur #1104885
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    I believe Rov Elyashiv tried it one year towards his final years and thought it was a little too easy for himself personally because it took away any hunger.

    in reply to: Is it wrong to secretly not want moshiach to come #1132611
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    “But that doesn’t mean that being in a situation where you are sure to commit aveiros is optional.”

    This I agree with.

    in reply to: Is it wrong to secretly not want moshiach to come #1132608
    newbee
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    The basic point here is we either view pain and exertion as a gift- or we do not.

    If we don’t view it as a gift we should be looking forward to this type of world being over.

    If we do we should not be looking forward to this world of pain and hardship being over- since thats ideal.

    in reply to: Is it wrong to secretly not want moshiach to come #1132607
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    “Your moshol seems to prove my point – during those two years you were probably wishing every day for a parking spot, You didn’t secretly wish that you wouldn’t get a parking spot.”

    And every day people are wishing for moshiach to come to get rid of THEIR OWN problems so they can experience the bliss of what happens after death without the death process. Its human nature, but that does not mean its what Hashem sent us here for in the first place. Ideally, I should have said I hope I don’t get the parking spot if thats what Hashem wants from me now and it will give me the best chance to grow.

    “I think that speaks more to human nature than the way things should be. We don’t truly appreciate what we have unless we don’t have it”

    That goes against the basic premise of why mesilas yehsarim says we were sent here in the first place. That we cant appreciate what we have unless we earned it for ourselves and part of that earning it is not having it until that point.

    “Adam chose to pick a fight, so now we have to fight and deal with death. But that is not our ideal state!”

    Again, this goes against the basic premise- that earning through fight and effort is better than receiving for free.

    in reply to: Is it wrong to secretly not want moshiach to come #1132604
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    epshurewhat2: Ok buddy.

    in reply to: Is it wrong to secretly not want moshiach to come #1132602
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    “If you could buy a spot right away there’s a MUCH bigger feeling since you know there’s people that CAN’T afford it”

    I guess I was naive for thinking the trolling would end.

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