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  • in reply to: Do rebbes go to college?/Yeshivish job options? #1160243
    newbee
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    “And i just don’t see that happening unless you took religious philosophy 101.”

    Yea??

    Try Social Science 101 and Phil 101. Apikorsus is rampant in the humanities.

    in reply to: Do rebbes go to college?/Yeshivish job options? #1160242
    newbee
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    Syag, No. I wrote two sentences. You only quoted one of them. I said:

    “Ummm…. thats LITERALLY what we learned about when I was in college. Along with lots of other material I would never need to know in life.”

    in reply to: Do rebbes go to college?/Yeshivish job options? #1160240
    newbee
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    “As one of my Rabbaim (who went to College for a semester or two) used to say, Clown U. :)”

    Well said. Well said.

    in reply to: Do rebbes go to college?/Yeshivish job options? #1160239
    newbee
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    “well i find that really odd.Somewhat hard to believe actually. maybe the problem was more about your ability to chose classes carefully.”

    These were basic courses I had to take to complete my requirements. I also said “along with many other things I will never need to know in life”.

    The content was practically useless/not-as-important-as-learning-Torah at best and heretical/dangerous at worse.

    in reply to: Do rebbes go to college?/Yeshivish job options? #1160234
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    “A simple example is Blockbuster video stores who were killed by Netflix. Walmart is getting killed by Amazon.”

    Ummm…..If I could only fail like Walmart and Blockbuster! When my business goes bust after many successful years I can retire as billionaire or start a new business with all the money I saved in the bank.

    Get a mentor, a financial adviser, perhaps look into buying an already existing and established business from someone looking to retire. Have a little bitachon. That 150k+ will be better spent that way opposed to learning how great atheism and communism is while going for a BA in some college.

    in reply to: Do rebbes go to college?/Yeshivish job options? #1160233
    newbee
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    “This shows great ignorance about college, most courses have nothing to do with Atheism or communism.”

    Ummm…. thats LITERALLY what we learned about when I was in college. Along with lots of other material I would never need to know in life.

    Regarding what writersoul said, true, the wages will go down somewhat for any profession where there are more people willing / able to do the work.

    in reply to: Do rebbes go to college?/Yeshivish job options? #1160209
    newbee
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    “The Novominsker Rebbe graduated from Brooklyn College”

    Being that he literally inherited his position, I doubt Brooklyn College was all that helpful to him for finding a parnasa.

    Most people going to Brooklyn College learning about why its great to be an atheist and the communist manifesto are not next in line to inherit a Rabbinic Dynasty.

    in reply to: Do rebbes go to college?/Yeshivish job options? #1160204
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    “The reality in the USA is that good paying jobs for those without college degrees very often require the willingness to work “odd hours” and weekends when needed.”

    If you go into business for yourself and are your own boss you can make your own hours. True you most likely will need a certain amount of capital but some frum parents shell out 150k+ per child to go to college.

    I would rather see that 150k+ go towards a well thought out business plan with an adviser and mentor than spend it on learning why atheism is awesome, the communist manifesto, Shakespeare and ending up with a worthless BA in English lit.

    in reply to: Do rebbes go to college?/Yeshivish job options? #1160198
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    “if a job is that good for frum life, it will become saturated- not just with frum people but with people in general, because everyone wants a job like that.”

    You can say that about any career. “If being a lawyer is such a good job, it will become saturated.” “If being a psychologist is such a good job, it will become saturated.” “If being a website developer is such a good job, it will become saturated.”

    in reply to: Are Trees Gilgulim with Human Neshamos? #1215934
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    I was walking to a mets game the other day and on my way there I noticed a tree with its stem torn out. I could sense its neshama was telling me something. Then I realized, mets spelled backwards is stem. The neshama of the tree was telling me not to go to this mets game surely. I didn’t go and sure enough at that game the mets came very close to not winning. It would have been very anxiety provoking if I had gone to the game in person.

    We see from this story that one should always listen to the neshamos of dead tree stems.

    in reply to: Are Trees Gilgulim with Human Neshamos? #1215932
    newbee
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    “I think some people think that means only one username per post.”

    lol

    in reply to: Are Trees Gilgulim with Human Neshamos? #1215931
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    This Rabbi is somewhat unique btw as he not only teaches about gilgulim but says he even knows who gilgulim are.

    He says his daughter is the gilgul of his grandmother in the shiur.

    in reply to: Are Trees Gilgulim with Human Neshamos? #1215929
    newbee
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    Is it possible that a username in the Coffee Room can be a gilgul of another username from an earlier time? If so, how is this possible because one user is only allowed to have one username? Can a computer be a gilgul of someone as well?

    in reply to: Are Trees Gilgulim with Human Neshamos? #1215927
    newbee
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    golfer, every Rabbi says he or she is a Rabbi. As for doing research and investigation into the authenticity, quality and value of said claim, this depends on several factors. Listening to a shiur online requires less research and due diligence than hiring someone with a contract to be the rov of your community or investing your life savings with someone. Its more like asking random anonymous people on a website, such as yourself.

    I hope I was able to answer your well thought out and interesting question.

    in reply to: Is it possible to exist as a frum man if you are not a #1144852
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    The Wolf

    Ger sh’Nisgayer k’Katan sh’Nolad Dami

    Given your current occupation its a siman you were not Jewish to begin with.

    The rishonim dont have anything good to say about database developers. I looked into it with the bar ilan responsa.

    in reply to: Is it possible to exist as a frum man if you are not a #1144845
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    CTLAWYER, yes of course. I am referring only in the US, for a frum man in the US.

    I take it by your title you are no exception to this law of careers.

    in reply to: Is it possible to exist as a frum man if you are not a #1144842
    newbee
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    I dont personally know any frum men who are not one of the above careers. So was wondering if it is possible to do something else. Was just curious.

    in reply to: Do rebbes go to college?/Yeshivish job options? #1160173
    newbee
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    lol typo, humanity courses.

    But one can also call them humility courses I suppose because after you graduate with a humanities major you are certain to learn what humility truly is when using said degree as wall decoration in your homeless shelter.

    in reply to: Do rebbes go to college?/Yeshivish job options? #1160171
    newbee
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    So that $22,000 and 4 years of your life wasted to get that BA in Philosophy.

    in reply to: Do rebbes go to college?/Yeshivish job options? #1160169
    newbee
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    “An Actuary is a good paying job that requires a Degree in Math”

    Thats misleading. You need much more than a BA math degree. After you graduate you have to take very difficult exams with advanced math. It can take 6-10 years to finish all the exams. You have to have a very high aptitude for intense math course and have a specific career goal. That is very different than saying get a 4 year BA in English or Math at a CUNY school because it can “open a door”.

    Your time can be better spent doing other things than opening doors with a 4 year CUNY BA degree.

    in reply to: Do rebbes go to college?/Yeshivish job options? #1160167
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    “Many jobs will not grant you an interview without the degree, its very hard to get your foot in the door without it”

    Those jobs are usually low paying and that mindset is changing more and more anyway.

    I would dare to say for most poeple unless you are willing to go to grad school and take hard math and science courses with a specific career goal dont go to college at all.

    in reply to: Do rebbes go to college?/Yeshivish job options? #1160166
    newbee
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    Im not saying don’t become a doctor, dentist or engineer. But these studies require hard math and science courses for many years and usually require taking out student loans unless you have very wealthy parents. As for law, all the young lawyers I know hate their jobs with a passion. And many accountants also hate their jobs or find them extremely boring.

    So unless you have an aptitude for the high level math and science courses and plan on going to grad school…. stopping at a BA or taking the social science and humility courses to educate yourself indeed is a stupid waist of time.

    in reply to: Do rebbes go to college?/Yeshivish job options? #1160165
    newbee
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    “Public Universities Like CUNY do not require loans, they are quite cheap. You can minimize Apikorsus by taking things like Math, Accounting and English”

    Do you honestly think the people reading this wondering to get some BA degree are thinking about becoming a math professor at Harvard? There is no point in getting a BA in english or math unless you have a specific career path or enjoy supporting a family on $20 an hour after you graduate. Cuny colleges still cost thousands of dollars per semester and take up all your time you could be using more productively.

    in reply to: Do rebbes go to college?/Yeshivish job options? #1160160
    newbee
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    I would say at least doing nothing so you have free time to learn Torah or a trade or skill is better than wasting your money and time getting a BA degree that wont lead to a good job anyway.

    in reply to: Do rebbes go to college?/Yeshivish job options? #1160159
    newbee
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    “As someone with 2 BA’s , It is very unhelpful when people say that and then people cannot get decent jobs.”

    They can’t get decent jobs with a BA either.

    So I suppose you would say wasting hours upon hours learning secular studies, MUCH of which is flat out apikorsus and biased while taking out student loans and putting yourself in debt or paying a lot of money to learn such studies is better than saving your money and time?

    in reply to: Reading vs Audiobook #1143691
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    It will hold a charge for many weeks if you dont use it. Yes even if you are using it often mine will last days, not hours. I use it 10-14 brightness level, in low light you should use a lower brightness level.

    in reply to: Reading vs Audiobook #1143689
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    “I have a Paperwhite and it did not give sufficient battery life for Korea to NY or Sydney to London.”

    Get a new one, because the one you have is not working properly. I have one I never go less than a week before charging it.

    in reply to: Reading vs Audiobook #1143687
    newbee
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    Well, I dont think there is a fire paperwhite. There is the Paperwhite and the Fire- 2 different things. Maybe he meant he used the fire and not the papewhite.

    But in any case, saying audiobooks are better than text books for planes because you cant use the plane light and the battery is not sufficient on a kindle is incorrect. You can just buy a kindle paperwhite if battery and lighting are the only issues.

    in reply to: Reading vs Audiobook #1143685
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    “The paperwhite battery was not sufficient for a flight from Korea two months ago.”

    There is either something wrong with your kindle or it wasn’t charged prior to the flight. Unless your flight from korea takes 2 weeks. Just google kindle paperwhite battery its meant to last 1-8 weeks without a charge depending on how often you use it.

    “As to printed books: I love the texture of vellum or fine paper and the look of inked letters, as well as the heft of the book in my hands. I don’t like the feel of a battery/device getting warm as I hold it for hours.”

    I agree with this. I like the feel of the book, looking at the ink and flipping the page. I tend to focus better with a psychical book and I like looking at the book after I finished it months later on the shelf. Of course, you can also use it on shabbos.

    in reply to: Reading vs Audiobook #1143684
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    “Large Print books are someone scarce so Audio books are a solution for those people”

    With a kindle or tablet you can increase the text size as much as needed. So that would probably be a better solution than audiobooks if you consider reading text superior.

    in reply to: Reading vs Audiobook #1143682
    newbee
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    “I don’t find the battery life sufficient for long haul intercontinental overnight flights. Besides, I prefer print to ebooks, buts that’s a topic for another thread”

    The kindle paperwhite battery can literally last several days or even weeks. I’m not sure what you mean it would have more than enough battery for any type of flight. But that is interesting why you like print books better, do you have a reason why you like print better?

    in reply to: Reading vs Audiobook #1143679
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    CTLAWYER: Yes I already know that audiobooks have a place and is convenient often. But my question is if, for you, are audiobooks equal to written books, better or worse for ideal conditions. (btw, you can get a kindle for the plane they have built-in lights).

    in reply to: Reading vs Audiobook #1143677
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    “Through no fault of yours, the thread was headed in a direction I did not want it to go.”

    Ok makes sense.

    “I think for me, it would be like walking through blindfolded.”

    Well if you’re learning gem, basically yea. The more complex and nuanced the subject matter is the less valuable the audiobook version.

    in reply to: Reading vs Audiobook #1143675
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    btw, why was my shaila on the megila closed?

    Through no fault of yours, the thread was headed in a direction I did not want it to go.

    in reply to: Reading vs Audiobook #1143674
    newbee
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    Why reading is better for me is similar to driving through a forest road and walking through it. You can drive through and see everything but when you walk you can stop and focus on what you are seeing and appreciate all the nuances.

    in reply to: Purim: Wives Respecting Husbands #1143283
    newbee
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    Im saying wives should of course respect their husbands, and that its ironic the advise came from Haman and what it led to for Mordechai

    in reply to: Reading vs Audiobook #1143672
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    “In the olden days, however, audiobooks were preferred.”

    What do you mean by this?

    in reply to: Davening a Long S"E #1215676
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    “I shouldn’t have a care in the world on others’ perceptions.”

    And they dont have a care in the world about yours. I cant remember the last time I looked at someone daven and thought anything whatsoever about their davening. If they daven long I dont notice. If they daven short I dont notice. I just dont care. I think 95% of people also dont care.

    in reply to: Reading vs Audiobook #1143669
    newbee
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    Interesting, do you feel its a different experience when actually reading a book?

    Im trying to see if its just me. When I read a book I can get lost in it and feel like Im there. Its a much more intimate experience. When I listen to an audiobook I acquire the information but its more like im outside listening to someone else talk to me. I dont know why this is.

    in reply to: A different perspective on trump #1143341
    newbee
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    Yea I agree with that. But saying things like,

    “Wake up the sleeping but angry and frightened passions…He will then be able to do whatever he wants. Even radically change (dismantle) the constitution. Something totally new in america, but very old in the world, may be about to happen.”

    Is complete nonsense. It shows a lack of understanding of our political and social climate.

    in reply to: Davening a Long S"E #1215669
    newbee
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    The vast majority of people could care less how long or short you daven. Daven at whatever speed you want. These days, its not even considered kovodik to daven long really. Unless you make the minyan and are delyaing people just do whatever you want.

    The only time I have an issue is if someone davens a 3 min S”E b’yochid and a 15 min one b’tzibur. Such a person must think people will respect him more for davening longer, which they dont. They dont care.

    in reply to: A different perspective on trump #1143339
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    All Trump cares about in my opinion is himself. He doesn’t have any values besides Trump. He is not racist, anti-semetic or anti anything besides anti those who are anti-trump.

    in reply to: A different perspective on trump #1143338
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    “All this potential tyrant has to do is wake up the sleeping but angry and frightened passions of the american people. He will then be able to do whatever he wants. Even radically change (dismantle) the constitution, and the scope of presidential power.

    Something totally new in america, but very old in the world, may be about to happen. by feivel on 2016-03-17 at 12:00 pm”

    This is utter nonsense. No such thing will even come close to happening even if Trump wins. When nothing ever happens like what you said you should look back at this post prior to posting another silly doomsday theory.

    in reply to: Reading vs Audiobook #1143667
    newbee
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    “Learning with an audio tape or CD still requires one to follow along inside.”

    Thanks for replying. So are you saying that audiobooks WITHOUT reading inside is inferior to reading the print?

    “I listened to it on audio first and loved it. The printed version became just as exciting.”

    So are you saying listening to an audiobook and reading a book are equal means of experiencing and learning the book?

    in reply to: Reading vs Audiobook #1143664
    newbee
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    On the one hand we do read the Torah and megillah out-loud so listening must be considered a valid form of learning. But there is something about reading that seems superior to me. Curious to “hear” what other people say.

    in reply to: Divorce is Worse than a Difficult Marriage #1143259
    newbee
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    I promise the first thing I thought when looking at the title of this post was it was for sure started by Joseph. I was right.

    in reply to: Saving a Relative's Life First #1139527
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    “I’m not aware of someone being declared a mamzer”

    Thats a great example of how certain halacha works. Rabbis found a way not to declare people mamzerim and sell our chametz and build an eruv.

    “made a klap on the bima to announce he followed it and it would’ve been reported in the Hamodia”

    Im pretty sure there is a difference between that and about never hearing about this happening once- ever in modern history. If a woman was left to drown even once I am sure we would have heard about.

    in reply to: Saving a Relative's Life First #1139526
    newbee
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    I quoted the chelkas yaakov, rambam and taz about the kohanim having a lesser status today. But its good you looked into the igros about what Yoseph hatzadik was saying.

    in reply to: Saving a Relative's Life First #1139523
    newbee
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    Its not my own “boich sevora bubbe maaisa” I literally emailed a rov, asked mine in person, and called a halacha hotline. They all told me the same thing.

    in reply to: Saving a Relative's Life First #1139520
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    I was not saying hush hush it, a roshe yeshiva said that. I personally think if it is the halacha and no one knows about it it should be taught to hatzola and doctors and made public in every young israel since no one knows about it.

    But saying I dont like it is like saying I dont like the halacha that allows me to enslave a human being, breed him with another slave against his will and keep his children as slaves after he is set free.

    Halacha changes. Situations change with every generation. If it is truly halacha lemeisa you have to tell me why you cant tell me ONE time it was EVER practiced or why every Rabbi I ask says we dont follow it.

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