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  • in reply to: When did Chabad become a Kiruv oriented Chassidus? #1729861
    Neville ChaimBerlin
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    Chabad logic:
    “It’s totally untrue that Chabad forums bash other yidden! Those are comment sections on news and blogs not forums, that makes it totally OK!”

    The YWN home page comments are 99% a bash fest on other yidden too. I never claimed they weren’t. I’m not the one bringing comparisons into this; it’s you guys claiming to have clean slates when we all know you so don’t.

    I honestly don’t understand this “tell a lie and then accuse your opponent of lying” angle. Anyone can just go and see that the Anti Tzemach has made several posts in 2019, and that CrownHeights info articles have comments (albeit moderated). Are you just banking on clueless readers of this forum trusting everything you guys say and assuming I’m lying?

    in reply to: Milchig Meal on Shavuos #1729885
    Neville ChaimBerlin
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    RGP brings down rayes for what he’s saying. I’m not saying he isn’t twisting stuff, but he clearly isn’t an am haaretz, so explaining really beginner stuff to him like “staying up on Shavuos is not meakev” is not going to get you anywhere.

    He’s concealing the knowledge of certain basic facts on purpose to get you to spoon feed it back to him; you end up looking like the one with the simplistic arguments.

    The fake feminism has remained the most constant character trait of his account build. The inventing chumros by twisting halachos is a new one, and it’s interesting to see how quickly other posters forget what character he was playing just days before, and get fully immersed in his theme of the current thread. The egg chumrah thread, for example, was explicit in what it was doing from the beginning and was closed by mods. These recent ones are started in more subtle ways with more build up.

    in reply to: Milchig Meal on Shavuos #1729620
    Neville ChaimBerlin
    Participant

    “The Chachomin according to the Rambam are ovar on Baal Tosif if they say fowl is assur biblically to eat with milk”
    What’s the mashal to this thread? If you’re saying that the entire Sphardish oilam is over bal tosef by avoiding fish and milk, then obviously you know you’re wrong.

    And, don’t let RGP troll you into making a argument you don’t even actually mean. Just because the anti-BBQ thing is silly doesn’t mean such a concept of “non-Shabbosdik” and oneg Shabbos don’t exist.

    in reply to: When did Chabad become a Kiruv oriented Chassidus? #1729605
    Neville ChaimBerlin
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    “I guess the fact that there is no more Pale and that everyone is now scattered all across the globe really answers the entire question. Does it not?”
    So, you agree that the Besht wasn’t involved with kiruv because it couldn’t have been applicable in his day? It’s unclear what point you’re making.

    “What is the alternative? The “mainstream denominations” are more concerned about bringing everyone including non-Jews for dues. Which do you prefer?”
    By mainstream denominations you mean Conservative and Reform? Again, not seeing your point. The thread was about the historical timeline, not whether Chabad kiruv is preferable to Conservative/Reform, which obviously everyone agrees it is.

    CTL: I believe the point they are trying to make is that when the Besht spoke to the pushitah yidden who couldn’t afford to be in on the selective (at the time) yeshivish system, it was that era’s equivalent of kiruv. While today, it means reaching out to secular Jews. I don’t believe they are claiming the Besht was actually reaching out to Jews who were eating treif or had converted to Christianity; that would be a historical distortion. If you hold that kiruv is kiruv, as defined by today’s definition, then it’s like you and I said: it started in Chabad under the last Rebbe.

    RGP: I just listed off several well-known Chabad sites, so it could theoretically be possible that one doesn’t have comments. However, I just checked, and Crown Heights info does allow them, so I have no idea what you’re talking about.

    in reply to: Did Rebbitzin Golden Pick Sponsor an Article Just to Troll? #1729527
    Neville ChaimBerlin
    Participant

    Joseph’s alt’s were a famous part of CR history, and especially when account names had descriptions which the mods changed to “Joseph” on all of them so that we could see entire threads that were mostly him talking to himself. That being said, it was impressive on trolling standards back then, but it wasn’t that advanced or malicious. The alt’s mostly just served to voice agreement with his main account; it wasn’t an entire web of various characters. Also notably, Joseph’s main account is pretty much consistent in its views.

    RGP has created an account build where he can’t possibly believe everything he claims to believe. He’s trolling in the most classic and pure sense, which I find very entertaining actually. If he really did sponsor the article, then he’s taken CR trolling to a whole new level. This thread seems to have sort of caused him to break character and become defensive, which is a shame; I almost wish I hadn’t started it.

    in reply to: Milchig Meal on Shavuos #1729477
    Neville ChaimBerlin
    Participant

    RGP: The Minhag Lubavitch is for men not to wash on seudah shlishis. To rehash stuff that has already been said on the CR: the Rema holds you can be yotzei shalosh seudos without bread. The Chabad minhag of avoiding bread seems to have started with the Tzemach Tzedek (according to posters here).

    Milhouse:
    “The origin of not eating fish with milk is definitely NOT a typo.”
    “Almost all Ashkenazim rely on the Ramo, who says that the Beis Yosef made a mistake, נתחלף לו בשר בחלב”
    By “typo” people might be referring to the shittah that it’s a mistake/he didn’t really mean it. Clearly that shittah is not “definitely” wrong when all Ashkenazim hold of it.

    I might just be misunderstanding your point, but where did you get the idea that achronim never hold that something in the S”A is a copier’s mistake?

    in reply to: When did Chabad become a Kiruv oriented Chassidus? #1729424
    Neville ChaimBerlin
    Participant

    People have brought up Chabad forums many times in the past; I’m not sure why you reserved the strategy of denial until now.

    CrownHeightsInfo, ChabadInfo, Collive, The Anti Tzemach, etc… Of course, you’ll say that you don’t have to own anything said there because all the bad things being said are written by “not real Lubavitchers.” Please, spare us.

    in reply to: Did Rebbitzin Golden Pick Sponsor an Article Just to Troll? #1729442
    Neville ChaimBerlin
    Participant

    RGP:
    Your desperation to cover up your Chabad ties and sweep it under the rug as conspiracy theory only confirms the suspicion more.

    There are no conspiracy theories going on here. I don’t believe anyone is assisting you with any of this. The home page article clearly references internet forums (as does the actual text of the book, by the way), and the most likely forum participant here to have published that is obviously you.

    in reply to: Milchig Meal on Shavuos #1729190
    Neville ChaimBerlin
    Participant

    “BUT with all the ta’anos, I haven’t seen even once the ta’ana that they don’t eat seudah shlishis! Why is that?!”

    It’s come up already. Sorry to disappoint.

    in reply to: When did Chabad become a Kiruv oriented Chassidus? #1729145
    Neville ChaimBerlin
    Participant

    Chabad forums are 99% a bash-fest on other yidden, primarily gedolim.

    I would be interested in when Litvaks started doing kiruv. For Chabad, l’maaseh I think the answer is when the last Rebbe took power. Most of the stuff about it happening with previous Rebbes seems like an attempt to make their history backwards compatible.

    in reply to: How did Chabad change from being Anti Zionist to Pro #1728573
    Neville ChaimBerlin
    Participant

    “sought to redefine Judaism and the Jewish nation from being one based on the Torah”
    Exactly. Who was the Prime Minister or President who famously said at the Olso accords something like “this is a big victory for Israeliism over Judaism?”

    “people think that the Zionists shmad the Jews in order to achieve a State.”
    It’s also worth pointing out that this original aim of Zionism has been proven wrong. They were correct that the goyim viewed us as unwelcomed guests sitting on their land, but they were wrong in assuming that would halt if we established a state. The goyim are no less Antisemitic on account of the state.

    in reply to: Mislabeled Kosher Products #1728548
    Neville ChaimBerlin
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    “They are legally required to label these products “non-dairy”, because that is what they are.”
    Sorry, but I straight up don’t believe this at all. I have plenty of parve things in my fridge that don’t say “non-dairy.”

    “That also answers NC’s concerns about ethics.”
    Even if such a legal requirement did for sure exist, that wouldn’t change my mind. I would just conclude that the law is unethical. US law isn’t Torah. Jews cannot treat it as non-dairy and vegans can’t eat it, so what is it accomplishing other than tricking people? If it were for allergies, it could say lactose-free.

    in reply to: Did Rebbitzin Golden Pick Sponsor an Article Just to Troll? #1728549
    Neville ChaimBerlin
    Participant

    “This thread is silly. The Rebbetzin has been trolling for free, why would she suddenly spend money to do so?”

    I dunno. Ask him. The connection between the account and the article is undeniable. Sponsoring an article on YWN might be relatively cheap.

    in reply to: How did Chabad change from being Anti Zionist to Pro #1728546
    Neville ChaimBerlin
    Participant

    Saying Zionism ended with the creation of the state is like saying feminism ended with women’s suffrage.

    When these movements get what they ask for, they don’t go away. They just become empowered and turn into monsters.

    in reply to: How did Chabad change from being Anti Zionist to Pro #1728426
    Neville ChaimBerlin
    Participant

    Ziongate: what makes you so sure RGP isn’t actually Joseph?

    “Why would it matter what a “kofer” thinks about Zionism????”
    Did the inquisitive OP ever express the belief that Chabadniks are kofrim? Have any of us who did argue against Chabad in other threads actually expressed any interest in Chabad’s shittah here? Like I said, I know Chabad’s shittah on Zionism. It’s the same as the Litvish (just like havarah). The majority of this thread turned into Zionists vs Anti-Zionists, Satmar/Friends-of-Satmar vs. Anti-Satmars, etc.

    “The same argument was whether to join the Kneses. If the religiious don’t join, they will do whar they want without objections.”
    That’s a fine logical/political argument, but it’s not a halachic one. If it’s assur to serve in the government, then it’s assur. Doesn’t matter what the chilonim will do without you being there.

    in reply to: Mislabeled Kosher Products #1728421
    Neville ChaimBerlin
    Participant

    Casein is a stabilizing agent derived from milk ; it probably doesn’t add taste, but it serves the purpose in making the thing what it is. Bittul b’shishim does not apply. Sorry. As the hechsher correctly states, it’s dairy.

    As far as the legal standards, I don’t think the OP was claiming to have a legal complaint. Ethically, is there something wrong with using a dairy product in your food and calling it “non-dairy” because it flies under the legal standards? I personally believe so, but that’s not an argument not to hechsher it.

    in reply to: Mislabeled Kosher Products #1728361
    Neville ChaimBerlin
    Participant

    This is ancient news.

    By the way, the casein probably has a din of cheese. If you don’t usually hold by the OU’s kulos on soft cheeses with regards to gevinas akum, it could be a problem altogether.

    in reply to: How did Chabad change from being Anti Zionist to Pro #1728362
    Neville ChaimBerlin
    Participant

    Jdf, nobody said it’s assur to live in Israel. I don’t know where you got that idea. The controversy is about establishing statehood.

    Joseph: Litvaks take money from the state; that’s a pretty huge difference. Unless you’re only referring to the ones associated with Eidah Chareidis.

    in reply to: Who is RGP ? #1728365
    Neville ChaimBerlin
    Participant

    Ha! So, I was right to use “RGP!” Take that, Avi!

    We could technically all compromise on RGPANSN to reflect the full name.

    I don’t really know yiddish. Part of me suspects that this word is used as a euphemism for something else given that they blocked it.

    in reply to: Who is RGP ? #1728027
    Neville ChaimBerlin
    Participant

    So, he originally had tried to make it something inappropriate?

    in reply to: How did Chabad change from being Anti Zionist to Pro #1728028
    Neville ChaimBerlin
    Participant

    I’m actually surprised they didn’t edit it. That’s the type of Satmar-hating garbage I would expect to see on home page comments, but not here.

    in reply to: Who is RGP ? #1727874
    Neville ChaimBerlin
    Participant

    It’s definitely Golden Pick, like a pickax for mining:
    Rebitzin Golden Pick: A Better Screenname.

    in reply to: How did Chabad change from being Anti Zionist to Pro #1727877
    Neville ChaimBerlin
    Participant

    In no particular order:
    The Rashab did not live at the same time as the Medina; it wasn’t clear whether or not everyone here realized this.

    Wrapping tefillin next to tzoah is lo taaseh, not a mitzvas aseh. However, I would argue with the one who said Lubavitchers actually do this and his/her understanding of “next to.”

    Satmars do not wish for Israelis to be slaughtered; that’s religious Zionist propaganda that’s trickled into frum circles apparently. There were yidden living there before the medina, which was no problem. The problem is the government, which they hold is assur b’hanaah. For the “its here, get used to it” argument, you wouldn’t find chometz during pesach and say “well, now that it’s here it would be silly not to get any benefit from it, so I should sell it.” If something is assur l’halachah, you can’t matir it “because it’s there.” That’s an absurd argument. Our gedolim had their real reasons to argue on the Satmar Ruv, and it definitely wasn’t “it’s here; get used to it.”

    in reply to: How long will it take? #1727878
    Neville ChaimBerlin
    Participant

    “For every anti-Israel movement on the left, there are people chanting Jews Will Not Replace Us on the right.”
    The difference is, those doing it on the left are now actually represented by prominent members of the Democratic party. The Anti-Semetic right has not worked its way significantly into the Republican party yet. They run as weird stuff like “Constitutionist” or “Libertarian.” Also, statistically, there are more antisemites on the left.

    Neville ChaimBerlin
    Participant

    RGP:
    I shave, but keep cholov Yisroel, but that’s a good point. I should start eating cholov stam now. Thanks for the heter, buddy.

    ” I can feel good being super-machmir on a halacha I like (and proudly call muself a chareidi machmir with “high standards”)”
    Yeah, you can do that. Most of us don’t have weird inferiority complexes and just go with the flow without needing to constantly re-confirm our views.

    in reply to: How did Chabad change from being Anti Zionist to Pro #1727561
    Neville ChaimBerlin
    Participant

    akup:
    I’m sorry, but that’s a cop out. Half of the world’s Jewish population lives in Israel. It’s worth talking about. Surely you wouldn’t suggest the Rashab’s shittos on this, and the entire sefer of the Satmar Ruv are “non-Torah,” and “not important.”

    Haimy: “This does not seem in line with the Shita of the Rashab.”
    That depends, do you have a source on what the Rashab said about using subtle deception for the purposes of potentially being mekarev thousands? That’s what this is really about. I don’t say the word deception as an insult. All kiruv organizations “wait until people are ready” to reveal certain things. That Chabad rabbi knows exactly what frum people mean when they say Zionist vs. Anti-Zionist, and he knows where real Chabad falls on that spectrum.

    in reply to: How did Chabad change from being Anti Zionist to Pro #1727417
    Neville ChaimBerlin
    Participant

    It’s not a competition, but what you’re saying is simply not true. I understand Chabad’s stance; it’s pretty much the same as my own. But, if you don’t hold like the VaYoel Moshe, then you can’t claim to be more anti-Zionist than Satmar.

    Chabad accepts the reality that the Zionist movement was founded and led by people who hate the Torah. Satmar, on the other hand, wouldn’t care if it was led by the Tzadik Hador. They hold it’s inherently assur and that the state is essentially assur b’hanaah.

    This would be like a guy selling chometz during Pesach and saying “in theory, I’m even stricter about chometz than frum people; I just happen to derive benefit from it anyway since it’s here.”

    in reply to: How long will it take? #1727389
    Neville ChaimBerlin
    Participant

    “Until the Democrats are on the same level as the Nazis in regards to their anti Israel and anti Semitic stance?”
    The Muslim ones for sure already are. You mean how long will it be until they all are?

    in reply to: How did Chabad change from being Anti Zionist to Pro #1727396
    Neville ChaimBerlin
    Participant

    RGP:
    I’m aware of that situation, but that’s not a machlokes about the halachic implications of Zionism. At the end of the day, they still both believed that it was mutar to be involved in the government.

    And, lol stop pretending to not be a Lubavitcher. This is one shittah of which you can be proud. Land-for-peace has been totally disastrous.

    Lakewhut: “Ubiquitin some still want to live in a ghetto in Hungary or Poland.”
    And, some want to live in Soviet Russia and have their children conscripted by an army that will forcefully secularize them. I refer, of course, to the Zionists.

    Neville ChaimBerlin
    Participant

    “We learn shulchon aruch harav bit that only works for the simonim we have but for the ones we the Rebbe said we should learn MISHNA BRURAH.”
    Source? I know you learn regular S”A for the missing simonim, but I hadn’t heard you learn M”B. I’m pretty sure I’ve heard Chabadniks call it misnagdish. Is this going to be another schism between the crazy new-age Chabadniks and the “real” Chabadniks?

    in reply to: Did Rebbitzin Golden Pick Sponsor an Article Just to Troll? #1727388
    Neville ChaimBerlin
    Participant

    Hm. His trolling resume was pretty impressive actually. But, now that people are starting to figure out more than he wants, he’s just starting to sound desperate. Kind of sad if this is the conclusion. I was continuing to come back to the CR mostly to see what he did next.

    in reply to: How did Chabad change from being Anti Zionist to Pro #1727182
    Neville ChaimBerlin
    Participant

    “We do that thing that drives people crazy where we say, beshita we’re more anti-Zionist than Satmar”
    You say that solely to drive people crazy? You surely realize you are much less anti Zionist than Satmar.

    Sechel summed it up nicely. On this issue, Chabad sees eye to eye with the Yeshivish world. As is evidenced by the fact that it was never brought up as an arguing point in 10,000+ posts of Chabad wars.

    in reply to: How did Chabad change from being Anti Zionist to Pro #1727163
    Neville ChaimBerlin
    Participant

    “Even today, you will get very different and often convoluted explanations of exactly how their is no contradiction in simultaneously being “pro-Israel” and “anti-Zionist”.”
    That’s true of almost the entire frum community with the exception of the Neturei Karta (if they count). It’s not like we’re pro Palestinian chas v’shalom. You can be against the tenets of the Zionist movement without pulling for the terrorists.

    Everyone’s approach will seem “convoluted” to those on the outside. The Litvish approach of participating in government while claiming to be anti probably seems convoluted to the Satmars. The Lubavitch approach of serving in the IDF (correct me if that’s only Chabad-lite) while claiming to be anti seems convoluted to us. Fundamentally, Chabad considers the founding fathers of Zionism to be bad people, while the religious Zionists consider them to be heroes. They might keep it under wraps on account of kiruv, but it seems like Chabad’s views on Zionism are relatively in-line with the Litvish views. Admittedly, Chabad is unquestionably the least anti-Zionist Chassidus.

    Neville ChaimBerlin
    Participant

    1 account 1 reply.

    Hmm…. Classic maneuver. Might have worked in 2010.

    Neville ChaimBerlin
    Participant

    “First straight out lie”
    Well, I’m glad you think it’s my first.

    “what exactly encourage you to say this?????”
    The fact that’s it’s true combined with the fact that it fits in rather nicely with my back-and-fourth with RGP.

    in reply to: How did Chabad change from being Anti Zionist to Pro #1727127
    Neville ChaimBerlin
    Participant

    They changed Rebbes twice since the Rashab.

    in reply to: Who is RGP ? #1727128
    Neville ChaimBerlin
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    Neville ChaimBerlin
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    “clean shaven Chassidishe bachurim/yungerman”
    Who exactly would fall into this category?

    in reply to: Did Rebbitzin Golden Pick Sponsor an Article Just to Troll? #1726962
    Neville ChaimBerlin
    Participant

    “Why assume he authored it tho?”
    I don’t necessarily. But, I do assume he sponsored the ad for it on the home page.

    “Rav Moshe Weiner wrote the sefer Hadras Ponim Zoken 40 or so years ago. If he actually wrote this new kuntres then your argument falls apart.”
    Chabad sources confirm he did. Why does that hurt the theory that RGP sponsored the ad? In fact, why does that even hurt the theory that he is RGP, if we’re taking it that far? The book advertised on the home page is nonsense. That remains the fact regardless of the author’s resume.

    In light of what you just told me, I’ll say this correction to my original summary:
    CORRECTION: The rabbi already had written a sefer on beards decades before the op-ed controversy. Only this new sefer was self-published in the wake of the controversy. Also, I forgot to note, the sponsored article mentions this debate taking place on frum forums. Whoever sponsored it is familiar with what goes on here. Hmm…

    Neville ChaimBerlin
    Participant

    “Pronouncements are made in Shulchan Oruch, as specifically choosing a chazzon WITH A BEARD”

    And, the meforshim clarify that this means anyone past the age at which men usually grow beards, including anyone who happens to be unable to grow a beard (eg. the late Kaliver Rebbe).

    As for my “envy.” I’m not envious. I’m sort of impressed actually. But, theoretically, there could be less learned people here, and I think they should realize the truth so that you don’t trick them. As a side note, glad to see your trolling career has forced you to look into the Mishnah Berurah. That’s something most Lubavitchers wouldn’t do.

    in reply to: Did Rebbitzin Golden Pick Sponsor an Article Just to Troll? #1726895
    Neville ChaimBerlin
    Participant

    OK, b’ezras ha mods, I will explain the story in this comment.

    On another frum new outlet, someone posted an op-ed about a situation in the American army. The military seemed to be mulling over getting rid of the religious exception that allowed Jews to have beards in the army. The op-ed claimed that Jews in the army should not bother fighting over it and should just shave with electric razors because that’s mutar anyway. A certain Chabad rabbi took issue with this op-ed. He self-published a book about the halachah of beards to make himself an “authority” on the topic, then wrote his own op-ed in response.

    The book you see basically goes through every shittah that is matir shaving and either claims it’s invalid, or claims that the posek didn’t really mean it or some such nonsense. The individual claims to be an authority (his word, not mine) on shittos outside of his own mesora.

    You can verify everything I’ve said here. It only took me about 3 minutes to put it all together. Now, does it seem like a respectable sefer halachah to you, or the work of someone upset by comments they read on the internet? Draw your own conclusions.

    in reply to: Did Rebbitzin Golden Pick Sponsor an Article Just to Troll? #1726891
    Neville ChaimBerlin
    Participant

    “Neville – why assume that?”
    It’s pretty clear as day. Look at what RGP has said about beards and how Litvish gedolim actually hold that it’s assur to shave (even though they don’t). Take a look at the book that’s being sponsored. I’m going to give some further details in a second comment because I worry that it will be deleted, not for being insulting, but for too much real world information. However, I will say, I believe the person revealed this about himself.

    Avi K:
    Truthfully, I don’t know what you’re getting at. Are you asking if my original post is just kidding around? I mean, I think this whole situation is pretty jovial, but honestly I do 100% believe that the article was sponsored by RGP.

    in reply to: Shidduchim between FFB and BT’s #1726177
    Neville ChaimBerlin
    Participant

    I don’t even use the word oriental; I will just always pick an argument with the PC police.

    Don’t be fooled into believing this “pet peeve” stuff. They all say that. Really, liberals like CTL love it when someone says words like that because it gives them the opportunity to “correct” them. They get weird joy from it. It’s like a game to them.

    And, Rebbitzin, obviously he’s more likely to adopt an oriental than a colored girl. Orientals put a lot of females up for adoption due to the child-limitations.

    in reply to: Chabad hate on YWN? #1726221
    Neville ChaimBerlin
    Participant

    “In short it should go both ways if you let people argue against chabad then let people defend them also and if you let people bash chabad then let people bash litvish also”
    They have let through all the standard Litvish arguments against Chabad and all the Chabad arguments against us. When people cross the line, they usually get modded. I don’t know where you’ve been, but a certain anti-Chabad account or two was getting deleted or edited on nearly every post.

    I think comments made my Lubavitchers on another thread, specifically Rebbitzin Goldenpick, about gedolim crossed the line and I was surprised they were let through. The same has clearly happened to you on the other side.

    In contrast, by the way, I will grant you that the home page is extremely biased and anti-Chassidishe. They have daily 2 minutes of Satmar hate over there.

    Neville ChaimBerlin
    Participant

    “Where exactly does the ”Torah ” forbid shaving?”
    Wait, do you really not know? Because, if you’re shaving with a straight razor then you’re for sure over an issur d’oraysa. The implication here is that we’re talking about trimming and electric shaving.

    Neville ChaimBerlin
    Participant

    RGP:
    I don’t know how much I can say because of certain rules (which I understand and agree with).
    But, if you did what it seems like you did, then bravo. Probably the most elaborate YWN trolling in all of history.

    Neville ChaimBerlin
    Participant

    Joseph:
    That wasn’t a halachic analysis article; it was sponsored content. I think it was sponsored by you-know-who.

    The book is clearly self-published. With a little extra research… Stuff is starting to make sense around here.

    in reply to: Shidduchim between FFB and BT’s #1725769
    Neville ChaimBerlin
    Participant

    To either clarify or prove my point that you are modding to cover-up problems I believe this is the point that bothered you:

    The Litvish velt has a shidduch crisis that produces a surplus of single FFB girls who were not able to find a FFB boy to marry. The corresponding kiruv system focuses disproportionately on males and uses these desperate girls as tools to lock in the BTs who otherwise have a decent OTD rate. My opinion is that this practice is immoral.

    in reply to: Shidduchim between FFB and BT’s #1725768
    Neville ChaimBerlin
    Participant

    “your incorrect assumption about why it was deleted.”
    So, nu? Why was it deleted? If you don’t tell us the reason how are we supposed to do anything other than assume?

    I would be happy to give more “clarity,” but why wouldn’t you just mod that out also?

    in reply to: Shidduchim between FFB and BT’s #1725675
    Neville ChaimBerlin
    Participant

    “That’s one way to shift the blame.”
    From whom to whom? Me to you? If I say something that’s true about the yeshivish world, but it’s a “hard to swallow pill” and the mods decide that it’s better off kept under wraps, then I don’t consider there to be one side objectively at fault.

    If one believes that we should hide our issues from the rest of the world like Chabad does, then I’m to “blame” for daring to say it in the first place. If one believes that forums like the CR should be a medium to discuss real issues, then I think there’s an argument to be made for not censoring out that stuff. Clearly, that isn’t how YWN holds.

    If it’s your policy, I’m not saying you’re doing anything wrong by modding those types of comments. But, when you let people expose just about anything in other groups, you can expect people to be surprised when the censorship is stricter on Litvish exposes. It would do good to just call a duck a duck: this is a extremely partisan site. Nothing wrong with that as long as you’re honest about it.

    Things aren’t modded because of being “bitter pills to swallow “.  You assume that based on your lack of clarity over either what you said along with your ‘point’, or, as is most often the case, your incorrect assumption about why it was deleted. Which I think has been brought up several times.

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