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Neville Chaimberlin Lo MesParticipant
Yechiell: I don’t public health should exist as a concept. I have my approach to my health and you have your’s. If the government stays out of people’s business, we don’t have problems.
Your problem with Trump seems to be that he doesn’t force everyone at gun point to make exactly the same decisions with their bodies that you make with your’s. This is asinine and condescending. People like you are the reason Trump won again. Just mind your own business.
“And it’s also goodbye Chalav Stam if he gets his way with neutering the FDA.”
Baruch Hashem.
Neville Chaimberlin Lo MesParticipantNews sources still seem split on how they’re reporting it, but I don’t see any conclusive evidence of what you’re saying. I’m not sure why you’re pretending I’m the only one interpreting it this way.
When I look up articles, some of them report the proposal outright as “permanent daylight savings time,” while many others use wording like “doing away with time changes,” which could mean either. YWN fell on the “permanent DST” side when they reported it a few days back.
The Daily Wire uses your terminology, but the tweets they’re using as sources only mention getting rid of time changes, which, again, could mean either. They also bring Marco Rubio as an advocate for this, and he’s made it explicitly known that he wants year round DST.
The only proof I will accept is if you have a trustworthy source that uses the terminology “permanent standard time.” Even the phrase “doing away with DST” could actually mean adopting permanent DST as the new standard time and thus doing away with time changes. As I said earlier, it is very, very common for people to mix these up and just use the phrase “daylight savings time” to refer to the act of changing clocks in general. How else do you explain different news sources understanding this differently?
The only article I found that really went all-in on interpreting this your way was one by Newsweek that was using it to bash Trump (remember, everyone outside of frum yidden prefer DST over standard time, so it would be wildly unpopular).
In any case, even if it turns out that Trump really is advocating for what you say (wouldn’t surprise me if he chose the authoritarian idea over the pro-states-rights idea as he is a fake conservative after all), that would just mean I disagree with him as usual. I’m not sure why you think my arguments have to be “based on the understanding” that Trump holds a certain way. I’m still going to be pro-DST and pro-states-rights whether Trump agrees or not. To be honest, I did not come across reporting of Trump weighing in on this, just Vivek and Musk.
Neville Chaimberlin Lo MesParticipant“I just brought that issue for a reference, I didnt attack someone based on a misquote”
I didn’t actually think you were purposely doing it to attack him.“Next, you’ll say that I don’t value him enough because 1.414 is less than sqrt(2)”
I wish I had thought of that. I also wish I had thought of calling him “Radical Two,” because it sounds way cooler than sqrt(2).Neville Chaimberlin Lo MesParticipant“maybe. why these became the issue? it is either increased contact (Austro-Hungarian empire?) or, maybe more likely, chassidic influence in previously litvishe areas bringing those minhagim in.”
You’re framing your theory as an Eastern European elitist. The central European minhagim have their basis in non-Chassidish sources. The fact that most of the people keeping them today happen to be Chassidish does not negate them. Most or all of these minhagim go back way farther than Minhag haGra.
Both sides have some minhagim that actually go far back. Chassidim have some that were changed due to kabalah or whatever, then the Litvaks have some that were changed due to the Gra. Mathematically, if you only look at the changes, I’m not sure Chassidim come out worse. To make the equation work in your favor, you’re left either insulting age-old minhagim that have nothing to do with Chassidus, or basically saying “it’s only okay when WE change the mesora, but you aren’t allowed to.”
“Sephardim say it at the usual times as most Ashkenazim.”
Sephardim do not say it the week following Shavuos, nor on Pesach sheni, nor (I believe) the entire month of Tishrei.Neville Chaimberlin Lo MesParticipant“Your arguments were based on the incorrect assumption that the change would be to keep DST all year long. This is not the case.”
No, my argument is that this IS the case, and Trump just isn’t careful with his wording so he randomly says the wrong thing half the time.
Neville Chaimberlin Lo MesParticipantYechiell: Why do you care? If you got the vaccine, you’re fine (unless you’re the one making an anti-vaxxer statement).
If other people want to take risks with their own lives, it shouldn’t bother you.
Neville Chaimberlin Lo MesParticipant“1.414 … said> which approach is correct: The Torah’s or the psychologist’s.”
Wow, that’s some CNN-level quoting out of context right there. Here’s what he actually said:“And now I must clarify. It sounds like I’m c”v asking which approach is correct: The Torah’s or the psychologist’s.
That is not my intention at all, but rather to understand the Emes, the Torah.”Sqrt(2): I would tell you that the psychologist is just outdated and wrong. People used to think that schoolyard bullies were these sympathetic monsters who were really suffering more than their victims. Then people paid more attention and realized that more than half the time the bullies have perfectly easy, privileged lives while their victims do not. Obviously, there are exceptions to everything, but to say that that arrogance always comes from low self esteem just isn’t true. More often than not, the opposite is.
Neville Chaimberlin Lo MesParticipant“To broaden your limited understanding, a simple Google search will reveal the 1966 Uniform Time Act, which prohibits year-round DST. However, year-round Standard Time is not illegal.”
Correct. Any state could already adopt year round standard time, or more standard time than others, but cannot take on extra DST. Year round federal DST would effectively mean states could take on as much as they want, or as little (as is already their right).
“I’m not sure what your suspicions are based on.”
A couple of things. For starters, the opposite was widely reported before this sudden shinoy lashon. For two, people commonly say “do away with DST” when they really just mean do away with changing the clocks. You only “lose” an hour in the summer due to the time change. Year round DST would also get rid of this problem, so that’s not a proof. It’s all relative; if every state adopted daylight savings time year round, we would eventually stop calling it DST as it would be an outdated reference. It would just be the new standard time.“At this point, the federal government cannot expand DST to be all year”
Sure they could. It’s not like it’s set by a Constitutional Amendment. Sure, they’ll have to change the laws around a bit, but I think that’s always gone without saying. They already can and have expanded DST within our lifetimes.“nor does it make sense for most states to do so.”
Then there should be no concern with leaving it up to the states. “Most” states won’t do it if it doesn’t “make sense,” then those for whom it makes sense will do it.Neville Chaimberlin Lo MesParticipantGadol: I suspect Trump’s position is still in favor of year round DST; I don’t think he made a full 180. Far more likely he just foolishly said the wrong thing.
The way the law is set up right now–from my limited understanding–is that if the federal government allowed for year round DST, it would effectively leave the decision up to the states. If they adopted year-round standard time, it would effectively ban states from doing DST because states cannot do more DST than what is federally sanctioned, but they can do less. A lot of states already adopted legislation saying that if the federal government expands DST or makes it year round they will automatically adopt it as well.
Year round DST would be the pro “states’ rights” approach that one should expect from Republicans. That being said, I have absolutely no idea what to expect from them now that their platform is completely left up to the fleeting whims of one person.
December 15, 2024 4:19 pm at 4:19 pm in reply to: The Net Results of the NASI Project and the Shidduch Age Gap Scare #2341615Neville Chaimberlin Lo MesParticipant“how many of the men are exiting for other reasons (eg off the derech)”
Not many, and if there were it would just make the problem worse.“Is the age gap really that wide? (real data says no)”
You’re simply wrong. Everybody knows that Litvishers marry at an age gap as I explained earlier. I’m not sure if you’re turning the blind eye to reality or just shamelessly lying at this point. It’s hard for me to believe that anyone even marginally acquainted with the yeshivish world could possibly suggest that the minhag is not for the husband to be older. Your “data” (if it actually exists) is probably pulling from too many groups. This crisis is very specific to one community. Chassidim and MO people don’t have this problem.“IT would be very odd if after the dust settles and the 10 men went on their 50 dates 5 women never got dates.”
Huh? This has nothing to do with anything. Nobody cares about whether or not people can go on dates. If there is a surplus of let’s say 5 thousand women this past year, then it’s perfectly possible that every women gets to date, but 5 thousand still won’t get married as there won’t enough guys.Your denial seems to be based on denying that Litvishers marry at an age gap, but you seem like you would accept that if there were an age gap there therefore would be a surplus. I’m not sure what I can say to convince you of the easily observable minhag. If you, as I suspect, live in a smallish, OOT community where you really don’t interact with many real yeshivish people, then you can either take our word for it or keep being willfully ignorant.
Neville Chaimberlin Lo MesParticipant“I am still not sure why this is our issur d’rabonan v. someone else’s aveira.”
I agree completely with you here, but I can tell you why he thought that based on your previous posts. You made mention of “people who are less committed,” seemingly suggesting that we should be choshesh for people who would be willing to be machellel shabbos b’meizid. Reb Moshe consistently was against this line to reasoning with regards to building eruvin, so it makes sense that it would not apply here either.“Just in another thread, someone presumed that non-observant people are only interested in a Tanach to mock it …”
This is off-topic, but this is not actually what I said. I said they were either interested in it as a academic pursuit, or to mock it; in either case they would want an accurate translation. What other interest would a secular person have in it? If they are interested in it for religious reasons, then we aren’t talking about secular people anymore.“It is a thing about people not understanding others …”
More so I would say it’s a problem with adopting a collectivist approach. Meaning, if I personally benefit from year-round DST, then that’s the position I should support, but the collectivist approach that Agudah seems to be taking would say that I should be mevatel my own needs because some other guy somewhere might have trouble making it to minyan.“The gist of it is we arent oiver even a D’rabanan to prevent someone else’s issur.”
That’s all fine, but then it also isn’t my problem that a more beneficial-for-me system would make another guy miss minyan. They can’t have it both ways. Either we worry about how it affects others, in which case Shabbos is a valid concern, or it’s every man for himself, in which case I don’t care about people who miss minyan as a result unless I’m one of those people.December 15, 2024 4:16 pm at 4:16 pm in reply to: ‘No Hat, No Jacket, No Davening?’: A Shul’s Sign Challenges Unity #2341470Neville Chaimberlin Lo MesParticipant“Gemora does”
No, it doesn’t.“so confirmed by the (very yeshivish) maggid shiur”
It doesn’t even sound like he said it’s assur to wear a hat. How would he feel about you putting those words in his mouth? Not to mention the thing you’re pretending he said would not even be historically accurate. Everyone, including goyim, wore hats 70 years ago in both America and the alter heim. Since you apparently disregard the Mishnah Berurah as proof, you can look up photographs.“Put yourself in my place: after rav said this to my face, am I allowed to disregard this just because seforim say differently?”
The short answer is yes. If a rav told you to do something that is k’neged widely accepted and written halachah, then there’s no reason not to disregard what he says. Why would you even think otherwise? Again, however, it does not seem like this rav told you not to wear a hat. He said not to dress like a talmid chacham and you took the liberty of interpreting that to suit your own desires. The common application of this in the yeshivish world is that roshei yeshivos wear kapotes and up-brim hats while bochrim wear short jackets and down-brim hats.Even within your crazy shittah, how does it show a lack of humility to dress exactly like everyone else in a given shul? You’re the one insisting on standing out because you want to show off your self-proclaimed humility, which is obviously counterintuitive.
Neville Chaimberlin Lo MesParticipant“I retract my apology now.”
Again?“I personally didnt insult anyone for believing Yaacov Avinu is physically alive”
Why is it only called “insulting” when it’s directed at you? Do you realize how juvenile this sounds? And, yes, I know, now you’re going to say I just insulted you again. Spare us.If you want to say that calling us liars, purposely misrepresenting meforshim, etc. is not insulting because it’s just part of the discussion process, then fine, but don’t say that anything we’ve said to you in insulting either. You can’t have it both ways, and frankly we’ve been a lot more tame than you have.
“i was led to believe that “Yaacov being alive is the classic interpretation” of klal Yisroel.”
Again, it’s the classic interpretation of Rashi, not the classic interpretation of reality. If ARSo really is saying, as you seem to suggest, that we all just randomly came to the conclusion that Rashi is saying this on our own, then I would have to disagree with him. This is the “classic interpretation” of Rashi as I’ve said to you many times. You were “led to believe” correctly.
Neville Chaimberlin Lo MesParticipant“It isnt Chazal it is a later machlokes”
Fair enough. He should have said a machlokes rishonim.“To say “NO basis is Torah ” [sic] is at best inaccurate if not flat out wrong”
True also. He should have said it had no basis in the mesora, not “no basis in Torah.”“agree completely. particulary since if anything it undermines his point .”
It’s not clear exactly what his point was, but he might have been citing this as an example of powerful Rabbonim putting machmirus over what’s practical for baal habatim. To change the ~1000 year old practice in order to be choshesh for shitas hageonim was no skin off their backs, but starting Shabbos ~45 minutes earlier would be a lot more noticeable for working people. The parallel to this situation seems relatively clear.To put it in perspective, if we did year-round daylight savings AND still did shitas R”T, Shabbos would never start before 6PM in NYC. People working 9-5’ers would not even have to leave early on Fridays (depending on commutes).
Neville Chaimberlin Lo MesParticipant““If they [Jews] all gather in Israel,
it will save us the trouble of going after them worldwide.””Interesting that you use this as a justification for Zionism…
December 12, 2024 10:35 am at 10:35 am in reply to: The Net Results of the NASI Project and the Shidduch Age Gap Scare #2340880Neville Chaimberlin Lo MesParticipant“My question is at what point do we say ok, it isnt clossable, lets look for another solution. 10 years ? 20 years ? 30 ?”
There literally is no other solution. If you think there is, then you don’t understand the problem.Let me break this down to be a little simpler since you clearly don’t fully believe in this:
If I had a room of 10 men and 15 women and had to match them up for marriage with no polygamy, you accept that there would be 5 women leftover, right?
If a population is growing exponentially, you accept that the population born 5 years later at any given time will exceed that born 5 years earlier, right?
Do you accept that the frum population is growing exponentially?
If you answered yes to all of these, then mazel tov you believe in the shidduch crisis whether you admit it or not. If you answered no to any of these, then you are objectively wrong.
Not closing the age gap means girls dying alone forever, and the number of girls dying alone will grow exponentially. You can’t “beat” math. If one quantity is greater than another, you will end up with a surplus.
Neville Chaimberlin Lo MesParticipantI’m going to ignore the fact that Phil instantly retracted her apology and accept it as is. There’s a beautiful irony to the fact that over five non-Lubavitchers argued with her about this on the other thread and she doubled and tripled down. What finally got her to apologize was her nemesis, menachem Shmei.
Phil, to add to what Menachem just said, you’re probably familiar with these things happening when people go to criticize Chassidus, since you’re Chassidishe yourself. For example, people will bash Chassidim for davening mincha after shkiah when it’s meforesh in the Rema and Maharil that it is mutar.
Would those people knowingly bash the Rema? No, but they don’t know better, and they aren’t being careful about friendly fire.
Neville Chaimberlin Lo MesParticipantJustThink is correct, and it’s pretty common knowledge. It also isn’t as simple as just going around murdering people. You need a Beis Din.
I’m suspect these dinim regarding rov and Amalek being dispersed are what he means by “modern rabbanim interpretation” (using the word modern lightly here since it goes back to Chazal). I don’t want to say that way of thinking is kefiradik, but I also don’t know how to end this sentence.
In any case, Muslims have never implemented their law the way we have. For them, it has always meant literal murdering and chopping off hands. They don’t have a Chazal that told them how to implement these things, so it’s just up for the terrorists to decide.
Neville Chaimberlin Lo MesParticipant“putting aside the inaccuracies in your post regarding Shkiya”
He’s actually correct by the way. We’ve only been choshesh for shkiah rishona for about 100 years, maybe less. It’s a very recent thing. Nobody is Europe went like shitas hagaonim; even the Mishnah Berurah admits this. In any case, it’s not nogeia to this discussion; I just wasn’t sure why you claimed he was being inaccurate. I know it’s kind of “forbidden knowledge” in the Orthodox world that we didn’t hold this way until recently, but it would be misleading to claim otherwise. The mainstream minhag is to just never talk about it, but actively denying it seems dishonest.December 11, 2024 9:06 pm at 9:06 pm in reply to: ‘No Hat, No Jacket, No Davening?’: A Shul’s Sign Challenges Unity #2340827Neville Chaimberlin Lo MesParticipant“Give me a historical example where Yidden were mandated some uniform for davening. Outside of beis hamikdash.”
We already cited sources for you in this very thread. Why do we need to keep rehashing it? Even if you want to say that MB “no longer applies,” it still would be an example of “mandating a uniform for davening.”“Story is about a gadol not compromising his minhag even when it embarrassed the hosts.”
So, in your quest for humility, you compared yourself to the gadol hador… There’s no shaychus. That story entails him not making what he would consider to be a bracha l’vatallah. You can maybe ask why he did it in a way that risks publicly embarrassing people, but nobody would say he should make the bracha with shem and malchus if he holds it’s l’vatallah.That’s an actual machlokes haposkim. This situation is not. Nobody poskens that it’s assur to wear a hat and jacket for davening. In fact, everyone real paskens that you should. This is a machlokes between the poskim and random CR posters.
December 9, 2024 8:17 pm at 8:17 pm in reply to: The Net Results of the NASI Project and the Shidduch Age Gap Scare #2339960Neville Chaimberlin Lo MesParticipant“The admittedly limited data ive seen (and anecdotally asking around) this does not seem to be the case”
Not sure where you’re asking around. Lakewood-type guys don’t get married at 18/19, they keep learning and get married in their mid twenties. I’ve never heard anyone deny this part of the observation.“Did “closing the gap” help ? what has been accomplished?”
Closing the gap would help. It’s not something that needs to be tested. That’s like saying in order to accept that 5 – 2 = 3 you must have 5 objects and take away 2 otherwise there’s no way you could possibly know. If it hasn’t “helped” it’s because they failed to close it. I’ve seen no evidence that the Yeshivish tzibbur has changed anything in their marriage-age habits.A partial gap-closing will not help; it will just stall the problem a little more. Even a 1 year age gap will cause surplus and eventually a “crisis.” In an exponentially growing population, eventually even the difference between one year and the next will be massive.
Neville Chaimberlin Lo MesParticipant“The Muslim world, like the Christian world, has throughout the centuries risen and fallen in culture vs barbarism. In the last few decades, barbarism has taken hold (again) of the Muslim world.”
It’s not comparable. In an anthropological sense, Nazi Germany was still a civilization as evil as they may have been. Groups like ISIS and Al Queda are simply not; they are more comparable to hoards of barbarians that sustain themselves on constant killing. Even back in the “good old days” when Iran was under the Shah before the Islamists took over, it’s not like Iran was comparable to England.
“They have carried out terrorism globally. To think that they’d be viscous to everyone, including each other, but they’d make exceptions for Jews, if not for Zionism, is ridiculous.”
100% agree. This thread shows the dangers of Chareidim trying to argue against Zionism in a “logical” or political way. Stick to the script: chazal say it’s a problem, so it’s a problem. When people start trying to apply political logic to justify anti-Zionism, they end up integrating this leftist nonsense about how Muslims used to be so nice.
Neville Chaimberlin Lo MesParticipant“nor does anyone have a right to argue pshat differently than what he, Neville, was taught in cheder…unbelievable.”
I was not, nor will you find a comment claiming I was. I’m just a guy who knows his place.Philosopher: you’re staw man’ing by saying I’m trying to force my shittah on you. I’ve never even told you my belief on this matter, nor will I ever. The reason I’m not bringing you meforshim is because I genuinely don’t care, unlike you who claims to not care but clearly does very deeply.
Have you ever heard a fresh immigrant come to America and complain about a bunch of stuff being worse in their mind (healthcare, etc.)? Everyone hates those types. You’re right, it’s not my right to tell you or any other BT what to believe in your own mind, but it is in my interests to tell you what is and isn’t a normal thing to say publicly, which is all I’ve been doing here. Accusing a mainstream interpretation of being Chabad propaganda is not a wise thing to do.
Neville Chaimberlin Lo MesParticipantUsually not in agreement, but Square Root is 100% right here. Antisemitism is explicit in the Quran. We are to them as the Amalekim were to us. You can’t appease a group who believes in a chiyuv of killing you.
“the Jews in the Arabic and Muslim lands, by comparison (and that is key) were living mostly peacefully and safely despite sporadic exceptions.”
This just isn’t true. The Muslims could not pull off something like The Holocaust, not because they wouldn’t love to, but simply because they are so bad at life. It’s just not even shayach to compare them to Europeans. They don’t get brownie points for being failures. If modern, western civilizations became as Anti-semitic as Islam (as Germany indeed did), they could do some serious damage. Uncivilized barbarians running around in loin cloths living in their own filth simply could not ever be as big of a threat, but that has nothing to do with their hashkafa being any less Antisemitic.December 9, 2024 9:21 am at 9:21 am in reply to: The Net Results of the NASI Project and the Shidduch Age Gap Scare #2339377Neville Chaimberlin Lo MesParticipant“general observation is when there are more men, society is more moral (women demand marriage), when there are more women, other way around.”
And the yeshivish world has managed to create a “more women” situation even though technically there aren’t truly more women than men. It’s an astonishingly terrible situation on so many levels.
Follick: Yes, you are absolutely correct. The only way a consistent age-gap could work would be if the population were holding steady, or if polygamy were allowed. Interestingly, I would bet that polygamous societies also marry at an age gap in order to contrive the shidduch crisis situation, giving males the opportunity to have multiple wives without depriving other men of marriage.
Neville Chaimberlin Lo MesParticipant“Bottom line – can someone ask a shaila: a Reform person takes an artscroll siddur and copies pages with amidah – are you allowed to use it for davening?”
Did the reform Jew use the copy machine on Shabbos? If so, this would be the same shailah I mentioned earlier. Unfortunately, I don’t remember the exact psak; I think it was one of those “it’s mutar, but you still shouldn’t do it” type of things.If he didn’t make the copy on Shabbos, then what’s the question?
“No, I mean people with left/right wing secular biases and they are comfortable with translations that caters to their biases.”
Alright. I haven’t personally met anyone like this, but I’ll take your word for it.“even twisted translations and the like are irrelevant, no one’s hashkafa is getting affected”
Eh, if someone didn’t know better and didn’t realize the translations were twisted, it could absolutely affect their hashkafa. Again, I don’t actually think Sefaria should be wholesale banned or anything.December 9, 2024 9:20 am at 9:20 am in reply to: ‘No Hat, No Jacket, No Davening?’: A Shul’s Sign Challenges Unity #2339375Neville Chaimberlin Lo MesParticipant“I am not conceding that making one dress in black hats and jackets is a legit minhag hamakom.”
If you appoint your self the arbitrator of which minhagim are and aren’t “legit” then that’s just a fancy way of saying you don’t follow minhag hamakom.“Without hesitation, he sang shehakol nihye b’dvoro.”
Does this have anything to do with anything, or did this story just randomly pop into your head?Neville Chaimberlin Lo MesParticipant“And memah nafshach, if the clock doesn’t matter. S owho cares if the clock changes teice a year. Ignore it!”
I generally agree with this stance aside from the fact that I think Shabbos starting later would be beneficial. The other effects of the time change don’t bother me nearly as much as they seem to other people and I think a lot of it is over-dramatization.
“Is that a real issue though among people you know ? they are mechalel shabbos Fridays in the winter? (not is it hard, have they come close etc)”
This is a bad argument, and I’m worried if this is actually Aguda’s stance. Yes, people have found ways around it or have simply been prevented from taking certain jobs. When it becomes a tefillah problem, they’ll find ways around that as well. It’s a moot point. Frum yidden aren’t going to purposely violate the halachah for their jobs, but tefillah is an easier problem to work around since it’s in the first place more meikel than Shabbos. As far as knowing personal experiences, I doubt people would advertise it, but I’m sure there are cases of people getting stuck in their commute in the winter that happen every year. There was a relatively well known story about Joe Lieberman who was otherwise shomer shabbos.
Neville Chaimberlin Lo MesParticipant“Neville, I feel bad for your family members… you enjoy squabling constantly with people who don’t agree with your opinions.”
Again, I’ve never once mentioned my personal belief on that matter. You’re the weirdo who can’t get over the fact the the standard Orthodox understanding doesn’t go like your home-baked interpretation.
In any case, you are dodging the point I was making. You claimed you only care about these things due to your holy jihad against Chabad, yet clearly it goes deeper than that since you have spent considerable time arguing these matters with non-Lubavitchers as well. I’m guessing you were once at a point where you did not hate Chabad, then turned on them under the naive understanding that all of your qualms with Orthodoxy were just with Chabad. It is now very important to you to keep up that version of reality by accusing random frum yidden of being Chabad propagandists because the thought of mainstream Orthodoxy also having these “wrong” shittos is too much for you to handle.
I get under your skin because I actually point this out and because I’m willing to say the following that the kiruv professionals coddling your feelings won’t say: love it or leave it. And, if you must stick with it, keep your wacky shittos to yourself. Nobody is actually interested in hearing your “unique outsider” perspectives on anything, and if you want what’s best for you kids you should let them believe in this stuff at face value as they are taught in yeshiva. It turns out fitting in is actually kind of important in life.
Neville Chaimberlin Lo MesParticipant“Is this so? I see online a lot of articles where people try to analyze a parsha or a gemora according to their understanding and maybe trying to line up with their opinions on other topics.”
Yes, and those people want an accurate translation. If anything, the secular scholarly world cares more about translation accuracy than we do. For example, Artscroll purposely mistranslates Shir Hashirim to better shtem with Orthodox sentiment; secular scholars would hate this.“Not knowing the background, my impression was that the core Sefaria team is kosher”
The founders were not frum yidden from my understanding. They were exactly the scholarly types you reference above. Then again, so was Marcus Jastrow; it doesn’t mean the product is assur.“Do you think all YWN software was written by shomer shabbos programmers or 99% of it is open software?”
First of all, yes, I don’t believe YWN was created through chillul shabbos. I’m not sure why you would assume otherwise. Second of all, the question is around Sefaria because of it being used for davening and/or performing mitzvos. An internet forum does not have these concerns.December 8, 2024 11:58 am at 11:58 am in reply to: ‘No Hat, No Jacket, No Davening?’: A Shul’s Sign Challenges Unity #2338945Neville Chaimberlin Lo MesParticipant“So, a town or neighborhood should have one shul that is welcoming everyone, and those who do not want to welcome everyone can have their private shul. But this resolves the issue?”
OK, so if I understand correctly, what’s your kasheh? This shul is presumably not the only shul in this entire town, so you’re free to go elsewhere. If it is the only shul in town, then by your own admission you wouldn’t have a problem conceding to the minhag hamakom. In what theoretical universe do you have an issue with this shul?
Neville Chaimberlin Lo MesParticipant“Where the Agudah describes their advocacy on this issue and posts a Teshuva from R” Moshe encoruaging fighting against Year round DST”
With all due respect, I’d give more weight to the people who actually work 9-5’ers rather than Rabbis whose jobs intrinsically adjust for the halachah and couldn’t care less if Shabbos started at 1 PM.“also FWIW R’ Moshe rejects this argument”
What argument? That Shabbos matters more than zman hatefilla? Zero chance.“this is a bizzare claim .”
Why? The Sun will still rise and set as it does. We will just refer to it by a different number on a clock. Nothing is changing astronomically; it’s purely mental as he said.December 6, 2024 1:52 am at 1:52 am in reply to: ‘No Hat, No Jacket, No Davening?’: A Shul’s Sign Challenges Unity #2338658Neville Chaimberlin Lo MesParticipantAAQ: You do realize that back in the old days that you’re romanticizing where there was one shul for 100 people, they had a concept of minhag hamakom and you would REALLY be stuck following that community’s policies. The only reason you even have the hava amina of disrespecting a shul’s policy openly is due to the schisms that you are claiming to decry.
“A restaurant is a business, and exists to make a profit.”
Everything is a business. The “non-profit” label is only relevant to tax purposes. For the purposes of this discussion, a shul is every much a private business as a restaurant is.“and, of course, it is responsibility of the tzibur to provide Yidden with, in order (1) mikva, (2) school, (3) shul.”
It is not a responsibility to provide a shul the policies of which are agreeable to everyone all the time as this would be impossible. If you make a sphard shul, you’ll disappoint the Ashkenazi-daveners, if you make a hat-shul, you’ll disappoint the never-hatters and vice versa. At your core, none you you truly have problems with a shul or any other institution having policies that some people will like and other won’t. The whole core of this discussion is that you aren’t used to being told “no” and you’re shocked that anyone in the world would do such a thing.If I were a member of this shul, I’m not sure I would actually support the policy, but it’s their right. Why are chareidim always the ones expected to bend over backwards to make everyone else feel comfortable? You don’t see us whining that MO shuls should refrain from saying Hallel on Zionist holidays so that we’ll feel comfortable davening there.
Neville Chaimberlin Lo MesParticipantAAQ: What’s your point? I wasn’t being anti-sefaria, I was being anti a purposeful mistranslation of Tanach that uses modern, leftist gender theory. I think this got brought up because someone said that translation is on sefaria, but otherwise this part of the discussion has no connection to sefaria at all.
ZSK: Obviously I know that leftist, non-Orthodox Jews exist. My point was, there is no group that wants a leftist version of the Tanach. The only reason the leftists are learning Tanach is to make fun of it and/or claim that it’s outdated, bigoted, etc. The last thing they want is a whitewashed translation that makes it sound more palatable to them.
Philosopher: People always get touchy about this, and I’m not sure why either. I couldn’t give you to location because I just remember hearing it in a shiur, but Reb Moshe addresses the question of using a siddur that was printed with chillul shabbos. It’s not so clear cut that “it’s just a siddur so who cares how it was made and who made it.” I’m not sure why people are so much more willing to take this lenient approach with Sefaria.
I do think Sefaria is mutar, but it’s not simple. Given who designed it, it’s almost certain some chillul shabbos was involved. People would not be crazy to worry that it’s mitzvah habaah b’aveira, but I don’t think it actually is, nor is it so pashut that that would even make it assur.
Neville Chaimberlin Lo MesParticipantHow is tefillah the ikkar and shabbos is just something you mention as a tiny side benefit? Shabbos is way bigger deal and this would be MASSIVELY beneficial to people working in the professional world in areas where shabbos starts as early as 4 and in some places even earlier.
People feel like Shabbos isn’t “as much of a problem” just because it’s the devil they know. It’s the problem they’ve already sorted out, but they’ll sort out the davening problem too. The difference is, if stuff goes awry, they miss zman hatefillah b’ones or b’shogeg, whereas now if stuff goes awry they’re mechallel shabbos.
December 5, 2024 9:45 pm at 9:45 pm in reply to: The Net Results of the NASI Project and the Shidduch Age Gap Scare #2338568Neville Chaimberlin Lo MesParticipant“I was arguing that the Shidduch crisis does not affect females more than males, since for every female who does not get married there must also be a man who does not get married.”
You’re still incorrect. The minhag in the Litvish community is for girls to be 5-7 years younger than their husbands, which means there will be a surplus of whichever gender is younger, in this case the women. If the minhag was for 19 year old boys to marry 25 year old women, then the shidduch crisis would exist in the other direction.
“In the early 2000s (or maybe the 1990s) I asked dozens of shadchanim:”
And they gave you answers that prove what we all already know: that they’re part of the problem.
December 5, 2024 5:24 pm at 5:24 pm in reply to: The Net Results of the NASI Project and the Shidduch Age Gap Scare #2338461Neville Chaimberlin Lo MesParticipant1a2b3c:
Your point is astonishingly easy to refute. See what I wrote above. The total numbers are irrelevant; we only care about the ones of marrying age.The total number of frum males is NOT “roughly” the same as the number of frum females that are born 5 years later. Again, this is extremely simple math. It is either willful ignorance, horrifying lack of education, or a combination of both that allows people not to see this.
It helps nothing to look at all of klal yisroel as one group. If they’re going to be separated by ages in shidduchim, then you need to look at them as separate age groups. The leap of logic you’re taking is like saying “the number of men and women in the world is roughly equal, therefore every Chinese woman should be able to find herself an Icelandic husband with no surplus or polygamy.” Obviously, that would be a ridiculous statement. Lumping together 25 year olds and 18 year olds as one group is no less ridiculous once you think about it for more than a second.
“In other words, number of girls who develop a desire to “marry a talmid chochom” is way more than number of boys that actually succeed in becoming one!”
Eh, yes and no. Once the girls are 25+ and they’re already victims of the mathematical shidduch crisis, then they go dumpster diving for husbands. I know several cases of FFB girls who have married sort of out-there BT’s or gerim, but I have almost never seen it go the other way around, and it’s always cases where the girl is past her mid 20s. I’m by the way not trashing on marrying BTs or gerim, but the reality is that FFB men don’t feel that they ever “need” to go that route whereas the women often do.
“Neville, yes, I did not believe that this is the reason for the shidduch crisis in a discussion here a couple fo years back, then I did some math and had to eat my (metaphorical) hat. I still have the leftovers!”
Very glad to hear some people are figuring it out. Many people–as you will probably see on this thread–are going to simply refuse to do the math because they know they won’t like the conclusion.
Neville Chaimberlin Lo MesParticipant“Yashardik, you are so right. The reason I argued so much about “Yaacov lo meis” is because Lubavitche…”
Absolute nonsense. 100% of the posters you were arguing with on that topic were non-Lubavitchers. Don’t try to spin it like you don’t actually care about that subject except for when Lubavitchers use it. You are obsessed with that subject to the point to interpreting every pirush to agree with your personal belief on it.
If you want to know what it looks like to “not care” about that topic, then look at those of us to casually accept the standard Orthodox presentation of it without question because we have better things to learn than midrashim that aren’t nogeia to anything.
Neville Chaimberlin Lo MesParticipantJust to clarify, I wasn’t talking about the people who run Sefaria in my last post. I was referring to the people who would theoretically want a wacky, tranny version of the Tanach. I still don’t believe this group actually exists.
December 4, 2024 7:32 pm at 7:32 pm in reply to: ‘No Hat, No Jacket, No Davening?’: A Shul’s Sign Challenges Unity #2338162Neville Chaimberlin Lo MesParticipant“You know what isn’t listed? When someone doesn’t have a hat and jacket…”
Agreed, but this was UJM’s quote:“Rav Moshe in 90:28 says it’s permissible to daven b’yechidus at times.”
What would have been the hava amina? That nobody can ever daven b’yochid? I’m confused altogether by the quote.
Neville Chaimberlin Lo MesParticipant“I couldn’t read the main protaganist, who will remain nameless, b/c he stooped to terrible language.”
Then maybe consider the possibility that he isn’t the “protagonist?”“to me, it is irrelevant whether Yaacov Ovenu was really alive or not”
Agreed. All of us taking the traditional, literal approach don’t really care. It’s a hypothetical, lomdus thing to us. The people going berserk over that argument are the ones insisting that it’s symbolic and that all the meforshim who say it’s literal secretly mean the opposite of what they actually say.December 4, 2024 7:32 pm at 7:32 pm in reply to: The Net Results of the NASI Project and the Shidduch Age Gap Scare #2338161Neville Chaimberlin Lo MesParticipant“The Age Gap is not the issue. There are plenty of boys.”
You don’t understand simple math. In an exponentially growing population, there are more people born in later years than earlier. I.e. there are more people born in 1995 than there were in 1990. So, if you try to pair up girls born in 1995 with boys born in 1990, there will be a surplus of girls. The same will hold true for any gap, even if it’s only 1 year. It just just affect how much of the surplus there is.
This would be true even if the population grew linearly, but because it’s grows exponentially, the problem gets worse and worse every year and the surplus of girls will just keep growing.
The real crisis is that the frum community apparently has such terrible math education that full grown adults don’t understand that the shidduch crisis is an easily provable reality. In public schools, kids would easily understand this at roughly a 7th grade level.
Neville Chaimberlin Lo MesParticipant“Neville, we are all very comfortable talking to each other, while so many Jews with weird views are out there. There are lots of non-O publications and authors who write something Jewish-related.”
You might be fine reading their stuff, but they are more dogmatic in their liberalism than we are in our Orthodoxy. They have no interest in actually reading real sources that aren’t altered to fit their freak beliefs unless they’re doing so just to poke fun.
December 3, 2024 9:46 pm at 9:46 pm in reply to: ‘No Hat, No Jacket, No Davening?’: A Shul’s Sign Challenges Unity #2337730Neville Chaimberlin Lo MesParticipant“Neville, not sure which posts was last for you, but I let you treat all my posts as jokes.”
The one with you bragging about how humble you are. I was clarifying that you were being ironic on purpose and not just extremely lacking in self awareness and/or the meaning of the word “humble.”
“Rav Moshe in 90:28 says it’s permissible to daven b’yechidus at times.”
What’s the chiddush? Would you have otherwise thought that if you miss minyan you just don’t daven at all? Of course davening b’yochid is an option.
December 3, 2024 9:45 pm at 9:45 pm in reply to: The Net Results of the NASI Project and the Shidduch Age Gap Scare #2337729Neville Chaimberlin Lo MesParticipant“and perhaps the only major impact, is that Litvish girls are getting married younger and younger than previously.”
Isn’t that the opposite of the point? Wouldn’t they want them to get married older, or have the boys be younger? The shortage is caused by the girls being younger than the men, so having them be even younger would just make it worse.
Neville Chaimberlin Lo MesParticipant“Or maybe, they indeed went to increase their market share …”
Yeah… I’m sure there’s a huuuuuuge market for pro-trans people wanting to learn Tanach…
Neville Chaimberlin Lo MesParticipantAAQ: The guy is in his lame-duck period, for sure done with his professional career, his life probably only has a few years left, did you really think he was going to care about what people think enough let his own son suffer (whether he deserved it or not)?
There’s plenty to criticize about Biden, but I don’t think this is it. I think pretty much every father who hasn’t disowned his son would have done the same thing given the opportunity. I don’t know, maybe I’m just unprincipled, but I just can’t really imagine the feeling of being near my own death, nothing I do really matters, and having this magic wand to whisk away my sons problems that expires in 2 months and not using it.
Neville Chaimberlin Lo MesParticipant“The alternative to a two state solution is for Israel to cease being a democratic state (either by killing the Palestinians or not allowing a large part of them to vote).”
Stop being a drama queen. There’s no “two state solution” right now and Israel isn’t having to “cease being a democracy” or start committing genocide (contrary to leftist claims).
The status quo is far more manageable than a two state solution would be. Most regular people are fine admitting that there is no “solution.” The problem will always be there; it’s just about managing it and continuing winning militaristically. They will always want to kill us all. It’s a core tenet of their religion.
Neville Chaimberlin Lo MesParticipant“This is sort of a gray area”
No it isn’t. If you or I were immigrating to America we would follow the process and it would be black and white. It’s only “gray” to those who want to be criminals and cut the line, and no self-respecting American should have sympathy or want to do “chesed” for them.“as many people in the country hire such aid”
They should all be prosecuted, then we wouldn’t have this crisis.“Why not start with a position”
Why not start with the position that people have been touting since 2016 with their Trump antics? If people want to be liberal and pro-open-boarders, that’s another story. They’re entitled to their opinion, but don’t pretend to be hardliners of immigration then cave the second you might have to pay a couple of dollars more to employ a real American instead of giving our jobs away to criminals.What bewilders me is that I know from other posts that many of you are big Trump fans, yet you are shocked to see the rhetoric of someone who actually has conservative opinions on immigration.
JR87: The minimum wage thing really isn’t even the main point. The point is that they’re paying below the true going rate, which should be calculated by the supply and demand of legal, tax-paying labor, not criminals. If I were willing to rob my local grocery store, does that mean the going rate of bread is now $0? What illegals are willing to accept is irrelevant to the non-criminal economy. That fact that you like breaking this particular law does not change that reality.
Neville Chaimberlin Lo MesParticipantDoes Otzar Hachochma have more kedushah than Hebrewbooks? Does it look like a website designed in 1999?
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